The Problem is your Ugly Not Dark Ski...

The Problem is your Ugly Not Dark Skinned!!!!!

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“OUT OF MANY, ONE PEOPLE”

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Since: Jan 08

Queens New York Born

#1 Jan 6, 2008
Why does this issue get so much attention? Get over it if your dark skinned there is nothing you can do about it, if your light skinned there is nothing you can do about it. People who are complaining about this are weak minded. You know what the REAL problem is some of these dark-skinned women on this thread are just UGLY and they try to play the I’m dark skinned so nobody wants me card. If your ugly and dark skinned the problem is your UGLY.....BEAUTIFUL dark skinned women DO NOT HAVE THESE ISSUES!!!

“OUT OF MANY, ONE PEOPLE”

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Since: Jan 08

Queens New York Born

#2 Jan 6, 2008
I'm tired of these posts THIS is what the real issue is regarding dark-skinned women!!!
James

San Francisco, CA

#3 Jan 6, 2008
I'm Irish Catholic and I agree 100%.

I've seen some dark-skinned woman that are off the charts in beauty, I don't care what your skin color is, as long as you have beautiful features and take care of yourself.

“Concrete Rose”

Since: Dec 07

St Louis, MO

#4 Jan 6, 2008
G-MACK wrote:
Why does this issue get so much attention? Get over it if your dark skinned there is nothing you can do about it, if your light skinned there is nothing you can do about it. People who are complaining about this are weak minded. You know what the REAL problem is some of these dark-skinned women on this thread are just UGLY and they try to play the I’m dark skinned so nobody wants me card. If your ugly and dark skinned the problem is your UGLY.....BEAUTIFUL dark skinned women DO NOT HAVE THESE ISSUES!!!
Wow, that's harsch, and true in some instances. I can get dark in the summer and most people still say that I look cute. I have never had a prob attracting men, but realistically, alot of guys go for the lighter or mixed types. You are not even married to a black woman, right? So maybe some of them have a point. LOL

“iM THE TRUTH ... Y WULD i LiE ”

Since: Sep 07

kENYAN.BORN.TEXAS.MADE

#5 Jan 6, 2008
AMEN!!!

Somebody needed to tell them about

themselves

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Since: May 07

Dodge City, KS

#6 Jan 6, 2008
what's consider ugly on a person.
James

San Francisco, CA

#7 Jan 6, 2008
I'm not sure if you're asking me, but this is my opinion.

- Bad teeth
- Big stomach
- Fake Breasts or Ass (Fake Anything)
- Manly Jaw
- Receding Chin

Basically anything that looks un-natural or distorted.

Candella88, you have a pretty face. Big eyes, Greek nose, and full lips are attractive features.

Since: Jul 07

Atco, NJ

#8 Jan 6, 2008
Michelle Kia wrote:
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Wow, that's harsch, and true in some instances. I can get dark in the summer and most people still say that I look cute. I have never had a prob attracting men, but realistically, alot of guys go for the lighter or mixed types. You are not even married to a black woman, right? So maybe some of them have a point. LOL
That's true also. I be hearing brothers telling telling an attractive dark-skinned black woman, "You're cute for a dark-skinned woman" or "You're cute to be dark-skinned" or "I've never seen an attractive dark-skinned woman before" or "I usually for mess with a lot of dark-skinned girls, but you are an exception because you are one of the rare dark-skinned women that are pretty" or "You're the only dark-skinned woman that I've dated". If that's not being color-struck, then I don't know what it is. What I'm trying to say is that even if a dark-skinned woman is attractive, she will still be passed over for a light-skinned black woman ugly or not, a mixed-race woman ugly or not, or a non-black woman ugly or not. I'm just keeping it real. We are not in denial. We can see it clear as the blue sky.

“OUT OF MANY, ONE PEOPLE”

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Since: Jan 08

Queens New York Born

#9 Jan 6, 2008
Michelle Kia wrote:
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Wow, that's harsch, and true in some instances. I can get dark in the summer and most people still say that I look cute. I have never had a prob attracting men, but realistically, alot of guys go for the lighter or mixed types. You are not even married to a black woman, right? So maybe some of them have a point. LOL
I was with the mother of my first two children for 10 years she was 6'0 dark skinned and beautiful, I loved her, we were going to get married it didn't work out because I was at fault not because she was dark skinned. I could NEVER say that dark skinned women are unattractive my kids MOTHER is dark skinned and so is my Father’s mother, my grandmother. Not to mention my father is a 6'7 290 pound dark skinned black man. So I know what I’m saying, every shade of skin you can name is in my family INCLUDING white skin. The problem is UGLY women using the skin thing as a crutch. And my babies mother has np problem getting men, her current boyfriend is WHITE!!
James

San Francisco, CA

#10 Jan 6, 2008
Oh and if you're not sure what a Greek nose is, it just means a long and straight nose.

“OUT OF MANY, ONE PEOPLE”

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Queens New York Born

#11 Jan 6, 2008
White men love dark women....My great grand father was a white man from SCOTLAND...he came to Jamaica and Married my dark skinned great grand mother he loved her very much as do ALL of us in my family we are very proud of the BLACK in our family as well as white, Indian what ever.

http://z.about.com/d/racerelations/1/0/V/davi...
Anna

United States

#12 Jan 6, 2008
There are unattractive people in all races, shades and colors. Get over it.
James

San Francisco, CA

#13 Jan 6, 2008
Scots, Irish, Spaniards, and the Portuguese men love Black women.

German, Russian, and Italian women love black men.

“En Sabah Nur”

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Since: Oct 07

Flatbush, Brooklyn

#14 Jan 6, 2008
Candella88 wrote:
what's consider ugly on a person.
A face that isn't "Symmetrical" is ugly.

The facial features must be a winning combination in size and shape, if it isn't then the person is ugly.

And if the person is a smoker and is a woman, then her voice will sound deep or raspy, and smoking also makes the lips turn brown.

Medication, drugs, and alcohol will also make a person ugly.

A good looking person can become "ugly" if they neglect themselves long enough, like most female inmates who were once beautiful before they were locked up. Neglect of self will make the most beautiful, ugly over a course of time.

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#15 Jan 6, 2008
Thank you, straight up. It is what it is.
To be in complete denial and pretend that because your dark is the reason why you can't get a man is absolute nonsense.
Unattractive people come in all colors, not just dark skinned.
so sad

United States

#16 Jan 6, 2008
Nicole Little wrote:
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That's true also. I be hearing brothers telling telling an attractive dark-skinned black woman, "You're cute for a dark-skinned woman" or "You're cute to be dark-skinned" or "I've never seen an attractive dark-skinned woman before" or "I usually for mess with a lot of dark-skinned girls, but you are an exception because you are one of the rare dark-skinned women that are pretty" or "You're the only dark-skinned woman that I've dated". If that's not being color-struck, then I don't know what it is. What I'm trying to say is that even if a dark-skinned woman is attractive, she will still be passed over for a light-skinned black woman ugly or not, a mixed-race woman ugly or not, or a non-black woman ugly or not. I'm just keeping it real. We are not in denial. We can see it clear as the blue sky.
Why can't you get over that man that left you for the latina sister? Please, I beg of you...

“keep it fair across the board!”

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Since: Dec 06

Texas

#17 Jan 6, 2008
ccheeksd wrote:
Thank you, straight up. It is what it is.
To be in complete denial and pretend that because your dark is the reason why you can't get a man is absolute nonsense.
Unattractive people come in all colors, not just dark skinned.
well said!

Since: Jul 07

Atco, NJ

#18 Jan 6, 2008
G-MACK wrote:
White men love dark women....My great grand father was a white man from SCOTLAND...he came to Jamaica and Married my dark skinned great grand mother he loved her very much as do ALL of us in my family we are very proud of the BLACK in our family as well as white, Indian what ever.
http://z.about.com/d/racerelations/1/0/V/davi...
You know what, I notice that opposites do attract sometimes. If a white man does date black women, they date the darkest ones that they can find. I know because I see it. White men mostly date Asian and black women if they date interracially.

“OUT OF MANY, ONE PEOPLE”

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Since: Jan 08

Queens New York Born

#19 Jan 6, 2008
Candella88 wrote:
what's consider ugly on a person.
I don't consider this woman ugly but I'm not attracted to her.
http://www.post-gazette.com/images4/20070423h...

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Since: May 07

Dodge City, KS

#20 Jan 6, 2008
James wrote:
I'm not sure if you're asking me, but this is my opinion.
- Bad teeth
- Big stomach
- Fake Breasts or Ass (Fake Anything)
- Manly Jaw
- Receding Chin
Basically anything that looks un-natural or distorted.
Candella88, you have a pretty face. Big eyes, Greek nose, and full lips are attractive features.
aww thank you James! I'm not sure what I'll find unattractive on a guy,I'll have to see for myself before I say anything.

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