I Feel Sorry For Pro-Black Black Women
Diva On Da Rise

Nassau, Bahamas

#146 Feb 26, 2014
Wannasay wrote:
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I would have to agree that I didn't know the situation of most of the those problack black women I see always alone or bunching up in groups going places where a lot of couple go If I didn't see and hear about so much of it myself. I and my man go out a lot and travel also and I see these kind of black women all of the time. Many of my friends are just like them. I see problack black women all of the time in forums complaining that there are not enough black men or that they don't have a man and even if they do go out, they the black women have to pay for the date if they to go out with black men. I have seen and heard this same thing for years. It is nothing new nor is it a coincidence.
Good Post....
Wannasay

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#147 Feb 26, 2014
Obama wrote:
<quoted text>Are you serious?.Once when I was 15 I bought chocolate perfume for this broad and even offered to pay for an expensive movie for her birthday. I was too young to work so I worked with my parent to earn the money. I was pissed when she didn't show. From then on were going half until its serious.
Dang, you are really reach back a bit. At 15, most people are little more than big kids. They depend on and are controlled by their parents or parental figures. How do you her mom or dad didn't just tell her she can't go out that night?
Wannasay

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#148 Feb 26, 2014
DerekJ wrote:
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I'm old school. If you asked the woman out, expect to pay. If she asked you, ask to pick up at least half the tab. The fact is that if you're a guy in the dating scene you should be prepared to shell out. Now, of course the landscape may vary somewhat if you're in a long-established relationship or marriage but, as a general rule, being a bit chivalrous will serve you better in the long run.
Co-sign! Can I ask if you are man or woman?

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#149 Feb 26, 2014
Diva On Da Rise wrote:
<quoted text>you the man in the relationship you should be able to provide, the bible said God created men to provide for women that's what makes you the head in the relationship...not just you having a penis, anyone can have a penis,even women if they go on surgery for it,I also provide very good for myself(I model for God sake and have my travel biz) but am not dating a man on air where he can't do sh#t for me...lol $300.00!that's not even money...It's a man job to upgrade his woman...there's no damn 50/50 In my relationship,the man must bring 100% while the woman brings 50%...That's why men was made the head...some people was raise by single mothers(without fathers) that's why they are so losed
You have some issues.
ugly monkeys

Tulsa, OK

#150 Feb 26, 2014
Ransgrl wrote:
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I'll-afford as in: I refuse to spend $400 on dinner when I'm saving for my kid's education and trying to retire in my 50's. Living well/vacationing as in: I refuse to spend the money on a hotel when I can rent a house and hire a chef for the same price and be away from other tourists. Successful as in: I can afford to do/have luxurious things, but will not line the pockets of those who have a hard time even being civil to minorities or go into debt so that YOU can see an outward display of my success and still dismiss me as being beneath you.
Thank you for trying to read my mind, though.
You're first claim was black man/black woman couples are snuggling together at home instead of wasting money on things they can ill-afford in this terrible economy (as if all other couples can still afford to vacation; which leads to only broke Black men date Black women). You would like for us to believe only "successful" Black couples are saving for their kid's education and trying to retire at 50? That other minorities and Blacks in interracial relationships are being treated differently than black couples; that you need to hide & isolate yourself?
Wannasay

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#151 Feb 26, 2014
DerekJ wrote:
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There's a bright line between being frugal and being cheap. You don't want the cheap guy. If you're a person working toward something, having some sense in how and where you spend your money is prudent. In addition, if you're a person who can't afford to do something, put that thing off for a later time rather than putting yourself in a hole.
I don't have anything against being frugal but if you can't plan a simple date and execute it without having to count every nickel and dime or borrow for the date then you shouldn't ask anyone out until you are more stable.

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#152 Feb 26, 2014
Wannasay wrote:
<quoted text>Co-sign! Can I ask if you are man or woman?
Man
Diva On Da Rise

Nassau, Bahamas

#153 Feb 26, 2014
Deva04 wrote:
<quoted text> You have some issues.
It's my opinon... don't like ?Keep it moving
ugly monkeys

Tulsa, OK

#154 Feb 26, 2014
Wannasay wrote:
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Yeah some of you pro-black women snuggle up with these black men at home providing them with free and easy sex while they save their money to take their white and other nonblack women out to nice places, on nice trips and buy them jewelry. And the college black man will most likely drop you as soon as he gets degree in hand and advance to a white woman and marry her and put her in that home that you helped him save up for. I have said enough! It is impossible to reach a fool who is so willing to be used then tossed away like dirty tissue.
Ransgrl is just being PC. She has a non-black husband.

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#155 Feb 26, 2014
Wannasay wrote:
<quoted text>I would have to agree that I didn't know the situation of most of the those problack black women I see always alone or bunching up in groups going places where a lot of couple go If I didn't see and hear about so much of it myself. I and my man go out a lot and travel also and I see these kind of black women all of the time. Many of my friends are just like them. I see problack black women all of the time in forums complaining that there are not enough black men or that they don't have a man and even if they do go out, they the black women have to pay for the date if they to go out with black men. I have seen and heard this same thing for years. It is nothing new nor is it a coincidence.
More coincidence from what I know. I don't doubt for a second that there are bw who can't get a date with the man of their choosing. However, that is the name of the mating game. The same thing applies to men. It's hard out there. But ask yourself: what are these persons doing to market themselves to the opposite sex? I maintain there is no shortage of mates. However, people have a way of torpedoing their own prospects by being inflexible in what they are willing to accept. Clearly, personalities need to mesh and no one should have to accept a ratchet individual. After that, however, all bets are off. I've seen great guys get rejected because they're not 6' tall and that's sad. I've also seen great women get rejected because they have small breasts. That's not right either. You see what I'm getting at. People have to be willing to broaden their horizons. Don't look so hard because you make it tough on yourself.

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#156 Feb 26, 2014
Wannasay wrote:
<quoted text>I don't have anything against being frugal but if you can't plan a simple date and execute it without having to count every nickel and dime or borrow for the date then you shouldn't ask anyone out until you are more stable.
Yes, I agree. That was the intent of my last sentence. I should have been more clear.
Wannasay

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#157 Feb 26, 2014
Diva On Da Rise wrote:
<quoted text>This is a LIE! when I go on fancy dates there is no black couple in sight all I see is the bm with his white woman ,black women with non-black men and many non-black couples.....it's like black men believe as long as they are struggling bw should be their ride or die chick...but when they are making it in life they go for a white woman to spend money on,I've seen this way to much...Some bw are so used to the struggle...I knew this bw that used to date nothing but bm,when she was asked on a date by a non-bm she was shocked because she said she was used to bm asking her too cook dinner at her place instead for first dates
You are right on both points. My boyfriend and I spent a week in Las Vegas once, just be cause I told him I have never been there. We stayed in the Luxsor on the newer strip. Vegas have some of the finest clubs and up scale restaurants in the world and we took in as much as we could. At almost every high end club or 4 or 5 star restaurant we went to, I saw the same groupings of people. Many well dressed white and other nonblack couples, several well dressed black men with well dressed nonblack women on their arms and several sisters dressed beautifully from head to toe with their handsome well dressed white men. I never saw one black couple in any of the nicer places.

My friends have also had black men who have asked them to cook food over their house as a first date, ask them to pay half or worse end up at Dennys or Micky Ds.
Wannasay

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#158 Feb 26, 2014
funkster07 wrote:
<quoted text> The only thing you should care about is a man NOT putting on a woman's garments, or any clothing pertaining to women. And Vice versa, you women are not to be wearing pants either! Y'all should be in long dresses and skirts all the way down to your feet. Deuteronomy 22:5 You see how brainwashed we are as a people? Because we done adopted whiteys ideas which are unnatural for us.
I am just reporting what I am seeing.
Wannasay

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#159 Feb 26, 2014
ugly monkeys wrote:
<quoted text>Ransgrl is just being PC. She has a non-black husband.
Yes, she did tell me that after I posted to her.
sweetgirl102

Memphis, TN

#160 Feb 26, 2014
Wannasay wrote:
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Yeah some of you pro-black women snuggle up with these black men at home providing them with free and easy sex while they save their money to take their white and other nonblack women out to nice places, on nice trips and buy them jewelry. And the college black man will most likely drop you as soon as he gets degree in hand and advance to a white woman and marry her and put her in that home that you helped him save up for. I have said enough! It is impossible to reach a fool who is so willing to be used then tossed away like dirty tissue.
PREACH!!! Girl I seriously don't know what the heck is wrong with bw as a whole, most women of any race would have BEEN gone by now if they were disrespected by their men like this...smh.

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#162 Feb 26, 2014
That Backfired Ehh wrote:
<quoted text>ROFLMAO!!!!
The answer is,....a little of each.
Damn....secret wouldn't be out if you wouldn't persist in looking up my skirt.
Race is trivial

Mountain View, CA

#163 Feb 26, 2014
Wannasay wrote:
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Dang, you are really reach back a bit. At 15, most people are little more than big kids. They depend on and are controlled by their parents or parental figures. How do you her mom or dad didn't just tell her she can't go out that night?
Her parents were not that controlling.
Tranny Police

Brooklyn, NY

#164 Feb 26, 2014
DerekJ wrote:
looking up my skirt.
You know, not ALL men (surprisingly, not even all black men) are queer.

You should shut that sht down.

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#165 Feb 26, 2014
Tranny Police wrote:
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You know, not ALL men (surprisingly, not even all black men) are queer.
You should shut that sht down.
Why? Is the temptation too much for you? LOL

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#166 Feb 26, 2014
Diva On Da Rise wrote:
<quoted text>It's my opinon... don't like ?Keep it moving
How many boyfriends have you had like zero? Hm I wonder why

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