BM: Ignore The Marriage Propoganda!
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Since: Feb 11

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#23 Sep 1, 2014
The biggest negative change that I've seen in the black community over the course of my lifetime is simply a lack of shame in younger people.

Sleeping around = shameful
Having kids out of wedlock = shameful
Spending time in jail = shameful
Being on government assistance = shameful
Cheating = shameful

There was a time in this country when all folks, particularly black folks genuinely felt shame when they behaved immoral. Sadly, we now live in a very sick and sociopathic nation.

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#24 Sep 1, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
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We get that! What if you don't won't to get married, what do you tell these women who are in such a rush to get married?
Make it clear that you just want a fk buddy.
CSandra

San Jose, CA

#25 Sep 1, 2014
Fat Abbott wrote:
I've been married to the same sista for over 20 years now and it's all good still. We got our own kids together with no bastards or step-kids running around.
I am happy for you but 20 years ago Black Love still existed. Not anymore in this day and age. Black Women have been replaced within the Black Community and we have moved on to better things.
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#26 Sep 1, 2014
Fat Abbott wrote:
I've been married to the same sista for over 20 years now and it's all good still. We got our own kids together with no bastards or step-kids running around.
That's great! I'll be manned if I'll ever be a stepfather!
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#27 Sep 1, 2014
I meant, I'll be damned if I'll be a stepfather!
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#28 Sep 1, 2014
Jubilant Sleep wrote:
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Make it clear that you just want a fk buddy.
Women don't want to hear that!

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#29 Sep 2, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
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Women don't want to hear that!
Date college girls. They understand.
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#30 Sep 2, 2014
Jubilant Sleep wrote:
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Date college girls. They understand.
Great point! Lol

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#31 Sep 2, 2014
Black Men don't marry Black Women that's a quick way to disaster.
Virtually Unknown

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#32 Sep 2, 2014
Tim from Evanston wrote:
Black Men don't marry Black Women that's a quick way to disaster.
Instead, you could hook up with an easy lay like this -
https://media.licdn.com/mpr/mpr/shrink_120_12...

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#33 Sep 2, 2014
Tim from Evanston wrote:
Black Men don't marry Black Women that's a quick way to disaster.
Not my disaster, i can surive on my own without a wife or kids. Please explain your argument, because it is not making any sense

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#34 Sep 3, 2014
Fat Abbott wrote:
The biggest negative change that I've seen in the black community over the course of my lifetime is simply a lack of shame in younger people.
Sleeping around = shameful
Having kids out of wedlock = shameful
Spending time in jail = shameful
Being on government assistance = shameful
Cheating = shameful
There was a time in this country when all folks, particularly black folks genuinely felt shame when they behaved immoral. Sadly, we now live in a very sick and sociopathic nation.
There is very little social and economic backlash for shameful behavior..
What possible solutions would you be in favor of?
I believe some leaders such as Cornel West advocate that divorces should be harder to obtain and reform welfare benefits in favor of two-parent homes...maybe perhaps there would be some limitations and time frames for government assistance? Then there is the path of restoring the spiritual and religious influences in the community...

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