Why Do Black Women Hate Being Black

Why Do Black Women Hate Being Black

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Jennifer

Beachwood, OH

#1 Feb 8, 2011
Seriously, i see too many black women either talking about curly or straight hair,light skin,and either always talking about "would you date a non black man. You would think they would be talking about the beauty of their own skin color,their own hair, and their own men.

I never hear any other women talk about this stuff,or either sit around online or offline,going crazy over another race's look,or men, all the while disrespecting their own son's,brothers,fathers,uncles, and so forth.

Why is it that black women hate themselves, and their own men, and resort to doing so much degrading and whorish things,spitting in their ancestors faces.
Carol

Detroit, MI

#2 Feb 8, 2011
Jennifer wrote:
Seriously, i see too many black women either talking about curly or straight hair,light skin,and either always talking about "would you date a non black man. You would think they would be talking about the beauty of their own skin color,their own hair, and their own men.
I never hear any other women talk about this stuff,or either sit around online or offline,going crazy over another race's look,or men, all the while disrespecting their own son's,brothers,fathers,uncles, and so forth.
Why is it that black women hate themselves, and their own men, and resort to doing so much degrading and whorish things,spitting in their ancestors faces.
Shut up Bec, WW are the most neurotic, jealous, insecure, whining, whorish women on the planet while recieving more positive media attention and positive PR than any woman on earth. Why don't you take your own advice?

Since: Nov 10

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#3 Feb 8, 2011
Because they're no focused on community developement. Instead their responding to thread like this where they feel like they have to defend themselves for being black which is distracting from the bigger picture, Black Families and Black Economics. Above all cultivating our culture. All of these things are more important by comparison. This kind of stuff lets black women know that their talents are needed and required elsewhere.

Hair and skin are SOOOOOO yesterday's cover story. The sooner they figure that out the better.

I'm a black woman too, see how easy that was?
Jennifer

Beachwood, OH

#4 Feb 8, 2011
DualMarauder wrote:
Because they're no focused on community developement. Instead their responding to thread like this where they feel like they have to defend themselves for being black which is distracting from the bigger picture, Black Families and Black Economics. Above all cultivating our culture. All of these things are more important by comparison. This kind of stuff lets black women know that their talents are needed and required elsewhere.
Hair and skin are SOOOOOO yesterday's cover story. The sooner they figure that out the better.
I'm a black woman too, see how easy that was?
I beg to differ. Most black women have been brainwashed into hating your skin color,hair texture, eye color,shape, and ect. through hollywood imagery.

A lot of you hate yourselves, so therefore you've been trained to hate on your black men, which messes with black male/black female bonding and reproducing.
beljar

Mandeville, LA

#5 Feb 10, 2011
because black people are cursed. think im wrong? look around you...who has been hated the most, who has teh most trouble?who no what they do always are at the bottom?there is no hope for black people so i would just give up

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#6 Feb 10, 2011
Jennifer wrote:
Seriously, i see too many black women either talking about curly or straight hair,light skin,and either always talking about "would you date a non black man. You would think they would be talking about the beauty of their own skin color,their own hair, and their own men.
I never hear any other women talk about this stuff,or either sit around online or offline,going crazy over another race's look,or men, all the while disrespecting their own son's,brothers,fathers,uncles, and so forth.
Why is it that black women hate themselves, and their own men, and resort to doing so much degrading and whorish things,spitting in their ancestors faces.
These generalizations really need to stop. More than likely this is a troll thread but I'll entertain it for a bit.

I am a BW and I truly love myself. I like my brown skin and my dark wavy hair. I like the contrast between my coloring and the colorful tops I wear or the dainty gold jewelry that rests against my skin. Just because I find white men attractive doesn't mean I do not love my own physical features. I can love what I see in the mirror while still appreciating the physical features of a White man, Asian, Latino, Native American, etc. I think blue eyes can be sexy yet I'm also turned on by deep brown eyes.

Variety is nice, no?

Oh and as for ancestors...my maternal great grandfather is White. He and my Black great grandmother were married for many years and had 4 beautiful children one being my loving granny.

I dont hate anyone, I embrace everyone.
Kaydee

Almere, Netherlands

#7 Feb 10, 2011
Jennifer wrote:
Seriously, i see too many black women either talking about curly or straight hair,light skin,and either always talking about "would you date a non black man. You would think they would be talking about the beauty of their own skin color,their own hair, and their own men.
I never hear any other women talk about this stuff,or either sit around online or offline,going crazy over another race's look,or men, all the while disrespecting their own son's,brothers,fathers,uncles, and so forth.
Why is it that black women hate themselves, and their own men, and resort to doing so much degrading and whorish things,spitting in their ancestors faces.
Awhh, i dont hate the fact that I am black. And i see you don't either. Well I love being a young girl from Africa born in Senegal, raised in Europe. I love it when people from the Diaspora try to connect with Africans, or vice versa. I mean, people from the Diaspora might not be pure Africans, but still they are part African, and if they are willing to learn about Africa i think most africans are open for that.
And i love my Afro ! Haha
People who hate themselves, dont know themselves. Because they only look at what others have, and they dont have. They should look at what they DO have, and others DONT !! Thats how i think about it.
Tell ur story,

bless
Jennifer

Beachwood, OH

#8 Feb 11, 2011
Kaydee wrote:
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Awhh, i dont hate the fact that I am black. And i see you don't either. Well I love being a young girl from Africa born in Senegal, raised in Europe. I love it when people from the Diaspora try to connect with Africans, or vice versa. I mean, people from the Diaspora might not be pure Africans, but still they are part African, and if they are willing to learn about Africa i think most africans are open for that.
And i love my Afro ! Haha
People who hate themselves, dont know themselves. Because they only look at what others have, and they dont have. They should look at what they DO have, and others DONT !! Thats how i think about it.
Tell ur story,
bless
Good stuff, but from my vintage point, i see too many eurocenticized black women, and black men don't respect a woman that disrespects herself in such a disgraceful way, that it disrespects her mother,or his mother or black women in his family.

Black women seem to degrade themselves to such a level in order to try and be like other women, in an attempt to chase other men as well, sort of a whored out wholesale market modern day slave trade.
Jennifer

Beachwood, OH

#9 Feb 11, 2011
Nia_ wrote:
<quoted text>
These generalizations really need to stop. More than likely this is a troll thread but I'll entertain it for a bit.
I am a BW and I truly love myself. I like my brown skin and my dark wavy hair. I like the contrast between my coloring and the colorful tops I wear or the dainty gold jewelry that rests against my skin. Just because I find white men attractive doesn't mean I do not love my own physical features. I can love what I see in the mirror while still appreciating the physical features of a White man, Asian, Latino, Native American, etc. I think blue eyes can be sexy yet I'm also turned on by deep brown eyes.
Variety is nice, no?
Oh and as for ancestors...my maternal great grandfather is White. He and my Black great grandmother were married for many years and had 4 beautiful children one being my loving granny.
I dont hate anyone, I embrace everyone.
Girl you are so far gone, that you didn't even notice you didn't mention black men at all in your post. You're a disgrace, and an exact example of what i'm saying.

Your ancestors were raped and degraded by the same blue eyed devils and non bm you chase after today.

You can't love yourself, and then in the same breath not once mention your own black men, who are in the image of yourself, which when combined, makes another you, smh, black women like you are why the black gene pool and community is in peril.
Jennifer

Beachwood, OH

#10 Feb 11, 2011
From weaves, skin bleaching, contact lensing, dress, always trying to live around white people or other non black folks, feminist movement was even backed by black women, so that you could TRY and get to where white women are at in society, yet it was shoved down youre throat, and you were driven into welfare munchers, and the porn industry, while your families broken apart.

Not only are you self-haters, but you are severly naive. lol

Black men are starting to really see through your craziness.

If you can't get your slave master, you then chase down the curly haired latino/hispanic, IF HE WANTS YOU, which is majority never,lol.

Then if that doesn't work, you attempt to go after asian men, and we've just heard from one of your own sister women in that ethiopian who has exposed you black women as desperate and self-hating, just as i've done here.

Look at halle berry, and all the rest of your idols, that continually embarrass your people in the media, craving mixed babies, and prefering to be called a N**** by anybody, as long as you get the white man's money, and genes. lol You're pitiful.
Kiki

Sugar Land, TX

#11 Feb 11, 2011
beljar wrote:
because black people are cursed. think im wrong? look around you...who has been hated the most, who has teh most trouble?who no what they do always are at the bottom?there is no hope for black people so i would just give up
Really and where is Barrack Obama now? Sitting in the white house and running the country while you probably can't get your fat and lazy white as$ off of your sofa and out of the trailer park. Don't kid yourself.

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#12 Feb 11, 2011
Jennifer wrote:
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Girl you are so far gone, that you didn't even notice you didn't mention black men at all in your post. You're a disgrace, and an exact example of what i'm saying.
Your ancestors were raped and degraded by the same blue eyed devils and non bm you chase after today.
You can't love yourself, and then in the same breath not once mention your own black men, who are in the image of yourself, which when combined, makes another you, smh, black women like you are why the black gene pool and community is in peril.
You can save the judgemental faux afrocentric mumbo jumbo. You can also save the "you dont love yourself" accusations. Did I really need to type the words "Black man" when I already stated that I embrace all. Wouldn't "all" automatically include Black men? You're simply looking for an "issue".

Get real. You supposedly down sistas talk a good game behind the screen. You're so down for the cause and you love yourself so much that you're holding on to injustices that happened over 100 years ago and are afraid to live in the NOW... you're attacking other Black women who feel liberated and sexy and utilize all of their options. You throw personal judgements on others you know nothing about due to your own masked low self esteem and stifled way of life.

Gene pool? Like many other African Americans my gene pool is already mixed. My great grandparents were married. No rape involved there...just love. I understand that it's hard for you to understand that a White man could love and marry a Black woman..but it has happened and will continue happening until the end of time. You dont like it? Dont Participate and you're good.

Disgrace? Not hardly. I'm young, well educated, living well, no children and I'm loving life. Since you're so concerned about the Black race living on untainted why dont you go speak to those lost young brothas out there that are killing themselves in the street, selling drugs, shunning educations and throwing away their lives in an attempt to fit in. TALK TO THEM. DON'T PREACH TO ME.

IM GOOD.

I'm so glad that I have open minded friends who are loving, kind and are unrestrained by this type of foolishness. Chicks like you are suffocating and annoying. You are your own worst enemy.

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#13 Feb 11, 2011
Jennifer wrote:
Not only are you self-haters, but you are severly naive. lol
Black men are starting to really see through your craziness.
If you can't get your slave master, you then chase down the curly haired latino/hispanic, IF HE WANTS YOU, which is majority never,lol.
Just from the tone of this post, I can tell this was not written by a BW. Besides all of the other meaningless crap you just spewed, this comment is quite telling. Unless you are unattractive, naive or blind, most beautiful Black women have not had to chase down any man. The men (in all varieties) have come after her. Whether she was interested or not it has happened numerous times to many of us.

You're either an extremely low self esteem woman or a pathetic BM who has nothing else to do but spread nonsense on the net.

I'm though with this thread. Seek help.

“Shed so many tears”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#15 Feb 11, 2011
Jennifer wrote:
Seriously, i see too many black women either talking about curly or straight hair,light skin,and either always talking about "would you date a non black man. You would think they would be talking about the beauty of their own skin color,their own hair, and their own men.
I never hear any other women talk about this stuff,or either sit around online or offline,going crazy over another race's look,or men, all the while disrespecting their own son's,brothers,fathers,uncles, and so forth.
Why is it that black women hate themselves, and their own men, and resort to doing so much degrading and whorish things,spitting in their ancestors faces.
Jennifer, you should get off line and turn on your T.V, really, log off and turn on your television. Do you really think those Ms.Clairol commercials of WW with long flowing straight hair is actually theirs, no honey it's an European weave, it runs about $1200-3000 to be camera ready enough to fool gals like you. Do you think those perfect blemish free faces you see in the Cosmopolitan magazine are actual blemish free faces, Sorry honey that's the magic of photochop and air brush. Or how bout those red carpet beauties with perfect skin and gloss free makeup. Sorry again but that's silicon, botox and hours of tanning booth radiation treatments eating away at their skin. And lets not forget those beautiful blonde and brunette bunnies you idolize so much, you know the ones with the perfect cheek bone structure (cheek implants), perfect noses (rhinoplasty), lusious lips (fat injections) and plump rear ends (azz injected with silicone also) looking so flawless. White women live under the knife, destroying themselves, while fooling you into thinking their perfect, honey nobody is perfect. These women cake on mountains of make-up just look half way decent. When all that ish comes off with the girdle, hell WW look like Roseanne Barr!

A black woman don't have to be jealous of ANY BODY. We have GOD Given beauty. A beauty you white women have to buy and go broke to maintain!

So go turn on your T.V and look passed the BS you've been told.
Jennifer

Beachwood, OH

#16 Feb 11, 2011
Nia_ wrote:
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You can save the judgemental faux afrocentric mumbo jumbo. You can also save the "you dont love yourself" accusations. Did I really need to type the words "Black man" when I already stated that I embrace all. Wouldn't "all" automatically include Black men? You're simply looking for an "issue".
Get real. You supposedly down sistas talk a good game behind the screen. You're so down for the cause and you love yourself so much that you're holding on to injustices that happened over 100 years ago and are afraid to live in the NOW... you're attacking other Black women who feel liberated and sexy and utilize all of their options. You throw personal judgements on others you know nothing about due to your own masked low self esteem and stifled way of life.
Gene pool? Like many other African Americans my gene pool is already mixed. My great grandparents were married. No rape involved there...just love. I understand that it's hard for you to understand that a White man could love and marry a Black woman..but it has happened and will continue happening until the end of time. You dont like it? Dont Participate and you're good.
Disgrace? Not hardly. I'm young, well educated, living well, no children and I'm loving life. Since you're so concerned about the Black race living on untainted why dont you go speak to those lost young brothas out there that are killing themselves in the street, selling drugs, shunning educations and throwing away their lives in an attempt to fit in. TALK TO THEM. DON'T PREACH TO ME.
IM GOOD.
I'm so glad that I have open minded friends who are loving, kind and are unrestrained by this type of foolishness. Chicks like you are suffocating and annoying. You are your own worst enemy.
You didn't mention black men intentionally, you lying sack of sh*t. Because you're either a white man posing as a black woman, or just the usual feminist anti black male negroes that poison black communities. You're fooling nobody.

You came over in chains right next to your black man, and you're still a slave, next to your black man, no matter how "light" you try to get yourself or your cursed offspring. lol

And no only YOUR gene pool is mixed, not MANY, sorry to wake you from your dream of wanting everybody else to look or be affiliated with whiteness. lol

Hit the road "liberated" slave. Your master doesn't have to rape you now, because he's brainwashed sheep like you thourougly, to the point where you would rather be called N****, and treated like a sex toy, as long as you got something "light" on your arm and comin out your desecrated womb.

Your future is that of halle, garcelle and the other brainwashed negroes with OOW mixed breeds, and passed around like a "blunt". hahahahaha.
Jennifer

Beachwood, OH

#17 Feb 11, 2011
Nia_ wrote:
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Just from the tone of this post, I can tell this was not written by a BW. Besides all of the other meaningless crap you just spewed, this comment is quite telling. Unless you are unattractive, naive or blind, most beautiful Black women have not had to chase down any man. The men (in all varieties) have come after her. Whether she was interested or not it has happened numerous times to many of us.
You're either an extremely low self esteem woman or a pathetic BM who has nothing else to do but spread nonsense on the net.
I'm though with this thread. Seek help.
The only help needed is by self-hating delusional black women such as yourself, if you're even one. lol

Your future and that of many black women such as you, will be like that of halle berry, garcelle beauvais, and the many other of your idols, who tried desperately to run away from their communities, and people, only to be shell shocked to reality, and left alone still a N****, and with mixed breed chitterlings, trying to get back into the black community. Yea hit the "road", you've been done. hahahahaha
candayamz

Wichita, KS

#18 Feb 11, 2011
because our hair is too nappied and our skin is too dark.Our eyes are a dookie brown color.There satisfied.Now go to bed.
candayamz

Wichita, KS

#19 Feb 11, 2011
think I got my light skin from my mama naaaaahhh

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Samia

Brooklyn, NY

#20 Feb 11, 2011
Why does this person remind me of that moses character? Very oddly suspicious.
Disagreeable Lady

Long Beach, CA

#21 Feb 11, 2011
beljar wrote:
because black people are cursed. think im wrong? look around you...who has been hated the most, who has teh most trouble?who no what they do always are at the bottom?there is no hope for black people so i would just give up
Actuallly; alot of people... I meann ALOT of people wold say that whites are the mostedd hated because of their histiry. blackare categorized as undelcassed but they are not the most hated. why dont you "just give up" because you sound so stupid right now ! Thaaanks !

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