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Black Men, Why Do You Prefer Non-Black Women/Light-Skinned Women

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Nicole Little

Kulpsville, PA

#1 Aug 25, 2007
The reason why I asked this question is because I notice a lot of black men saying that they prefer a light-skinned black woman/white women/Asian women/Latina women/Indian women more than an average dark brown-skinned black woman like myself. Why is that? The reason why is because I'm single now and when I see this, it damages my self-esteem. It's like I'm not good enough unless I look white. I can have a pretty face, a nice body, and long hair (weave or no weave) but because I'm dark, I will get passed by, and that hurt. My nubian brothers, why do ya'll prefer women that look like me? Please be truthful.
Nicole Little

Kulpsville, PA

#2 Aug 25, 2007
What I meant was why do ya'll black men prefer women that don't look like me?
Robbie J

Minneapolis, MN

#4 Aug 25, 2007
Geez! Its like, sometimes when I read some of these threads.... its like Rod Serling is sitting at a computer somewhere.
Robbie J

Minneapolis, MN

#6 Aug 25, 2007
Nicole, you should be flagging yourself right now. A troll^^^^could not have said a more derogatory statement about you.
Nicole Little

Kulpsville, PA

#11 Aug 25, 2007
Angel wrote:
Nicole, why do you care what black men want? It’s best for you to reproduce with a white or nonblack man so you won’t give birth to bitter dark skinned children such as yourself.
Because I want a black man.

Since: Aug 07

Seattle, WA

#12 Aug 25, 2007
Nicole Little wrote:
The reason why I asked this question is because I notice a lot of black men saying that they prefer a light-skinned black woman/white women/Asian women/Latina women/Indian women more than an average dark brown-skinned black woman like myself. Why is that? The reason why is because I'm single now and when I see this, it damages my self-esteem. It's like I'm not good enough unless I look white. I can have a pretty face, a nice body, and long hair (weave or no weave) but because I'm dark, I will get passed by, and that hurt. My nubian brothers, why do ya'll prefer women that look like me? Please be truthful.
have you been to seattle? I think you will like it here.
maybe philadephia is not the right place. Some guys will be all over ya if you dark as hell.

one of my best friend shes dark as hell, but shes hella thick too. Well I've kinda of been after her for years been dating a different guy like every other few months. its just that everytime shes single I'm not around. but I guess shes not willing to date me cause I'm asian.
man I bet you that its harder for an asian guy to get a date than a dark black girl. geeze, we're unliked by asian girls (cause they seem to be swaping to white boys) well that dont really make it harsh for me cause I dont like them asian girls.

but at least being a girl a dude has to come up to talk to ya, which I bet is more of a problem than you think, most dudes aren't willing to talk to a girl unless he has full confidence.

while being asian, and a guy like me, you'd have to face tons of rejection and girls wont come up to you, you have to come to them

and wtf is up with all those dark skined 400 pound girls who tries to talk to me?
Robbie J

Minneapolis, MN

#13 Aug 25, 2007
Nicole Little wrote:
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Because I want a black man.
Love the black woman first, Nicole.
cheeky

UK

#15 Aug 25, 2007
Nicole Little wrote:
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Because I want a black man.
you not really a black woman, are you??
Nicole Little

Kulpsville, PA

#16 Aug 25, 2007
Angel wrote:
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Awww. Poor baby! Just take those skin whitening pills that I recommended and you should have a black man in no time.
I can get a black man with OR without take whitening pills.
Nicole Little

Kulpsville, PA

#17 Aug 25, 2007
cheeky wrote:
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you not really a black woman, are you??
Yes I am. I don't lie about my ethnicity, and I'm proud of being a black woman!!!!!
Nicole Little

Kulpsville, PA

#19 Aug 25, 2007
monkeysellin wrote:
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have you been to seattle? I think you will like it here.
maybe philadephia is not the right place. Some guys will be all over ya if you dark as hell.
one of my best friend shes dark as hell, but shes hella thick too. Well I've kinda of been after her for years been dating a different guy like every other few months. its just that everytime shes single I'm not around. but I guess shes not willing to date me cause I'm asian.
man I bet you that its harder for an asian guy to get a date than a dark black girl. geeze, we're unliked by asian girls (cause they seem to be swaping to white boys) well that dont really make it harsh for me cause I dont like them asian girls.
but at least being a girl a dude has to come up to talk to ya, which I bet is more of a problem than you think, most dudes aren't willing to talk to a girl unless he has full confidence.
while being asian, and a guy like me, you'd have to face tons of rejection and girls wont come up to you, you have to come to them
and wtf is up with all those dark skined 400 pound girls who tries to talk to me?
LMAO!!!! Are you serious. That's probably the reason why brothers don't go for dark-skinned chicks. Most of them are fat and their face is probably not as attractive. I believe that if a dark skinned woman has a pretty face with long enough hair and a slim body, she will attract any man including the black man.

Since: Aug 07

Seattle, WA

#22 Aug 25, 2007
Nicole Little wrote:
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LMAO!!!! Are you serious. That's probably the reason why brothers don't go for dark-skinned chicks. Most of them are fat and their face is probably not as attractive. I believe that if a dark skinned woman has a pretty face with long enough hair and a slim body, she will attract any man including the black man.
you should try seattle out for a month or so.
lol its just the fat chicks that are memorable, but yeah dark skined girls looks goood. I almost got fired today at work. fineass dark girl walked by and brushed against me, she was like, "that better be an eggroll in your pants"

lol I work at the deli in a grocery story so it was a funny joke.
but she gave me a beautiful smile, but my manager wasn't too happy about me walking around with a sideways mountain.
but come to seattle, I promise you'll like it here.
Ashawntay Deore

AOL

#24 Aug 25, 2007
Angel wrote:
OMG Nicole! I can’t believe you actually made this thread! LOL!! Perhaps you should just go to bed and get some rest. Maybe you’ll feel better in the morning.
As much as I don't fancy you Angel I would have to agree.
Ashawntay Deore

AOL

#25 Aug 25, 2007
Nicole I agree with " can’t believe you actually made this thread!" I don't know about the whole bedtime thing, but after all that fonting in the other thread this is what it comes donw to?
Nicole Little

Kulpsville, PA

#26 Aug 25, 2007
You know what? I might as well let this thread die.
the truth is out there

UK

#27 Aug 25, 2007
i like beautiful (imo) women. so i can't really answer that question as skin colour has nothing to do with beauty.

but i also like personality...
and in my experience light skinned mixed race women usually try to lean towards one side; black or white instead of being their mixed selves.
which is a turnoff
Ashawntay Deore

AOL

#28 Aug 25, 2007
Nicole Little wrote:
You know what? I might as well let this thread die.
It's too damn late for that Nicole. You knew in the first place you was better than that.

Since: Aug 07

Pearl River, NY

#30 Aug 26, 2007
Nicole Little wrote:
The reason why I asked this question is because I notice a lot of black men saying that they prefer a light-skinned black woman/white women/Asian women/Latina women/Indian women more than an average dark brown-skinned black woman like myself. Why is that? The reason why is because I'm single now and when I see this, it damages my self-esteem. It's like I'm not good enough unless I look white. I can have a pretty face, a nice body, and long hair (weave or no weave) but because I'm dark, I will get passed by, and that hurt. My nubian brothers, why do ya'll prefer women that look like me? Please be truthful.
dark skin women have always been beautiful. i think the whole "passed over" thing is deeper than appearance. either way, take a look at how many men actually check you out then you will see that it was all in your mind.
BlackAmericanPri ncess

Dayton, OH

#31 Aug 26, 2007
Nicole why did you start this thread? You started another thread about IR relationships a few months ago. This is quite ridicolous. The people in this forum are trying hard to clean this forum up, and yet people like you are still posting this crap about IR relationships. If you want to find out why black men want nonblack women then go to the other 50 IR threads. At this point you won't get any NEW answers. I've already told you that there are black men who want dark women. You didn't listen. You are bent on being a victim and to be honest it's sickening. You need to go see a counselor--and I say this with love. It seems like you have a low of self esteem issues and that your insecure. You don't NEED a man right now. That's the LAST thing you need. You are too vulnerable and you are esteem is way too low. Before ANY man can love you, you MUST love yourself.
Why would ANY man want to respect a woman who barely loves who she is?
Please listen to what others are saying. You are probably a beautiful dark woman but you NEED help.

Since: Aug 07

Seattle, WA

#32 Aug 27, 2007
like I said before, I know tons of super dark skined men who love dark skined women.

you dont know dark til you meet them, I mean they make my wallet look white.

anyways if you ever come to seattle, come to the central district or better yet the south end.

I'll show you a few good men. you'll have a good experience here

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