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Hyper socialness of black Americans leading to less time to self reflect?

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#1 Sep 6, 2013
Are a lot of AA hyper social because they are co dependent on one another?
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#2 Sep 7, 2013
socialness is a racial trait of all kneegros, not just AAs.........

thats y niccuz can talk BS to wiminz all day long - their intellect is on a lower level.........
reminiscent

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#3 Sep 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
Are a lot of AA hyper social because they are co dependent on one another?
People generally of this world are afraid to go against the grain for their own benefit because a lot of people are scared to be alone. Hence the hyper socialism.

Looking within is very hard to do if you spend most of your life trying to look the picture of happiness externally because you feel their is so much wrong with you inside. It takes a strong person to break the chain.

A lot of people are afraid to be seen. Its a deep topic.
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#4 Sep 7, 2013
"Hyper socialness"....lol. Sounds like prison life. That's probably why.

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#5 Sep 7, 2013
reminiscent wrote:
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People generally of this world are afraid to go against the grain for their own benefit because a lot of people are scared to be alone. Hence the hyper socialism.
Looking within is very hard to do if you spend most of your life trying to look the picture of happiness externally because you feel their is so much wrong with you inside. It takes a strong person to break the chain.
A lot of people are afraid to be seen. Its a deep topic.
Thanks for your thoughts. I don't think most outsiders imagine the typical AA to be the picture of happiness externally...

I notice that its cultural where you're either gut us or against us...in that since I socialize at work and school I am asked repeatedly to hang out socially. Many pressure and use guilt tactics to get me to come out. It's strange to me.

What should be done, if at all?

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"Hyper socialness"....lol. Sounds like prison life. That's probably why.
How is it like prison life?
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#7 Sep 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Thanks for your thoughts. I don't think most outsiders imagine the typical AA to be the picture of happiness externally...
I notice that its cultural where you're either gut us or against us...in that since I socialize at work and school I am asked repeatedly to hang out socially. Many pressure and use guilt tactics to get me to come out. It's strange to me.
What should be done, if at all?
well its highly unusual that u don't want to hang out with your fellow kneegros.........

.....u prefer to hang out with YT, and your fellow blax call u an oreo cookie and coconut?.........

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#8 Sep 7, 2013
Masud_S_Hoghughi__ wrote:
<quoted text>well its highly unusual that u don't want to hang out with your fellow kneegros.........
.....u prefer to hang out with YT, and your fellow blax call u an oreo cookie and coconut?.........
What's unusual? Seriously, I'd like to know why it is to you?

I prefer time alone...or with particular individuals...not just run of the mill gatherings.
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#9 Sep 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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What's unusual? Seriously, I'd like to know why it is to you?
I prefer time alone...or with particular individuals...not just run of the mill gatherings.
well - kneegros r known to still b 'tribal' by nature.....they hang out in gangs and do things (usually crimes) with other blax....

whereas YTs have lost this tribal mentality and have a more individual mindset.......
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#10 Sep 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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How is it like prison life?
I dunno, never been there. I said it SOUNDS like it.

"Hyper socialness", sounds like what it "must be like" living in prison.

There, is that better?

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#11 Sep 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
Are a lot of AA hyper social because they are co dependent on one another?
kind of agree...
reminiscent

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#12 Sep 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Thanks for your thoughts. I don't think most outsiders imagine the typical AA to be the picture of happiness externally...
I notice that its cultural where you're either gut us or against us...in that since I socialize at work and school I am asked repeatedly to hang out socially. Many pressure and use guilt tactics to get me to come out. It's strange to me.
What should be done, if at all?
I don't understand why you think its an AA thing because its not, this is just people in general. Why do you think its a serious problem in the AA community?

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#13 Sep 7, 2013
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kind of agree...
If you only kinda agree, what are other possible reasons? Thanks.

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#14 Sep 7, 2013
Masud_S_Hoghughi__ wrote:
<quoted text>well - kneegros r known to still b 'tribal' by nature.....they hang out in gangs and do things (usually crimes) with other blax....
whereas YTs have lost this tribal mentality and have a more individual mindset.......
Ok but you can't possibly believe everyone is the same or that's make you stupid, right?

Are you referring to women too? I'm also discussing educated and or professional BP - so I'm surprised by my experiences. Especially for those who have treated me poorly while socializing at work or school yet think I should want to hang out with them socially.

I don't understand this. Please explain the rationale someone.

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#15 Sep 7, 2013
Masud_S_Hoghughi__ wrote:
socialness is a racial trait of all kneegros, not just AAs.........
thats y niccuz can talk BS to wiminz all day long - their intellect is on a lower level.........
What is your proof they its racial and not cultural to AA?

Your point that they talk to women - explain please.

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#16 Sep 7, 2013
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<quoted text>I dunno, never been there. I said it SOUNDS like it.
"Hyper socialness", sounds like what it "must be like" living in prison.
There, is that better?
I figured prison was more hostile and isolating. Not just solitaire confinement, no?

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#17 Sep 7, 2013
reminiscent wrote:
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I don't understand why you think its an AA thing because its not, this is just people in general. Why do you think its a serious problem in the AA community?
The pressuring and guilting of someone you dont know well is abnormal. I haven't heard others or had this experience with others. Also the strong emotions towards polite refusal to casual gatherings - not normal.

Mentioning cultural norms doesn't always have to pose a threat,
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#18 Sep 7, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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What is your proof they its racial and not cultural to AA?
Your point that they talk to women - explain please.
on the following link you'll find racial traits listed for blax, whites and asians.......note that blax have higher sociability........

http://scienceblogs.com/gregladen/2009/12/29/...
Masud_S_Hoghughi __

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#19 Sep 7, 2013
with respect to talkin to wiminz - non-blak males pretend to b interested in wot they're saying in order to sex with them........actually they find talkin to wiminz boring.........

.....but blak males r intellectually inferior, and so can naturally talk BS to wiminz all day long......

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#21 Sep 7, 2013
Masud_S_Hoghughi__ wrote:
with respect to talkin to wiminz - non-blak males pretend to b interested in wot they're saying in order to sex with them........actually they find talkin to wiminz boring.........
.....but blak males r intellectually inferior, and so can naturally talk BS to wiminz all day long......
I think BM humor women too. Why do you assume they aren't doing what non BM are toward women?

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