Level 3

Since: May 12

Wilmington, DE

#1453 Sep 15, 2013
what wrote:
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I think some of these who say that they are not attracted to light skin men are lying. I think some of these women are attracted to light skin men, but they won't admit it.
Definitely true.

Level 3

Since: May 12

Wilmington, DE

#1454 Sep 15, 2013
Well In my experience there are women who are attracted to light skin men or a light skin mixed guy, but to be perfectly honest MOST of them tend to be the lesser physically desireable black women. Most of the hotter black women do like darker men unfortunately. With that being said I can not sit up here and lie by saying I never get any options it's just that darker men seem to have more better options in my opinion if that makes any sense whatsoever.

Level 3

Since: May 12

Wilmington, DE

#1455 Sep 15, 2013
what wrote:
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I noticed this as well, especially the 1980s references. I went to a forum to obtain more information on this dark skin light skin preferences among women. I've heard women say that a lot of black women prefer dark skin men because of the 1980s. I'm told that, in the 1980s, light skin men were the preference. So, women wanted to go against the light skin preference of the 1980s by making dark skin men their preference in the 1990s. Although, in total honesty, different skin tones always dated,and/or married, and/or had children with each other in the black community.
Although, a lot of the younger women don't reference Al B, or Chico Debarge. A lot of younger women now reference Chris Brown or J. Cole.
You are one smart woman. Definitely on point and have some good intellect to you.

Level 1

Since: Jun 13

Oakland

#1456 Sep 15, 2013
Why would you care about what most women want or like? you only going to be with one woman at a time lmao
what

San Diego, CA

#1457 Sep 16, 2013
cjmack510 wrote:
Why would you care about what most women want or like? you only going to be with one woman at a time lmao
This is true.
what

San Diego, CA

#1458 Sep 16, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
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You are one smart woman. Definitely on point and have some good intellect to you.
Firstly, I am not a woman. I just state my observations.
Onholyservicebou nd

Candiac, Canada

#1459 Sep 18, 2013
There's a really obvious answer to that, skin color is a sexually dimorphic trait, men simply have darker skin than women in every ethnicity. Pale skin is also associated with bad health.

Level 3

Since: May 12

Forest Hill, MD

#1460 Sep 19, 2013
Onholyservicebound wrote:
There's a really obvious answer to that, skin color is a sexually dimorphic trait, men simply have darker skin than women in every ethnicity. Pale skin is also associated with bad health.
I sure hope you are not a doctor or are in the health field with that idiotic ridiculous statement.
ckid

Delhi, NY

#1461 Sep 25, 2013
lml these arguments r ridiculous im Puerto Rican n black my fathers black n my mom is obviously Spanish but im light skinned and i tell u now skin completion never stopes me from getting black white spanish or any woman that was attracted to me everyone has there preferences but as a man if ur confident intelligent strong and.independent skin tone doesn't have anything to do with the woman u attract its facts

Level 2

Since: Sep 13

Stockton, CA

#1462 Sep 25, 2013
I disagree with you. Some women prefer fair skinned men who are pale over dark skinned men. My preference is fair skinned men over dark skinned men.

Level 2

Since: Sep 13

Stockton, CA

#1463 Sep 25, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
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Definitely true.
I agree with you.
Rhonda L Coleman

Saint Louis, MO

#1464 Oct 10, 2013
I Love Dark Skin Men, But I'm Also For Any Man That Is Going To Treat Me Right&#9825;

“Yes WE Can! Yes we Will!”

Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#1466 Oct 10, 2013
How about another thread: "Why do CONSCIOUS SISTERS prefer CONSCIOUS BLACK MEN, and vice versa?"
Guest

Alpharetta, GA

#1467 Oct 27, 2013
Light skinned guys aren't that tough nor protective enough, usually Whites and mestizos. Dark skinned guys are in between being effeminate, especially among Black guys, and tough. Medium skinned guys, now these guys are very feisty, tough, and protective, especially Latinos and even Asians, since they are martial artists. Girls like them better.
Crimsonblack

Kampala, Uganda

#1468 Nov 21, 2013
The driving force behind such petty arguments is infatuation...duh! Everyone has the onus to choose who they want, ASAT.
Crimsonblack

Kampala, Uganda

#1469 Nov 22, 2013
I am a dark skinned fine Ugandan man, and, as far as I know, there are no limits to who you can love; As long as they are compatible and trustworthy. On with this bullshit, I love all shades, whether white, black, hispanic,asian etcetra I sure do know how to treat my ladies right. Though am really perplexed about some latin women's attitude towards dark skin guys.
sasha

Hamilton, New Zealand

#1472 Jan 5, 2014
Well this is stupid all men are equal some women will have a preference for dark skin guys and some light skin but what about most that are in the middle? lol y'all are trippin dark skin guys are just portrayed in the media to be the most desirable but there's always more to it than psychical attraction..S/O to black men of all shades!
tga

Barnesville, OH

#1473 Jan 5, 2014
Women 'in general' DON'T.....

White men are the most desired men in the WORLD.

..... just so ya know.
iano

Nairobi, Kenya

#1474 Jan 16, 2014
dark skinned men are just hot! ghai!!

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#1475 Jan 18, 2014
lubs me some DARK MEAT the BLACKER the BETTER! i prefer charcoal men.

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