FAT black women
Rachael

Chicago, IL

#1 Jun 5, 2008
Do you think we are more accepting of obesity than other races? I've noticed while at work the white women tend to eat healthier and tend to be thinner. It's like they're always on a diet and they still complain about being fat. But we tend to eat whatever we want and be happier with carrying more weight.

Does anyone else agree? I guess this is one good thing about being black. I don’t have to worry about being fat while white girls are constantly dieting and starving themselves.
Rachael

Chicago, IL

#2 Jun 5, 2008
Why do white girls constantly complain about being fat when they are not? And are constantly dieting? Don't you guys ever want to eat real food and not just salad all the time?
Rosa

Wharton, NJ

#3 Jun 5, 2008
I agree. White girls care too much about what they look like and how thin they are. While most black and latinos dont really care

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

United States

#4 Jun 5, 2008
Rosa wrote:
I agree. White girls care too much about what they look like and how thin they are. While most black and latinos dont really care
They should care! Noone wants a fatty!
Rachael

Chicago, IL

#5 Jun 5, 2008
Rosa wrote:
I agree. White girls care too much about what they look like and how thin they are. While most black and latinos dont really care
Yes! They are so shallow. They constantly talk about who’s prettier, how so and so is so thin, etc. It must be a part of their culture. And they like to compete with each other on who looks the best. But I find their CONSTANT dieting very strange. It must suck to never be able to enjoy a real meal.
Rachael

Chicago, IL

#6 Jun 5, 2008
Ashland on the 14th wrote:
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They should care! Noone wants a fatty!
Most black men don't mind.

“Caribbean American”

Level 1

Since: Sep 07

Location hidden

#7 Jun 5, 2008
Ashland on the 14th wrote:
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They should care! Noone wants a fatty!
Alot of black men love them big.

“fullblown technicolour ”

Level 1

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#8 Jun 5, 2008
Um, I'm sort of like that, not the constant dieting, but just extremely aware of what I eat, I don't know, it's not becuase of body image issues, it's just that I'm very self-concious about.

Maybe because I was born in Canada, who knows, lol.

I do think there is a difference of not letting your body image overwhelm you and just accepting obesity--two very different things, IMO.

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Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#9 Jun 5, 2008
Rachael wrote:
Do you think we are more accepting of obesity than other races? I've noticed while at work the white women tend to eat healthier and tend to be thinner. It's like they're always on a diet and they still complain about being fat. But we tend to eat whatever we want and be happier with carrying more weight.
Does anyone else agree? I guess this is one good thing about being black. I don’t have to worry about being fat while white girls are constantly dieting and starving themselves.
Hey listen to this song

http://video.google.com/videoplay...

Doesn't have sh!t to do with race, or age, just that these are two hefty mofo's but they are still beautiful as hell, im saying i'd date them.

“I shall not be moved!!!”

Since: Mar 08

Place where few are sober

#10 Jun 5, 2008
I don't wana be fat.Its about me and my health, not the fact that a man wants me big or thin.In the end, no matter how many people tell me I am not big, if I think so it doesn't matter. And vice versa.

“Shed so many tears”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#11 Jun 5, 2008
My brother always say " Well at least they got a cute face".
Honker

United States

#12 Jun 5, 2008
Rachael wrote:
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Yes! They are so shallow. They constantly talk about who’s prettier, how so and so is so thin, etc. It must be a part of their culture. And they like to compete with each other on who looks the best. But I find their CONSTANT dieting very strange. It must suck to never be able to enjoy a real meal.
It must also suck to have an obesity rate over 70%. What a bunch of pigs! lol.

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

United States

#13 Jun 7, 2008
Rachael wrote:
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Most black men don't mind.
I do! This is why we leave!

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

United States

#14 Jun 7, 2008
Carribean wrote:
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Alot of black men love them big.
That is because they have been conditioned to accept subpar women!
Round 2

AOL

#16 Dec 18, 2008
ding ding ding, keep your left up!!
Prttybrown

Okemos, MI

#17 Dec 19, 2008
Rachael wrote:
Do you think we are more accepting of obesity than other races? I've noticed while at work the white women tend to eat healthier and tend to be thinner. It's like they're always on a diet and they still complain about being fat. But we tend to eat whatever we want and be happier with carrying more weight.
Does anyone else agree? I guess this is one good thing about being black. I don’t have to worry about being fat while white girls are constantly dieting and starving themselves.
well it has a lot to do with two reasons. 1) Black men tend to like them bigger than a size two. Its apart of our culture. Even in earlier days black men wanted a girl with some meat on her. I wouldnt say fat but a lot def like them thicker. and some like big women too. I can use an example from what my dad told me. He said back in the day an avg size black woman was considered around a size 8. That to them was perfect because she was neither too small or too big. 2) Look at the difference in Black and Latin food. More rice,beans,potatoes etc. Soul food consist of a lot of startches (ie mac and cheese,sweet potatoes, red beans and rice, pinto beans etc) and a lot of fats and fried food (ie bacon,chitlens,hamhocks,fried chicken and fish). This is what blacks in the south usually ate and so is the same today. Even the ones up north still enjoy food that their grandparents cooked. Which nine times out of ten is soul food. or carribean depending on your culture. I dont think obsiety really became a black problem until we all were introduced to the "white ppl food" aka McDonalds,BK,Wendys and many other fast food places. Soul food suited blacks fine because we are usually shaped different than whites

“Hello”

Since: Dec 07

Atlanta, GA

#18 Dec 20, 2008
Rachael wrote:
Do you think we are more accepting of obesity than other races? I've noticed while at work the white women tend to eat healthier and tend to be thinner. It's like they're always on a diet and they still complain about being fat. But we tend to eat whatever we want and be happier with carrying more weight.
Does anyone else agree? I guess this is one good thing about being black. I don’t have to worry about being fat while white girls are constantly dieting and starving themselves.
Some people choose food to medicate themselves from pain in order to feel happy. Some people eat a lot of food, because they are bored, lonely, or sad and see food as a comforter that will always be there. If food were removed, you would see a lot of so-called happy big women, become unhappy real quick. On the flip side, some people who worry themselves about weight gain, have poor self-esteem and control issues, just to name a few.. so you have to ask yourself, what's eating you? Food as nourishment and entertainment has it's place, too much or too little could be symptomatic of deep seated emotional issues.

“Hello”

Since: Dec 07

Atlanta, GA

#19 Dec 20, 2008
Rosa wrote:
I agree. White girls care too much about what they look like and how thin they are. While most black and latinos dont really care
Here we go with the ignorant remarks. Prove that you have interviewed even 20% of the black and latino population regarding weight. You have no clue what you are talking about.

“Hello”

Since: Dec 07

Atlanta, GA

#20 Dec 20, 2008
Obesity can be caused by many factors such as economics, environment, racism, education, physical and mental conditions, medications, age, etc. Whether one realizes it or not, it is cheaper to eat healthy and to buy foods that are healthy, such as: vegetables, fruit, and meat. Processed foods are much more expensive. Price a combo meal from Burger King or McDonalds, then price 6 apples, some greens, juice and chicken or fish - more bang for your buck and the food lasts more than one hour... we're talking at least a week. Yes, you will probably lose weight in the process of eating healthier, but the bottom line is eat to live the healthiest most productive live that you can.

Level 1

Since: Jun 11

New York, NY

#21 Oct 25, 2012
I'm a white man, tall & thin, & I love fat women. Physically, I have no interest in skinny women. And I especially love fat black women. Not thick, not big boned, not statuesque, but FAT. There's no one sexier to me. So I'd say, have seconds, & don't skip dessert!

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