BM Would you date a BW that has dated...

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#2368 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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You became emotionally and mentally unhinged whenever ww were insulted in this thread though....
I wouldn't call it "unhinged." I just forcefully reject the verbal abuse, that's all.

I spent 10 years sharing a bed and house and life with a white woman and having a GOOD family of white in-laws. Now we're divorced, but you don't just throw away those feelings overnight.

When you are older and married, maybe you'll understand better.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#2369 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Lmaooooo you right
I'm curious on how the whole shit stared though
I have a feeling its the second option which has nothing to do with black women as he initially claimed. I think he was just on his Frank fightin the white guys over ww
Again...it has nothing to do with ww...I've never wanted white women!

This is just one of some bw biggest beliefs and fears...that we bm all want or at some time have been with ww...I've had bw say to me that...you seem like the type that may have dated white women before...I've had bw come right out and ask me if my wife is non-balck...I've had white women assume that my wife is non-black...why?...because I'm not a walking talking stereotype!

You simply had to be here at that time...but all that you need to know is this...people like her have some major issues...with black men...all black men(she probably came from a background like this!)unless they are some type of white washed character of a man!

They have problems with any bm that does not fit the image that they have in their minds...I mean here you have a person that is making more of something then was ever there...because she needs to believe that all bm have issues,hates bw and loves ww more than life itself...we don't all feel this way...not at all!

And as for Anderson...he does nothing but bash bw regularly...thus the reason that In my initial reply to him in this thread...I stated that..."while I don't usually agree with most of what you post..."

Everyone knows what he's about...he's told us all...in his very own words!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#2370 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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So the white guys insult black women and instead of you insulting white women back you make them think you like ww and they like you back
Mmmmmkay
This is like that shit where bm like Eldridge Cleaver say they f8ck ww to get back at wm for raping bw during slavery
Its like no you are not doing us any favours with all that boo.
First of all...in my personal experience all kinds of women have been interested in me...that was actually the point..I simply made my own choices and passed on these women...for the women that I pfeferred...again...aren't you the one that is going on about non-bm...okay...so even if I had dated out...why should you have a problem with it!

You don't have a problem with dating out...right?...if bw could grow up and get over their own need to devalue bm...and keep us at home on the farm and actually show their men some respect and act as if we have value to you all...from birth...just maybe some of these bm like Anderson...wouldn't have so much resentment towards bw!

Uhhh...clearly you being a woman...who's suffering from low self esteem...and who is paranoid about not being perceived as being attractive...you don't understand men as much as you think that you do!

How is this any different than playing the dozens...does anyone really even know anyone else's mother in such a situation...no in most cases they don't!

keep in mind that I'm married to a black woman...and have only ever dated or been married to a bw....this fact was also mentioned at that time...so yes the white males who were trying to degrade bw at that time were very pissed off!

Again..it was just talk...it's what guys do to piss off other guys...you have to understand...I've told people that I never slept with nor was sleeping with girls and they responded with..."yeah right...you're telling me that you're not hitting that"...it's happened!

it was just talk...and I wasn't even the only one doing it...but I am the only one that idiot and Anderson have issues with!

Again...they want to prove that all bm are fakes,phonies and frauds...why?

Who needs to do such a thing so badly...like their life depends on it being true!...I've never stated that all non-bm are losers or creeps..even white guys...why?...because while I know some total white male a-holes and scumbags...I also know some stand up white guys!
London

Powell, OH

#2371 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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So the white guys insult black women and instead of you insulting white women back you make them think you like ww and they like you back
Mmmmmkay
This is like that shit where bm like Eldridge Cleaver say they f8ck ww to get back at wm for raping bw during slavery
Its like no you are not doing us any favours with all that boo.
"They" simply like anything non black. More than a few don't even have a sexual preference anymore. It has nothing to do with bw whether they like ww or not. That is just something to say. From my understanding they like what's in between their legs better. I say simply get over it and move on. What exactly is it you feel bw are losing?
London

Powell, OH

#2372 Mar 12, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Again...it has nothing to do with ww...I've never wanted white women!
This is just one of some bw biggest beliefs and fears...that we bm all want or at some time have been with ww...I've had bw say to me that...you seem like the type that may have dated white women before...I've had bw come right out and ask me if my wife is non-balck...I've had white women assume that my wife is non-black...why?...because I'm not a walking talking stereotype!
You simply had to be here at that time...but all that you need to know is this...people like her have some major issues...with black men...all black men(she probably came from a background like this!)unless they are some type of white washed character of a man!
They have problems with any bm that does not fit the image that they have in their minds...I mean here you have a person that is making more of something then was ever there...because she needs to believe that all bm have issues,hates bw and loves ww more than life itself...we don't all feel this way...not at all!
And as for Anderson...he does nothing but bash bw regularly...thus the reason that In my initial reply to him in this thread...I stated that..."while I don't usually agree with most of what you post..."
Everyone knows what he's about...he's told us all...in his very own words!
If Anderson hates bw and you of all people claim to be married to a bw and reject his views; well Anderson should be viewed as enemy to you. There is no way you should be agreeing with ANYTHING he posts. I don't give a sh!t if he says the sky is blue YOU should disagree vehemently!!

You are the reason I don't trust your kind. Your heart is simply too treasonous. You have no backbone nor do you stand for anything I give you credit for not showing total hatred but only a fool believes you are with a bw.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#2375 Mar 12, 2013
London wrote:
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"They" simply like anything non black. More than a few don't even have a sexual preference anymore. It has nothing to do with bw whether they like ww or not. That is just something to say. From my understanding they like what's in between their legs better. I say simply get over it and move on. What exactly is it you feel bw are losing?
Just maybe it's the very same thing that you are devaluing?

What exactly is it that you think that bw will gain...what makes it so much more valuable than bm?

After all...there are two million single women...raising children in Britain alone!

* http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-20891...

I've been there and seen them....and yes a fair number of them are in fact black women...so where's the happily ever after in those stories?

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#2377 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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You were unhinged, all in your feelings, ranting for pages about ww and the respect they deserve... because you were married to a ww
but when alfie said bw are the ugliest and ww are the epitome you didnt even blink ...even though you were raised by a black woman who you said was loving
You dont care about black women and worship whites
you serve no purpose in any of these discussions
Honestly...I don't think that Harrison is a black man...and never have...I too agree that it's probably a black woman trying to make a mockery of black men...no black men is this outspoken about fat white women...I'm sorry...not even black men with fat white women!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#2379 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Whatever
bottom line is you werent trying to defend bw as you claim, the shit had NOTHING to do with us
you were defending yourself and trying to prove to those racist white guys that their women were feeling you and you were worthy of them (like Frank)
Thats the jist of it, a novel is not required
Again...you're acting irrational...you asked me a question and I took the time to answer it...not having to at all...the thing is...it wasn't even that deep...not something that I typed a billion times...not at all!

And yes it was about bw...who I have always defended on Topix....from day one...but yes it was also a guy thing as well!

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#2382 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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You were unhinged, all in your feelings, ranting for pages about ww and the respect they deserve... because you were married to a ww
but when alfie said bw are the ugliest and ww are the epitome you didnt even blink .....
Could you seriously explain to me why I should give a f*ck about some anonymous fool named "alfie?" lol

I get that alfie said some foul sh*t, but WHY do you care and why should I care what alfie thinks about bw? Are you going to need therapy because of what alfie said about bw?

Seriously??

Myself, I pick and choose my battles. I support my President and I totally adore his wife, so that's who I battle for. I am strongly attracted to WW so I battle for them too. But I'm afraid that alfie means nothing to me and I don't care what he/she has to say.

I keep trying to tell you that you can't fight everyone's battles for them. It doesn't work. So, you pick and choose.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#2383 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Lol
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You are so passionate about your hogs
too bad you dont show the same passion in defending the women of your race like your mother, sisters, aunts etc
You're a disgrace
Sooo... does this mean you DO believe I am a black man?

;o)
London

Powell, OH

#2384 Mar 12, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Just maybe it's the very same thing that you are devaluing?
What exactly is it that you think that bw will gain...what makes it so much more valuable than bm?
After all...there are two million single women...raising children in Britain alone!
* http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-20891...
I've been there and seen them....and yes a fair number of them are in fact black women...so where's the happily ever after in those stories?
This isn't about single women. This is about hatred. Again, I give you credit for at least pretending but I don't trust you anymore than the rest of these guys on here. You are all the same. I'm just glad you are finally being called on it. You are extremely transparent. The climate has changed considerably sir. Males like you can no longer get over. You are exposed. Take your link and shove it.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#2386 Mar 12, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text> If Anderson hates bw and you of all people claim to be married to a bw and reject his views; well Anderson should be viewed as enemy to you. There is no way you should be agreeing with ANYTHING he posts. I don't give a sh!t if he says the sky is blue YOU should disagree vehemently!!
You are the reason I don't trust your kind. Your heart is simply too treasonous. You have no backbone nor do you stand for anything I give you credit for not showing total hatred but only a fool believes you are with a bw.
First of all...try to get things straight here and please by all means don't attempt to tell me how to handle myself as a man...are you a man...yes no?

Next of all...I'm an attorney...and a rational,balanced and informed person...and in the real world...we may/often find ourselves agreeing with folks that we ourselves can't even believe that we are agreeing with...keep in mind...instead of being emotional that...even a drunk or an idiot can make a valid point!

This just the reality of life...how it works every single day...it's called a gray area...not always black and white...no pun intended!

Anyway....what was the statement that I agreed with him on...do you even know...have you read the statement!

well I'll tell you...he stated that...

"Most men would not date a woman of their racial group who has dated out"...

And as I stated to him...While I don't agree with most of what you type...I'd have to agree with this"

And I still stand by my statement....because it's in fact true...not what irbw want to hear...but very true for most men of nearly every racial type...yes including most white males...who talk about any ww that dates bm...like she's dog shyt!

And men can understand this...because its a man/cultural thing!

Do you that Arab men want Arab women who have dated out...how about Asian men...with Asian women who have married wm...and had children...huh?

*And no I disagree with you...I don't have to hate Anderson...because of his views...they're his views...my acknowledging that I disagree and stating why is enough...he's not outside of my house trying to do my wife harm!
London

Powell, OH

#2387 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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I agree with all the above
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Alot
but I dont want to get into it
Bw aren't losing anything. We've never had anything to begin with tbo. Quit thinking of fantasy and study history. Nothing has changed and I mean that with all sincerity. Just do you. You live in a great country and so do I. Thank your stars for that because as a black woman things could have easily been totally different. Most of us come to this site just to balance hatred (which is dangerous unchecked). No one is trying to get with these guys. We don't want them.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#2390 Mar 12, 2013
London wrote:
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This isn't about single women. This is about hatred. Again, I give you credit for at least pretending but I don't trust you anymore than the rest of these guys on here. You are all the same. I'm just glad you are finally being called on it. You are extremely transparent. The climate has changed considerably sir. Males like you can no longer get over. You are exposed. Take your link and shove it.
Frankly my dear...I don't give a rats arse if you trust me or not...I'm not married to you,nor do I wish to be...my wife knows full well who and what I am...what my preference is and what my dating history is...so?

Again...all that you sound like is a insecure black woman...who's paranoid about white women...lol!

*My link seemed to touch a sore spot..huh?...funny...but you want to believe that all bm that you don't even know(across the pond who have nothing to do with you even!)are all frauds...but you wince at what you can see in print about other men...closer to home....I guess that you can dish it out...but...well you know the rest...hmmm?
London

Powell, OH

#2391 Mar 12, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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*And no I disagree with you...I don't have to hate Anderson...because of his views...they're his views...my acknowledging that I disagree and stating why is enough...he's not outside of my house trying to do my wife harm!
His views are all about expressing hatred for a group your wife belongs to. You have no backbone. ugh.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#2392 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>...I get it. You choose to ignore the black womens battles because you dont care but battle hard as hell for ww because thats who you are strongly attracted to

Finally! You're being honest
If you are happy about carefully slicing out the part about black women I do battle for... just to make your point, go for it.

You and I both know what you chopped out just to make your point.
Do you really feel like a grown woman pulling that junior-high-level stunt?

*chuckle*

P.S. I'm happy with who I am. You can't edit me into shame by snipping this and that and reposting stuff that you want to see...
London

Powell, OH

#2393 Mar 12, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Frankly my dear...I don't give a rats arse if you trust me or not...I'm not married to you,nor do I wish to be...my wife knows full well who and what I am...what my preference is and what my dating history is...so?
Again...all that you sound like is a insecure black woman...who's paranoid about white women...lol!
*My link seemed to touch a sore spot..huh?...funny...but you want to believe that all bm that you don't even know(across the pond who have nothing to do with you even!)are all frauds...but you wince at what you can see in print about other men...closer to home....I guess that you can dish it out...but...well you know the rest...hmmm?
I never mentioned ww. Look I frankly don't care you don't care. Just wanted to let you know that no one is buying your sh!t.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#2394 Mar 12, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text> Bw aren't losing anything. We've never had anything to begin with tbo. Quit thinking of fantasy and study history. Nothing has changed and I mean that with all sincerity. Just do you. You live in a great country and so do I. Thank your stars for that because as a black woman things could have easily been totally different. Most of us come to this site just to balance hatred (which is dangerous unchecked). No one is trying to get with these guys. We don't want them.
Typed just like a black woman...who suffers from Acculturation!

* http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/acc...

And who needs to prove//believe that all bm are the same...how pathetic and very devious of you!

Er uh...excuse me..and just what history would that be?

The history of white men living,breathing and even dying to show black women their undying love for bw...really?

Are you actually referring to history that took place on the planet Earth?

When,where...in what century,culture and geographic location!

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#2395 Mar 12, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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I do believe you're a black man because there are many many many black men like you out there
Anderson and Moor are embarrassed of your behaviour.They are in disbelief that a bm can behave like you. Thats why they are trying to pass the buck
I know bm like you exist and represent the majority so yes I believe you :)
Thank you! I honestly don't care what Anderson and Moor think when it comes to embarrassment - you've seen both of them rip into each other like starving dogs going after a steak.... lol

But I'm glad you're intelligent enough to perceive that I am indeed a black man. To me, that's positive. I do not like being perceived as a "white troll" or a "fat white woman" or any of that crazy nonsense.

I'm just a friendly brother who loves women, and particularly big chubby ww.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

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#2396 Mar 12, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text> His views are all about expressing hatred for a group your wife belongs to. You have no backbone. ugh.
Yes his views are his views...so now bm that have issues with bw should be hated...and should I hunt him down with my Smith and Wesson or my Mossberg...like a dirty dog?

Okay...now answer me this...should my wife...who's had a very positive experiences with bm and who is in her very own words..."Very happily married"...and all other bw who love and prefer to be with bw hate you...and all other irbw!

Because you have personal issues with black men!

An even better question for you is this...do you honestly think that you're making any kind of rational sense!

Isn't this really just about your personal hatred and paranoid distrust of black men...why should black women listen to you!

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