The Problem is your Ugly Not Dark Ski...

“Whatever”

Since: Apr 08

none of your business

#319 Apr 18, 2008
fair_guy wrote:
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Exactly, you should have been here 3 weeks ago, I had a heated debate with three females who were essentially denying the obvious truth...
I did not mean to downplay your struggle and I will agree most women do not want a short man because we have been manipulated into believing only a tall man can protect us. But let me tell you this I promise if you look hard enough you will find a great woman who isn't all shallow and will love you for who you are.

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

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#320 Apr 18, 2008
Danequa wrote:
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I did not mean to downplay your struggle and I will agree most women do not want a short man because we have been manipulated into believing only a tall man can protect us. But let me tell you this I promise if you look hard enough you will find a great woman who isn't all shallow and will love you for who you are.
Trust I am looking, hard enough for my eyes to bleed here...
diane77

United States

#321 Apr 18, 2008
diane77 wrote:
<quoted text>Toni Braxton is a beautiful skinned singer married to light skin man that has black ancestary.
Toni Braxton is a beautiful dark skinned singer married to a light skin man of black ancestary.

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#322 Apr 18, 2008
Danequa wrote:
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Sure many attractive looking lightskin women date lightskin men such as vanessa williams because I know some women actually fall in love with them. I am talking about the none famous black women whom you will only see with a lightskin man if she is ugly. Yes toni is gorgeoous but she also dated curtis martin before she married that lightskin loser. Also lauryn hill was in love with the chocolate wyclef but he ditched her for his beautiful darkskin wife and she is still suicidal about it because he is the man she really loved. But since she could not have him she settled for bob marley sons who does not have his dad looks. And yes I will admit I think bob marley was hot for a yellow dude lol.
dont feel offended the nect time someone says you look god for a dark women. dont be hyprocritical i hate hyprocrits. and for the record, i see plenty pretty dark women and light women with light men cause not all women prefer dark men pretty or ugly, some do and some dont. walso why the hell are you calling tonis husband a loser. dont get me started on loser arab and white men.

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#323 Apr 18, 2008
Danequa wrote:
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I did not mean to downplay your struggle and I will agree most women do not want a short man because we have been manipulated into believing only a tall man can protect us. But let me tell you this I promise if you look hard enough you will find a great woman who isn't all shallow and will love you for who you are.
so r u going to abuse your ligh skinned son if you have one with these arab or white men?
STOP

United States

#324 Apr 18, 2008
Dark Skinned and Lovin It wrote:
Furthermore, I am not trying to imply that light-skinned blacks had it better cuz the truth is that they were still Black and Whites treated them as such. Additionally, some light-skinned Blacks were more desired by White men, therefore, many of them were raped. Some of them tried to pass for being White and consequently felt like they could not really be themselves, etc. So, no, they did not have it easy either. I just want to make sure no one thinks I am implying light-skinned folks had it easy.
Black people always try to bring up slavery when white people viewed mix people and the lightskin people the same as the real black people which was the truth in a way but they were still treated a little bit better because they were house n8gg8rs like some of them are even to this day! But anyways, lets stay on the subject of hear and now. See in the new days lightskin black people and mix people are treated way better then darkskin and even brownskin black people from white people and other non-black races also because they do not look black, and they are treated better from black people because they do not look black and that is what is considered beautiful in our culture which are white or hispanic looking so called black women but because they have a drop of black blood in them we call them black because we just want to hold on to women that do not look black so we can say d8m look at that beautiful black women when really they are mix or almost white or hispanic like hally berry,Alica keys,marey carey,beyonces, rinnina and other mix women are considered beautiful black women and considered to other races even black men the top of the chain if you are to every mess with a black women.

But they are not black they are mix people. Black floks just hate their selfs and their color see growing up in ILL I have seen things like this all the time. Let be real black floks are different from each other what a darkskin and brownskin black women goes threw a mix women or lightskin women would never even witness so lets all stop with the b8llsh8t!

“Whatever”

Since: Apr 08

none of your business

#325 Apr 18, 2008
BritishBoy wrote:
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so r u going to abuse your ligh skinned son if you have one with these arab or white men?
I don't plan on having any kids. And secondly you don't know if my arab man is lgith or darkskin. You must have forgotten that arab and indian men come in all shades just like black people. I date an indian man who was as dark as denzel. And the guy I am with now has brownskin so I doubt we would make a yellow baby if we did have kids.
STOP

United States

#326 Apr 18, 2008
diane77 wrote:
<quoted text>Toni Braxton is a beautiful dark skinned singer married to a light skin man of black ancestary.
Toni Braxton is not even close to darkskin she is lightskin! The other day I heard someone call Keshia Cole darkskin they said "she is a pretty darkskin women" and I was thinking in my head are you blind she looks mix! Darkskin black people are the colors of people like Kelly rowland, Gaberall Union, Nia long, the famous tennis players the William sisters, Berine Mack, Westly Snips, Denzel Washington and India Iria people like that are darkskin people. Toni Braxton will still get good treatment because she is lightskin now she might not get treated as good as a women the color of Alica keys,Maria Carey or Beyonce because she is darker then them but she can still get to the top because she is lightskin women with out any problems! Please black people lets stop lieing to our selfs!

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#327 Apr 18, 2008
Danequa wrote:
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I don't plan on having any kids. And secondly you don't know if my arab man is lgith or darkskin. You must have forgotten that arab and indian men come in all shades just like black people. I date an indian man who was as dark as denzel. And the guy I am with now has brownskin so I doubt we would make a yellow baby if we did have kids.
your not having kids/ that aint right, but thats another story for me. but back to the point. i never said you will have a yellow child, my question was if u did would you treat it badly?

but then again you did say in another thread you think biracial men look better than regular black men so i guess youve already answered the question, well kinda anyway.

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#328 Apr 18, 2008
STOP wrote:
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Toni Braxton is not even close to darkskin she is lightskin! The other day I heard someone call Keshia Cole darkskin they said "she is a pretty darkskin women" and I was thinking in my head are you blind she looks mix! Darkskin black people are the colors of people like Kelly rowland, Gaberall Union, Nia long, the famous tennis players the William sisters, Berine Mack, Westly Snips, Denzel Washington and India Iria people like that are darkskin people. Toni Braxton will still get good treatment because she is lightskin now she might not get treated as good as a women the color of Alica keys,Maria Carey or Beyonce because she is darker then them but she can still get to the top because she is lightskin women with out any problems! Please black people lets stop lieing to our selfs!
i was with you unitl you said nia long and denzel are dark, to me they are medium tones, also toni braxton is the same skintone as denzel and nia who re both medium caramel red bron type complexion. but yes gabrielle is dark so is wesley, taye, jennifer hudson and kelly.

Since: Mar 08

Columbus, OH

#329 Apr 18, 2008
Danequa wrote:
You notice how pretty darkskin women like whitney houston, shanice, natalie cole, cicely tyson, and holly robinson peete all married darkskin men. While ugly women like oprah, kimberly elise, and star jones married lightskin. It just proof that the dummy shaland is wrong and I am right about black women only settle for lightskin men when they can not attarct darkskin men.
Get real.With the exception of Cicely Tyson,ALL of the women you mentioned are BROWN-SKINNED,NOT DARK-SKINNED!Stop mixing the two up because they are NOT the same!And Oprah,Kimberly Elise and Star Jones are probably not attracted to dark-skinned men.Not everyone likes dark-skinned men.
STOP

United States

#330 Apr 18, 2008
BritishBoy wrote:
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i was with you unitl you said nia long and denzel are dark, to me they are medium tones, also toni braxton is the same skintone as denzel and nia who re both medium caramel red bron type complexion. but yes gabrielle is dark so is wesley, taye, jennifer hudson and kelly.
Toni is no were near nia longs and denzels color, maybe because you are from the UK you might not no what people I am talking about. But if you go and look up these people then you will know what I am talking about.

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#331 Apr 18, 2008
tigress aka Tiger wrote:
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Get real.With the exception of Cicely Tyson,ALL of the women you mentioned are BROWN-SKINNED,NOT DARK-SKINNED!Stop mixing the two up because they are NOT the same!And Oprah,Kimberly Elise and Star Jones are probably not attracted to dark-skinned men.Not everyone likes dark-skinned men.
i know cause those women are just a lil darker than me and im a regular medium toned.

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#332 Apr 18, 2008
STOP wrote:
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Toni is no were near nia longs and denzels color, maybe because you are from the UK you might not no what people I am talking about. But if you go and look up these people then you will know what I am talking about.
of course i know who they are, this is what i consider brownskin or medium toned i guess i should say here is one pic of nia.

http://www.tvguide.com/images/pgimg/nia-long1...

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#333 Apr 18, 2008

Since: Dec 07

East London UK

#334 Apr 18, 2008
and here is toni braxton, so r u telling me toni is so light compared to denzel and nia.

http://www.musicfanclubs.org/tonibraxton/13.j...
STOP

United States

#335 Apr 18, 2008
BritishBoy wrote:
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of course i know who they are, this is what i consider brownskin or medium toned i guess i should say here is one pic of nia.
http://www.tvguide.com/images/pgimg/nia-long1...
In America that is what they call darkskin.
Casual Thought

Youngstown, OH

#336 Apr 18, 2008
soulflower wrote:
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Fair...please son...you don't KNOW any of us...I mean, not really.
You could be 7'1" for all WE know.
I dated a man who was 4'11". Do I need to get him to post pictures? Not all women behave the same. Not all people are the same.
I do not doubt your experiences, but they are not the experiences of ALL men. I know plenty of men, shorter than you, who pull all kinds of women.
I LOVE tall women (long legs yummm :P)
Casual Thought

Youngstown, OH

#337 Apr 18, 2008
STOP wrote:
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In America that is what they call darkskin[?]
Nope.

She could possibly be referred to as 'brown' skinned, but this isn't likely as she has a bit of a red-brown hue in that pic.

She could be referred to as 'dark skinned' on a relative scale, in a certain context.
Casual Thought

Youngstown, OH

#338 Apr 18, 2008
She could also be referred to as light skinned (again in a comparative mental context)

but I'd say she's of a medium hue.

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