auman

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#23 Oct 26, 2013
Are we talking about hair?

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#24 Oct 26, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Don't quit your day job cause honey you are the LEAST bit of funny. As a matter a fact you look better and sound even better with your mouth closed and that opinion of yours will do you some good one day when your dead!
In other words just STFU!
Ditto!
You sound a little butthurt to me.

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The Original Intention

#25 Oct 26, 2013
GothicRose wrote:
This is something that has long been regarded as "for the white folks", but in recent times, there has been an influx of people of colour participating in these activities.
So are there any kink friendly people around? If so, what has your experience been in the kink community?
I agree with the poster that stated that it's mainly just disgusting mascline oversexed IRBW's.

Are you an irbw?

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#27 Oct 26, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
<quoted text>
I agree with the poster that stated that it's mainly just disgusting mascline oversexed IRBW's.
Are you an irbw?
yes. But the black men i've been with have been kinky too. So. That's a moot point.

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Orlando, FL

#28 Oct 26, 2013
GothicRose wrote:
This is something that has long been regarded as "for the white folks", but in recent times, there has been an influx of people of colour participating in these activities.
So are there any kink friendly people around? If so, what has your experience been in the kink community?
I believe 'kink' derives from Sadism at least this is what the behavior seems to be. I still believe there are MORE whites into kink but of course MORE & MORE Blacks will start adopting similar behavior patterns as whites due too integration. Honestly I don't understand why someone would wanna make such a pleasurable experience painful. Kinda defeat the purpose if you ask me.

“100%”

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Orlando, FL

#29 Oct 26, 2013
Than again these are the same PPL who get off jumpin' outta airplanes, off mountains, cliffs & interacting wild animals. Must be the chemicals released from experiencing pain & danger they LOVE.

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#31 Oct 26, 2013
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
I believe 'kink' derives from Sadism at least this is what the behavior seems to be. I still believe there are MORE whites into kink but of course MORE & MORE Blacks will start adopting similar behavior patterns as whites due too integration. Honestly I don't understand why someone would wanna make such a pleasurable experience painful. Kinda defeat the purpose if you ask me.
it's not all about pain. There is plenty more.

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#32 Oct 26, 2013
GothicRose wrote:
<quoted text> it's not all about pain. There is plenty more.
From my understanding 'Kink' involves Pain or Humiliation. If neither is involved, I wouldn't consider it Kink.

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#33 Oct 26, 2013
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
From my understanding 'Kink' involves Pain or Humiliation. If neither is involved, I wouldn't consider it Kink.
well kink can involve roleplays. Domination/submission. Different things. Humiliation and sadomasochism are fetishes unto themselves.

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#34 Oct 26, 2013
But does being dominant/submissive make someone kinky?? Dominance is simply someone whom is MORE influential or make demands. Submissive is someone who allows themselves to be influenced or allow someone to make demands. Kink derives from Sadism which can include dominance/submission.

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#35 Oct 26, 2013
Redefined wrote:
But does being dominant/submissive make someone kinky?? Dominance is simply someone whom is MORE influential or make demands. Submissive is someone who allows themselves to be influenced or allow someone to make demands. Kink derives from Sadism which can include dominance/submission.
i asked if u want it..and u never answered me bitch!!

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Orlando, FL

#36 Oct 26, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>i asked if u want it..and u never answered me bitch!!
Are you durnk or high??

WTF....

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#37 Oct 26, 2013
Drunk*

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#38 Oct 26, 2013
Redefined wrote:
But does being dominant/submissive make someone kinky?? Dominance is simply someone whom is MORE influential or make demands. Submissive is someone who allows themselves to be influenced or allow someone to make demands. Kink derives from Sadism which can include dominance/submission.
In the sense of the BDSM world, yes. It's considered a kink.

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#39 Oct 26, 2013
GothicRose wrote:
<quoted text> In the sense of the BDSM world, yes. It's considered a kink.
and sadism is enjoying pain of others. I'm actually experienced in the kink fetish world and not everyone is a sadist or a masochist.

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#40 Oct 26, 2013
GothicRose wrote:
<quoted text> In the sense of the BDSM world, yes. It's considered a kink.
If that's the case, spanking ur child is kinky as well.

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#41 Oct 26, 2013
GothicRose wrote:
<quoted text> and sadism is enjoying pain of others. I'm actually experienced in the kink fetish world and not everyone is a sadist or a masochist.
I'm NOT saying everyone who has done kink are sadists, I said the behavior is sadist behavior. What makes you a sadist is if this is something you enjoy naturally as oppose to doing so because you want to be open to new things.

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#42 Oct 26, 2013
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
If that's the case, spanking ur child is kinky as well.
Only if you have sexual feelings for your child. Which would be sick. Who thinks of children in a conversation about sexuality?

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#43 Oct 26, 2013
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm NOT saying everyone who has done kink are sadists, I said the behavior is sadist behavior. What makes you a sadist is if this is something you enjoy naturally as oppose to doing so because you want to be open to new things.
and again it isn't all sadistic. You seem stuck on that fact, which is wrong. Bondage isn't sadistic. Do you even know what BDSM means? Without google?

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#44 Oct 26, 2013
GothicRose wrote:
<quoted text>Only if you have sexual feelings for your child. Which would be sick. Who thinks of children in a conversation about sexuality?
Well you stated Domination/submission is kinky because it's associated with BDSM. Your idea of kinky is something that is associated with BDSM.

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