Black Women: Do you avoid black men in public?

Created by Travellor on Jul 9, 2014

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ash

United States

#1 Jul 9, 2014
Duhh..unless he is elderly and I smile politely
black woman here

Romania

#2 Jul 9, 2014
yes
Travellor

Toronto, Canada

#3 Jul 9, 2014
Every time a black man comes around me I feel like he is going to start some shit and he usually ends up doing just that.
Cigar Face21

Tampa, FL

#4 Jul 10, 2014
black woman here wrote:
yes
I feel the same way about the sistahs who's walking gawking dressed like hos and got a masculine swagg.I will avoid these creatures at all cost. You crakkka boys can have our unwanted trash! Come and get them please!!
X-TREME BIAS

Anonymous Proxy

#5 Jul 10, 2014
Your black women already lay in our beds on club nights so stop the hate spook.
Igbo girl

Richmond, CA

#6 Jul 10, 2014
I get scared to walk around them.. If I see a group of Blackman walking the same direction as me I simply cross the street...they seem disrespectful and dangerous.. Coming from a black girl.. When Some come up to me I don't give them my number .. I was harassed by a group of Blackman when I was catching the bus home from my night class..one of them was trying to get my number I told him I have a man.. It didn't matter.. He tried to follow me home by catching the same bus As me.. I jumped off and caught the next one. He did the same and got on the next bus I was on.. I jumped off again a went into the next restaurant that was opened and called my cousin to pick me up..group of Blackman scare me!!!
Igbo girl

Richmond, CA

#7 Jul 10, 2014
If you don't want to give them your number they want to cuss you out call you names!! One Blackman was released out of prison one day..I was walking home he looked at me and said I'm pretty for a dark girl and said my breast was nice and big...told me he will pay me to have sex with him...I'm like wtf randomly ask me some disrespectful question!!! I told him I don't believe in that..it's a sin in the eyes of god!!! He didn't care all he cared about was his filthy dyck!!! I had to lie to this fool so he can go away ..I told him to get a condom from a store and I'll be waiting for him when he comes back..my ass ran home fast !! Some black man are hella rude and disrespectful no joke .. I'm not lying either this is the truth!!! Call me whatever if your a Blackman reading this !! It's the honest truth!!!!!!
Uppercut

Fairfield, CA

#8 Jul 10, 2014
In Africa black women don't wear clothes.
Ugh

Houston, TX

#9 Jul 10, 2014
Igbo girl, you brought that on yourself. You overkilled it by giving him the hint you wasn't interested. You didn't have to over-dramatize it. Just being a little nice, pleasant and smile while still being firm that you wasn't interested in him, would have garnered you some respect and the dude most likely would have backed off in admiration of your character.

But nooooo. You had to act like a stuck-up b***ch. Make sure he felt it that you despised him, even hate him and that make a "Black Man" feel insulted enough that he could snap and want to do you harm.

This is what happened with that Elliot Roger, White dude. He felt that same disrespect by White girls. Now, I'm not saying you are responsible for making people around feel better, no. Mam must learn to control themselves but given the type of world we live in, it is actually smart and intelligence (for Woman, really) to show Man their nature as a woman but being polite, smile, acknowledge him and still be firm without hurting his pride.

My Latina gal gets all sort of attention from Black Men, and she feels uncomfortable when men gawking at her like a piece of meat and seem like they can't even look her in the eyes when she catch them staring at either her butt, titts or pu**y.

But she has a good street-smart personality and knows how to deal with unwanted attention. Yeah, it's effort she has to burn on her part but she come out of it being safe and those dudes respect her and admire her character. Now, of course when I'm with her, no dude ever approach her like that but when she out and handle business in the world, she get a lot of attention that she don't want for she knows she's pretty attractive with well-defined curves and figure.

So, just be a little nicer is all I'm saying.

By the way, I get attention like that too, from annoying Black American Women and I don't even mess with Black American Women nor talk with them much but they hit up one and I learn from my gal how to handle it. Just smile, be nice and stay firm that you are not interested and keep moving along.

Since: Jul 14

San Francisco, CA

#12 Jul 10, 2014
Ugh wrote:
Igbo girl, you brought that on yourself. You overkilled it by giving him the hint you wasn't interested. You didn't have to over-dramatize it. Just being a little nice, pleasant and smile while still being firm that you wasn't interested in him, would have garnered you some respect and the dude most likely would have backed off in admiration of your character.
But nooooo. You had to act like a stuck-up b***ch. Make sure he felt it that you despised him, even hate him and that make a "Black Man" feel insulted enough that he could snap and want to do you harm.
This is what happened with that Elliot Roger, White dude. He felt that same disrespect by White girls. Now, I'm not saying you are responsible for making people around feel better, no. Mam must learn to control themselves but given the type of world we live in, it is actually smart and intelligence (for Woman, really) to show Man their nature as a woman but being polite, smile, acknowledge him and still be firm without hurting his pride.
My Latina gal gets all sort of attention from Black Men, and she feels uncomfortable when men gawking at her like a piece of meat and seem like they can't even look her in the eyes when she catch them staring at either her butt, titts or pu**y.
But she has a good street-smart personality and knows how to deal with unwanted attention. Yeah, it's effort she has to burn on her part but she come out of it being safe and those dudes respect her and admire her character. Now, of course when I'm with her, no dude ever approach her like that but when she out and handle business in the world, she get a lot of attention that she don't want for she knows she's pretty attractive with well-defined curves and figure.
So, just be a little nicer is all I'm saying.
By the way, I get attention like that too, from annoying Black American Women and I don't even mess with Black American Women nor talk with them much but they hit up one and I learn from my gal how to handle it. Just smile, be nice and stay firm that you are not interested and keep moving along.
wtf are you talking about ???? I was fully dresses and if a woman say she is not interested a man should get the hint!!! I wasn't mad or rude I just said politely i am sorry I have a man... His sorry ass wanted to take it to the next level ...how ignorant and desperate can these men get!! I'm a attractive black woman and men find me sexy... I can dress dusty and still get a mans attention !!! I even had a stalker at school once He was so creepy and weird .. The crazy ass was highly upset because I did not want to get up in the middle of a lecture to sit next to him... So he took it to the next on out 10 minute break grabbed my arm tight and started yelling at me..people looking at his crazy ass like wtf is wrong with him.. Luckily my sister was there .. She grabbed something and beat the shit out of him...don't tell me I'm being rude and not fully dress...i wasn't brought up like that to dress like a damn whore!!!

Since: Jul 14

San Francisco, CA

#13 Jul 10, 2014
Ugh wrote:
Igbo girl, you brought that on yourself. You overkilled it by giving him the hint you wasn't interested. You didn't have to over-dramatize it. Just being a little nice, pleasant and smile while still being firm that you wasn't interested in him, would have garnered you some respect and the dude most likely would have backed off in admiration of your character.
But nooooo. You had to act like a stuck-up b***ch. Make sure he felt it that you despised him, even hate him and that make a "Black Man" feel insulted enough that he could snap and want to do you harm.
This is what happened with that Elliot Roger, White dude. He felt that same disrespect by White girls. Now, I'm not saying you are responsible for making people around feel better, no. Mam must learn to control themselves but given the type of world we live in, it is actually smart and intelligence (for Woman, really) to show Man their nature as a woman but being polite, smile, acknowledge him and still be firm without hurting his pride.
My Latina gal gets all sort of attention from Black Men, and she feels uncomfortable when men gawking at her like a piece of meat and seem like they can't even look her in the eyes when she catch them staring at either her butt, titts or pu**y.
But she has a good street-smart personality and knows how to deal with unwanted attention. Yeah, it's effort she has to burn on her part but she come out of it being safe and those dudes respect her and admire her character. Now, of course when I'm with her, no dude ever approach her like that but when she out and handle business in the world, she get a lot of attention that she don't want for she knows she's pretty attractive with well-defined curves and figure.
So, just be a little nicer is all I'm saying.
By the way, I get attention like that too, from annoying Black American Women and I don't even mess with Black American Women nor talk with them much but they hit up one and I learn from my gal how to handle it. Just smile, be nice and stay firm that you are not interested and keep moving along.
Wtf I don't care about your Latina girl or white girl ....they would have been in the same situation as me..them men was already disrespectful ..I had a lot of polite BM come up to me well mannered and I felt comfortable .. Like some of these women are saying on here ..some of you BM just don't know how to talk to women!!!! You guys just don't I'm sorry !!!
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Since: Mar 13

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#14 Jul 10, 2014
Igbo girl wrote:
<quoted text> wtf are you talking about ???? I was fully dresses and if a woman say she is not interested a man should get the hint!!! I wasn't mad or rude I just said politely i am sorry I have a man... His sorry ass wanted to take it to the next level ...how ignorant and desperate can these men get!! I'm a attractive black woman and men find me sexy... I can dress dusty and still get a mans attention !!! I even had a stalker at school once He was so creepy and weird .. The crazy ass was highly upset because I did not want to get up in the middle of a lecture to sit next to him... So he took it to the next on out 10 minute break grabbed my arm tight and started yelling at me..people looking at his crazy ass like wtf is wrong with him.. Luckily my sister was there .. She grabbed something and beat the shit out of him...don't tell me I'm being rude and not fully dress...i wasn't brought up like that to dress like a damn whore!!!
If you are not interested you have every right to react any way you feel comfortable! Men can be really stupid and not get hints, in fact don't even mess around with hints, just look at them dead in their eyes and give them a firm no!

Since: Jul 14

San Francisco, CA

#15 Jul 10, 2014
Ugh wrote:
Igbo girl, you brought that on yourself. You overkilled it by giving him the hint you wasn't interested. You didn't have to over-dramatize it. Just being a little nice, pleasant and smile while still being firm that you wasn't interested in him, would have garnered you some respect and the dude most likely would have backed off in admiration of your character.
But nooooo. You had to act like a stuck-up b***ch. Make sure he felt it that you despised him, even hate him and that make a "Black Man" feel insulted enough that he could snap and want to do you harm.
This is what happened with that Elliot Roger, White dude. He felt that same disrespect by White girls. Now, I'm not saying you are responsible for making people around feel better, no. Mam must learn to control themselves but given the type of world we live in, it is actually smart and intelligence (for Woman, really) to show Man their nature as a woman but being polite, smile, acknowledge him and still be firm without hurting his pride.
My Latina gal gets all sort of attention from Black Men, and she feels uncomfortable when men gawking at her like a piece of meat and seem like they can't even look her in the eyes when she catch them staring at either her butt, titts or pu**y.
But she has a good street-smart personality and knows how to deal with unwanted attention. Yeah, it's effort she has to burn on her part but she come out of it being safe and those dudes respect her and admire her character. Now, of course when I'm with her, no dude ever approach her like that but when she out and handle business in the world, she get a lot of attention that she don't want for she knows she's pretty attractive with well-defined curves and figure.
So, just be a little nicer is all I'm saying.
By the way, I get attention like that too, from annoying Black American Women and I don't even mess with Black American Women nor talk with them much but they hit up one and I learn from my gal how to handle it. Just smile, be nice and stay firm that you are not interested and keep moving along.
and for your information I'm not a American black girl I'm nigerian so get your facts straight !!! I know my culture and where my family came from!! Ugh you men are ignorant ... So glad my my man isn't like the typical black guy..yes he is a black man that still loves black woman..he is very rare we'll mannered Blackman ..
Ugh

United States

#16 Jul 10, 2014
Igbo girl wrote:
<quoted text> wtf are you talking about ???? I was fully dresses and if a woman say she is not interested a man should get the hint!!! I wasn't mad or rude I just said politely i am sorry I have a man... His sorry ass wanted to take it to the next level ...how ignorant and desperate can these men get!! I'm a attractive black woman and men find me sexy... I can dress dusty and still get a mans attention !!! I even had a stalker at school once He was so creepy and weird .. The crazy ass was highly upset because I did not want to get up in the middle of a lecture to sit next to him... So he took it to the next on out 10 minute break grabbed my arm tight and started yelling at me..people looking at his crazy ass like wtf is wrong with him.. Luckily my sister was there .. She grabbed something and beat the shit out of him...don't tell me I'm being rude and not fully dress...i wasn't brought up like that to dress like a damn whore!!!
I call bulls**t on this. You from an Igbo clan. African women from there are ugly as hell. And I bet you got a big 'ole nose, big bulbous lips and probably blacker than your Hero, Chaka Zulu!

I'm sorry...excuse.my American manners. Just from your anger and attitude, I can tell you walk around like you some "hot mess." That's usually the first sign a Black gal got a damm attitude and think she's too good for a Black Man to talk to her.

Most of you African Women are some of the worst traitor trash sellouts to be Black. I bet you still take dirt-naps in the sun, huh?

Anyway, I think African Women like you is what temp our American sisters mate these White Devils. And the fact you can waltz your illegal-alien, African a** in our country and blend in as a Black American Woman and then chase after White devils is the s*** why Africans, Man or Woman, should NOT come to America and ride our success, you ungrateful Black African Rat!

Take your nappy-head, mud-hut back to Africa and respect your tribal men, traitor.

Since: Jul 14

San Francisco, CA

#17 Jul 10, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text> If you are not interested you have every right to react any way you feel comfortable! Men can be really stupid and not get hints, in fact don't even mess around with hints, just look at them dead in their eyes and give them a firm no!
I did just that !!! But he came up to me like I was being conceited and I was not!! These men in the Bay Area are crazy!!! Look at the crime rates in California !! The BM out here aren't shyt!! They are dangerous .. After that incident I had to drive to class I never caught the bus again..
Cha

South Ozone Park, NY

#18 Jul 10, 2014
X-TREME BIAS wrote:
Your black women already lay in our beds on club nights so stop the hate spook.
Yeah. Perhapes the low self esteem STUPID blackfemale however TRUST,...those of us who know thy self, respect thy self, and thy worth, IT AIN'T GOING DOWN LIKE THAT.(TRUST)
Cha

United States

#19 Jul 10, 2014
In reference to *POST title:

I avoid ALL nutts- reguardless, of color.
Ugh

Houston, TX

#20 Jul 10, 2014
Igbo girl wrote:
<quoted text> I did just that !!! But he came up to me like I was being conceited and I was not!! These men in the Bay Area are crazy!!! Look at the crime rates in California !! The BM out here aren't shyt!! They are dangerous .. After that incident I had to drive to class I never caught the bus again..
Ahh, California! Well, no wooonnndddddeeerrrr!

Y'all Black folks out there are played out! You want to see some decent Black Men, you gotta come to Texas, Nigerian gal. Just be warned though, we don't take no crap from the Black woman. Already, we are heavily into Latinas and White women out here.

We love the Black sisters too, but we know we got options and don't have to put-up with no drama b.s. and Black California gal's are trash, man. Sell-outs. Big time.

Just saying.....
Cha

United States

#21 Jul 10, 2014
Cigar Face21 wrote:
<quoted text>I feel the same way about the sistahs who's walking gawking dressed like hos and got a masculine swagg.I will avoid these creatures at all cost. You crakkka boys can have our unwanted trash! Come and get them please!!
I feel yuh, kind of like black males who walk around exposed of boxers and azzzss cracks- on account of TO MUCH 'pants droppings'.
White chicks and 'fruit-loots' from out of other racial groups- with 'jungle fever' illness- do relieve us BLACKWOMEN from such 'filth'.

Since: Jul 14

San Francisco, CA

#22 Jul 10, 2014
Ugh wrote:
<quoted text>
Ahh, California! Well, no wooonnndddddeeerrrr!
Y'all Black folks out there are played out! You want to see some decent Black Men, you gotta come to Texas, Nigerian gal. Just be warned though, we don't take no crap from the Black woman. Already, we are heavily into Latinas and White women out here.
We love the Black sisters too, but we know we got options and don't have to put-up with no drama b.s. and Black California gal's are trash, man. Sell-outs. Big time.
Just saying.....
I don't mess with northern men.. I been knew that My fiancÚ is southern.. He is a well mannered BM my family loves him I'm know longer in California ..I never messed with them clowns can't stand them..

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