IMAGINE if BW treated BM how they tre...

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#24 Sep 23, 2013
Wayne X wrote:
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Really? BM begging BW to stick with us? lol It's all in your head. Its a free country and you free to pursue relationships with whomever pleases you. Also BM in IRR are also subject to harassments not just BW.
This is what I mean about BM dismissive BW mistreatment - my experiences are real, not all in my head. If they weren't, I wouldn't spend time on Topix seeking a solution to the BM's acknowledged rude, consistent boldness and aggression.
Unholi

Kennesaw, GA

#25 Sep 23, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
I'm serious, they are absolutely terrible people.
Imagine if Black women dated White and Hispanic men all the time and PREACHED at any chance they could that it's because Black men are violent, worthless, ugly, ghetto, poor with too many stds and go to prison too often (which could easily be said).
You must be joking, all of that is exactly what black women do all over the internet, especially this site.(you doing it now included).
PinkPearl wrote:
Or if Black women were in the media MUCH more often than BM and used that outlet to show stereotypical, dumb Black men for comical relief and showed off more White and Hispanic guys for other Black girls to ogle over.
Well black women don't have any media control but with the huge popularity amongst black women when it come to shows like Scandal or movies like The Bodyguard, I can only assume that is exactly what they would do if they were in the position.
PinkPearl wrote:
If everytime a Black female got money she married a White man and turned her back on her community.
That is exactly what happens, irbw on average have more money than non. It's generally the bw who had black fathers put them in/through college probably like yourself, who are irbw. And the only known black female athletes,(Venus and Serena) are both with white males.
TBMR

Toronto, Canada

#26 Sep 23, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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It might be different with your men, but AA are VERY bold, aggressive, persisted that you can't just lock them out of your life. I don't even live close to them yet I constantly must deal with then at malls, work, school, groceries, etc........
Its been very easy for me to cut black men off cuz they arent checkin for me in the first place lol They dont bother me and I dont bother them. Its no loss to either side

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#28 Sep 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Its been very easy for me to cut black men off cuz they arent checkin for me in the first place lol They dont bother me and I dont bother them. Its no loss to either side
So why spend time discussing then? I complain because they constantly direct unwanted sexual and/ or disrespectful behavior towards me. It's living H on earth.
Soul Hunter

Los Angeles, CA

#31 Sep 23, 2013
TimeforHonesty
Would you provide this advice for successful BW? What's your advice for them?

Offline in the real world I don't associate with bw on any level unless I have too so too answer your question the answer would be no I don't have anything too say to yah. My advice is for decent bm alone I don't care about bw or anything that bw do.
TBMR

Toronto, Canada

#32 Sep 23, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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So why spend time discussing then? I complain because they constantly direct unwanted sexual and/ or disrespectful behavior towards me. It's living H on earth.
I discuss it because I feel like it

and I dont believe that black men are running behind you everywhere you go chasing you down and harrassing you ... you are greatly exagerating your importance in their lives
Ghost Face

Clearwater, FL

#33 Sep 23, 2013
Wayne X wrote:
<quoted text>Really? BM begging BW to stick with us? lol It's all in your head. Its a free country and you free to pursue relationships with whomever pleases you. Also BM in IRR are also subject to harassments not just BW.
Co-sign

“A queen never bow downs”

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#34 Sep 23, 2013
Black men on here do fight viciously. Its hard to talk to them.

“Helping you ”

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#37 Sep 23, 2013
I never seen a woman so violently bash her own offspring.

Maybe you should do something different if you hate your own children so much.

Maybe your sons know how much you hate them and that causes them to seek out other women.
Ant

Alpharetta, GA

#38 Sep 23, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Yup blame BW for BM degeneracy. What percentage of BW are sleeping with these losers? Are BM too stupid to understand that most BW or any women don't want anything to do with those who show disrespect?
You cant be serious, you know how many black women I know that always want the bad guy/thug. Yes majority of BW will not date a drug dealer/gang member, but they will give up their goodies to all the low lifes who are just a step below those types. Even many Christian women want them a bad boy and when he is done shattering her heart she comes back to church all used up praying for a good man.

Im not blaming all black women, but the great majority that have piss poor choices in men and complain the after effect of what happened to them.
alfie

Welwyn Garden City, UK

#39 Sep 23, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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So why spend time discussing then? I complain because they constantly direct unwanted sexual and/ or disrespectful behavior towards me. It's living H on earth.
another delusional sheboon....
alfie

Welwyn Garden City, UK

#40 Sep 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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I discuss it because I feel like it
and I dont believe that black men are running behind you everywhere you go chasing you down and harrassing you ... you are greatly exagerating your importance in their lives
that's or sure...
Michael

Houston, TX

#41 Sep 23, 2013
Some of you women are miserable
HayStack

United States

#42 Sep 23, 2013
Unholi wrote:
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You must be joking, all of that is exactly what black women do all over the internet, especially this site.(you doing it now included).
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Well black women don't have any media control but with the huge popularity amongst black women when it come to shows like Scandal or movies like The Bodyguard, I can only assume that is exactly what they would do if they were in the position.
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That is exactly what happens, irbw on average have more money than non. It's generally the bw who had black fathers put them in/through college probably like yourself, who are irbw. And the only known black female athletes,(Venus and Serena) are both with white males.
A black woman looked directly at me, crossed the center line and hit me head on. Black women poured out of stores into the street and told the police that I was in the wrong. Imagine her entire car is in my lane and the accident is my fault.

The police couldn't believe it, the evidence was beyond question.

There are black women that will go to any length to destroy a black man, emasculate a black man, discredit a black man and that includes his mother, sister or other female relatives.

A black man was holding a little black boy's hand as they crossed the street. While I'm sitting at the red light watching him walk from my left to my right. a car came flying up from behind me in the left lane. At the very last moment, the driver hit the brakes. I looked to my left and there was the black woman looking as if she could kill two African American and get away with it. she would.

Are black men so desparate to put up with black women and not only risk their freedom, they will risk their lives?

1. Micky D's beat down and not one black woman on this forum could admit the two black women was wrong.

2. Seattle policeman popped a black woman in her mouth. Again, not one black woman on this forum would admit the black woman was wrong. One week later, the black woman that was popped in the mouth admitted she was wrong.

To insinuate that it is not all black women, there's not one black woman on this forum that said it was the black women's fault in the two incidents cited above. In both instances, the cop and the Micky D's employee was wrong according to every black that posted in those threads.

Black women ---WILL--- bust a black man in the head 100 times and deny it and the black man will sit around like a fool to get knocked in the head 101 times. If he respond in defense of himself, he's a black woman hater.

THERE GOES THE BIGGEST FOOL ON EARTH, THE BLACK MAN.
HayStack

United States

#43 Sep 23, 2013
THE BLACK MAN'S VERY OWN MOTHER WILL EMASCULATE HER SON. IT IS HAPPENING AT THIS VERY MOMENT.
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Characteristics of Narcissistic Mothers

1. Everything she does is deniable. There is always a facile excuse or an explanation. Cruelties are couched in loving terms. Aggressive and hostile acts are paraded as thoughtfulness. Selfish manipulations are presented as gifts. Criticism and slander is slyly disguised as concern. She only wants what is best for you. She only wants to help you.

She rarely says right out that she thinks you're inadequate. Instead, any time that you tell her you've done something good, she counters with something your sibling did that was better or she simply ignores you or she hears you out without saying anything, then in a short time does something cruel to you so you understand not to get above yourself. She will carefully separate cause (your joy in your accomplishment) from effect (refusing to let you borrow the car to go to the awards ceremony) by enough time that someone who didn't live through her abuse would never believe the connection.

Many of her putdowns are simply by comparison. She'll talk about how wonderful someone else is or what a wonderful job they did on something you've also done or how highly she thinks of them. The contrast is left up to you. She has let you know that you're no good without saying a word. She'll spoil your pleasure in something by simply congratulating you for it in an angry, envious voice that conveys how unhappy she is, again, completely deniably. It is impossible to confront someone over their tone of voice, their demeanor or they way they look at you, but once your narcissistic mother has you trained, she can promise terrible punishment without a word. As a result, you're always afraid, always in the wrong, and can never exactly put your finger on why.

Because her abusiveness is part of a lifelong campaign of control and because she is careful to rationalize her abuse, it is extremely difficult to explain to other people what is so bad about her. She's also careful about when and how she engages in her abuses. She's very secretive, a characteristic of almost all abusers ("Don't wash our dirty laundry in public!") and will punish you for telling anyone else what she's done. The times and locations of her worst abuses are carefully chosen so that no one who might intervene will hear or see her bad behavior, and she will seem like a completely different person in public. She'll slam you to other people, but will always embed her devaluing nuggets of snide gossip in protestations of concern, love and understanding ("I feel so sorry for poor Cynthia. She always seems to have such a hard time, but I just don't know what I can do for her!") As a consequence the children of narcissists universally report that no one believes them ("I have to tell you that she always talks about YOU in the most caring way!). Unfortunately therapists, given the deniable actions of the narcissist and eager to defend a fellow parent, will often jump to the narcissist's defense as well, reinforcing your sense of isolation and helplessness ("I'm sure she didn't mean it like that!")

“A queen never bow downs”

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#44 Sep 23, 2013
HayStack wrote:
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A black woman looked directly at me, crossed the center line and hit me head on. Black women poured out of stores into the street and told the police that I was in the wrong. Imagine her entire car is in my lane and the accident is my fault.
The police couldn't believe it, the evidence was beyond question.
There are black women that will go to any length to destroy a black man, emasculate a black man, discredit a black man and that includes his mother, sister or other female relatives.
A black man was holding a little black boy's hand as they crossed the street. While I'm sitting at the red light watching him walk from my left to my right. a car came flying up from behind me in the left lane. At the very last moment, the driver hit the brakes. I looked to my left and there was the black woman looking as if she could kill two African American and get away with it. she would.
Are black men so desparate to put up with black women and not only risk their freedom, they will risk their lives?
1. Micky D's beat down and not one black woman on this forum could admit the two black women was wrong.
2. Seattle policeman popped a black woman in her mouth. Again, not one black woman on this forum would admit the black woman was wrong. One week later, the black woman that was popped in the mouth admitted she was wrong.
To insinuate that it is not all black women, there's not one black woman on this forum that said it was the black women's fault in the two incidents cited above. In both instances, the cop and the Micky D's employee was wrong according to every black that posted in those threads.
Black women ---WILL--- bust a black man in the head 100 times and deny it and the black man will sit around like a fool to get knocked in the head 101 times. If he respond in defense of himself, he's a black woman hater.
THERE GOES THE BIGGEST FOOL ON EARTH, THE BLACK MAN.
Well we feel the same way

“Helping you ”

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#45 Sep 23, 2013
I think it's very important that we keep this thread up to the top so that the rest of the world and other men can see how certain BW feel about their own offspring.

This way these people can understand why some of these boys turn out the way they do.

These women do abuse their children at an early age mentally and physically.

These women tell their young sons that they are worthless etc so if you are thinking of dating one of these women please read the first posts by the op to get an idea of how she will treat your children.

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#47 Sep 23, 2013
Ant wrote:
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Here is the other issue many black women will not address.
YOU HAVE SEX WITH THESE AWFUL BLACK MEN REGARDLESS!!!!
If they are acting like a fool, pants sagged to the ground, a high school drop out, a drug dealer, cant speak proper English, BUT still has many pretty women by his side because black women love them some bad boys/thugs...WHAT INCENTIVE DO THEY HAVE TO CHANGE???
A man will only do what it takes him to get some puxxy, so the fact these black men can act like degenerates, yet still get their needs met on the regular, they will never change.
1 of the realest posts I read on this forum.

Since: May 08

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#48 Sep 23, 2013
Something I just thought about: If nonblack men is so much better than Black men, how can IRBW still find the time to come on here worrying about what we do/think/feel???
Albert B

London, UK

#50 Sep 23, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
I'm serious, they are absolutely terrible people.
Imagine if Black women dated White and Hispanic men all the time and PREACHED at any chance they could that it's because Black men are violent, worthless, ugly, ghetto, poor with too many stds and go to prison too often (which could easily be said).
Or if Black women were in the media MUCH more often than BM and used that outlet to show stereotypical, dumb Black men for comical relief and showed off more White and Hispanic guys for other Black girls to ogle over.
If Black women were more powerful in Hollywood and based off of showing Black men as deadbeats who can't raise children at all, and live depressingly sad lives.
If ANYTIME a Black female got money she married a White man and turned her back on her community. Then openly stated that it's just because White guys are nicer to her (now that she has money).
Truth is, Black men are horrible, really at this point everyone sees it. I even talk to Hispanic guys who comment on it, and White guys know it and think it's funny, they ALWAYS have, which just makes it worse as a Black female, my biggest enemy is a Black guy.
Black guys have destroyed any ounce of dignity that the Black community may have ever had. Can you imagine if Black men were STRONG men, where Blacks could be?
They are weak, they get their self esteem in chasing non Blacks and UPLIFTING non Black women, while trying to tear down Black females because we are a reflection of THEM, and they hate themselves.
So imagine a world where Black women treated Black men how they treat us? Give them a taste of their own medicine, I wish, but they only lucked out because Black women's history in this country is tied to the terrible actions of White men, making us view Black men as the lesser of two evils.
Um... Black PEOPLE do this already. Black men and women throw each other under the bus for no reason.

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