Now, you are just being amusing..........<quoted text>
You are dead-on, my friend. Many of these folks like a sense of self, are self-pitying and lack the necessary social skills to improve their station in life. Instead of doing for themselves, they complain about what someone else has. For them, life is a zero-sum game. You can see this most starkly when they apply this limited thinking to the complexities of interpersonal relationships: he's dating x, so he hates y. Very sad.
So, when BM prefer WW, all BM can see is the color of her skin. Hence, his preference for her..........
But when BW begin to put things into their proper perspective (ie: calling out BM on their "coonery" and self-hate, bringing out how they [BM] overlook many flaws in WW that they notice in BW).........
All of a sudden..........COLOR DOESN'T MATTER!!!!
Carry on..........UNCLE TOM !!!!!