Actually Carol is very vocal in her disdain of bw and the role she feels they played in this issue.<quoted text>
I don't buy into you and Carol's ideas that BW are innocent victims.
If we can't accept we have faults and we are full partners in our race, BM will never take our concerns seriously.
I think poor mothering by BW weakens BM's links to BW and encourages BM to take the route of IR.
I also believe self hate and envy of WM contributes to BM seeking IR.
But I do think BW are important and we have influence, especially in our role as mothers.
I, on the other hand, certainly believe wholeheartedly that on this issue bw are nothing but victims. So, on behalf of Carol, please don't confuse us.
I do not view anyone as victims. However anyone has the ability to be victimized. Bw, on this issue, have been victimized- aggressively I might add. This is not about ir dating, as I've said repeatedly, this is about bashing. Bashing points to something far more sinister than simply dating and sexing. This is something you continue to gloss over.
I also don't believe in parenting from a standpoint of what we supposedly fear. That's not parenting and it's not showing love either. Black women who choose to mother black kids (and I certainly don't understand why they would as it seems like a curse of some sort) should do what all mothers do and raise to the best of their abilities instilling the morals in the child that they themselves either hold or wish they held. WW, especially in countries where whites are the majority, should not even be on the agenda. That's ridiculous and would be such an invasion.
Good mothering should be good mothering because women should simply care about their kids overall well being and prepare them for the world. Give them a future in terms of the skills and mindset needed so the child has the best chance to maximize what it takes for their own personal happiness and satisfaction. Good mothering shouldn't have any section in it for how to avoid ww. That's silly.
Because of this I don't want to give the impression that mothers have no influence or role to play. However, in terms of dating choices that role is LIMITED, not expansive. Society, as is proven, has much much more influence than the mother for such a thing. You can't ignore that these guys are not only surrounded by ww but they are told over and over again they are the better more natural choice. I believe it is now generationally inbred in them and they don't choose to combat these things because it's much easier to go with the majority in society.