BM Would you date a BW that has dated...
David B

United States

#32 Mar 3, 2013
I wouldn't mess with a bw who's already in a relationship with a bm either & I'm a bm by the way. I no longer seeking out bw for relationships & now seeking out ww,lw,& aw for relationships & that's a choice that I make for myself only.
David B

United States

#33 Mar 3, 2013
Alfie wrote:
<quoted text>
bw has never,been loyal.
always willing to take any offers n walk
thru doors open.
Amen to that Alfie. They never were loyal from the beginning & I agree with you 1000%. They loyal to men of other races & not loyal to bm & why should bm be loyal to bw which most not anyway. Most bm will be loyal to women of other races & not loyal to bw. Alfie,like I said many times when I post my messages on this forum,I'm done with bw for good. I dont need them & I do way better without them & most bm should follow suit as well.
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#34 Mar 3, 2013
MrAnderson9---MACEO wrote:
Most men would never Sleep with a woman of their race that has slept with a man of another race. We honestly don't see them as our race of women anymore.
That's the only thing that upsets us about them is when they talk about us like we're their men.
Really? I have Black men make passes all the time including on my job; I really haven't found one that I'm attracted too or insterest me. If a woman's attractive she's attractive; most men could care less if you've been with a White man or another race they just see an atractive woman!

Even when Black women have were married and have biracial baby; most Black women will still make passes there is "No stigma" because the White man normally dates/marries a classy Black woman not the scraps of black males.

Your insecure becuase you have to complete with White males for attracitve Black women, that's got to be hard; especially since most Black men have nothing to offer nor can them complete with White males on many levels!

What your saying is BS!
MrAnderson9---MACEO wrote:
I have more respect and feelings for a ww that dates bm, then for a bw that dates wm.

If they were both hanging off a cliff and i had to pick which one to save, i would without a doubt in my mind save the ww.

Most men think this way. Atleast 95%.
I think most women don't like to admit this, but it's true. If you date ir, the men of your race generally lose interest.
MACEO

Nobody cares how you feel; your almost 60 years old, broke, have bad health, Impotent and ran to adultery behind your White wife's back; I think that speaks of your "Character" as man.

I look at the fact that you didn't respect her, yourself, those WW you chased that you wanted to use as jump-off's for your own selfish lusts!

Who cares what you want? YOu LOST EVERYTHING your ALONE! All you do is whine on Topix forum boards and hate on Black women for not wanting you but you did same foolish behaviors and disrepected your White wife until she asked for a divorce!

If I were to judge between the white man I'm dating and a man like you; I would chose him based on his history! Your a selfish self centered man with low self esteem; nobody cares how your Ego is affected!

Your a man of Poor character, your a fool and a scoffer which women don't respect!

Its not a color thing ITS YOUR POOR CHARACTER!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#35 Mar 3, 2013
MrAnderson9---MACEO wrote:
Most men would never Sleep with a woman of their race that has slept with a man of another race. We honestly don't see them as our race of women anymore.
That's the only thing that upsets us about them is when they talk about us like we're their men.
Really? I have Black men make passes all the time including on my job; I really haven't found one that I'm attracted too or that interest me. If a woman's attractive she's attractive; most men could care less if you've been with a White man or 50 men of another race all they just see an atractive woman!

Even when Black women marry white men and have biracial baby; most Black women will still get passes from Black males. A Black women valude doesn't decrease and there is "No stigma" because the White man normally dates/marries a classy Black woman not the scraps similar to what many Black men like yourself chose!

Your insecure because you have to compete with White males for attractive Black women! Now that's got to be hard; especially since most Black men have nothing to offer nor can them complete with White males on many levels!

What your saying is BS!
MrAnderson9---MACEO wrote:
I have more respect and feelings for a ww that dates bm, then for a bw that dates wm.

If they were both hanging off a cliff and i had to pick which one to save, i would without a doubt in my mind save the ww.

Most men think this way. Atleast 95%.
I think most women don't like to admit this, but it's true. If you date ir, the men of your race generally lose interest.
MACEO

Nobody cares how you feel! Your almost 60 years old, broke, have bad health, Impotent and ran to adultery behind your White wife's back; I think that speaks of your "Character" as man.

I look at the fact that you didn't respect her, yourself. You chased after Trashy WW you chased that you wanted to use as jump-off's for your own selfish lusts!

Who cares what you want? YOu LOST EVERYTHING and your ALONE!

If I were to judge between the white man I'm dating and a man like you; I would chose him based on his character and history! Its not a color thing; your a man of Poor character, very selfish, self centered and arrogant.
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#36 Mar 3, 2013
JRoxi wrote:
MrAnderson9 is a fool, I bet he dated IR himself. American black women ur men are such hypocrites! I don't blame AAW for not being loyal to black men anymore. I mean seriously they do not want AAW to be happy, not at all. If anything AAW should run fast from black American men like Anderson. AAW don't even need AAM, they can get a intelligent handsome african or Caribbean black man.
MACEO

My GF's who are not Black tell me that White men/other races of men ask if they've been with Black males and of course if they have they'll refuse to date/marry them!

There is a Stigma when Non Black women are with Black males! Just like you heard on that video on YouTube! A woman can change location and nobody knows but when she has a baby she's tainted forever!

I have 2 White GF who have Biracial children and the BM didn't do anything for them or their kids. Those women couldn't date any White women up until this day! They are not bad looking women but they told me White men don't want them. They even said White men will take a Black woman with a Black kid if the father doesn't come around if she's attractive.

Very interesting!

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#37 Mar 3, 2013
Some of those black women with white men cheat on them with black men. I saw this situation on cheaters. One lady I worked with, she had two mixed boys, alway flirted with me, shes still with the guy. Some have flirted with me with their eyes, while their boyfriend looked in insecurity, thinking he cant satisfy her like a black man can. A white woman told her son this, while he was dating a black girl as well, dont know why she said that.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#40 Mar 3, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
Some of those black women with white men cheat on them with black men. I saw this situation on cheaters. One lady I worked with, she had two mixed boys, alway flirted with me, shes still with the guy. Some have flirted with me with their eyes, while their boyfriend looked in insecurity, thinking he cant satisfy her like a black man can. A white woman told her son this, while he was dating a black girl as well, dont know why she said that.
Pierre

Well, I see Black males and men in general do too much. I'm not against cheating or going for the money! Matter of fact, Ill call you a fool if you don't get something for your time.

Time is money!

Many black men want to come with a 'Penis only" when life is hard they don't want to help or help themselves to cheating and living off a woman!

I don't feel sorry for them!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#41 Mar 3, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
Some of those black women with white men cheat on them with black men. I saw this situation on cheaters. One lady I worked with, she had two mixed boys, alway flirted with me, shes still with the guy. Some have flirted with me with their eyes, while their boyfriend looked in insecurity, thinking he cant satisfy her like a black man can. A white woman told her son this, while he was dating a black girl as well, dont know why she said that.
Pierre

My views have changed since I see BM do so much! I say women should or can cheat too, it goes both ways; women should go for the money!

Time is money!

Black men like to come with nothing and use women! Oll call a woman a fool if she not getting anything out of her relationship other than deal with a disrespectful man!

To be being Good, kind and submissive doeesn't pay off ! Black men will use you and find another woman or White woman at your expense and put it in your face when he's done nothing for you!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#42 Mar 3, 2013
TheKing wrote:
Ladies you can be angry and hurt, but there's consequences to all your actions.
If you want to go out and date non black men then be prepared to make it official as black men lose interest in you after that.
Men of all races are this way with their women.
MACEO

Yes YOUR LOST EVERYTHING! LMAO

THE CONSEQUENCES FOR RUNNING TO ADULTERY!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#43 Mar 3, 2013
Thefool-maceo wrote:
Ladies you can be angry and hurt, but there's consequences to all your actions.
If you want to go out and date non black men then be prepared to make it official as black men lose interest in you after that.
Men of all races are this way with their women.
maceo

True story:
i've had GF who dated White men and one was engaged to a Well off Attorney, he was using her,got engaged to two women, moved on with the White woman and married her.

Later she met the Attorny's 1st wife who had 2 kids by him and they become friends, he did the same behaviors to his wife which is why they divorced. After being married for 2-3 the Attorney did the same behaviors to his 2nd wife.

In the meantime, my GF was struggled. Black men were treating her bad saying she was too dark; not attractive. Despite being an executive for a fortune 500 company, very attractive.classy Black men kept telling her all white men are out to use you and so won't Black men because your dark skin!

MACEO harassed her for almost 2 years. She was trying to get some answer on black relationships and why Black men treat Black women so horrible. He kept calling her "She boon, White man's slut etc". She said "Black men are too nasty, Ill never find anybody decent!

She was shocked when I told her Maceo was married to a fuggly WW and show the link! She say expressed what he said to her calling her monikers like "monkey Bytch, She boon and a WM slut", I said because he's immature and unhappy with his life!

She met a White man on Match.com who was 10 years older, White man and remained positive and ignored Black man's rants. After a trip to New Zealand celebrating 1 year of dating/ he purposed and gave her a 3 caret diamond!

She currently encourages all Black women to date/marry out and find the est man for them. She talks about what MaCEO did with "No bitterness" but says its self destructive to young Black women.

Always a Class Act, she never said anything Evil against MACEO! I told her his white wife divorced him hes bitter and alone.

She's a Class Act

http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0

We just encourage each other to date/marry out!

There running from men who are Ghetto Thuggish, disrespectful like many black men act who are bitter!

http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0

Many of the bheaviors are uncalled for especially since Black men do nothing for the race; I' decided to leave and not date/marry any Black men myself the abuse is too much!

http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0

Many Black men are driving away atractive, educated black women. many are no longer willing to lower their standards for Black men. They feel the'll get abused and some Low status White woman will benefit for what they put in Black men.

If you don't believe me read the blogs! Everybody is sayiing to stop investing in Black males who do nothing for Black women or their children.

That's being foolish, self destructive and leading towards your rapid extinction!

I don't hate black men; but I HATE YOUR BEHAVIORS! I'm not going to tolerate them in my personal life which is why I stay away from you! You hate me because I'm a Black woman!
Style

London, UK

#44 Mar 3, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>maceo
True story:
i've had GF who dated White men and one was engaged to a Well off Attorney, he was using her,got engaged to two women, moved on with the White woman and married her.
Later she met the Attorny's 1st wife who had 2 kids by him and they become friends, he did the same behaviors to his wife which is why they divorced. After being married for 2-3 the Attorney did the same behaviors to his 2nd wife.
In the meantime, my GF was struggled. Black men were treating her bad saying she was too dark; not attractive. Despite being an executive for a fortune 500 company, very attractive.classy Black men kept telling her all white men are out to use you and so won't Black men because your dark skin!
MACEO harassed her for almost 2 years. She was trying to get some answer on black relationships and why Black men treat Black women so horrible. He kept calling her "She boon, White man's slut etc". She said "Black men are too nasty, Ill never find anybody decent!
She was shocked when I told her Maceo was married to a fuggly WW and show the link! She say expressed what he said to her calling her monikers like "monkey Bytch, She boon and a WM slut", I said because he's immature and unhappy with his life!
She met a White man on Match.com who was 10 years older, White man and remained positive and ignored Black man's rants. After a trip to New Zealand celebrating 1 year of dating/ he purposed and gave her a 3 caret diamond!
She currently encourages all Black women to date/marry out and find the est man for them. She talks about what MaCEO did with "No bitterness" but says its self destructive to young Black women.
Always a Class Act, she never said anything Evil against MACEO! I told her his white wife divorced him hes bitter and alone.
She's a Class Act
http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0
We just encourage each other to date/marry out!
There running from men who are Ghetto Thuggish, disrespectful like many black men act who are bitter!
http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0
Many of the bheaviors are uncalled for especially since Black men do nothing for the race; I' decided to leave and not date/marry any Black men myself the abuse is too much!
http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0
Many Black men are driving away atractive, educated black women. many are no longer willing to lower their standards for Black men. They feel the'll get abused and some Low status White woman will benefit for what they put in Black men.
If you don't believe me read the blogs! Everybody is sayiing to stop investing in Black males who do nothing for Black women or their children.
That's being foolish, self destructive and leading towards your rapid extinction!
I don't hate black men; but I HATE YOUR BEHAVIORS! I'm not going to tolerate them in my personal life which is why I stay away from you! You hate me because I'm a Black woman!
MACEO YOUR A DEMENTED MONKEY LMAO! The other Sadbutrue from Chantilly, VA finished 'its' shift 3 hours ago. So which agent are you, and can I have the next turn?
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#46 Mar 3, 2013
Style wrote:
<quoted text>
MACEO YOUR A DEMENTED MONKEY LMAO! The other Sadbutrue from Chantilly, VA finished 'its' shift 3 hours ago. So which agent are you, and can I have the next turn?
MACEO

Grow the Hell up and Stop harass women! As I said prior you harassed 4 of my GF who are all Class Acts!

You married a WW and chased them for 35 years, Nobody is holding it against you that's your decision!

ITS OUR DECISION TO MOVE ON FROM BLACK MALES!

GOOD LUCK IN YOUR LIFE BUT YOU NEED TO GROW UP AND STOP HARASSING FOLKS YOUR ALMOST 60 YEARS OLD!

AgentSmith9

“The Sun was high...”

Level 5

Since: Jun 10

and so was I

#47 Mar 3, 2013
Carmel delight wrote:
And nobody is angry I highly doubt if normal people even make a big deal out of it!!!
Every body does. Just like you make it your point to date out, BM make it their point to not date bw that have dated out.

Everyone has their prejudices, you have yours, and the rest of the word has ours.

Once you date out, men of your race don't want you and completely lose interest.

AgentSmith9

“The Sun was high...”

Level 5

Since: Jun 10

and so was I

#48 Mar 3, 2013
JRoxi wrote:
MrAnderson9 is a fool, I bet he dated IR himself. American black women ur men are such hypocrites! I don't blame AAW for not being loyal to black men anymore. I mean seriously they do not want AAW to be happy, not at all. If anything AAW should run fast from black American men like Anderson. AAW don't even need AAM, they can get a intelligent handsome african or Caribbean black man.
African and Caribbean women can't even find handsome and intelligent african and caribbean men.

And how don't I want black women to be happy? I want you all to understand the consequences that come with your actions. I see a lot of you literally trying to force these women to make non black daughters, but non of you ever speak about the aftermath.

AgentSmith9

“The Sun was high...”

Level 5

Since: Jun 10

and so was I

#49 Mar 3, 2013
David B wrote:
I wouldn't mess with a bw who's already in a relationship with a bm either & I'm a bm by the way. I no longer seeking out bw for relationships & now seeking out ww,lw,& aw for relationships & that's a choice that I make for myself only.
I wouldn't either. I make it a point that any black woman that is in a relationship with a black man I won't help her cheat on her man.

AgentSmith9

“The Sun was high...”

Level 5

Since: Jun 10

and so was I

#50 Mar 3, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>
Really? I have Black men make passes all the time including on my job; I really haven't found one that I'm attracted too or insterest me. If a woman's attractive she's attractive; most men could care less if you've been with a White man or another race they just see an atractive woman!
Even when Black women have were married and have biracial baby; most Black women will still make passes there is "No stigma" because the White man normally dates/marries a classy Black woman not the scraps of black males.
Your insecure becuase you have to complete with White males for attracitve Black women, that's got to be hard; especially since most Black men have nothing to offer nor can them complete with White males on many levels!
What your saying is BS!
<quoted text>MACEO
Nobody cares how you feel; your almost 60 years old, broke, have bad health, Impotent and ran to adultery behind your White wife's back; I think that speaks of your "Character" as man.
I look at the fact that you didn't respect her, yourself, those WW you chased that you wanted to use as jump-off's for your own selfish lusts!
Who cares what you want? YOu LOST EVERYTHING your ALONE! All you do is whine on Topix forum boards and hate on Black women for not wanting you but you did same foolish behaviors and disrepected your White wife until she asked for a divorce!
If I were to judge between the white man I'm dating and a man like you; I would chose him based on his history! Your a selfish self centered man with low self esteem; nobody cares how your Ego is affected!
Your a man of Poor character, your a fool and a scoffer which women don't respect!
Its not a color thing ITS YOUR POOR CHARACTER!
If I answer this are you going to have a normal conversation, or will you start calling me maceo?

AgentSmith9

“The Sun was high...”

Level 5

Since: Jun 10

and so was I

#51 Mar 3, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
Some of those black women with white men cheat on them with black men. I saw this situation on cheaters. One lady I worked with, she had two mixed boys, alway flirted with me, shes still with the guy. Some have flirted with me with their eyes, while their boyfriend looked in insecurity, thinking he cant satisfy her like a black man can. A white woman told her son this, while he was dating a black girl as well, dont know why she said that.
They all do. I know of a few black men that just use them for sex, bust in their faces all kinds of nasty demeaning stuff. Nobody really respects those women or takes them seriously. The whites dudes knew the irbw were cheating too.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#52 Mar 3, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
<quoted text>
African and Caribbean women can't even find handsome and intelligent africa non of you ever speak about the aftermath.
MACEO

True story:

i've had GF who dated White men and one was engaged to a Well off Attorney, he was using her,got engaged to two women, moved on with the White woman and married her.

Later she met the Attorny's 1st wife who had 2 kids by him and they become friends, he did the same behaviors to his wife which is why they divorced. After being married for 2-3 the Attorney did the same behaviors to his 2nd wife.

In the meantime, my GF was struggled. Black men were treating her bad saying she was too dark; not attractive. Despite being an executive for a fortune 500 company, very attractive.classy Black men kept telling her all white men are out to use you and so won't Black men because your dark skin!

MACEO harassed her for almost 2 years. She was trying to get some answer on black relationships and why Black men treat Black women so horrible. He kept calling her "She boon, White man's slut etc". She said "Black men are too nasty, Ill never find anybody decent!

She was shocked when I told her Maceo was married to a fuggly WW and show the link! She say expressed what he said to her calling her monikers like "monkey Bytch, She boon and a WM slut", I said because he's immature and unhappy with his life!

She met a White man on Match.com who was 10 years older, White man and remained positive and ignored Black man's rants. After a trip to New Zealand celebrating 1 year of dating/ he purposed and gave her a 3 caret diamond!

She currently encourages all Black women to date/marry out and find the est man for them. She talks about what MaCEO did with "No bitterness" but says its self destructive to young Black women.

Always a Class Act, she never said anything Evil against MACEO! I told her his white wife divorced him hes bitter and alone.

She's a Class Act

http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0

We just encourage each other to date/marry out!

There running from men who are Ghetto Thuggish, disrespectful like many black men act who are bitter!

http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0

Many of the bheaviors are uncalled for especially since Black men do nothing for the race; I' decided to leave and not date/marry any Black men myself the abuse is too much!

http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0

Many Black men are driving away atractive, educated black women. many are no longer willing to lower their standards for Black men. They feel the'll get abused and some Low status White woman will benefit for what they put in Black men.

If you don't believe me read the blogs! Everybody is sayiing to stop investing in Black males who do nothing for Black women or their children.

That's being foolish, self destructive and leading towards your rapid extinction!

I don't hate black men; but I HATE YOUR BEHAVIORS! I'm not going to tolerate them in my personal life which is why I stay away from you! You hate me because I'm a Black woman!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#53 Mar 3, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
<quoted text>
If I answer this are you going to have a normal conversation, or will you start calling me maceo?
MACEO

MACEO IS A FOOL AND A SCOFFER! YOUR DICTION AND ALL OF THESE PROFILES ARE YOURS MACEO!

In most case only 2 jpeople are different the rest are your profiles!

AgentSmith9

“The Sun was high...”

Level 5

Since: Jun 10

and so was I

#54 Mar 3, 2013
TheKing wrote:
<quoted text>
Men find out, these kind of things come out. It many instances conviction in the woman's heart forces her to tell the man because she knows that he hasn't fully accepted her until she tells him who she fully is.
and it always ends the same way.. The man kicks the woman to the curb.
I seen a lot of irbw get their hearts broken trying to come back to bm and keep this a secret then reveal it to him.
He will find out, and it doesn't matter how deep into the relationship you are, he will cut all ties with you.
We always find out.

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