Black guys and their Hollering ways.

[Reddecapp]

sohair wrote:

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How DARE you tell me what my experiences have been?? Why is it so hard to believe that this is a regular occurrence? Just because you and your buddies may not behave this way, doesn't mean that I do not get approached often by black men in an annoying fashion. This is FACT. I'm sick of it and tired of it. Just because you don't get plenty of women approaching you, don't try to assume you know other people's experiences. Yes, I get approached by men of all races, but nothing like a black man. They feel entitled for some unknown reason, and that's what I find most frustrating.

You say "how dare I tell you what your experiences are." I'm telling you what they are not. You my little friend have a difficult time seperating fact from fiction. You and "stop hatin", need to be enlightened.
You say you are approached by many men, but "nothing like being approached by a Black man." I know what you mean. Isn't it GREAT!! Those beautiful Black men coming towards you. Sounds like a fantasy you are having, being approached by a majority of Black men.
Many times you sound very close to saying you are being accosted rather than approached by Black men. Your issue may be that a Black man spoke to you period! After all, you used the words "annoying, frustrating, and regular occurrence." Judging from the words you have used, I'd say YOUR PROBLEM, and I mean just that, YOUR PROBLEM is you just don't want a Black man to speak to you at all. Therefore, when 2 or 3 have spoken to you, you tend to believe the entire race of Black men has spoken to you and everyone of them spoke to you in a disrespectful manner. Hmmmm, wondering should they have kept their heads down and addressed you as Miss Ann? Remember you also said "they feel entitled" when they are saying hello. My, my, another white woman that thinks that all Black men wants and needs her sexually. Often times than not, that is the least of what they want from you when speaking.
Really, you white girls need to stop fantasizing being with a Black man. Don't talk about it, be about it!
Naw, I have to go back to my initial thought and that is you are sooooo exaggerating about a simple "hello" from a man of color. GROW UP!!!!!

BTW Thank goodness many women do not approach me, although there has been a few times when they have tried. I don't flow that way. Its Ms. Reddecapp,

[sohair]

Reddecapp wrote:

<quoted textoccurrence." be about it!
Naw, I have to go back to my initial thought and that is you are sooooo exaggerating about a simple "hello" from a man of color. GROW UP!!!!!
BTW Thank goodness many women do not approach me, although there has been a few times when they have tried. I don't flow that way. Its Ms. Reddecapp,

Ok - you clearly don't know anything...when I say "entitled" I mean the way in which they approach, as if they are God's gift to women, if you don't know what I mean, you most likely don't get many men approaching you, MS. Reddecapp

I am not making this up, NOR am I even white...maybe you're the problem and you've never had a decent man, BLACK/WHITE/ETC approach you at all so you can know the difference and understand when someone approaches you DISRESPECTFULLY!

UGHHH

[Savant]

sohair wrote:

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How DARE you tell me what my experiences have been?? Why is it so hard to believe that this is a regular occurrence? Just because you and your buddies may not behave this way, doesn't mean that I do not get approached often by black men in an annoying fashion. This is FACT. I'm sick of it and tired of it. Just because you don't get plenty of women approaching you, don't try to assume you know other people's experiences. Yes, I get approached by men of all races, but nothing like a black man. They feel entitled for some unknown reason, and that's what I find most frustrating.

I've heard the same thing said about Latin men by my Latina ex. And she says that's HER experience. She thinks that Hispanic men are the worst.
So, is her experience more reliable or is yours? Why?

[Savant]

sohair wrote:

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Ok - you clearly don't know anything...when I say "entitled" I mean the way in which they approach, as if they are God's gift to women, if you don't know what I mean, you most likely don't get many men approaching you, MS. Reddecapp
I am not making this up, NOR am I even white...maybe you're the problem and you've never had a decent man, BLACK/WHITE/ETC approach you at all so you can know the difference and understand when someone approaches you DISRESPECTFULLY!
UGHHH

Women of all races have complained of men who think they're God's gift to women. And I've not the slightest doubt that in all human groups there are such men.
I also don't doubt that women have had EXPERIENCE with such men in all colors. If your attention is focused on Black men, then maybe it is not experience alone that explains that.

[sohair]

Savant wrote:

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Women of all races have complained of men who think they're God's gift to women. And I've not the slightest doubt that in all human groups there are such men.
I also don't doubt that women have had EXPERIENCE with such men in all colors. If your attention is focused on Black men, then maybe it is not experience alone that explains that.

Maybe environment? Maybe...CULTURE???

[Reddecapp]

sohair wrote:

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Ok - you clearly don't know anything...when I say "entitled" I mean the way in which they approach, as if they are God's gift to women, if you don't know what I mean, you most likely don't get many men approaching you, MS. Reddecapp
I am not making this up, NOR am I even white...maybe you're the problem and you've never had a decent man, BLACK/WHITE/ETC approach you at all so you can know the difference and understand when someone approaches you DISRESPECTFULLY!
UGHHH

Thats all I have had is decent men. Because those that were not, I didn't keep around. Now just to show you how things get blown way out of proportion, I took just a part of what you said, and made it fit to what I wanted/ needed it to. Thats exactly what you do, when you start lying about how all disrespectful men that speak to you are Black men. You said it yourself. Men that approach you are disrespectful, so girlfriend you wouldn't know what a decent man talks about or how they approach a woman, ie; me.Remember, they are "disrespectful" to you and "stop hatin".
Naw, once again, I go back to what I said from the begining. You are making this up and you need to stop it and let it happen. Just accept ones greeting for what it is. A greeting. Believe me, all Black men that speak to you, I am so sure don't want to bed you down. Thats your little fantasy.
If being spoken to by a man of color is that bad to you, if it is that trying to you, might I suggest you make everybody happy. Yourself and the Black men. Just stay away. Start by staying in your house. Lock your doors, close your windows. Just don't go outside. Or come to terms with reality. Its not that bad, and you're not all that I'm sure.

[Reddecapp]

Savant wrote:

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Women of all races have complained of men who think they're God's gift to women. And I've not the slightest doubt that in all human groups there are such men.
I also don't doubt that women have had EXPERIENCE with such men in all colors. If your attention is focused on Black men, then maybe it is not experience alone that explains that.

Thats exactly what it is. Both she and "stop hating" think, and wants everyone else to believe that all Black men approach them in a disrespecting manner. Then she has the nerve to say "like they are entitled" Please...... I guess it has really become somewhat funny to me now, because its really not that big of a deal. I bet you if a Black man just happens to glance that way, those two would swear up and down that he glanced in a "disrespectful" way. Its really not that big of a deal like I said. Whats really going to be funny, and I wish I could be around, when the day comes when nobody speaks to them, They will wish somebody did say hello. But just listening to the two of them, if a Black man doesn't speak to them they would probably say he DIDN'T speak to them in a very disrespectful way.

[Reddecapp]

sohair wrote:

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Maybe environment? Maybe...CULTURE???

OMG, I don't believe he was suggesting that. Maybe ignorance. Maybe exaggeration.......Maybe just plain old lying.

[sohair]

Reddecapp wrote:

<quoted text>Thats exactly what it is. Both she and "stop hating" think, and wants everyone else to believe that all Black men approach them in a disrespecting manner. Then she has the nerve to say "like they are entitled" Please...... I guess it has really become somewhat funny to me now, because its really not that big of a deal. I bet you if a Black man just happens to glance that way, those two would swear up and down that he glanced in a "disrespectful" way. Its really not that big of a deal like I said. Whats really going to be funny, and I wish I could be around, when the day comes when nobody speaks to them, They will wish somebody did say hello. But just listening to the two of them, if a Black man doesn't speak to them they would probably say he DIDN'T speak to them in a very disrespectful way.

I never said ALL black men, but I said the ones that are disrespectful are GENERALLY black...don't tell me about my experiences and I won't tell you about mine!
GGGRRRRRRR

[MoneyMakinMitch]

Candella88 wrote:

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lol I haven't been with a guy this months since I'm back home.You need to fix yourself up,at least I'm using protection.

First of all you skank ass hoe. YOu don't know what i do. Because you have never had sex with you and never will. Get your life together.

[Candella88]

MoneyMakinMitch wrote:

<quoted text>First of all you skank ass hoe. YOu don't know what i do. Because you have never had sex with you and never will. Get your life together.

as many times as you told me I was making your junk hard and shxt like that :) u probably was masturbating like u wanted dis cootie cat.I don't want it especially if it's been in.....omg ewww.U just mad cuz I left u on the edge.I just greased my hair...I have some left over do you want me to fry you some chicken with it. lol!!

[MoneyMakinMitch]

Candella88 wrote:

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as many times as you told me I was making your junk hard and shxt like that :) u probably was masturbating like u wanted dis cootie cat.I don't want it especially if it's been in.....omg ewww.U just mad cuz I left u on the edge.I just greased my hair...I have some left over do you want me to fry you some chicken with it. lol!!

Keep up your lies Candy. Tell me what it is about you that you think is sexy. Is it yoru big nasty looking titties? Is it yoru ugly face? You are not sexy in anyway to me. I'm sure thats its other men that tink you are a nice looking female. But, im not one of them. I'm not even going to agrue with you. You know that i don't want you. You have known that for a while. Be smart and don't reply to this post.

[Candella88]

MoneyMakinMitch wrote:

<quoted text>Keep up your lies Candy. Tell me what it is about you that you think is sexy. Is it yoru big nasty looking titties? Is it yoru ugly face? You are not sexy in anyway to me. I'm sure thats its other men that tink you are a nice looking female. But, im not one of them. I'm not even going to agrue with you. You know that i don't want you. You have known that for a while. Be smart and don't reply to this post.

lol you don't fool me,why is it everytime you get back on topix the first thing you do is reply to my posts the same dumbshxt over and over again.You are not even convincing,I already kno wat the deal is but let it go and quit replying let me have the last word dammitt!!

[Candella88]

and if that's the way you feel why are you still talking about it,move da fuxk on I already did the only reason I'm replying to u cuz ur doing it so until u stop I won't....it's getting kinda annoying because your really bad if we had a debate I would annihilate ur ass within seconds of it from the beginning due to the fact u have nothing to back up except your chopped sentences of the same BS.Quit calling me Candy were not friends no more.

[MoneyMakinMitch]

Candella88 wrote:

and if that's the way you feel why are you still talking about it,move da fuxk on I already did the only reason I'm replying to u cuz ur doing it so until u stop I won't....it's getting kinda annoying because your really bad if we had a debate I would annihilate ur ass within seconds of it from the beginning due to the fact u have nothing to back up except your chopped sentences of the same BS.Quit calling me Candy were not friends no more.

Move on from what exactly? Its nothing you can say Candy. Because you know what im saying is the truth. Don't make statements like move on. That gives off the wrong impression. You already know there is nothing to move on from. So choose your word very carefully. I pull up plenty of post of you kissing my ass. You can't pull up not one post of me on you. I'm a leave it alone as long as yo leave it alone.

[Candella88]

MoneyMakinMitch wrote:

<quoted text>Move on from what exactly? Its nothing you can say Candy. Because you know what im saying is the truth. Don't make statements like move on. That gives off the wrong impression. You already know there is nothing to move on from. So choose your word very carefully. I pull up plenty of post of you kissing my ass. You can't pull up not one post of me on you. I'm a leave it alone as long as yo leave it alone.

watever quit replying

[Reddecapp]

sohair wrote:

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I never said ALL black men, but I said the ones that are disrespectful are GENERALLY black...don't tell me about my experiences and I won't tell you about mine!
GGGRRRRRRR

You know what, you are right. I am going to leave you alone with your fantasies. They're yours and you have every right to have them. If you want to really believe that these Black men have been disrespectful to you, you have that right. Although, real people know that there has not been as many as you would like a person to believe. You go right on believing that this has happened to your little frail, timid ass.
A word of advice. Next time you see a Black man, cross the street, hold your head down, grab your purse, you know, all that crap you frail little white girls claim you are afraid of. Let me ask you this. Do you like Snoop,P.Diddy,Jay-Z ? I bet you think those are the good Black guys huh? Give me a break...... Keep on dreaming little girl.

[Savant]

sohair wrote:

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I never said ALL black men, but I said the ones that are disrespectful are GENERALLY black...don't tell me about my experiences and I won't tell you about mine!
GGGRRRRRRR

Let me just mention something suggested to me by a guy from London in response to these claims about "experience."
No one can argue that you or anyone else hasn't had the experiences you claim to have. We have, of course, your word to take for it.
But anyone can claim the right to challenge any generalizations you choose to make on the basis of that experience.
So anyone can claim that she or he has had certain experiences with Blacks, whites, Latins or whomever.
But NO individual can honestly say that she has had personal experiences with MILLIONS of members of any racial group. Not even 1% of that group. So long as you say "this has been my experience with black (or other) men" and leave it at that, there's no problem.
But if you move from there to saying, "And this is how all (or most) black men are," based on your experience or hearsay, them we've a right to suspect prejudice as well as obviously fallacious reasoning.

[Reddecapp]

Savant wrote:

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Let me just mention something suggested to me by a guy from London in response to these claims about "experience."
No one can argue that you or anyone else hasn't had the experiences you claim to have. We have, of course, your word to take for it.
But anyone can claim the right to challenge any generalizations you choose to make on the basis of that experience.
So anyone can claim that she or he has had certain experiences with Blacks, whites, Latins or whomever.
But NO individual can honestly say that she has had personal experiences with MILLIONS of members of any racial group. Not even 1% of that group. So long as you say "this has been my experience with black (or other) men" and leave it at that, there's no problem.
But if you move from there to saying, "And this is how all (or most) black men are," based on your experience or hearsay, them we've a right to suspect prejudice as well as obviously fallacious reasoning.

so well said. If they don't understand what you are saying then this person has a deep rooted problem with reality. Which based on the previous posts they are not far from that. The seperation between fact and/or fiction.

[Reddecapp]

Savant wrote:

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Let me just mention something suggested to me by a guy from London in response to these claims about "experience."
No one can argue that you or anyone else hasn't had the experiences you claim to have. We have, of course, your word to take for it.
But anyone can claim the right to challenge any generalizations you choose to make on the basis of that experience.
So anyone can claim that she or he has had certain experiences with Blacks, whites, Latins or whomever.
But NO individual can honestly say that she has had personal experiences with MILLIONS of members of any racial group. Not even 1% of that group. So long as you say "this has been my experience with black (or other) men" and leave it at that, there's no problem.
But if you move from there to saying, "And this is how all (or most) black men are," based on your experience or hearsay, them we've a right to suspect prejudice as well as obviously fallacious reasoning.

Let me just add another observation. A certain ethnic group has an enormous talent for exaggeration. I'm not sure if "talent" is the word I need here, but I can't think of another word to explain.