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Sadbuttrue

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Why Dating IR leads BW to marriage-Dating BM "Void of values" is a waste of many women's time!

Despite Black men venting and saying White men/other races don't marry Black women; many do when they date them. Other race of men have a tendency to "marry" because they have those patterns while Black men are more "geared" to using women for sex, gain or to put a roof over their heads at the women's expense.

The gender war has decreased Black men's options within the race; many attractive, traveled, educated Black women are opening their options. Their unwilling to settle for Mr. Marginal Black man who comes knocking on their door." bringing nothing to the table". Many instances; Black males just want "any woman" even if the values are not the same; they need to live off a woman!

I even hear many White women complaining about Black males and how their left with biracial babies to raise alone, why the black man cheats with other White women and lives in her place!

Many of these shrewd Black women want someone on their level even if that means dating/marrying outside the race. They realize that that most Black males want to "Run games" or waste time being "Cultural players" or spend decades investing wasting time on sex or in "pauperism". They get no returns on their investment on backend of their lives and hide in shame!

For some reason; Black males don't believe in teaching the next generation, being examples, mentoring or investing in their Youth. Black males invest more in "Being Players, manipulating women; sexual dominance" while not pursuing things of value and "meaningful pursuits". The sole focus is on Sex, their penis, bragging rights and abandoning all "common sense" and end up with nothing.

If your a black woman you really need to pick up the signs early; "Don't invest"! You'll find out later that many of these behavioral problems existed early, and you can avoid them by not dating these men.

Many Black men are not marriage material! Many Black men don't even respect any women they objectify them!

If you want a partner; your better off finding a Man that had a Father as an example this way he sees a pattern of what a relationships is suppose to be. In the case of Black males many Have "Poor relational skills" on how to treat women as they gain their knowledge from the Streets, Rap music which objectifying women!

Black males look to be "Dependent" on women. They want a woman who will be the "Mother & Father" and then "Resent" you for being more powerful and more educated than he is!

Find a man of other race on your level and stop wasting your time on men who don't value themselves!

The horrific stats are not high for "No reasons' its because Black men are apathetic towards Black women and childrens plight.

If you value yourself as a Black woman seeks other races of men who will value you as a woman! Many Black men disrespect Black women, don't invest in women, children, communities or themselves because its been passed down generationally and Black men feel entitled to disrespect you!

If a man doesn't "Invest in himself"; HE WILL NEVER VALUE YOU! He will never respect what value you brought to yourself either; because he's never sacrifice for anybody including himself.

When a man "Values himself" he doesn't do behaviors that bring "devaluation" to his character. His Reputation is at "Stake" as well as his image.

Only a Fool and a Scoffer brings disgrace to himself and then shame to others!

Black women Continue to date/marry well to elevate the race; focus on dating/marrying outside the race.

Black women bring Value while many Black men bestole behaviors which decline in value to those who invest in them because they don't value themselves.

Only Uplift those Black males who offer reciprocity; swear off those Black men who are "Scoffers & fools "that degrade and devalue Black women while uplifting other races of women in skin color only!
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Tiger, take your pick between a black woman or white woman.

NO CONTEST!!!
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Frank wrote:
<quoted text>Once you get a taste for beautiful white women you just want more and more and more. It's an addiction.
Must be why WM start chasing black slaves the minute they stepped off the slave ships...

BM are soon to be old news too

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Carol wrote:
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Must be why WM start chasing black slaves the minute they stepped off the slave ships...
BM are soon to be old news too
MACEO

Black men stay in the news especially when it comes Rape,Murder, Drugs, Not paying support, domestic abuse, unemployment, low education, abandoning their children, not get married, using and disrespecting Black women etc etc.

You were saying? Aren't these all your profiles MACEO? Aren't you close to 60 years old?

MACEO

I agree you have lots of NASTY comments when it comes to Black women! All of these are your profiles and you have more. All of these profile & 300 other profiles all you do is talk to yourself and RANT about Black women when most wouldn't even LOOK AT YOU MACEO

YOUR ALMOST 60 YEARS OLD AND HAVE DONE NOTHING POSITIVE WITH YOUR LIFE! GO MENTOR! GO VOLUNTEER! GROW UP AND GIVE BACK!

GO mentor Prisoners almost 55% off the prisons are filled with Black men!

Your Friggen UGLY!

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Mar 13, 2013
 
Sadbuttrue may be repetitive and nerve racking (calling everyone MACEO and all) but she is right.

Check out these websites. BM are just making the biggest azzes of themselves.

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Mar 13, 2013
 
IT IS I wrote:
Sadbuttrue may be repetitive and nerve racking (calling everyone MACEO and all) but she is right.
Check out these websites. BM are just making the biggest azzes of themselves.
MACEO

You have over 400 profiles, Ill call you who you are based on your diction! Your almost 60 years old and you act Foolish!
You have "NO LIFE; YOUR A RECLUSE"!

MACEO

Black men stay in the news especially when it comes Rape,Murder, Drugs, Not paying support, domestic abuse, unemployment, low education, abandoning their children, not get married, using and disrespecting Black women etc etc.

You were saying? Aren't these all your profiles MACEO? Aren't you close to 60 years old?

MACEO

I agree you have lots of NASTY comments when it comes to Black women! All of these are your profiles and you have more. All of these profile & 300 other profiles all you do is talk to yourself and RANT about Black women when most wouldn't even LOOK AT YOU MACEO

YOUR ALMOST 60 YEARS OLD AND HAVE DONE NOTHING POSITIVE WITH YOUR LIFE! GO MENTOR! GO VOLUNTEER! GROW UP AND GIVE BACK!

GO mentor Prisoners almost 55% off the prisons are filled with Black men!

Your Friggen UGLY!

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Mar 13, 2013
 
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
You have over 400 profiles, Ill call you who you are based on your diction! Your almost 60 years old and you act Foolish!
You have "NO LIFE; YOUR A RECLUSE"!
MACEO
Black men stay in the news especially when it comes Rape,Murder, Drugs, Not paying support, domestic abuse, unemployment, low education, abandoning their children, not get married, using and disrespecting Black women etc etc.
You were saying? Aren't these all your profiles MACEO? Aren't you close to 60 years old?
MACEO
I agree you have lots of NASTY comments when it comes to Black women! All of these are your profiles and you have more. All of these profile & 300 other profiles all you do is talk to yourself and RANT about Black women when most wouldn't even LOOK AT YOU MACEO
YOUR ALMOST 60 YEARS OLD AND HAVE DONE NOTHING POSITIVE WITH YOUR LIFE! GO MENTOR! GO VOLUNTEER! GROW UP AND GIVE BACK!
GO mentor Prisoners almost 55% off the prisons are filled with Black men!
Your Friggen UGLY!
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I agree, BM stay in the news for negative behavior.

Now, have a nice day, Ma'am.
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IT IS I wrote:
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I agree, BM stay in the news for negative behavior.
Now, have a nice day, Ma'am.
Stunning! She's African!

Jamie and Nikki's Month in review

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So sick of black. White brown yellow pink this will never end sick sick sick of it all I love my kids and I love my husband we are all biracial sorry
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Carol wrote:
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Must be why WM start chasing black slaves the minute they stepped off the slave ships...
This is so true, Carol.

And they haven't stopped. WW have a lot of power now, so many WM must be careful.

But the bottom line is:

WM have never seen BW the way BM have, in fact much of the racism against BW by WM was to put distance between BM and BW..........

So that WM could move in and get what he had his eye on the whole time..........

The BW. And while he (WM) was able to get BM to chase WW, he was chasing BW.

But, BW have the legal right to say "NO" now, so this put a little twist in the game.
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Mar 18, 2013
 
Black momma wrote:
So sick of black. White brown yellow pink this will never end sick sick sick of it all I love my kids and I love my husband we are all biracial sorry
Enjoy life!!
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Phoenix wrote:
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Enjoy life!!
When people are sick it's hard for them to enjoy anything.

Many of these people are SICK. They are clearly depressed and often show signs of personality disorders. It's why they are so focused on somebody's else's race and why they choose the booty of who they want to be with. These people are without, so they bemoan those who are WITH.
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Mar 18, 2013
 
KIP wrote:
<quoted text>When people are sick it's hard for them to enjoy anything.

Many of these people are SICK. They are clearly depressed and often show signs of personality disorders. It's why they are so focused on somebody's else's race and why they choose the booty of who they want to be with. These people are without, so they bemoan those who are WITH.
If that's true, it's quite frightening.
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KIP wrote:
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When people are sick it's hard for them to enjoy anything.
Many of these people are SICK. They are clearly depressed and often show signs of personality disorders. It's why they are so focused on somebody's else's race and why they choose the booty of who they want to be with. These people are without, so they bemoan those who are WITH.
Sick bastard, I'd just prefer not to have been victim of your criminal activity.

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KIP wrote:
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When people are sick it's hard for them to enjoy anything.
Many of these people are SICK. They are clearly depressed and often show signs of personality disorders. It's why they are so focused on somebody's else's race and why they choose the booty of who they want to be with. These people are without, so they bemoan those who are WITH.
You are dead-on, my friend. Many of these folks like a sense of self, are self-pitying and lack the necessary social skills to improve their station in life. Instead of doing for themselves, they complain about what someone else has. For them, life is a zero-sum game. You can see this most starkly when they apply this limited thinking to the complexities of interpersonal relationships: he's dating x, so he hates y. Very sad.

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typo: [m]any of these folks lack as sense of...

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as = a

{sheesh}
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You are dead-on, my friend. Many of these folks like a sense of self, are self-pitying and lack the necessary social skills to improve their station in life. Instead of doing for themselves, they complain about what someone else has. For them, life is a zero-sum game. You can see this most starkly when they apply this limited thinking to the complexities of interpersonal relationships: he's dating x, so he hates y. Very sad.
Well ya dumb obese bastard, me and my kids were minding our own business...

as far as who you date, I understand, clingy flat butt women become boring....

unless you feel blk women are upset....

well buffalo butt, my late husband was tall, slender, light skin...

and since I've known WM all my life if I were to date out, my baby would probably be a white gentleman...

again look nothing like you.

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Carol wrote:
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Well ya dumb obese bastard, me and my kids were minding our own business...
as far as who you date, I understand, clingy flat butt women become boring....
unless you feel blk women are upset....
well buffalo butt, my late husband was tall, slender, light skin...
and since I've known WM all my life if I were to date out, my baby would probably be a white gentleman...
again look nothing like you.
Thankfully, he would look nothing like me. Any association with you, no matter how tangential, may be cause for me to slit my writs.
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DerekJ wrote:
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Thankfully, he would look nothing like me. Any association with you, no matter how tangential, may be cause for me to slit my writs.
So stop trying to push your lies about blk women and your shady Asian...

and you should done it by now.

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