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#221
Sep 23, 2013
 
fair_guy wrote:
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Graduated with masters, working at Fortune 250 right now...black women still heightist SMH...
Congrats bro. Glad to see you doing so well
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#222
Sep 23, 2013
 
It is inevitable the black american community won't exist in the future of America
BeAuTiFul SoUl

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#223
Sep 23, 2013
 

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I don't think that some back men are even intelligent enough to get the point of why they are usually getting the blame for so many babies without fathers being born in the black community. Really? DUH! Of course a woman is responsible for making good choices for herself and everybody with a brain does understand that it takes two to make a baby. This goes without saying.

The reason that black men get dogged the most about the situation is because AFTER these children are born it doesn't matter who is the blame these children need to be cared for and deserve to be cared for and a lot of the women wind up taking care of these children by themselves, that is the problem. The women should not suffer the consequences alone since they did not do it alone.

SO....therefore black men need to stop playing sex games with women, getting them pregnant and then running from their consequences and responsibility...point blank...period.

Trifling black men......shut it up and get your act together. If you plant your seed in a woman then man up and TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN!
BeAuTiFul SoUl

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Sep 23, 2013
 

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AND PS; Black women are not the ONLY women suffering from being single mothers because of black men. A lot of young black women are wising up and going to college and actually preparing for their future. Today there are many many many white women raising their little mix children alone (some living in the projects) because they are having babies by no good black men. Anywhere a no good man rest his penis there will be NOTHING but trouble for that woman.....NO MATTER WHAT COLOR SHE IS! Women need to top messing with these trifling niccas. Real talk!

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#225
Sep 23, 2013
 
Cogito2 wrote:
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Well all of the above have some bases in the truth, however, I theorize that men because of the tenuous nature of our darwinian behavior causes us to exist subconsciously in a more temporary "here in now" mindset, while women endeavor to secure their long term future prospects. Men are conditioned to expect the one constant in life....CHANGE, so we tend to drift in and out in our vigilance, rendering protracted concentration an effort for some of us.
And far as "evading"....sure men evade but so do women. We as a society are conditioned to grade women differently than men because we regard their work as being of supreme importance, but with 80% of women petitioning for divorce, it is obvious and logical for one to conclude that within that number, there are a lot of women, doing a whole lot of opting out or "evading."
WOW! It's "80% of women" who take the initiative to disband from their marriages. I did NOT know that!

Yeah, that's some "evasion" fo' yo'@ZZ!

And as for the man's lack of concentration you do assert that it is due to a "subconscious", a more visceral response as oppose to something more cerebral & calculated, huh? I think you're DEFINATELY on to something there, Mike...

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#226
Sep 23, 2013
 
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Well, I think that from the outside looking end, many people simply assume that a successful man automatically morphs into an arrogant person, but with success comes many changes. In fact, most successful people, be they athletes or businessmen, know that it will require MORE effort and concentration to maintain their success than it took for them to secure it in the first place.
Also, this appearance of Arrogance, in many cases, is not arrogance at all, but a protective barrier that successful people erect around themselves to shield them from the sharks encircling them with their entitled mouths open, ready to separate them from their wealth.
Having said all that, a successful man usually does and should encourage his woman to see herself in some respect as part of his success, because she has a vested interest in it, however, a respectful sense of gratitude and appreciation should be maintained by her without her mitigating his hard work and achievement by attempting to co-opt his success by declaring herself as the driving force and the raison d'etre behind it, because this implies that he has or had no ambition or motivation without her.
...And that there IS the implication: HE ain't sh!t unless SHE'S rockin' wit' him.

Now that doesn't imply that her going into confederacy with her man isn't greatly appreciated and that he's not indebted to her for the esprit de corp vibes that she does provide, however it is duly important to establish that he was already ESTABLISHED prior to her existence; she just ices the cake...but the cake was already baked.

Excellent points.

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#227
Sep 23, 2013
 
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Aborted children suffer far more in the act of abortion, than if they were to have a chance to live.
Life can be painful sometimes, for everybody. Nobody's exempt from the pressures of life, but there's always the sun shining even behind the clouds to remind us that we're BLESSED to have a life!
Everyone has a chance to be happy, depending on decisions. You can be in the slums but have a great family filled with love. You can also be in a mansion with nothing but the walls to stare at, and just a big space that serves to echo your loneliness.
Abortion maligns basic huuman rights that our Nation was built on. A fetus IS a human, not fully formed but nevertheless. It's a human life with emotions and a soul.
Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness is a right given to us by our Creator, and pro-choice folks like you violate His power and the Declaration of Independence.
Hey, TOP MODEL!

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#228
Sep 23, 2013
 
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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Yes, it's really sad. I think people that get abortions are selfish.
They love to participate in the act of conceiving a child, and then kill the consequences.
I understand that we all make mistakes, she ends up getting prego by accident by a man she knows is no good for anything besides sex, so now the child has to pay.
No, let that baby LIVE! He didn't ask to be conceived or born, but now that he's here just make the best out of it.
Either that or close your legs/tie AND burn your fallopian tubes/give it up for adoption so that the child can experience life and all that it has to offer.
Everything you do doesn't just go away. That day of reckoning WILL come, and these men and women will not be able to look at our creator and the children they killed with a straight face.
I agree, brilliant post!:) You're a lot smarter than you used to be :)

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#229
Sep 23, 2013
 
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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But it's not all women's fault.
When a woman tells a man that she's pregnant with his child, a common reply is, "Well what you gone do?"
Even if they're married, on LHH-ATL a very married Kirk encouraged his wife Rasheeda to get an abortion because the 'timing is wrong'. Then proceeds to cheat on her.
But she went thru with the pregnancy, and I for one am proud and amazed at how she carried on. That could not have been a very pleasant experience for a pregnant lady.
That's not true. Majority of those women getting abortions aren't married. Maybe less than 1% are married.

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#230
Sep 23, 2013
 
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>...And that there IS the implication: HE ain't sh!t unless SHE'S rockin' wit' him.
Now that doesn't imply that her going into confederacy with her man isn't greatly appreciated and that he's not indebted to her for the esprit de corp vibes that she does provide, however it is duly important to establish that he was already ESTABLISHED prior to her existence; she just ices the cake...but the cake was already baked.
Excellent points.
And, in the interest of objectivity, there are SOME cases where a loving, caring or ambitious woman deserves credit for utilizing her power, born of the love that she holds on deposit with him, nudges, pushes and encourages him to rise above his station of mediocrity and motivate him to go on to achieve things that he otherwise would not have conceived of where it not for her. In such cases, the woman fully deserves a rightful equity claim in their successful enterprise.

True story: I had a friend who's ambition back in the day was merely to become a medical assistant, which on it's face, there's nothing wrong with it; but baby girl pushed, cajoled and got him to see himself as more and now, the brother is a surgeon. In such cases, shorty clearly was the driving force behind, at least the blueprint of their success. He of course, did the work, but were it not for her, he would have contented himself with being a medical tech. So my words were not intended to discount the contributions of a loving, supportive woman when such is the case.

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#231
Sep 24, 2013
 
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>I say abortion is a life saver because most of those women are not mentally stabled so they would only raise animals.
We don't know that though :) Everybody need to be judged according to their own individual actions.

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#232
Sep 24, 2013
 
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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We don't know that though :) Everybody need to be judged according to their own individual actions.
We don't know for sure but it is more possible than not.

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#234
Dec 4, 2013
 
It is common today to find a lot of single mothers. My mom was a single mother.
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#235
Dec 4, 2013
 
Statistics only count the race of the mother so that 72% is much higher when you add in the half breeds.

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#236
Dec 4, 2013
 
Being a single mother is a choice, plain and simple. I chose not to make babies until I was married. A good father teaches his son how to be a man and his daughter to have standards for the men she dates. There are so many options to prevent unwanted pregnancy. I don't get it. I've never laid eyes on a man so fine that I needed to make a baby with him without him putting a ring on it first. But, neither my mother nor my grandmother was a baby mamma so I suppose I learned by example.
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#237
Dec 4, 2013
 
ONO wrote:
Are we to believe intelligent black women allowed black men sneak into their bedroom and sexually seduced them?
Blacks struggle with 72 percent unwed mothers rate - NBC News www.nbcnews.com/.../blacks-struggle-pe ... Nov 7, 2010 - Seventy-two percent of black babies are born to unwed mothers,... mothers today , according to government statistics..... The book is based on interviews with 162 low-income single mothers.
MACEO

As well as the Sorry Ass Blck men that live off those women who allow it!

As I said, Ive met Black men who have 2,3, 4 or more children by different women. They told me that they won't have a problem finding someone but I don't find that to be true.

Black women are changing and not as accepting of Black men who have lot of baggage because it generally falls on them.!

The answer is NO!
Iloveit

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#238
Dec 4, 2013
 
But 72% of black women aren't mothers. I swear the men in our community sure do know how to pick up the trashiest women in every race on the earth...and then try to blame that mess on everybody but themselves!
SadButTrue

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#239
Dec 4, 2013
 
Iloveit wrote:
But 72% of black women aren't mothers. I swear the men in our community sure do know how to pick up the trashiest women in every race on the earth...and then try to blame that mess on everybody but themselves!
MACEO

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A Fool loves to continue in his folly! LMAO

PROVERBS 26;11 - 12

11Like a dog that returns to its vomit,
so a fool repeats his folly.

12Do you see a man wise in his own eyes?
There is more hope for a fool than for himself.

A FOOLS WAYS CATCH UP WITH HIM AND YOU SEE HIS REWARD AT THE END OF HIS YOUTH! LMAO

YOUR LIFE FLASHES BEFORE YOU MACEO! LMAO

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#241
Dec 4, 2013
 
Topix really knows how to exhaust the heck out of a subject.
SadButTrue

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#242
Dec 5, 2013
 
Iloveit wrote:
But 72% of black women aren't mothers. I swear the men in our community sure do know how to pick up the trashiest women in every race on the earth...and then try to blame that mess on everybody but themselves!
MACEO

Read this! LMAO

Capree

I saw a White man telling a Black man this on TV and made him look like a FOOL! He said he same thing, your too busy chasing Puzzy and if you make money, help others, create women will come. You can pick and choose from the best!

Even the Hispanics are running Black males out of so called Black areas that have turned Hispanic. When Hispanics move on they found out that Black males sell drugs, have gangs, take the neighborhoods down and leave women with OOW babies they don't want to support!

The Hispanic men have gained forces and drive Black males out! When Black males go into their communities they "Watch them" follow them and "Stare......." they want to take their women and leave them with OOW babies for Hispanic men to raise and they said NO!

Any Black men that go into Hispanic area are driven out! Most races say BLACK MEN SUCK!

They don't allow Black men into their neighborhoods in groups of 2-3 they push them out and make them leave their areas and protect their families!

I think that's being Smart!

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