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#626 Sep 27, 2013
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And as an addendum: Your position, rather your belief suggest that an attractive bi-racial women juxtaposed to a darker hued sister with a crazy, banging body will always win out with black men in the dating olympics on the strength of her hue of color, which is not true and is largely a myth with never ending stamina.
Were you to forensically examine line by line the choices of black male professional athletes in Football and Basketball (young black men with resources), you would find that about 70% of their significant others range from Darker hued to a Brown cinnamon hue color. So, while bi-racial women may be prima facie first round draft picks of a lot of brothers, they don't always make the final roster. In fact, it has been my experience that a lot of bi-racial, lighter hued sisters are regarded as PLAYTHINGS and not as wifey material (for a lot a different reasons).
Even though, bm say they want a lighter woman. They are lying most of the time?

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#627 Sep 27, 2013
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Opps sorry. I didnt mean ALL bm on Topix. I forgot to put “some” or “most”. U know what I mean!
The things SOME bm say that bw cant do but they can. smh
example:im going to have a threesome tonight,that will make me a pimp but you would be a hwore.get over it you sluts!lol its not the same. everything that is good for the goose aint good for the gander,but you can keep telling yourselves that and we will do what we do and think what we think.

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#628 Sep 27, 2013
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Well, I certainly am not taking you to task because of your mix heritage, and I don't endorse, support or believe that you should be isolated and attacked because of it. But I do think that both the tenor and context of a few of your post put you in direct opposition with some of the more passionate defenders of black masculinity. Also, in fairness to you; you did qualify your comments by " I think" or "I believe" which is fine. So no harm, no foul!
I understand that most bm on here will be upset about what I had said but honestly this is all that I had witnessed, experienced and researched. I know I am being horrible about on a whole different level, but when people take it personal then I will too. I am not talking about ALL black men. Only about bad bm I am talking about in my posts and the ones that respond with ignorant comments. There are some crazy bm on here that need help, but also some polite bm on here that can have a real convo without being nasty.

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#629 Sep 27, 2013
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<quoted text>example:im going to have a threesome tonight,that will make me a pimp but you would be a hwore.get over it you sluts!lol its not the same. everything that is good for the goose aint good for the gander,but you can keep telling yourselves that and we will do what we do and think what we think.
U know damn well I am not talking about that. Stop acting stupid. O.o

Example: Black women dating out their race.

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#630 Sep 27, 2013
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Even though, bm say they want a lighter woman. They are lying most of the time?
No my dear...they are not lying. But you however, must view men, to some extent, in the temporary vacuum of the time and place in which they make these utterances. I am not by any means suggesting that the value of a lighter hue sister is limited to their aesthetic beauty, but men make utterances based on prima facie impulses. So, when he sees what he considers a dime piece, then and there, that's his preference in black woman.

But remember that metaphorically, her beauty only get's her into the club before 10pm, but will not necessarily insure that she will be the prize in the long run. For example: A lot of white men prefer blondes and idolized Marilyn Monroe, but not many cared to wife her up, simply because she was their aesthetic preference FOR THE MOMENT. There was a long list of guys ranging from Frank Sinatra to the Kennedy's who though her beautiful, but in the end......

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#631 Sep 27, 2013
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I understand that most bm on here will be upset about what I had said but honestly this is all that I had witnessed, experienced and researched. I know I am being horrible about on a whole different level, but when people take it personal then I will too. I am not talking about ALL black men. Only about bad bm I am talking about in my posts and the ones that respond with ignorant comments. There are some crazy bm on here that need help, but also some polite bm on here that can have a real convo without being nasty.
Thanks for the clarification but I've already deductively concluded to whom your intent and message was intended. I merely intended to contribute to this from a masculine prospective; for while your suppositions about what we black men think and feel are most certainly fair game, our empirically based contributions should be offered as well and not excluded from the exchange, but thanks for the civility.

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#632 Sep 27, 2013
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No my dear...they are not lying. But you however, must view men, to some extent, in the temporary vacuum of the time and place in which they make these utterances. I am not by any means suggesting that the value of a lighter hue sister is limited to their aesthetic beauty, but men make utterances based on prima facie impulses. So, when he sees what he considers a dime piece, then and there, that's his preference in black woman.
But remember that metaphorically, her beauty only get's her into the club before 10pm, but will not necessarily insure that she will be the prize in the long run. For example: A lot of white men prefer blondes and idolized Marilyn Monroe, but not many cared to wife her up, simply because she was their aesthetic preference FOR THE MOMENT. There was a long list of guys ranging from Frank Sinatra to the Kennedy's who though her beautiful, but in the end......
Understandable

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#633 Sep 27, 2013
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Thanks for the clarification but I've already deductively concluded to whom your intent and message was intended. I merely intended to contribute to this from a masculine prospective; for while your suppositions about what we black men think and feel are most certainly fair game, our empirically based contributions should be offered as well and not excluded from the exchange, but thanks for the civility.
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#634 Sep 27, 2013
what your mouth little girl and you would smile,a simp let you and bw off the hook and threw bm under the bus in a sneaky simp way.but ima ask,why do yall try and DO discredit bm experiences and "research" with bw?

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#635 Sep 27, 2013
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what your mouth little girl and you would smile,a simp let you and bw off the hook and threw bm under the bus in a sneaky simp way.but ima ask,why do yall try and DO discredit bm experiences and "research" with bw?
What?

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#636 Sep 27, 2013
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What?
lol this sht again?smh

why are you and every other bw trying to discredit bm's experiences with bw?

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#637 Sep 27, 2013
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<quoted text>lol this sht again?smh
why are you and every other bw trying to discredit bm's experiences with bw?
I never did. O.o

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#639 Sep 27, 2013
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I'm serious, they are absolutely terrible people.
Imagine if Black women dated White and Hispanic men all the time and PREACHED at any chance they could that it's because Black men are violent, worthless, ugly, ghetto, poor with too many stds and go to prison too often (which could easily be said).
Or if Black women were in the media MUCH more often than BM and used that outlet to show stereotypical, dumb Black men for comical relief and showed off more White and Hispanic guys for other Black girls to ogle over.
If Black women were more powerful in Hollywood and based off of showing Black men as deadbeats who can't raise children at all, and live depressingly sad lives.
If ANYTIME a Black female got money she married a White man and turned her back on her community. Then openly stated that it's just because White guys are nicer to her (now that she has money).
Truth is, Black men are horrible, really at this point everyone sees it. I even talk to Hispanic guys who comment on it, and White guys know it and think it's funny, they ALWAYS have, which just makes it worse as a Black female, my biggest enemy is a Black guy.
Black guys have destroyed any ounce of dignity that the Black community may have ever had. Can you imagine if Black men were STRONG men, where Blacks could be?
They are weak, they get their self esteem in chasing non Blacks and UPLIFTING non Black women, while trying to tear down Black females because we are a reflection of THEM, and they hate themselves.
So imagine a world where Black women treated Black men how they treat us? Give them a taste of their own medicine, I wish, but they only lucked out because Black women's history in this country is tied to the terrible actions of White men, making us view Black men as the lesser of two evils.
Obviously you haven't met Sadbuttrue.

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#640 Sep 27, 2013
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I never did. O.o
Why are you answering when people unknowingly refer to you as a black woman. Tell them about your white father and be honest about who you are and stop being ashame.

You are not a black woman. Black women don't act like you. You are the typical self hating white offspring from an IRBW and a racist white male.

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#641 Sep 27, 2013
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<quoted text>Obviously you haven't met Sadbuttrue.
Your comparing Sadbuttrue on a minor Internet forum to BM who have seemingly joined in and gone on a mass campaign to devalue BW.

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#642 Sep 27, 2013
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Why are you answering when people unknowingly refer to you as a black woman. Tell them about your white father and be honest about who you are and stop being ashame.
You are not a black woman. Black women don't act like you. You are the typical self hating white offspring from an IRBW and a racist white male.
Anderson, do not be mad because I didnt want to ride your face ok?

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#643 Sep 27, 2013
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Why are you answering when people unknowingly refer to you as a black woman. Tell them about your white father and be honest about who you are and stop being ashame.
You are not a black woman. Black women don't act like you. You are the typical self hating white offspring from an IRBW and a racist white male.
Excluding her being biracial, why do so many AA see BP as an entity. "Black women don't act like you." BP are individuals with differing behaviors and personalities. We were even born and raised in different countries and classes.

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#644 Sep 27, 2013
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Anderson, do not be mad because I didnt want to ride your face ok?
Don't be ashamed of who you are. You just want some black male attention. I bet your white daddy would be so disappointed if he knew you were chasing around black dck the way do every day on topix.

You don't have to be here baby, you're a white btch, you're not required to like black men.

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#645 Sep 27, 2013
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Excluding her being biracial, why do so many AA see BP as an entity. "Black women don't act like you." BP are individuals with differing behaviors and personalities. We were even born and raised in different countries and classes.
It's because irbw like you constantly push the narrative.

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#646 Sep 27, 2013
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Don't be ashamed of who you are. You just want some black male attention. I bet your white daddy would be so disappointed if he knew you were chasing around black dck the way do every day on topix.
You don't have to be here baby, you're a white btch, you're not required to like black men.
But it seem like u want my attention, why?

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