Have any black women dates Persian (I...
CA STATE

Oakland, CA

#1318 Mar 21, 2013
cami wrote:
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Ok first off, not everybody who lives in Dubai is a Arab, there are many other foreigners living there, from Persia, Lebanon, Pakistan, the list goes on.
Everybody in Dubai is Arab? Not hardly. There are plenty of Persians in Dubai, and many others.
ddd

Woodford Green, UK

#1319 Mar 21, 2013
CA STATE wrote:
Married to a Persian man. First of all he is merely a human being. He happens to be Irani. He is old fashioned but then he's from the Shah regime times, was a teenager when the Shah was overthrown and so he grew up in the repressive Khomeni era. He knows how to have fun, and he's a good lover, he is religious, but he also has this anger and temperament I dont'like, I have tried to work with him on that, and things are getting better. Seems he "believed" men are superior to women. I have disabused him of that thought. His mom loves me! I know all his family. So for you people saying did you meet his family? yes I did, and he met mine too, my brothers really scrutinized him. It's just a relationship. But don't believe their bull about Persians not being racist in Iran, yes they are very racist and consider themselves white. If you correct them they pretty much accept it, cause this government is teaching them they aren't privileged here.
Uhm first of all, most Persians ain't like that. Second, there are many Black Iranians of African descent in the costal towns of Iran. There are many Iranians in Tehran who have African blood too. There is very little racism in Iran, due to the diversity. Racism is a White European idea. And most non-white Iranians don't consider themselves white over here in London. I'm Iranian and I've got blonde hair and grey eyes and white skin yet I don't see myself as White because I'm not European. Most people think I'm northern European and laugh at me when I claim I'm not White as I'm not European, so stop generalizing. There are many white looking Iranians like me in Northern Iran, though I believe the Afro-Iranians are way cooler than us.
CA STATE

Oakland, CA

#1320 Mar 23, 2013
ddd wrote:
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Uhm first of all, most Persians ain't like that. Second, there are many Black Iranians of African descent in the costal towns of Iran. There are many Iranians in Tehran who have African blood too. There is very little racism in Iran, due to the diversity. Racism is a White European idea. And most non-white Iranians don't consider themselves white over here in London. I'm Iranian and I've got blonde hair and grey eyes and white skin yet I don't see myself as White because I'm not European. Most people think I'm northern European and laugh at me when I claim I'm not White as I'm not European, so stop generalizing. There are many white looking Iranians like me in Northern Iran, though I believe the Afro-Iranians are way cooler than us.
Well I am not in London and I am speaking from my experience and from an American perspective. No doubt things are different here. I know you shouldn't generalize, but the point is many black women suffer the same issues around dating Persian men. 1) Not introducing her to parents 2) Not taking her around friends 3) Demanding that she "look" as acceptable as possible. I know Persians are racist, they just refuse to admit it. But that's okay cause there's a learning curve, they'll learn. And either they will be brown or white but Americans see them as brown despite the fact that they try not to be.
CA STATE

Oakland, CA

#1321 Mar 23, 2013
ddd wrote:
oh my days thats so not true, people need to stop with the stereotypes and generalisations.
im persian. i dont look arab, I look irish or scottish or some other northern european group. White skinned very light hair and eyes and nordic features UNFORTUNATELY.
I wish I was dark, I hate having to prove im iranian all the time.
What people dont know is Iran is racially diverse - theres black iranians too, of african descent.
Anyways, I LOVE BLACK GIRLS. Dont listen to that diluded persian girl above.
I think black and mixed race girls are fine as hell. And they have really good personalities. Id marry a black girl. No im not controlling or jealous or any of that, our culture is liberal, not like how the media portrays it.
You hear so many Iranian women "complain" about looking too white, there is this perverse desire to draw attention to themselves because they think they are "sooo" pretty with their white features. Frankly I wouldn't be so proud of looking so white if it meant that somebody in my family married a Russian or some other Euro trash. When 90% of the people in the country are dark haired and dark skinned, clearly you are the offspring of some marauding tribe of Cossacks.
ddd

Woodford Green, UK

#1322 Mar 24, 2013
CA STATE wrote:
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You hear so many Iranian women "complain" about looking too white, there is this perverse desire to draw attention to themselves because they think they are "sooo" pretty with their white features. Frankly I wouldn't be so proud of looking so white if it meant that somebody in my family married a Russian or some other Euro trash. When 90% of the people in the country are dark haired and dark skinned, clearly you are the offspring of some marauding tribe of Cossacks.
LOL so who's the racist now, huh? Most Iranians in Iran aren't racist, in the West perhaps some are but that's because they learnt from the Western people. Many Iranians here in London chill with Blacks (most my friends are black). We don't see ourselves as White! Racist Iranians here don't like the White people. I dislike Whites more than Blacks though I'm cool with both. Blacks are quite racist too, as you just proved. In fact, you are more racist as a people than us (u used the term "euro-trash").
Well no, Northern Iran is cold and close to the European border so it's not that strange that 30% of Northern Iran got light hair/eyes. It's common. Doesn't mean I got european blood.I never said I was proud, read my post again! If anything, you African-Americans are obsessed with looking white and bleaching your skin. The idea of beauty in your community is light skin. If I was African-American and lightskinned then I wouldn't be proud as it meant some of my ancestors were raped by "euro-trash" slave owners.
Not all Iranians are brown, hell I'm "white" yet I don't see myself as white so if what you are saying is true then iranian-americans are diluded.
Persian Saffron King

Los Angeles, CA

#1323 Mar 27, 2013
I was engaged to a Persian Jewish guy for approximately one day. He was amazing but he had family issues his parent were ducking crazy and left him to raise his younger brother and sister. I remember going to his parents house and his mother started to grab her purse and silver utensils. Hell I grabbed the 1500 dollar purse her son bought me LMAO, not knowing if she was a theft. A couple of weeks later his father told him to watch the company he keeps referring to me. He told his parents you have kept each others company for over 25+ years and you are both fucked up, so maybe I can trust your judgement as you both are morons and horrible parents. His friends smiled in his face and lusted me behind his back. They were pissed that he would call me when he was out with them "his boys" at the strip club, casino and golf course. One day his friend Apple called me and told me that my boyfriend's Persian Jewish parents would prefer him to be Gay or date a Persian Muslim Or a Persian Prostitute over me. Apple kept saying he wanted to bang me and that's all I'm good for is a fuck. I would NEVER be good enough to MARRY as Im BLACK. His Jewish Uncle told him that he once fell in LOVE with a Black Women and left her pregnant. He told my boyfriend to do what he thought whats best because he had to live with the choices that were to be made. So my boyfriend told him that he appreciated the honesty and support. But he had bought a ring the day after our first date and proposed and married me months later. He tells me that He LOVES MY LIFE because when his parents were going through their own marital issues I accepted his young siblings like they were own and given them what his parents had never been able to UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. This Cali Girl dipped in Honey LOVES her arrogant, blunt, handsome, thoughtful, loving, provider physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually Persian King. He is MY HUSBAND, SUPER HERO, MY FRiEND, CAPTAIN of MY PLANE, TRain and SHIP. Amazing Father to our beautiful redhead kissed by honey children. She forget to mention HANDSOME, a provider and my kids are gorgeous because they look Persian. Oh my wife makes the best Persian food and I'm HUNGRY. 2 or 3 more things I LOVE my women more than LIFE and where the hell did she find this blog/post topic? Oh and she's bad the baddest in the room. I love when people ask me who is she? Honey if you're spell checking this please finish cooking , your family is starving and wish these people health, happiness and wealth. Oh and my wife and kids are spoiled brats. Did she not tell you she has the only child syndrome? <He wrote this I walked away from my phone. He's crazy too but what the hell so am I. Saffron XOXO. Saffron is my oldest daughters name.
Bayou City

Houston, TX

#1325 Mar 28, 2013
random wrote:
I dated an Iranian guy. He was very romantic and a shy sweet-heart. He always was there when i needed him. He also had a great sense of humour. Its just when we argued that he said a lot of nasty things. I think it was because he let his anger get the best of him. I also noticed him to be unsure of himself. He has a lot of pride to. Overall, it was an okay relationship.
An Iranian dude used to work at the same company my cousin works at and she said the guys used to constantly crack jokes about him being a towel-head camel jockey. She said it got to the point to where the Iranian just up and quit. She said it was good riddance because he stank anyway.
Alfie

UK

#1326 Mar 28, 2013
now the sheboons r after persians .how low can the sherillas go.
cant get blk men ,wm ,asians cant even get
orange picking ,wet back hisp.
now u become ,wh..res for persians.

the beasties r a disgrace to our blk race
Alfie

UK

#1327 Mar 28, 2013
Persian Saffron King wrote:
I was engaged to a Persian Jewish guy for approximately one day. He was amazing but he had family issues his parent were ducking crazy and left him to raise his younger brother and sister. I remember going to his parents house and his mother started to grab her purse and silver utensils. Hell I grabbed the 1500 dollar purse her son bought me LMAO, not knowing if she was a theft. A couple of weeks later his father told him to watch the company he keeps referring to me. He told his parents you have kept each others company for over 25+ years and you are both fucked up, so maybe I can trust your judgement as you both are morons and horrible parents. His friends smiled in his face and lusted me behind his back. They were pissed that he would call me when he was out with them "his boys" at the strip club, casino and golf course. One day his friend Apple called me and told me that my boyfriend's Persian Jewish parents would prefer him to be Gay or date a Persian Muslim Or a Persian Prostitute over me. Apple kept saying he wanted to bang me and that's all I'm good for is a fuck. I would NEVER be good enough to MARRY as Im BLACK. His Jewish Uncle told him that he once fell in LOVE with a Black Women and left her pregnant. He told my boyfriend to do what he thought whats best because he had to live with the choices that were to be made. So my boyfriend told him that he appreciated the honesty and support. But he had bought a ring the day after our first date and proposed and married me months later. He tells me that He LOVES MY LIFE because when his parents were going through their own marital issues I accepted his young siblings like they were own and given them what his parents had never been able to UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. This Cali Girl dipped in Honey LOVES her arrogant, blunt, handsome, thoughtful, loving, provider physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually Persian King. He is MY HUSBAND, SUPER HERO, NY FRiEND, CAPTAIN of MY PLANE, TRain and SHIP. Amazing Father to our beautiful redhead kissed by honey children. She forget to mention HANDSOME, a provider and my kids are gorgeous because they look Persian. Oh my wife makes the best Persian food and I'm HUNGRY. 2 or 3 more things I LOVE my women more than LIFE and where the hell did she find this blog/post topic? Oh and she's bad the baddest in the room. I love when people ask me who is she? Honey if you're spell checking this please finish cooking , your family is starving and wish these people health, happiness and wealth. Oh and my wife and kids are spoiled brats. Did she not tell you she has the only child syndrome? <He wrote this I walked away from my phone. He's crazy too but what the hell so am I. Saffron XOXO. Saffron is my oldest daughters name.
hey u sheboon , how much did u charge that
r..g head for sex - is it more than u charge wm
ddd

Woodford Green, UK

#1329 Mar 28, 2013
Persian Saffron King wrote:
I was engaged to a Persian Jewish guy for approximately one day. He was amazing but he had family issues his parent were ducking crazy and left him to raise his younger brother and sister. I remember going to his parents house and his mother started to grab her purse and silver utensils. Hell I grabbed the 1500 dollar purse her son bought me LMAO, not knowing if she was a theft. A couple of weeks later his father told him to watch the company he keeps referring to me. He told his parents you have kept each others company for over 25+ years and you are both fucked up, so maybe I can trust your judgement as you both are morons and horrible parents. His friends smiled in his face and lusted me behind his back. They were pissed that he would call me when he was out with them "his boys" at the strip club, casino and golf course. One day his friend Apple called me and told me that my boyfriend's Persian Jewish parents would prefer him to be Gay or date a Persian Muslim Or a Persian Prostitute over me. Apple kept saying he wanted to bang me and that's all I'm good for is a fuck. I would NEVER be good enough to MARRY as Im BLACK. His Jewish Uncle told him that he once fell in LOVE with a Black Women and left her pregnant. He told my boyfriend to do what he thought whats best because he had to live with the choices that were to be made. So my boyfriend told him that he appreciated the honesty and support. But he had bought a ring the day after our first date and proposed and married me months later. He tells me that He LOVES MY LIFE because when his parents were going through their own marital issues I accepted his young siblings like they were own and given them what his parents had never been able to UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. This Cali Girl dipped in Honey LOVES her arrogant, blunt, handsome, thoughtful, loving, provider physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually Persian King. He is MY HUSBAND, SUPER HERO, MY FRiEND, CAPTAIN of MY PLANE, TRain and SHIP. Amazing Father to our beautiful redhead kissed by honey children. She forget to mention HANDSOME, a provider and my kids are gorgeous because they look Persian. Oh my wife makes the best Persian food and I'm HUNGRY. 2 or 3 more things I LOVE my women more than LIFE and where the hell did she find this blog/post topic? Oh and she's bad the baddest in the room. I love when people ask me who is she? Honey if you're spell checking this please finish cooking , your family is starving and wish these people health, happiness and wealth. Oh and my wife and kids are spoiled brats. Did she not tell you she has the only child syndrome? <He wrote this I walked away from my phone. He's crazy too but what the hell so am I. Saffron XOXO. Saffron is my oldest daughters name.
aww how cute. I want a black wife too. I broke up with my black girlfriend because she was too crazy. I regret it now.
LOL my friend is Persian Christian and she married a Persian Muslim and they told her the same thing.
ddd

Woodford Green, UK

#1330 Mar 28, 2013
Bayou City wrote:
<quoted text> An Iranian dude used to work at the same company my cousin works at and she said the guys used to constantly crack jokes about him being a towel-head camel jockey. She said it got to the point to where the Iranian just up and quit. She said it was good riddance because he stank anyway.
I bet you're not okay with the n-word and racist black jokes u hypocrite.
ddd

Woodford Green, UK

#1331 Mar 28, 2013
Alfie wrote:
now the sheboons r after persians .how low can the sherillas go.
cant get blk men ,wm ,asians cant even get
orange picking ,wet back hisp.
now u become ,wh..res for persians.
the beasties r a disgrace to our blk race
just cuz u cant get a girl u ugly mofo'ka :)
Alfie

UK

#1332 Mar 28, 2013
ddd wrote:
<quoted text>
aww how cute. I want a black wife too. I broke up with my black girlfriend because she was too crazy. I regret it now.
LOL my friend is Persian Christian and she married a Persian Muslim and they told her the same thing.
u want. A sheboon. Wife. Just. Have. Money. As
the. Apehoes b. For. sale
Persian Saffron King

Los Angeles, CA

#1333 Mar 29, 2013
Alfie wrote:
<quoted text>
hey u sheboon , how much did u charge that
r..g head for sex - is it more than u charge wm
@alfie suck as$ for free. Goodbye
Jonhson

Reston, VA

#1334 Mar 30, 2013
I've seen many Iranian men married to foriegn women, wether white, black or whatever.... Persian men abroad are usually rich and have those sharp features that women like so the women themselves go for them.

Not to mention that there are like 4 Iranian men abroad for every Iranian women, so they have no choice but to marry foriegn girls.

Cheers
WannaWed

Houston, TX

#1336 May 26, 2013
Happily Married wrote:
I am black woman married to full Iranian man. He was born here in the U.S. and is by far the sweetest, most kind and generous person I've ever met. Iranian Culture is unbelievably beautiful and the traditions are so fun. You will love celebrating the New Year (Nowruz) every March , The longest night of winter (Shab-e-Yalda) and learning to cook Persian Cuisine which is to die for. If you're lucky enough to marry and Iranian man you will LOVE YOUR WEDDING. The wedding for the woman is like total spoil-fest for weeks on end. There are SO MANY EVENTS!! Plus, the woman gets a dowry, everyone has to bring her jewelry and the symbolism (feeding each other honey) is just unbelievable. Our wedding was so large and lavish and something I cannot get over. I watch my wedding DVD all the time in awe. Persian's love their culture so if you're uncultured be honest with yourself and don't bother marrying an Iranian unless they have family who has been here for years and are not involved in the community (rare as Persian's love their community). Persian Parties are so fun and in terms of being controlling or whatever giveme a break I was more controlled in the past by black men who I exclusivley dated until I fell in love with my current husband. But I'm not branding all black men any one way as I also dated some very sweet people. Iranian men really care for their women and spoil them. If you're open to love you'll find it. Once I opened my heart to love and happiness I met my husband 1 week later and wow am I happy becuase this is a beautiful beautiful life enriched by the beauty of Persian Culture. My in-laws ADORE me and I'm closer to them than to my own parents only because they call all the time and from their hearts want to know whats going on in our lives and are SO SUPPORTIVE. This is Iranian Culture, hospitiable, generous and fun.
I am so happy for you! I want what you have!

Its Hellywood

“I'm better than you”

Level 5

Since: Apr 13

Location hidden

#1337 May 26, 2013
I personally do not like Persian or Middle Eastern people. They are taught back in their countries that they are the best, but when they come to North America they are treated with disdain, even by trailer trash whites. I know this pisses them off extremely. Makes me die laughing. Persian and Middle Eastern people are very materialistic and everything they do is for show. They have no real culture of beliefs. They usually tend to be hypocrites and slimy people. Do not come to my country and act like you're better than everyone here. Remember, WE let you come here.
sayitaintsomrcho

Las Vegas, NV

#1338 May 26, 2013
There are some black women who will date a known mass murderer so long as it's white or off white...what a silly question.
sayitaintsomrcho

Las Vegas, NV

#1339 May 26, 2013
Persian Saffron King wrote:
I was engaged to a Persian Jewish guy for approximately one day. He was amazing but he had family issues his parent were ducking crazy and left him to raise his younger brother and sister. I remember going to his parents house and his mother started to grab her purse and silver utensils. Hell I grabbed the 1500 dollar purse her son bought me LMAO, not knowing if she was a theft. A couple of weeks later his father told him to watch the company he keeps referring to me. He told his parents you have kept each others company for over 25+ years and you are both fucked up, so maybe I can trust your judgement as you both are morons and horrible parents. His friends smiled in his face and lusted me behind his back. They were pissed that he would call me when he was out with them "his boys" at the strip club, casino and golf course. One day his friend Apple called me and told me that my boyfriend's Persian Jewish parents would prefer him to be Gay or date a Persian Muslim Or a Persian Prostitute over me. Apple kept saying he wanted to bang me and that's all I'm good for is a fuck. I would NEVER be good enough to MARRY as Im BLACK. His Jewish Uncle told him that he once fell in LOVE with a Black Women and left her pregnant. He told my boyfriend to do what he thought whats best because he had to live with the choices that were to be made. So my boyfriend told him that he appreciated the honesty and support. But he had bought a ring the day after our first date and proposed and married me months later. He tells me that He LOVES MY LIFE because when his parents were going through their own marital issues I accepted his young siblings like they were own and given them what his parents had never been able to UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. This Cali Girl dipped in Honey LOVES her arrogant, blunt, handsome, thoughtful, loving, provider physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually Persian King. He is MY HUSBAND, SUPER HERO, MY FRiEND, CAPTAIN of MY PLANE, TRain and SHIP. Amazing Father to our beautiful redhead kissed by honey children. She forget to mention HANDSOME, a provider and my kids are gorgeous because they look Persian. Oh my wife makes the best Persian food and I'm HUNGRY. 2 or 3 more things I LOVE my women more than LIFE and where the hell did she find this blog/post topic? Oh and she's bad the baddest in the room. I love when people ask me who is she? Honey if you're spell checking this please finish cooking , your family is starving and wish these people health, happiness and wealth. Oh and my wife and kids are spoiled brats. Did she not tell you she has the only child syndrome? <He wrote this I walked away from my phone. He's crazy too but what the hell so am I. Saffron XOXO. Saffron is my oldest daughters name.
Ha-ha-aaah....Send me a copy of the obit when they find you dead.
ddd

London, UK

#1341 May 26, 2013
Its Hellywood wrote:
I personally do not like Persian or Middle Eastern people. They are taught back in their countries that they are the best, but when they come to North America they are treated with disdain, even by trailer trash whites. I know this pisses them off extremely. Makes me die laughing. Persian and Middle Eastern people are very materialistic and everything they do is for show. They have no real culture of beliefs. They usually tend to be hypocrites and slimy people. Do not come to my country and act like you're better than everyone here. Remember, WE let you come here.
its not even your land, its the native american people's land. there's no such thing as 'your country', you stole it off the indians :)
middle easterns have no culture or belief? all the world-religions originated in the middle east, as did the world's oldest civilization, the rule of law, human rights etc. What culture and beliefs do you americans possess? ignorance and greed, thats your culture.
dont worry, the feeling of dislike is completely mutual.

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