Black Girl at my Job I wanna ask Out

Black Girl at my Job I wanna ask Out

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Chase91

Columbus, OH

#1 Jul 13, 2014
There is this pretty Black Girl at my job I would like to ask out but I don't know if she date outsider her race. She is nice and we have nice conversations but I ask one of my co-workers(He Black) what he thinks and he said Black Girls don't date outside their race and to leave it along which I did for a few weeks but lately she had been creeping back into my head because she has been looking good at work.

How should I approach her, should I be funny, should I just be straight forward or just ask her if she want to hang out after work?

Since: Dec 13

Pacoima, CA

#2 Jul 13, 2014
Chase91 wrote:
There is this pretty Black Girl at my job I would like to ask out but I don't know if she date outsider her race. She is nice and we have nice conversations but I ask one of my co-workers(He Black) what he thinks and he said Black Girls don't date outside their race and to leave it along which I did for a few weeks but lately she had been creeping back into my head because she has been looking good at work.
How should I approach her, should I be funny, should I just be straight forward or just ask her if she want to hang out after work?
Don't listen to that dude bro. My wife is Black. Go talk to her.
Hillary

Hempstead, TX

#3 Jul 13, 2014
Chase91 wrote:
There is this pretty Black Girl at my job I would like to ask out but I don't know if she date outsider her race. She is nice and we have nice conversations but I ask one of my co-workers(He Black) what he thinks and he
said Black Girls don't date outside their race and to leave it along which I did for a
few weeks but lately she had been creeping back into my head because she has been looking good at work.
How should I approach her, should I be funny, should I just be straight forward or just ask her if she want to hang out after work?
What difference does it make? As long as you're not a black man, she will say yes.
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#4 Jul 13, 2014
Just be yourself. First give her a compliment to let her know you think she is attractive. Next just start small conversations with her and flirt. After like a few days of flirting ask her if she has a boyfriend..if she says no hen ask for her number:) good luck
Cha

United States

#5 Jul 13, 2014
Chase91 wrote:
There is this pretty Black Girl at my job I would like to ask out but I don't know if she date outsider her race. She is nice and we have nice conversations but I ask one of my co-workers(He Black) what he thinks and he said Black Girls don't date outside their race and to leave it along which I did for a few weeks but lately she had been creeping back into my head because she has been looking good at work.
How should I approach her, should I be funny, should I just be straight forward or just ask her if she want to hang out after work?
Ruuuuunnn-NAH!!'black females!' Ruuunnnnnn-NAH!!
Run Like 'Forest Gump!' Ruuuunnnnn-NAH!!!! Pretty soon their'll be asking for the 'cookies!'. RUN!

* Case in point: Run, w/o looking back. Oh just RUN!!
Cha

United States

#6 Jul 13, 2014
No just kidding. All jokes aside; just be on the real with it. I hate it when an individual of another race group is interested and/or seeing a black person- feels that they have to act in some way like what 'media' pertrays blackpeople to be.

Freaking azzssss-SAH!! MuthaFUG'in turn off to the MAXMA!
Desevering of a BEAT-DOWN-nah!

“IM Loving in”

Level 8

Since: Mar 11

Loveland Ohio

#7 Jul 13, 2014
Cha wrote:
<quoted text>
Ruuuuunnn-NAH!!'black females!' Ruuunnnnnn-NAH!!
Run Like 'Forest Gump!' Ruuuunnnnn-NAH!!!! Pretty soon their'll be asking for the 'cookies!'. RUN!
* Case in point: Run, w/o looking back. Oh just RUN!!
he wants some sweet brown sugar so why should he run?
Cha

United States

#8 Jul 13, 2014
Then again, we got some loose 'TROLLS'(on patrol) up in here.
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#9 Jul 13, 2014
Btw white guys who tact ghetto or urban are not attractive.
RealTalk

Philadelphia, PA

#10 Jul 13, 2014
Chase91 wrote:
There is this pretty Black Girl at my job I would like to ask out but I don't know if she date outsider her race. She is nice and we have nice conversations but I ask one of my co-workers(He Black) what he thinks and he said Black Girls don't date outside their race and to leave it along which I did for a few weeks but lately she had been creeping back into my head because she has been looking good at work.
How should I approach her, should I be funny, should I just be straight forward or just ask her if she want to hang out after work?
Just be yourself. Be CONFIDENT. Maybe she dates outside her race....maybe she duznt. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If she rejects u just cuz u not black, its HER LOSS.
Cha

United States

#11 Jul 13, 2014
iamcuriousnow wrote:
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he wants some sweet brown sugar so why should he run?
'Knuckle head' in the joke I wasn't telling HIM to run- I was telling the 'blackfemales' to do that./Q###r**xx"+#x;*!!!
1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10!!...take a deep breath....Arrraaaa-AH!!
Moving along./smh

“Sleep is My Sanctuary”

Since: Mar 14

Location hidden

#12 Jul 13, 2014
Chase91 wrote:
There is this pretty Black Girl at my job I would like to ask out but I don't know if she date outsider her race. She is nice and we have nice conversations but I ask one of my co-workers(He Black) what he thinks and he said Black Girls don't date outside their race and to leave it along which I did for a few weeks but lately she had been creeping back into my head because she has been looking good at work.
How should I approach her, should I be funny, should I just be straight forward or just ask her if she want to hang out after work?
Ask her out the same way you'd ask any girl out. We don't require special care. My bf tricked me on going on lunch dates with him when we worked together (the other people he asked magically didn't show up) so that's basically how we got to know each other.
Travellor

Toronto, Canada

#13 Jul 13, 2014
Just do it. She will either say yes or no but even if she says no don't let that discourage you from trying to talk to other black girls. For every girl that says no regardless of their colour you'll just get closer to the one that says yes and she'll be right for you.

Don't listen to black guys like this.
I overheard a white guy talking to a black guy about me like he's interested and the black guy down played me to him. They don't like seeing black girls with white guys so they try to discourage both groups.
You see it here online, you see black guys tell black girls white guys don't like you(obviously not true) or you're not desirable w.e. And then when a white guy comes to them like you and says you're interested they will downplay the girl or say something like what that guy told you.

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