Why do women in general prefer Dark Skin Black men Over Light Skin Black men??

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Bulge Jet

Luton, UK

#1 Jan 23, 2012
I am a light skin male, and i did a survey to a whole bunch of different women to see if they preferred Light Skin or Dark skin men and to my suprise, the majority said Dark skin, and when I asked them why, some of them said its because "they have bigger d!cks (which is not true because I have a big one too) and they seem more masculine", where on the other hand lightskin men seem to be the complete opposite. Is that what you women really think of lightskin men? If so, you really need to come out of your closet. I blame the media, esppicially female celebrities that like to boast about dark skin men being the best which is false. Both men are best, all this self hate in the black community is ridiculous. Cant we all just get along despite the shades of our skin color
Johnaya

Lafayette, LA

#2 Jan 23, 2012
Lol not true at all...
Cooldude17

United States

#3 Jan 23, 2012
Man lightskins I know 80 percent have gfs. Medium brown males are never included? And we are majority.

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#4 Jan 23, 2012
Dude, of course dark skinned men are better. There should be no doubt about that. But I think most women don't really figure that out until they get to be late teens early 20's. The young teen girls like light-skinned boys cause they think they're less threatening.

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#5 Jan 23, 2012
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
Dude, of course dark skinned men are better. There should be no doubt about that. But I think most women don't really figure that out until they get to be late teens early 20's. The young teen girls like light-skinned boys cause they think they're less threatening.
Thats a bold statement my man....

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#6 Jan 23, 2012
i think of Mandingo when i think of dark skin men.... i accidentally googled him; haven't been the same since lol...

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#7 Jan 23, 2012
Not all!! I prefer dark skinned black men , I love dark skinned men, and I like all shades of black men!!! But no matter what shade a black man is from light to medium brown to dark skinned is still attractive to black women like me who loves black men! & they're plenty of black women who are attractive or not attractive to lightskin or medium brown to dark skinned! It's just preference! I would put it like this if you're black or mixed as long as you're black which I prefer, it really shouldn't matter!! Give a shout out to black women and black men for being boring from every ahade of color as black people! Because we are all mixed with different shades! Ain't nothing wrong with being light skinned , medium brown skinned or dark skinned which I think it's sexy and beautiful like the rest!! Don't be shallow embrace being black and proud and I wouldn't change my black brown beautiful shade of color for no one or even for a non black or white race!! Black men are forever sexy and fine and the most to me attractive*
Cooldude17

United States

#8 Jan 23, 2012
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
Dude, of course dark skinned men are better. There should be no doubt about that. But I think most women don't really figure that out until they get to be late teens early 20's. The young teen girls like light-skinned boys cause they think they're less threatening.
Arrogant chump every1 cant be dark you probly are though. I think that no one is better we are all black.

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United States

#9 Jan 23, 2012
Light skin men are sexy. the women in my family loves them.i dont get why theres so much topics on this.anyway i couldn't tell you about all the bw in the world.but i love you guys.probably cause ive always looked up to my dad.and he happens to have light skin and eyes.i herd about people perfering similar features on there mate that there parents had.idk but i like love yall.especially the ones with light pretty eyes.mmmmm...

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#10 Jan 23, 2012
MsSyree wrote:
Not all!! I prefer dark skinned black men , I love dark skinned men, and I like all shades of black men!!! But no matter what shade a black man is from light to medium brown to dark skinned is still attractive to black women like me who loves black men! & they're plenty of black women who are attractive or not attractive to lightskin or medium brown to dark skinned! It's just preference! I would put it like this if you're black or mixed as long as you're black which I prefer, it really shouldn't matter!! Give a shout out to black women and black men for being boring from every ahade of color as black people! Because we are all mixed with different shades! Ain't nothing wrong with being light skinned , medium brown skinned or dark skinned which I think it's sexy and beautiful like the rest!! Don't be shallow embrace being black and proud and I wouldn't change my black brown beautiful shade of color for no one or even for a non black or white race!! Black men are forever sexy and fine and the most to me attractive*
i need more than just physical attraction....
Cooldude17

United States

#11 Jan 23, 2012
RoLuke wrote:
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i need more than just physical attraction....
Me too. Its all mental to me I love the way ppl think thats what hooks me.

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#12 Jan 23, 2012
RoLuke wrote:
i think of Mandingo when i think of dark skin men.... i accidentally googled him; haven't been the same since lol...
ewwww.when i goggled that i almost died.it was so gross.i haven't been the same since then either.

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#13 Jan 23, 2012
Cooldude17 wrote:
<quoted text> Me too. Its all mental to me I love the way ppl think thats what hooks me.
=) same here

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#14 Jan 23, 2012
Jamaicangirl559 wrote:
<quoted text>ewwww.when i goggled that i almost died.it was so gross.i haven't been the same since then either.
but that thing is huge lol...

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#15 Jan 23, 2012
RoLuke wrote:
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i need more than just physical attraction....
course people like us going to need more then physical attraction without that, I can't see myself being with someone just because he is my preference, he going need more then that, brains and far as it comes to sex which is a part of human nature, it's not just one of the reasons it keeps people together! Unless they're some sex addicts or whatever! But with me black men who I do prefer a black man has to be strong and has a defiant masculine not self centered or arrogant, but a man with true need and importance in life that he needs a woman to be there for him and all the things that really truly matter when it comes to loving if both people are attracted to one another and both are on the same page!! It wouldn't work out if both are not physically and emotionally their with eachother!! But I can't denied my love for loving black men regardless how sought out what is best fitted in a relationship with a black woman like me , I am going need more stamina and endurance in my life with a man in my metaphor who can read and understand my mind it's just not about fuŠ king anybody can fuŠ K!! But can they mind fuŠ K not just the body as well!! The real deal is catch my drift and stop with the bullshid!!!!

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#16 Jan 23, 2012
MsSyree wrote:
<quoted text> course people like us going to need more then physical attraction without that, I can't see myself being with someone just because he is my preference, he going need more then that, brains and far as it comes to sex which is a part of human nature, it's not just one of the reasons it keeps people together! Unless they're some sex addicts or whatever! But with me black men who I do prefer a black man has to be strong and has a defiant masculine not self centered or arrogant, but a man with true need and importance in life that he needs a woman to be there for him and all the things that really truly matter when it comes to loving if both people are attracted to one another and both are on the same page!! It wouldn't work out if both are not physically and emotionally their with eachother!! But I can't denied my love for loving black men regardless how sought out what is best fitted in a relationship with a black woman like me , I am going need more stamina and endurance in my life with a man in my metaphor who can read and understand my mind it's just not about fuŠ king anybody can fuŠ K!! But can they mind fuŠ K not just the body as well!! The real deal is catch my drift and stop with the bullshid!!!!
yep! would it matter if he was blue collar? ive been thinking about that; i dont think i can marry a man who makes less than 200k...
Cooldude17

United States

#17 Jan 23, 2012
RoLuke wrote:
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yep! would it matter if he was blue collar? ive been thinking about that; i dont think i can marry a man who makes less than 200k...
I aint saying she a golddigger but she aint messing with no broke broke.....

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#18 Jan 23, 2012
Not true there are millions of black women that prefer light skin men,

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#19 Jan 23, 2012
Cooldude17 wrote:
<quoted text>I aint saying she a golddigger but she aint messing with no broke broke.....
lol... my dad just set the bar high...

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#20 Jan 23, 2012
RoLuke wrote:
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yep! would it matter if he was blue collar? ive been thinking about that; i dont think i can marry a man who makes less than 200k...
ouch! Lol! I would just say if women want and need men to make more to secure what you want outta life no matter what then that is something you want and need but the man has to suit you and be on your level theirs alot of them the kinda men you're talking about!! But with me if my man is making more or is making whatever that is enough for me and him and our family that should be enough for me to also feel that he is a man who is a person individual every day who should be more about physicality and emotionally attachment you could feel for one another then just about what he got money ect.. That should be something along with atleast the kinda men you would want and can give you what you need!!! Nobody don't want to deal really with anyone who don't have the means to necessary keep things attached!! And me I would rather at least have a man who is doing something and taking care of business, me and him back to back if that kinda men ends up or me having more it really shouldn't matter but course it's what women want a man with money!! But I wouldn't want nobody to take advantage or control me with money! I rather have a man who would take care be responsible as a man and not bullshid and not use money as a way of attraction!! & if that is enough to satisfied your need to keep you or maybe having some future with children to keep you secure and stable for you and yours , But if that man will do for you , it should not be too much to ask for if you and him are both attractive to one another and on the same level!! Any man would do their best to give their woman anything , or even the world if they could!!

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