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“Creole Coated!”

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Since: Jan 11

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#698 Dec 8, 2013
APV wrote:
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No it was in this thread where you said you weren't AA.
OH..ok
I thought you were asking about "black woman"....but AA..I'm not..I'm Seychellois/African or/and Seychellois American
APV wrote:
Are you an American citizen?
yes
I have dual-citizenship
candaymama

Wichita, KS

#699 Dec 8, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>Hey canday...how do you like being a mother? I know the holidays are an exciting time for you and your babygirl..
I love being a mother,my baby girl sleeps in the bed with me every night and I'm even starting to take baths with her now.She loves the water.She's so beautiful and sweet.Have you seen the cute little outfit I dressed her in.She looks great in red.Her hair is these silky loose curls now.I put baby oil on it after I wash it.How have you been?

http://i947.photobucket.com/albums/ad320/cand...

“The REAL Founding Fathers!!!!!”

Since: Jun 08

Oakland

#700 Dec 8, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
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Shalom aleichem...I'm safe (not in that area at the presence moment, but they're not only having bad weather, but I'm told..they had a little earthquake)
May I asked why you decided on Locks for love? I guess it doesn't matter which group I pick..maybe the one with the most need...I'll just read up on them first...
and I'll await your answer....as the "lesson learned" is important to me..
One of my daughter's friends had cancer and her mom was the one who put me in touch with the organisation. There are many groups but this one was one of the few at the time who focused on children. I am still thinking about your other query and will answer it soon. Have a safe and great rest of the weekend.....:)

“Beautiful Mind ”

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Since: Jun 13

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#701 Dec 10, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>cosign
and so articulately put...
I do wonder if we have control of the feeling A....to not allow ourselves to be open or surrender to it when it's not mutual or beneficial? or why we're closed to it when the other does have A towards us? And how important really is A when it's one-sided...I gather is quite useless..
I don't think we can control the feeling per se but I do think that we can control our reaction that accompanies it.

We are creatures of habit after all, so in my opinion if you make up your mind that despite being in love you can still move on you can . Will you feel the same? most likely but the power of the mind is quite complex and beyond comprehension. I still hold the notion that one can be in love and choose to leave and time can definitely heal.

To answer your other question. I think we don't have control to be open but we do have control if we choose to surrender ( I am not sure if that makes sense) what tends to happen is that when we are in that Trance of being in love I think it sort of corrupts reality perhaps briefly and that " suppose" bad boy is not so bad.. but instead someone that can be molded. This is what can get us into big trouble. Again, in my honest opinion yes we cannot always control our feelings for someone but we don't have to be reactive to them and that's our power.

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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Since: Apr 08

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#702 Dec 28, 2013
I must have for those who want soft feet!

Earth Therapeutics makes Aloe Moisture Intensive All-Over Moisture Gel Booties.

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These things are AMAZING.

You can buy them at Bed Bath & Beyond.

Does anyone else have any goodies they got for Christmas?

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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#703 Feb 3, 2014
I have a new favorite product...RAW AFRICAN SHEA BUTTER. Whodathunk it has so many benefits???!
coocoocachoocooc oo

Sayreville, NJ

#704 Feb 4, 2014
I want to penetrate all of you

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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#705 Apr 15, 2014
Bump

I know pastels are the tend color but unless it's pink I just can't get down with it...

“Beautiful Mind ”

Level 2

Since: Jun 13

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#706 Apr 15, 2014
APV wrote:
Bump
I know pastels are the tend color but unless it's pink I just can't get down with it...
Florals are also a big trend this spring but it's usually the case but this time it's floral print everywhere lol. I am not use to wearing pastel colors I do love pink though.

“Beautiful Mind ”

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#707 Apr 15, 2014
What is your HG skin care regimen?

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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Since: Apr 08

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#709 Apr 15, 2014
I hate the idea of spending a lot of money on fancy skin care products so I use natural products and LOVE the following combination:

1. Baking Soda-mix it with water to make a paste and wear it as a mask. It helps reduce the size of pores and dries up acne.

2. Apple Cider Vinegar-use it as a toner (but I'm hard core and don't dilute it with water but if your skin is sensitive try diluting it). It balances out your skin's PH.

3. Raw African Shea Butter-I use it as a moisturizer. I just wipe off the excess with a paper towel. It's also good for combatting acne.

“Beautiful Mind ”

Level 2

Since: Jun 13

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#710 Apr 15, 2014
APV wrote:
I hate the idea of spending a lot of money on fancy skin care products so I use natural products and LOVE the following combination:
1. Baking Soda-mix it with water to make a paste and wear it as a mask. It helps reduce the size of pores and dries up acne.
2. Apple Cider Vinegar-use it as a toner (but I'm hard core and don't dilute it with water but if your skin is sensitive try diluting it). It balances out your skin's PH.
3. Raw African Shea Butter-I use it as a moisturizer. I just wipe off the excess with a paper towel. It's also good for combatting acne.
I understand I purchase skin care products but I also love natural face masks.
This is great, I need to try this. Thanks for sharing. Hey, did you find a long lasting lipstick? I know we discussed it awhile back.

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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Since: Apr 08

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#711 Apr 15, 2014
Jazleen wrote:
<quoted text>I understand I purchase skin care products but I also love natural face masks.
This is great, I need to try this. Thanks for sharing. Hey, did you find a long lasting lipstick? I know we discussed it awhile back.
Nothing new, I just kept using Revlon's. I kinda gave up on the search...LOL

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