Why do women in general prefer Dark S...

“The Love Below”

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#1078 Feb 21, 2013
It seems like black american women prefer darker skin black men, not all, but it seems that way. My light skin sister has never dated a light skin guy. Light skin guys are stereotyped to be pretty boys, or conceited, and dark skin men are suppose to be more cool and masculine. I think in our culture, some groom light skin men to fit this stereotype, or treat them different, so they turn out like this.

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#1079 Feb 21, 2013
Frank wrote:
<quoted text>Well, you're as lovely as the sunshine!
No doubt about that!
:^)
Lmao thanx love. Have a good day!!!!
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#1080 Feb 21, 2013
Buckeyegirl88 wrote:
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Lmao thanx love. Have a good day!!!!
You too, babe!

Thanks and take care.

:^)

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#1081 Feb 21, 2013
How about y'all exchange contact info and take the small talk off here.

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#1082 Feb 21, 2013
We can have all the small talk we want. You can scroll pass it. Simple!

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#1083 Feb 21, 2013
Frank wrote:
<quoted text>You too, babe!
Thanks and take care.
:^)
You're welcome. Thank you!

“I love being a Black Man”

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#1084 Feb 21, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
Damn dark skinned dudes I tell you. Y'all are suppose to be the cream of the crop, but can't afford to feed y'all kids, and couldn't even feed your women bologna sandwiches.
I'm starting to notice more sensitive light skin dudes popping up on the internet.

I personally have never seen light skin men having issues getting women. If you are struggling. That means your game is weak and not that Black women prefer dark men.

“ News”

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#1085 Feb 21, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
It seems like black american women prefer darker skin black men, not all, but it seems that way. My light skin sister has never dated a light skin guy. Light skin guys are stereotyped to be pretty boys, or conceited, and dark skin men are suppose to be more cool and masculine. I think in our culture, some groom light skin men to fit this stereotype, or treat them different, so they turn out like this.
You have to distinguish between lightskinned and lightskinned-good looking. Not everybody who is lightskinned is good looking. But you do have that few who think they are hot, even when they are so lightskinned that they would look better white. Some very, very lightskinned women are even more proned to think that way. But everybody should be proud of their looks regardless. But they shouldn't feel they are privileged.

I think anybody who has looked good all their lives, and carried it into adulthood, risk the chance of becoming a little conceited, or being labeled conceited, regardless of skin tone. I'm not trying to stir lightskinned against darkskninned, but to be honest, I hear this about darker skinned brothers the most, although I'm sure there are lightskinned brothers who fit this category too. If anything, I see a lot of lightskinned good looking brothers playing down their looks a little sometimes, because they know they will be hit with that stereotype, most of the time the stereotyping hits them while they are only young children.

As far as black women dating darkskinned men, you may see that a lot, but I don't hear any women walking around saying they prefer dark skin men. When I took a look at the whole picture, I realized that there aren't that many lightskinned men compared to darkskinned men, which may have a lot with them being considered more exotic in the first place...and not as much because of their so-called European features. This goes for thew women too.

What I don't like about some of these southern darkskinned women is that, although they'll date a lightskinned man, they sometimes try to make him feel like he's contaminated...and that's messed up. I know a lot of West Africans like to do that, but it's even more wrong when we do it. I recall one incident down here in Georgia, I was sitting beside this darkskinned sister on the bus. It was a long ride, so we talked a while. Anyway she asked me what was I mixed with. Then somehow we got on the topic of my allergies, my low tolerance for cold air, and my acid re-flux. She had the nerve to tell me it was because I had so much admixture. I didn't really know how to take that, but now, I know that wasn't the right thing to say to anybody.

Me personally, when I take a real heavy look at any African American, darkskinned or lightskinned, I see a little admixture in the majority of us.

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Bel Air, MD

#1086 Feb 21, 2013
Buckeyegirl88 wrote:
We can have all the small talk we want. You can scroll pass it. Simple!
Shut up with ur ugly behind. Nobody's gonna pmp ur head up or worship u over this way.

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#1087 Feb 21, 2013
Lol you mad??? You think igaf if somebody on the internet thinks I'm attractive or not? Punk azz bytch. Go take your sensitive sissy azz on some where fyck boy.

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#1088 Feb 21, 2013
Buckeyegirl88 wrote:
Lol you mad??? You think igaf if somebody on the internet thinks I'm attractive or not? Punk azz bytch. Go take your sensitive sissy azz on some where fyck boy.
A bum hoodrat like urself has no place on this thread. Got on a raggedy wife beater with sagging titties from breastfeeding all 10 of your kids.

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#1089 Feb 21, 2013
You ole' jelly roll belly heffa...Play with me if ya want.

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#1090 Feb 21, 2013
Awe on your period??? Go take some midol. We clearly know who's the bytch in all your relationships. Emotional azz. Getting butt hurt over words. And fyi I don't have any kids. Get your shyt straight lady boy.

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#1091 Feb 21, 2013
And I can post where I please. Lol get the fyck out of here. Good fella my ass. Maybe a good butch. Arguing with a female. You must love drama huh?

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#1092 Feb 21, 2013
Mad cause nobody is showing ur light bright azz any attention. Go cry your weak effeminate azz to sleep.

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#1093 Feb 21, 2013
Buckeyegirl88 wrote:
Mad cause nobody is showing ur light bright azz any attention. Go cry your weak effeminate azz to sleep.
I bet I look better than any dude u ever dated and make a better living so eat your words fat girl.

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Bel Air, MD

#1094 Feb 21, 2013
Buckeyegirl88 wrote:
Mad cause nobody is showing ur light bright azz any attention. Go cry your weak effeminate azz to sleep.
You're up here getting flattered by dudes with no pic or avatar so that validates ur attention level in the real world ya think?

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#1095 Feb 21, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
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I bet I look better than any dude u ever dated and make a better living so eat your words fat girl.
Lol the fyck u do. What u do for a living? Suck dyck and take it up the azz???

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#1096 Feb 21, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
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You're up here getting flattered by dudes with no pic or avatar so that validates ur attention level in the real world ya think?
Who said I was getting pumped up? It's not even about looks. I have talked to most of these other men on other threads.

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Bel Air, MD

#1097 Feb 21, 2013
Oh Buckeyed/Bucktooth ratchet girl just quit when ya can.

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