Real Men Don't Go To Strip Clubs/Look...
rue

Omaha, NE

#143 Jan 15, 2008
itsthelaw wrote:
You're at the strip club aren't you? <quoted text>
I'd go to the strip club with u.
nunyaifuplease

West Lafayette, IN

#144 Jan 16, 2008
Domineace2sexy wrote:
<quoted text>LMAO sorry about that, my apologies, I know it was much to keep up with but I have to get a clever view on this. That situation was sticking, I wasn't a willing participant in getting some hands dirty. I gave you that picture to inquire from you. Say if you were my bestfriend and you undoubtedly trust your man (so she says), would you let your stripper/hooker friend who wasn't waging enough to fend for herself and daught, move in without giving it some thought ("SURE GIRL, COME ON IN")? I'm asking because you're not judgmental about what it is that they do BUT what if you had a friend who was in dying need of some assistance to get her life on the right track? Would you still feel the same about her capitalism an what about the fact that she need to set a positive example for her little one and most importantly, would you feel the same way about trusting your man if another women was in the house? I'm curious and being nosy lol, that's is because, you're character is superve and this thread is actually beneficial, I'm learnings a few new things from this expreience.
No WAY would I let my man around that woman 24/7! LOL- I can tolerate it on the beach, but that's it! Because you are right- there is the issue with her daughter seeing this, but how do we know that her daughter is being told what Mommy does at night? She can spend time during the day with her daughter; not put her in daycare (and she is very likely unmarried, so the girl needs to spend time with at least one parent, right?), if she is really smart (she seemed so), she would be saving her money so when the girl is a little older (and wiser), she won't have to do this any longer. She bent over in my man's FACE! Showed her vaginal lips and EVERYTHING! Wearing a thong! There were some girls who watched as she bent over. So I guess I was being made a fool, right? So on that level I didn't respect her because she disrespected me. But that's between her and God. I know who went home with me that day and what he's made out of. But you are correct: I would not have someone like that around us for more than a second, just because you cannot trust them.
nunyaifuplease

West Lafayette, IN

#145 Jan 16, 2008
njfashionista wrote:
My boyfriend (he came to his senses and we got back together if anyone was wondering..lol)goes to the strip club every Wednesday. It's a ritual him and his friend have been doing for years--before I came in the picture.
They NEVER miss a Wednesday. Only time was our first date, and another time I needed him to go somewhere with me. He says they get some beers and talk.
I have been to a strip club before to see what the hype is about. And once I went, my reaction was.."that's it?" It's so obvious these chicks just want their money..it's so non-personal.
I know how visual men are and they are going to look. As long as they aren't touching and they are honest with me..I'm ok with it.
Good post, btw Nunya :)
You know your guy, NJ, so I am not going to challenge you about him. BUT...

What about the lap dances? The men don't touch boobage, but don't they grind on the dancers? And what about those clubs which allow strippers to sell sex in back rooms (or they go out to the parking lot)? I bet it is widespread.

I know that there is a spectrum of male intent when attending "gentlemen's" clubs, but just the environment to me seems very unwholesome and very base. It doesn't uplift anything but a man's tallywacker.
Jack

United States

#146 Jan 16, 2008
I Love to see women who have sex with me later on.
nunyaifuplease

West Lafayette, IN

#147 Jan 16, 2008
Jack wrote:
I Love to see women who have sex with me later on.
And they love the $$$$$$$$$$

(so keep with the fantasy that "you're the man," LOL)
rue

Omaha, NE

#148 Jan 16, 2008
sthldn girl wrote:
i watch porn i love it,,mr marcus is like in my dreams lol,lol,lol,,i guess im a freak,lol
I'd get freaky right along with u
rue

Omaha, NE

#149 Jan 16, 2008
njfashionista wrote:
My boyfriend (he came to his senses and we got back together if anyone was wondering..lol)goes to the strip club every Wednesday. It's a ritual him and his friend have been doing for years--before I came in the picture.
They NEVER miss a Wednesday. Only time was our first date, and another time I needed him to go somewhere with me. He says they get some beers and talk.
I have been to a strip club before to see what the hype is about. And once I went, my reaction was.."that's it?" It's so obvious these chicks just want their money..it's so non-personal.
I know how visual men are and they are going to look. As long as they aren't touching and they are honest with me..I'm ok with it.
Good post, btw Nunya :)
I'd come to my senses 2 if i was about to lose u

Blackbwoy

Since: Nov 07

Roc.

#150 Jan 16, 2008
nunyaifuplease wrote:
<quoted text>
You know your guy, NJ, so I am not going to challenge you about him. BUT...
What about the lap dances? The men don't touch boobage, but don't they grind on the dancers? And what about those clubs which allow strippers to sell sex in back rooms (or they go out to the parking lot)? I bet it is widespread.
I know that there is a spectrum of male intent when attending "gentlemen's" clubs, but just the environment to me seems very unwholesome and very base. It doesn't uplift anything but a man's tallywacker.
i agree with you, but how come in past post it seem like you were disegreeing with me.
nunyaifuplease

Orland Park, IL

#151 Jan 16, 2008
Blackbwoy wrote:
<quoted text>
i agree with you, but how come in past post it seem like you were disegreeing with me.
Because weren't you the one to put down a woman who goes to the strip club with her man as a freak? I don't like that talk when it takes two to do all these things and the woman is labeled as something bad when it's a sexual issue and the man is held up as a stud. It's the old double standard and it sucks. 2008, people! Women can love sex and if it makes you feel insecure and inadequate, tough!

“BeoncahBlackhear t86”

Level 1

Since: Aug 07

Chicago, IL

#152 Jan 16, 2008
nunyaifuplease wrote:
<quoted text>
No WAY would I let my man around that woman 24/7! LOL- I can tolerate it on the beach, but that's it! Because you are right- there is the issue with her daughter seeing this, but how do we know that her daughter is being told what Mommy does at night? She can spend time during the day with her daughter; not put her in daycare (and she is very likely unmarried, so the girl needs to spend time with at least one parent, right?), if she is really smart (she seemed so), she would be saving her money so when the girl is a little older (and wiser), she won't have to do this any longer. She bent over in my man's FACE! Showed her vaginal lips and EVERYTHING! Wearing a thong! There were some girls who watched as she bent over. So I guess I was being made a fool, right? So on that level I didn't respect her because she disrespected me. But that's between her and God. I know who went home with me that day and what he's made out of. But you are correct: I would not have someone like that around us for more than a second, just because you cannot trust them.
I know those other females that were present on the beach that day was probably thinking, "Is she going to do something about that?" YES..."So on that level I didn't respect her because she disrespected me. But that's between her and God." Your demeanor (as far as I know) is one of the reasons why I do have a lot of respect for you and I feel that some of the time, people could misinterpret your post. I'm going to admit right now that I was one of those people in the past but at the same time, I've given you admiration. Not too many women would've acted in such a profound way. "No WAY would I let my man around that woman 24/7!" LMAO yeah but my BEST friend was the type who's ALWAYS doing for others that's struggling at a certain period of their lives. She really didn't have to open her home up but SHE DID and look where that got her. "But how do we know that her daughter is being told what Mommy does at night?" Good question, we don't really know but a child would know when their parent isn't present at a certain time and maybe if her mother continues her reckless lifestyle, she will begin to put upon the things that this woman does as she grow a little older. I've baby sitted for her on a few occasions, nobody else was willing to help her out and I didn't have any plans, so I'm thinking, WHY NOT? She openly expressed to me that she had a "session" with a guy who she did "business" with and I had one nothing to say about it. She's an adult that could make her own decisions, is what I thought even though I disagree with her means of making money. She puts her child off on her mother NOW and then, even in he mornings, just to go out and do whatever it is that she do and I just don't understand something. If you're not saving up to get your own place and not doing any shopping for you, most importantly, they BABY, WHO and where does the money go to? Complaints of being broke and "hittin' her baby daddy up for money only to be rejected" is all I hear on a regular, I even had to lend her moneys so she could provide much needed accessories for her daughter such as pampers, milk, bottles and etc. "And she is very likely unmarried, so the girl needs to spend time with at least one parent, right?" YES I agree but sadly enough, I don't think she see it that way.
imstillhere

Chicago, IL

#153 Jan 17, 2008
Domineace2sexy wrote:
<quoted text>I know those other females that were present on the beach that day was probably thinking, "Is she going to do something about that?" YES..."So on that level I didn't respect her because she disrespected me. But that's between her and God." Your demeanor (as far as I know) is one of the reasons why I do have a lot of respect for you and I feel that some of the time, people could misinterpret your post. I'm going to admit right now that I was one of those people in the past but at the same time, I've given you admiration. Not too many women would've acted in such a profound way. "No WAY would I let my man around that woman 24/7!" LMAO yeah but my BEST friend was the type who's ALWAYS doing for others that's struggling at a certain period of their lives. She really didn't have to open her home up but SHE DID and look where that got her. "But how do we know that her daughter is being told what Mommy does at night?" Good question, we don't .
First of all, thank you so much for the kind words! It was so nice to read that tonight, after being silenced under my old ID by someone on here. My posts today were erased until I changed my ID. It's sad that people do this to others because I am not a bad person at all, although I also apologized for being a little rambunctious on here recently. I am glad that a few can see who I really am. Yes, I am opinionated and that pisses off people. I know myself!

I was talking about the stripper in all those examples, like about her daughter probably not knowing what she does...I can't comment on your friend without knowing all the details, but I think it is a little big more than stripping to be a hooker (even though I don't judge) because it is DANGEROUS. You don't know what kind of psycho you could jump in a car with. And if you have a child, you have to do whatever you can to stay safe for your child!
Jim

Croydon, PA

#154 Jan 17, 2008
I agree that a man who is supposed to be in a committed relationship should not go to strip clubs and look at porn because looking at another woman in a sexual way is cheating. Unless his girlfriend/wife is aware of the porn/strip clubs and specifically says she doesn't mind, then he's cheating. Even then, both may not be the best thing for a relationship. Nevertheless, the woman's feelings are most important and it should be her prerogative to dictate whether it's OK or not.

Of course, most men will make excuses for looking at porn and going to strip clubs, but the bottom line is that these things show weakness rather than indicate how macho or manly we are. If a man is in love then he will show it by being loyal and letting his girlfriend/wife know that she is the only one in his life and the only one he thinks about.

Blackbwoy

Since: Nov 07

Roc.

#155 Jan 17, 2008
Jim wrote:
I agree that a man who is supposed to be in a committed relationship should not go to strip clubs and look at porn because looking at another woman in a sexual way is cheating. Unless his girlfriend/wife is aware of the porn/strip clubs and specifically says she doesn't mind, then he's cheating. Even then, both may not be the best thing for a relationship. Nevertheless, the woman's feelings are most important and it should be her prerogative to dictate whether it's OK or not.
Of course, most men will make excuses for looking at porn and going to strip clubs, but the bottom line is that these things show weakness rather than indicate how macho or manly we are. If a man is in love then he will show it by being loyal and letting his girlfriend/wife know that she is the only one in his life and the only one he thinks about.
i could not have said it any better myself.

“BeoncahBlackhear t86”

Level 1

Since: Aug 07

Chicago, IL

#156 Jan 17, 2008
imstillhere wrote:
<quoted text>
First of all, thank you so much for the kind words! It was so nice to read that tonight, after being silenced under my old ID by someone on here. My posts today were erased until I changed my ID. It's sad that people do this to others because I am not a bad person at all, although I also apologized for being a little rambunctious on here recently. I am glad that a few can see who I really am. Yes, I am opinionated and that pisses off people. I know myself!
I was talking about the stripper in all those examples, like about her daughter probably not knowing what she does...I can't comment on your friend without knowing all the details, but I think it is a little big more than stripping to be a hooker (even though I don't judge) because it is DANGEROUS. You don't know what kind of psycho you could jump in a car with. And if you have a child, you have to do whatever you can to stay safe for your child!
You're most certainly welcome. Not too many people on here don't pay recognition to meaningful and vital posts (unless you're "down" with a couple of folks on topic) instead, the spotlight goes to "Topic People: Who's Hot and Who's not..." sexual/erotic behavior, bashing and interracial dating. With that being said, I like having you around. I really enjoy reading your thoughts/views, you can be hilarious sometimes and serious at others, you're very outspoken and not looking to gain continuous acceptance from people on the Internet. So direct, there's no beating around the bush going on, you say what's on you mind and most people can't handle that. Why don't you create your an account? You been here long enough, I don't see why you have joined? With me, I would never post anything without my name being signed into the system.

PS Apology excepted 8D, I still had respect for you!

Right...When completing rounds as a stripper or prostitute, you have to take serious precaution. It is DANGEROUS because you might have some sick a** dude as a regular client, that might be obsessed with you and not even know until he show up at your door step, after a countless events where he'd followed you home. This would probably be the very same person that invested a lot of money in you and for some unusual explanation, he think that gives him the privilege to stalk you. I do have a few family members and "friends" that do these kind of things (not stalking as far as I know), I'm very concern for their safety NO DOUBT that is what the choose to do and that potential experience come with the territory. When I mentioned a buddy of mine who's,(somewhat) into the prostitution thing...there is a whole lot more to her story. She have a certificate to a get a job as a Medical Assistant that she obtain in the summer of last year but she's no doing anything with it. I don't know what's her problem but I try to help her in spite of me having my own issues to deal with. I'm not judgmental, it's just that I would love to see people do more for themselves and make better choices in life.

“BeoncahBlackhear t86”

Level 1

Since: Aug 07

Chicago, IL

#157 Jan 17, 2008
Jim wrote:
I agree that a man who is supposed to be in a committed relationship should not go to strip clubs and look at porn because looking at another woman in a sexual way is cheating. Unless his girlfriend/wife is aware of the porn/strip clubs and specifically says she doesn't mind, then he's cheating. Even then, both may not be the best thing for a relationship. Nevertheless, the woman's feelings are most important and it should be her prerogative to dictate whether it's OK or not.
Of course, most men will make excuses for looking at porn and going to strip clubs, but the bottom line is that these things show weakness rather than indicate how macho or manly we are. If a man is in love then he will show it by being loyal and letting his girlfriend/wife know that she is the only one in his life and the only one he thinks about.
Nice comment Jim, great job.

“Life goes on without me”

Since: Jun 07

Dontworryboutit

#158 Jan 18, 2008
I'm not here to judge what other adults do. Just don't frequent strip clubs and stockpile porn like it's nothing, but whine and cry when your woman does it. No, it's not "different" for men (even though many of you like to tell yourselves that). Everyone likes sex and we all appreciate it when our significant other is included in that "everyone".

“Life goes on without me”

Since: Jun 07

Dontworryboutit

#159 Jan 18, 2008
Destiny85 wrote:
<quoted text>
I have a question for you;
Would you be okay with your woman masturbating/lusting to/for other men?
That's a damn good question, but I'm not surprised that only one person has answered it. Men are major hypocrites when it comes to sex.

“you are”

Since: Dec 06

United States

#160 Jan 18, 2008
Big difference. Parallel it to Playgirl. Seeing a bunch of limp men...not desirable.
Blackbwoy wrote:
<quoted text>
lets just pretend for a sec you like to see naked men that model, if you wanted to go to a male strip club...would your boyfriend be comfortable with that.

“you are”

Since: Dec 06

United States

#161 Jan 18, 2008
Lucky for you I work for a bank now. I could take your money downstairs and have one of the tellers exchange your paper money for coins. We were meant to hang out together.
N2blaque wrote:
<quoted text>Absolutely not, I am a morally upright; sound of mind, faithful committed married man; a pillar of society; a character of integrity, besides I don't have any quarters to deposit into the coin booth slots to activate the windows that is sure to reveal the hidden naked female goodies that's behind them!! So no, I am not at the nudie bar at this moment...
I swear to Topix how much I like to lick you in the right spot if I could!!

“you are”

Since: Dec 06

United States

#162 Jan 18, 2008
More than half of them are assexual or homosexual...they'd like me better anyways.
rue wrote:
<quoted text>I'd go to the strip club with u.

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