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Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1874 Mar 20, 2013
TBMR--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
LOL great post
I agree bw are held to a higher standard by black men
Arguing with bm over it though wont resolve shit because they are just following societies beauty standard
I guarantee when the IR numbers go up for bw and they start to see other races especially white men embracing us that is when they will start to place more value on bw
MACEO

Black men "Try" to have a higher standard but rarely does it pan out for them. Either many Black women reject Black males these days or they may get a Black woman who is accepting for a while but rarely does it last.

Most Black women put the Black man out! These Black men normally say she didn't know how to treat him like a man.

Then why is it that when these Black women cross the color line to White males or other races; those same issues don't come up?

Yes, many Educated Black women have started to move on and rightfully so. Almost 1/2 of my friends are now either dating/married to a White male. In most social circles at least 2-3 women who are dating/marrying out.

Now you have some other issues and not just your status in society; you have Black women willing ot date/marry out as well as many have "Sworn off" dating/marrying Black males these days.

I guess Black women are tired of "No reciprocity" from Black males and handling things alone!

Its about time!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1876 Mar 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford--ItisI--MACEO wrote:
that article in the link asks a lot of questions...but it doesn't provide any answers at all. we all know bm are goin IR at higher and higher rates. but the question is WHY will bm go for an uneducated hispanic, white or asian woman over an educated and beautiful bw...you want to know the answer why? I'll tell you. It can be summed up in one word: "attitude." men don't care about education when it comes to women...men care about LOOKS and PERSONALITY.
MACEO

Black women are rejecting them in large numbers that's why. Just like that VP Rejected Jeff and he went off and got angry and married his 3rd White woman. He faked an illness so he could live off her!

Just like the article said; many Black men live off women and are comfortable being submissive as well as "Co dependent" to women! Many Black women who are educated worked hard and want their equal, are refusing them and they know it!

I don't blame Black women for not accepting less than.
Desmond Sandiford--ItisI--MACEO wrote:
if you a beautiful educated bw with an obnoxious, disrespectful personality, I will take a non-bw with no education, good looks and a nice personality over you. That's the reason why the guy doesn't provide any answer to the questions...because the answers are out there and a lotta people can't handle it.
I don't blame you! I feel the same way, when I have "rude, disrespectful, obnoxious, socially inept" Black males who make inappropriate remarks that most times shouldn't even be said.

Maybe they think its funny! Personally, I think their use to being "Disrespectful" due to a lack of home training and learning how to "objectify" treating women like their just for Sex as well as many Black men like yourself feel a relationship is "just about you" .

Many Black males; not all have "poor relational skills' when it comes to women!

As I said, White men or other races, give a compliment, talk for a few minutes ask a woman on a date. When I ask other Black women they experience the same things!

Shaking my head!

Why didn't your Fathers teach you how to treat women? You feel that all your suppose to do is "Live off women, chase Sex, act irresponsible" and your entitled to the best?

I don't think so!
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#1877 Mar 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>that article in the link asks a lot of questions...but it doesn't provide any answers at all. we all know bm are goin IR at higher and higher rates. but the question is WHY will bm go for an uneducated hispanic, white or asian woman over an educated and beautiful bw...you want to know the answer why? I'll tell you. It can be summed up in one word: "attitude." men don't care about education when it comes to women...men care about LOOKS and PERSONALITY. if you a beautiful educated bw with an obnoxious, disrespectful personality, I will take a non-bw with no education, good looks and a nice personality over you. That's the reason why the guy doesn't provide any answer to the questions...because the answers are out there and a lotta people can't handle it.
Sir, I believe IR will continue to increase for both black men and black women.
ALISON YANDERS

Samarinda, Indonesia

#1878 Mar 20, 2013
The lesson here is, just because someone is black, does not mean that he is on your side. Obama is black but what has he done for black rights? Nothing. So you guys have to stop looking at things from an us vs. them angle. Things are a lot more complicated. Black revolutionaries will have more in common with Indian revolutionaries than with Black traitors and compradores like Obama, or Chris Rock. Furthermore, anyone who makes it in capitalist America is not going to do anything based on principle. They are guided by money. This is the essence of capitalism. Even guys like Jesse Jackson, and Al Sharpton who pretend to be fighting for black rights are just actors. You think anyone can be screaming for civil rights, and actually live to tell about it? This is america we're talking about. If the black community wants to look up to anyone, it can't be anyone who is a celebrity, because those guys are guaranteed to be corrupted.
Kashta_Menelik

Jacksonville, FL

#1879 Mar 20, 2013
ALISON YANDERS wrote:
The lesson here is, just because someone is black, does not mean that he is on your side. Obama is black but what has he done for black rights? Nothing. So you guys have to stop looking at things from an us vs. them angle. Things are a lot more complicated. Black revolutionaries will have more in common with Indian revolutionaries than with Black traitors and compradores like Obama, or Chris Rock. Furthermore, anyone who makes it in capitalist America is not going to do anything based on principle. They are guided by money. This is the essence of capitalism. Even guys like Jesse Jackson, and Al Sharpton who pretend to be fighting for black rights are just actors. You think anyone can be screaming for civil rights, and actually live to tell about it? This is america we're talking about. If the black community wants to look up to anyone, it can't be anyone who is a celebrity, because those guys are guaranteed to be corrupted.
I know for a fact that Jesse and Al don't truly care for black people.
IT IS I

United States

#1880 Mar 20, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Agreed
his friend harrisson is proof of that
Alot of black men are like that. They claim love is color blind and race doesnt matter but then they have a specific preference which is race based
Makes no sense
You cant expect IRBM to admit to shit though
Yup, and it is just further proof of the BM's participation in his own brainwashing..........

The fact that they "choose" not to see color until they are chasing a woman proves that they are choosing to be brainwashed..........

Because they "want" to believe that WW are better than BW.

END OF STORY !!!!
IT IS I

United States

#1881 Mar 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>that article in the link asks a lot of questions...but it doesn't provide any answers at all. we all know bm are goin IR at higher and higher rates. but the question is WHY will bm go for an uneducated hispanic, white or asian woman over an educated and beautiful bw...you want to know the answer why? I'll tell you. It can be summed up in one word: "attitude." men don't care about education when it comes to women...men care about LOOKS and PERSONALITY. if you a beautiful educated bw with an obnoxious, disrespectful personality, I will take a non-bw with no education, good looks and a nice personality over you. That's the reason why the guy doesn't provide any answer to the questions...because the answers are out there and a lotta people can't handle it.
You ask why ????? It's simple, Des.

MOST BM ARE LAZY !!!!

Like I said before, BM want everything to be easy. With Non-BW all BM have to do is be "black"..........

But that "old Mandingo" bit doesn't work on BW, they have to bring something else to the table besides a black dyck !!!!!

Now, of course BM will storm this post claiming that:

* BW are too masculine

*BW are too hard to get along with/argumentative.

*BW like to emasculate their men.

*BW can't be trusted (too whorish).

And the list goes on (we all know how BM love to complain)

But the truth of the matter is this:

Relationships are hard work. there will be times when the road isn't always paved with gold..........and this is usually when BM make a mad dash for the door.

Even non-BW are beginning to talk about BM's inability to stick it out through the hard times.

But we all know that BM will continue to hide from this FACT too..........

So..........la da di la di da !!!!!!!

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#1882 Mar 21, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
<quoted text>
Oh, look everybody !!!!!
The WW's biggest bytch just chimed in !!!!!!
The point is..........stop holding BW to a higher standard than WW are held to..........
And just because Uncle Toms like you are too spineless to fight for equality and the right to be treated equal..........
(because you would rather fight for the right to sniff Becky's dirty panties).........
Doesn't mean that BW shouldn't push for fairness..........
You will just be left behind..........with the crumbs that WM will allow you to have..........

Now, keep it moving..........Tom.
Not being left behind here. Sorry, but things are going quite well.

You sound very bitter, angry and above all CONFUSED. Unless you didn't get the cliff notes while growing up, life can be unfair. That's just the reality. You just called me the white woman's biggest bytch. That's not fair, but I'm not going to come crying about it. It's what I expect from someone like you --nothing better really. Higher standards, LOL? YOU?!! Like I say, you are angry and just confused. Most importantly, you are in no position to come here talking about equality with an attitude like that.

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#1883 Mar 21, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
LOL great post
I agree bw are held to a higher standard by black men
Arguing with bm over it though wont resolve shit because they are just following societies beauty standard
I guarantee when the IR numbers go up for bw and they start to see other races especially white men embracing us that is when they will start to place more value on bw
You are about as clueless as a chicken sunbathing in barbecue sauce inside a cave of lost mountaineers, LOL.

WHAT higher standard are black women held to? From the sound of things people such as yourself can't entertain the most BASIC requirements for personhood. You are too colorstruck for one thing.
IT IS I

United States

#1884 Mar 21, 2013
Kip wrote:
<quoted text>
Not being left behind here. Sorry, but things are going quite well.
You sound very bitter, angry and above all CONFUSED. Unless you didn't get the cliff notes while growing up, life can be unfair. That's just the reality. You just called me the white woman's biggest bytch. That's not fair, but I'm not going to come crying about it. It's what I expect from someone like you --nothing better really. Higher standards, LOL? YOU?!! Like I say, you are angry and just confused. Most importantly, you are in no position to come here talking about equality with an attitude like that.
Not bitter, angry or confused. I just call a spade a spade.

It is what it is..........You won't change my mind and I won't change yours..........let's just agree to disagree, O.K.??

You are willing to put up with unfair treatment as long as it does not interfere with your ability to chase WW and "coon" for them..........

But that is simply not enough for me and many BW..........and if you don't think that BM are not being left behind (collectively)

Well..........you need to wake up and smell reality. This society has you in a daze..........

You poor thing..........I almost feel sorry for you.
IT IS I

United States

#1885 Mar 21, 2013
Kip wrote:
<quoted text>
You are about as clueless as a chicken sunbathing in barbecue sauce inside a cave of lost mountaineers, LOL.
WHAT higher standard are black women held to? From the sound of things people such as yourself can't entertain the most BASIC requirements for personhood. You are too colorstruck for one thing.
Leave her alone, Uncle Tom.

You want to preach about life being unfair and that color shouldn't matter..........

But aren't you seeing color when you prefer WW ?????

Aren't you discriminating against BW ?????? Isn't that unfair ?????

And you want BW to be alright with that ???????

Wow..........you are a conquered man.

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#1886 Mar 21, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
<quoted text>
You ask why ????? It's simple, Des.
MOST BM ARE LAZY !!!!
Like I said before, BM want everything to be easy. With Non-BW all BM have to do is be "black"..........
But that "old Mandingo" bit doesn't work on BW, they have to bring something else to the table besides a black dyck !!!!!
Now, of course BM will storm this post claiming that:
* BW are too masculine
*BW are too hard to get along with/argumentative.
*BW like to emasculate their men.
*BW can't be trusted (too whorish).
And the list goes on (we all know how BM love to complain)
But the truth of the matter is this:
Relationships are hard work. there will be times when the road isn't always paved with gold..........and this is usually when BM make a mad dash for the door.
Even non-BW are beginning to talk about BM's inability to stick it out through the hard times.
But we all know that BM will continue to hide from this FACT too..........
So..........la da di la di da !!!!!!!
It takes TWO people to make a relationship work. Did you know that? You come to this forum complaining about black men as if your own doo doo smells like lotus blossoms. No, not every day is going to be paved with gold, but not every day HAS to be hard either. Not every conversation has to be an argument. I think that's what some guys are saying. All you have to do is listen. You don't have to comply, but at least close your mouth for a moment and LISTEN. Stop asking for something from men that you cannot and are unwilling to give in return.
IT IS I

United States

#1887 Mar 21, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>that article in the link asks a lot of questions...but it doesn't provide any answers at all. we all know bm are goin IR at higher and higher rates. but the question is WHY will bm go for an uneducated hispanic, white or asian woman over an educated and beautiful bw...you want to know the answer why? I'll tell you. It can be summed up in one word: "attitude." men don't care about education when it comes to women...men care about LOOKS and PERSONALITY. if you a beautiful educated bw with an obnoxious, disrespectful personality, I will take a non-bw with no education, good looks and a nice personality over you. That's the reason why the guy doesn't provide any answer to the questions...because the answers are out there and a lotta people can't handle it.
Yes, it asks the questions that only BM can answer. And that is the problem..........This mentality that you have..........

You said that it didn't give any answers..........that is for BM to do.

STOP EXPECTING EVERYONE TO THINK FOR YOU !!!!!!

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#1888 Mar 21, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
<quoted text>
Leave her alone, Uncle Tom.
You want to preach about life being unfair and that color shouldn't matter..........
But aren't you seeing color when you prefer WW ?????
Aren't you discriminating against BW ?????? Isn't that unfair ?????
And you want BW to be alright with that ???????
Wow..........you are a conquered man.
No, I wasn't discriminating against anyone. I just married someone who happened to be my best friend.
Do you know what a friend is?
With a hateful attitude like that, do you have any friends?
Could you just be a friend to the right guy if he came up and spoke to you?
You sound about as ignorant as all hell. I'm being honest. There are things about a person that will ALWAYS speak louder than their skin color and that's their BEHAVIOR. Did your mother teach you this, or did you come from one of those households where everybody was stuck on stupid.

You need to wake the hell up!

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#1889 Mar 21, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
<quoted text>
Leave her alone, Uncle Tom.
You want to preach about life being unfair and that color shouldn't matter..........
But aren't you seeing color when you prefer WW ?????
Aren't you discriminating against BW ?????? Isn't that unfair ?????
And you want BW to be alright with that ???????
Wow..........you are a conquered man.
You bring your liver-lipped, have-nothing, lonely ass here every day, time after time whining about the same shyt over and over and over, again and again, but for WHAT? What are you doing to improve YOUR situation, or do you just like to set back and complain about black men complaining, LOL?
No, I'm not conquered. You are just clueless. Not a SHADOW of understanding about much of the crap you keep bickering about.

Yes, I see now why some guys completely stay away from some sisters. I was never like that, but I DO understand.

Level 7

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#1890 Mar 21, 2013
Kip wrote:
<quoted text>You are about as clueless as a chicken sunbathing in barbecue sauce inside a cave of lost mountaineers, LOL.

WHAT higher standard are black women held to? From the sound of things people such as yourself can't entertain the most BASIC requirements for personhood. You are too colorstruck for one thing.
It's called the drift net approach to human relationships.
IT IS I

United States

#1891 Mar 21, 2013
Kip wrote:
<quoted text>
It takes TWO people to make a relationship work. Did you know that? You come to this forum complaining about black men as if your own doo doo smells like lotus blossoms. No, not every day is going to be paved with gold, but not every day HAS to be hard either. Not every conversation has to be an argument. I think that's what some guys are saying. All you have to do is listen. You don't have to comply, but at least close your mouth for a moment and LISTEN. Stop asking for something from men that you cannot and are unwilling to give in return.
You don't know what I ask for in a relationship, so STFU please.

Stats don't lie..........and most BM don't know how to have relationships with anybody..........hell Non-BW are complaining about them now !!!!!!!!!!

Even in the homosexual community (a lifestyle that I absolutely abhor)BM are the last choice because their reckless, careless behavior puts them at higher risk for HIV/AIDS.

Y'all need to get your heads right, and your game tight !!!!!
IT IS I

United States

#1892 Mar 21, 2013
Kip wrote:
<quoted text>
No, I wasn't discriminating against anyone. I just married someone who happened to be my best friend.
Do you know what a friend is?
With a hateful attitude like that, do you have any friends?
Could you just be a friend to the right guy if he came up and spoke to you?
You sound about as ignorant as all hell. I'm being honest. There are things about a person that will ALWAYS speak louder than their skin color and that's their BEHAVIOR. Did your mother teach you this, or did you come from one of those households where everybody was stuck on stupid.
You need to wake the hell up!
Blah, blah, blah..........why do you keep mistaking my brutal honesty for hate, Kip ???

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#1893 Mar 21, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
<quoted text>
Not bitter, angry or confused. I just call a spade a spade.
It is what it is..........You won't change my mind and I won't change yours..........let's just agree to disagree, O.K.??
You are willing to put up with unfair treatment as long as it does not interfere with your ability to chase WW and "coon" for them..........
But that is simply not enough for me and many BW..........and if you don't think that BM are not being left behind (collectively)
Well..........you need to wake up and smell reality. This society has you in a daze..........
You poor thing..........I almost feel sorry for you.
I'm not trying to change your mind. As far as I'm concerned a mind like yours will not change until time passes by and you are forced to see it for yourself. I don't think a lot of brothers want to wait around that long. Life is too short. The truth of the matter is that your pride is false and you lie to yourself.

Unfair treatment?
By whom?
You CERTAINLY have not shown me any fairness, and I'm not going to ask you for any. Part of the reason is because I'm not sure you know what it really is. Again, you want something you are not willing to give out. it doesn't really have anything to do with being a black woman. It's just your mindset.

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#1894 Mar 21, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
<quoted text>
You don't know what I ask for in a relationship, so STFU please.
Stats don't lie..........and most BM don't know how to have relationships with anybody..........hell Non-BW are complaining about them now !!!!!!!!!!
Even in the homosexual community (a lifestyle that I absolutely abhor)BM are the last choice because their reckless, careless behavior puts them at higher risk for HIV/AIDS.
Y'all need to get your heads right, and your game tight !!!!!
You just mention EQUALITY, LOL!
You want that in a relationship don't you, or are you just passing the time to have something to bytch about? There are a lot of stats out there. One says that 72% of black women don't marry. Why is that? Have you looked in a mirror lately, or are you still bickering over the black men who keep passing you by?

There are a LOT of well to do, hard working, men out there and many of them are black. You may not like or be used to how they live and what they enjoy, but they are still BLACK men. Not everyone black has AIDS anymore than everyone white is a peeping tom, so you can pack that B.S. someplace else. You know what I'm talking about. There are many of us who have our heads on straight. You just like to complain. Understand that. You like to come here whining about having something you are absolutely unwilling to give or understand. This is common, because all you see is the CONCEPT. You are too lazy and inept to take the time to UNDERSTAND what it means. You'd rather take the easy way out and blabber endlessly about how bad black men are. The irony is that you yourself are the one calling black men lazy, LOL.

It's as if you are mostly complaining about yourself.

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