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holycrap

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#1109
Mar 7, 2013
 
Shalimarr wrote:
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I don't buy into you and Carol's ideas that BW are innocent victims.
If we can't accept we have faults and we are full partners in our race, BM will never take our concerns seriously.
I think poor mothering by BW weakens BM's links to BW and encourages BM to take the route of IR.
I also believe self hate and envy of WM contributes to BM seeking IR.
But I do think BW are important and we have influence, especially in our role as mothers.
Actually Carol is very vocal in her disdain of bw and the role she feels they played in this issue.
I, on the other hand, certainly believe wholeheartedly that on this issue bw are nothing but victims. So, on behalf of Carol, please don't confuse us.
I do not view anyone as victims. However anyone has the ability to be victimized. Bw, on this issue, have been victimized- aggressively I might add. This is not about ir dating, as I've said repeatedly, this is about bashing. Bashing points to something far more sinister than simply dating and sexing. This is something you continue to gloss over.
I also don't believe in parenting from a standpoint of what we supposedly fear. That's not parenting and it's not showing love either. Black women who choose to mother black kids (and I certainly don't understand why they would as it seems like a curse of some sort) should do what all mothers do and raise to the best of their abilities instilling the morals in the child that they themselves either hold or wish they held. WW, especially in countries where whites are the majority, should not even be on the agenda. That's ridiculous and would be such an invasion.
Good mothering should be good mothering because women should simply care about their kids overall well being and prepare them for the world. Give them a future in terms of the skills and mindset needed so the child has the best chance to maximize what it takes for their own personal happiness and satisfaction. Good mothering shouldn't have any section in it for how to avoid ww. That's silly.
Because of this I don't want to give the impression that mothers have no influence or role to play. However, in terms of dating choices that role is LIMITED, not expansive. Society, as is proven, has much much more influence than the mother for such a thing. You can't ignore that these guys are not only surrounded by ww but they are told over and over again they are the better more natural choice. I believe it is now generationally inbred in them and they don't choose to combat these things because it's much easier to go with the majority in society.
Ivy winters

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#1110
Mar 7, 2013
 
Man its alot of TRUE words being spoken here

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#1111
Mar 7, 2013
 
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<quoted text>Lol I knew your ass was a fake militant

that clown is in here saying black women are only good for sex and you say NOTHING

You think I'm insulting the white girl in his pic and thats when you decide to speak up rotfl

Black men are a joke

You fools always try and covince us otherwise but your true sellout nature always shines through
Oops...hit post too quickly.

To continue:

I have spoken up MANY times in the past. Especially because you're new, don't presume to know me.

I don't know what race the woman in his avatar is and I don't care. My comment is directed in defense of his right to post whomever and whatever he wishes in his avatar without being attacked for it as the same thing has been done to me by some of the crazy crowd around here.

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alright alright.....

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#1112
Mar 7, 2013
 
MrAnderson9 wrote:
Reading Moors post , great stuff Moor! Very insightful information.
Please go easy on ISW though, because she is my woman :)
One day she is going to give me strong black sons and she's going to raise them to love good bw just like their daddy.
1.im not the fullblooded ww these ppl keep claiming you like.
2. Im offf the market
3.my future children by my italian soon to be husband will honor love and treat bw with respect way better than these phony arse pro brothers are doing.
4.stop trying to soup up moor-on his bytch arse doesnt even realize hispanics come in different variations just like blacks..
5. Im ready for his diaper wearings arse...he aint competition to me bytch is below me.

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#1113
Mar 7, 2013
 
Ivy winters wrote:
<quoted text> I've seen her FLIP FLOP many times she agrees with whoever at the time to get brownie points. She will agree with Bm against BW then turn around and agree with BW against Bm. She will side with a white racist to get attention IT'S WHATEVA WITH HER she just needs attention !! I don't take her post serious EVER. She also seems to be some sort of expert about america YET she is not american. She also tries to speak on things going on in the US yet has never lived here SMDH
excellent.Observation. And your a newbie

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#1114
Mar 7, 2013
 
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>i have to give this props.but do you think bad or poor mothering skills only effect bm's dating preference?
I think poor mothering effects BM in many ways.
I think there is a pressure for BM to embrace IR and I think if the relationship with the mother is bad, it makes it easier for BM to bow to the pressure.
I say "pressure", because I have know militantly pro black men in the past, who ended up marrying white women.
Those men could hardly look me in the face when I saw them in the street with their WW.
So I know there is some kind of pressure or "need" that BM feel regarding proving themselves by bedding and making relationships with outside women.
holycrap

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#1116
Mar 7, 2013
 
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Maybe you should check the world news and see how women are treated outside of your block.
All women get bashed. That is not bs.
The world has never been a utopia and will never be a utopia. However, other races of males aren't bashing women for the choices they want to make with their penis. Nice try.

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Proving themselves = proving their manhood. Proving that they can compete with WM, and attain the women that WM seek to be with.

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#1118
Mar 7, 2013
 
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<quoted text>I didnt attack his picture though. I was saying that HE is most likely not a black man and is probably some fat pasty white b*tch. I made no mention of the picture

You were QUICK to come to the rescue of him and his white girl though lol

But you didnt even blink when he said black women were only good for sex

I'm glad you corrected me about not being a militant. I misunderstood what sort of black man you are. Thanks for the honesty at least
LOL! You have a lot to learn young 'lady'.

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#1120
Mar 7, 2013
 
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LOL I knew you would ignore or deflect away from his point about you being an IRBM
You have a white girl at home. You admitted it to me
You dont want black women but you dont want black women to want anything else
You are selfish and manipulative and a coward
That's because you're stupid. I know that I can say a million things to you, and the only things you will believe is what you want to here. I said to you Atleast 100 times that my lady is black, and I said jokingly to you 1 time that she was white, and you believed what you wanted to.

Everything about you irbw reflects believing the minority because it suits your agenda, and I wanted to show you that, so that I can show that you are your own problem.

95% of bm and bw marraiges are with each other, about 5% date out. You chose to follow the lead of the 5% bm instead of the other 95%.

I said to you 100 times that my woman is black,and 1 time that she is white, you chose to follow the 1 time.

The majority of non bm don't prefer bw, you take the 3% that do and pretend like its the whole group.

The majority of bm take care of their kids even if they are not with the mother , you choose to base everything off the small percentage that doesn't.

You believe that even though mothers are with their children 95% of the time that the 5% media intervention has more of an affect on them than the mother does.

You are backwards. Do you understand this?

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Mar 7, 2013
 
ISW__REBORN wrote:
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1.im not the fullblooded ww these ppl keep claiming you like.
2. Im offf the market
3.my future children by my italian soon to be husband will honor love and treat bw with respect way better than these phony arse pro brothers are doing.
4.stop trying to soup up moor-on his bytch arse doesnt even realize hispanics come in different variations just like blacks..
5. Im ready for his diaper wearings arse...he aint competition to me bytch is below me.
You like bm, I can tell. I'm not saying you don't like Italian men, but I know you like bm, and as the years progress, it will progress also. You're still young. You're not even the woman you will be this time next year.

1 thing about me is that I don't argue if I'm wrong.

And I'm not souping up Moor, I got mad respect for moor. He's a very intelligent BM.

I got mad respect for you as well, you're a very intelligent bw.

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Ivy winters wrote:
Man its alot of TRUE words being spoken here
Thank you. I'm just keeping it treal (true and real).

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You like bm, I can tell. I'm not saying you don't like Italian men, but I know you like bm, and as the years progress, it will progress also. You're still young. You're not even the woman you will be this time next year.
1 thing about me is that I don't argue if I'm wrong.
And I'm not souping up Moor, I got mad respect for moor. He's a very intelligent BM.
I got mad respect for you as well, you're a very intelligent bw.
i like bm only in a platonic manner as for a love interest no! Bm have too many bad statistics following them to make me interested.( not trying to be mean just how it is) i cant be with men who constantly place other women above their mothers. I love my black mother and i wouldnt want anyone to degrade her most of all me this woman gave me life and women who look like her gave yall life. For someone to speak ill of bw physically is to speak ill of my momma i aint having that shyt.... reading this threads sometimes i feel blessed my mom married who she did because some of you bm on here are just cruel and selfish beyond words. Plus i dont want to be with a man who wants to be that eternal bachelor and only wanna make babies everyday. Unfortunately the black mans rap is just that. I like certain bm the majority i cant fuk with.. even my best friend who is a foreign bm understands why i stopped Dating in the african american male pool a long time ago...
charlie lucky

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#1128
Mar 7, 2013
 
Yes I would, if i was not already married! However she would have to show high racial understanding as to what is actually going on here. They are part of the afro-diaspora and must be respected as anyone else.
Chuck jones

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#1129
Mar 7, 2013
 
NO! Not in a million years. Only black loser men with no respect for themselves would.
charlie lucky

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#1131
Mar 7, 2013
 
Your Loss.

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Mar 7, 2013
 
ISW__REBORN wrote:
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i like bm only in a platonic manner as for a love interest no! Bm have too many bad statistics following them to make me interested.( not trying to be mean just how it is) i cant be with men who constantly place other women above their mothers. I love my black mother and i wouldnt want anyone to degrade her most of all me this woman gave me life and women who look like her gave yall life. For someone to speak ill of bw physically is to speak ill of my momma i aint having that shyt.... reading this threads sometimes i feel blessed my mom married who she did because some of you bm on here are just cruel and selfish beyond words. Plus i dont want to be with a man who wants to be that eternal bachelor and only wanna make babies everyday. Unfortunately the black mans rap is just that. I like certain bm the majority i cant fuk with.. even my best friend who is a foreign bm understands why i stopped Dating in the african american male pool a long time ago...
None of these men are talking about their mothers.

We're not even talking about women in the age group that our mothers are in.

We're talking about irbw other women.

And everybody has a bad rap, it's just a matter of which one suits your internal prejudices.

There's no such thing as an entire race of men being "platonic" to you.

One thing about biracial women is you can always tell where they will end up by the type of men that they feel they are responsible too.

I like biracial women though, With you being biracial with a white father and black mother, you're supposed to date white guys, so you don't necessarily share the same fate as the irbw here in regards to them dating a non black male.

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#1133
Mar 7, 2013
 
Chuck jones wrote:
NO! Not in a million years. Only black loser men with no respect for themselves would.
lol! Definitely :)

Most men of any race would not date a woman of their race that was IR before.

Sure you have the 1-2% of losers that would fck anything, but that's about it. Even the irbw doesn't respect these men though.

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#1134
Mar 7, 2013
 
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This dude hates IRBW but is loving a woman who is a product of one lol
You're so transparent
I don't have any issue with biracial women. I prefer them over irbw. Even if it's a black woman with just the irbw attitude and still hasn't committed the act. I prefer biracial women over you all.

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#1135
Mar 7, 2013
 
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I coulda swore in another thread you were saying how you've been with other races of women besides black. You were in fact bragging (much like Frank) in that thread about some of your non black conquests when you and one of these crackkkers on here started going at it
Black women have been chosen second to other races for a very long time and people would also tell us to not hate, get over it, everyone is entitled to their preferences blahblahblah
Now the very men who were doing that want to scream like the world is coming to an end when the shoe is on the other foot
Give me a f*cking break
And when you woke up...was your arm still tied off...with the needle still hanging out of your vein?

Sorry...but you must have me confused with someone else!

While I've had several chances over the years(prior to marriage)to date out...I've never been into nonbw...now what you may have read was a comment from me talking about nonbw showing interest in me/other bm...but I assure it that it was one sided!

Yes I like many bm find some other women to be attractive...but bw have always been my preference...first and foremost...hands down!

Sorry...but I've never dated out....never wanted to!

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