White Americans seeking approval/respect is the root of their anger

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“the king of his environment”

Level 3

Since: Oct 07

Silver Spring, MD

#1 Dec 30, 2012
I haven't been on this forum in a while because it's not a productive use of time or energy. I am surprised that so many of you guys are still here arguing about stupid stuff. I have learned that it's better not to dwell on race as not to attract race-obsessed people into my life. I have had 95% positive experiences with "white" people that I encounter in life because I treat them as individuals who don't owe me anything. I have come to realize that that's all most of them really want. They don't want to be blamed for slavery and oppression, even if they knowingly benefit from it or participate in it. I assume they are innocent until I learn otherwise. I have heartfelt discussions on neutral subjects that I know they like such as history, technical stuff, nature, arts and culture, sports and trivia. I am self-employed in the service industry, and white Americans by far are the most generous tippers and easiest to get along with.

Like everyone else, they just want to bee seen as individuals with out making assumptions about them. I wish other black Americans would learn this trick because it makes your life much easier. Don't feel entitled or ask stupid questions. Be sincere and not hostile. Remember that Europeans were the dark-sheep of the human race because of how they looked and their strange habits aeons ago. They were mistreated, enslaved and banished by the darker people. They were able to take the little they had in resources, mix it with some innovation, business acumen and guts and conquer the world. They also did this by being sneaky and ruthless, but they were good students of the darker side of human nature.

Let's give our white brethren credit for stuff. That's all they really want.

1. Good at business
2. Good manners
3. Generous
4. Not stuck on stupid
5. Good scientists/technicians
6. Hardworking
7. Fair. Gives you a choice in your own destiny
8. Good students of history
9. Hardworking
10. Gutsy/adventurous
11. Appreciative of arts/culture/contributions of other races

“the king of his environment”

Level 3

Since: Oct 07

Silver Spring, MD

#2 Dec 30, 2012
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