Why Do Cultured Black Women Date Out?

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#1574 Apr 26, 2013
should have been 100%/50%=2 divided by.22=.11-50%=.39

TYPING TOO FAST.

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#1575 Apr 26, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> All you do is LIE.
Robert De Niro and his wife Grace Hightower are a prominent interracial couple, shown here at the 2012 Tribeca Film Festival.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marr...
In the United States there has been an historical disparity between Black female and Black male exogamy ratios: according to the United States Census Bureau, there were 354,000 White female/Black male and 196,000 Black female/White male marriages in March 2009, representing a ratio of 181:100.[21] This traditional disparity has seen a rapid decline over the last two decades, contrasted with its peak in 1981 when the ratio was still 371:100.[22] In 2007, 4.6% of all married Blacks in the United States were wed to a White partner, and 0.4% of all Whites were married to a Black partner.[23]
http://www.unmarried.org/statistics/
As you can see, the majority of adults in this country are unmarried, including whites.
SO YOU AND THAT OTHER NUTJOB CAN RUN AROUND CLAIMING I'M USING SMOKE SCREENS, BUT THE REALITY IS THAT ROUGHLY 90% OF BLACK MEN WHO ARE MARRIED ARE MARRIED TO BLACK WOMEN. PERIOD.
The 90% figure is probably correct. Not surprising, actually. Most people (possibly excepting Asians) marry WITHIN their group.
Moreover, most members of any group who marry out are MALE (again, Asian American women excepted). These are pretty old and well known facts. But people in Topix post things which suggest they've no clue.

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#1576 Apr 26, 2013
London wrote:
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Hi dragon. I've already addressed this. Below is my comment:
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Capree also addressed his obvious twisting of math in order to get the result he wanted in attempting to win the argument.
Basically, Capree won the "debate." Since the majority of bm aren't with bw, we can now all quit saying they are.
The majority of Black men who are not single ARE with Black women. And even grater majority of Black women who are not single are with Black men too.
One must clarify something. A larger number of Americans of all races are single than in the past. As late as the 1960d and early 70s, most people of all races in America were married when of marriageable age. If I remember correctly, sociologist Andrew Billingsley estimated that about 75% of Black families going into the 1970s were headed bt married couples (Per centage maybe larger in the 1950s & 60s). In those days, not even 5% were IR.
A big question is "Why has marriage declined?"
But this aside, an HONEST analysis must point out that the VAST MAJORITY of those Blacks (male and female) who are married, are married to other Blacks. But most people aren't married.
Yaaaaa

Garden Grove, CA

#1577 Apr 27, 2013
Forget you black guys. U no see me? So now I will just act as if none of you exist. Yaaa
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1578 Apr 27, 2013
KemiSeba---MACEO wrote:
Over the years i've noticed that the overwhelming majority of "cultured" African American women tend to date interracially. When I say "cultured", I don't simply mean "educated". In fact there's an enormous difference between being cultured and possessing a college degree.
Here's an example of a cultured African American women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dFPg1TdIEKMXX
She speaks several languages, is well traveled, knows a lot about other cultures, currently lives abroad and is very open-minded.
I wonder if these cultured black American women date out because they can't find cultured AA men with similar tastes and interests, dont frequent the same social circles, simply prefer to venture out romantically...? Probably all the above
By the way, i'm not against IR dating lol I just don't understand why you never see girls like that with black men
MACEO

I didn't know you had Charly's Link to YouTube!

You harassed her for a while too and she did a Video to you and many of the black men who harassed her for dating/marrying out. I gave her your name and place of employment.

Black Women: Asian & White Men ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU!

http://youtu.be/VE0A8aguqQQ

You call her a Loud, ghetto She-boon and that no White man or Asian man wanted her and that they were just using her for a cum bucket!

http://youtu.be/VE0A8aguqQQ

That's why I said you destroyed YOung Accomplished Black women!

http://youtu.be/VE0A8aguqQQ

Your a old Ass Failure..........Her Video to you MACEO PATTERSON!

http://youtu.be/VE0A8aguqQQ
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1579 Apr 27, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text> Who gives a flying fk! About some 78% of 50% of black men. You are just trying play with numbers to make it seems like a lot of black men are marrying black women. Oh my! 78% pecent of 1/2 of black men???? Well luddi damn dhol! The truth is when you take 100% of black men, 50% of them don't marry then another 22% of black men marry nonblack women then that leaves, I repeat leaves only 28% of black men to marry black women.
Capree

FACTS: Only 32-34% of Black men are married. Out of that 32-34% only 12-14% are married to Black women! The rest of Black men are married to White women/other races which is 22-24% that doesn't count the date rates which are 10 times higher!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1580 Apr 27, 2013
BossinUp--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text> Wait a minute, the 50% that's not married not married means that half of black available. Also, you keep ignoring the link where it says 90% of all married bm are married to black women. But it doesn't pay to focus on the bm that are married, because they are off the market. The 50% of bm that aren't married are the ones that bw should be focused on. Hell, the odds are even better, because it means that half of black men out here are available. Everybody was once single, nobody is born married, so I don't understand your complaint. All you've done is confirmed that there are millions of available black men out here. So trying to discourage other black women who want a black man seems very selfish and childish because you're not lucky in the dating game. And I don't wanna hear jack shyt about you not finding bm attractive because that's hogwash. Only a fool with an IQ of 2 would believe anybody would invest so much of themselves complaining about someone if they didn't like em. You use this 'I DON'T FIND BLACK MEN PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE' crap to fend off accusations that you're bitter, but that's clearly what you are. I've told you, several bm posters have said it and even other black females have said it. It doesn't take a damn rocket scientist to figure out your childish games.
MACEO

FACTS: Only 32-34% of Black men are married. Out of that 32-34% only 12-14% are married to Black women! The rest of Black men are married to White women/other races which is 22-24% that doesn't count the date rates which are 10 times higher!

Personally, many Black men like yourself say White women are better; you've been saying that for 35 years; but you have nothing to show for your life!!

Actually, like the Typical foolish Uneducated Black male; you chased A^^ and wasted your time chasing Pu$$y while married to White woman and chasing them only to end up with nothing!

Now your going to "Beat Down" Black women to select Black males?

Are you a Fool or is your Loser A$$ suffering from Alzheimer's disease and Prostrate problems?
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1581 Apr 27, 2013
BossinUp--MACEO wrote:


Wait a minute, the 50% that's not married not married means that half of black available. Also, you keep ignoring the link where it says 90% of all married bm are married to black women. But it doesn't pay to focus on the bm that are married, because they are off the market. The 50% of bm that aren't married are the ones that bw should be focused on. Hell, the odds are even better, because it means that half of black men out here are available. Everybody was once single, nobody is born married, so I don't understand your complaint. All you've done is confirmed that there are millions of available black men out here. So trying to discourage other black women who want a black man seems very selfish and childish because you're not lucky in the dating game. And I don't wanna hear jack shyt about you not finding bm attractive because that's hogwash. Only a fool with an IQ of 2 would believe anybody would invest so much of themselves complaining about someone if they didn't like em.
MACEO your such a hypocrite; you encouraged many of your friends and other Black men to strictly go to White women only or your latest is Foreign women!

After you invested 35 years in White women! Took your pennies, married, invested, chased after all while putting Black women down! In BWE, we use Black men like you as the reasons why Black women need to "Not only Run" but not settle for Black men such as yourself. Like I said you fit MANY OF THE STEREOTYPES!

Why settle for a No Good Uneducated Black men only to get what you did to your White wife of 20 years? All you did was chase Office sluts and you were too selfish, self centered to help her.

The entire time you were married you harassed Black women telling them that nobody wants them! I heed your messages; I will NEVER DATE OR MARRY A BLACK MAN!

You really opened my eyes on who much Black men hate us and laugh at us when they use and destroy Black women!
BossinUp--MACEO wrote:


You use this 'I DON'T FIND BLACK MEN PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE' crap to fend off accusations that you're bitter, but that's clearly what you are. I've told you, several bm posters have said it and even other black females have said it. It doesn't take a damn rocket scientist to figure out your childish games.
MACEO

Most Black men are not physically attractive as well as a "Collective Group of men" who don't do a damn thing for Black women or children so its time to RUN!

There's nothing attractive about a race of men who have "High negative stats" and won't do a damn thing about it!

Your UGLY!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1582 Apr 27, 2013
KemiSeba wrote:
Over the years i've noticed that the overwhelming majority of "cultured" African American women tend to date interracially. When I say "cultured", I don't simply mean "educated". In fact there's an enormous difference between being cultured and possessing a college degree.
Here's an example of a cultured African American women
MACEO

I find many Black women doing the same things. A woman's greatest fear is getting a broke, uneducated Black male who lives off her, she tries to help him and he disrespects her like you did to your White wife of 20 years!

You made her look like a FOOL as well as yourself! lmao She didn't get anything because she invested in a Black man that didn't do "Schitt with your life" except chasing White women office sluts!

Move on you Old A** Loser!

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#1583 Apr 27, 2013
Yaaaaa wrote:
Forget you black guys. U no see me? So now I will just act as if none of you exist. Yaaa
Adios amiga.

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#1584 Apr 27, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> Wait a minute, the 50% that's not married not married means that half of black available. Also, you keep ignoring the link where it says 90% of all married bm are married to black women. But it doesn't pay to focus on the bm that are married, because they are off the market. The 50% of bm that aren't married are the ones that bw should be focused on. Hell, the odds are even better, because it means that half of black men out here are available.
Sorry Bossinup you are just not understanding. First off if you read 90% of married black men are married black women that was an old stats because today's statistic are showing that out of the 50% of black men who do marry that a whopping 22% are marrying white/nonblack women. Besides even if was still at 90%, 90% of 1/2 of black men who do marry is only 40% of the total number of black men left to marry the 80to 85% of black women expecting o marry black men which unless black women move on to other men, will be severely crippled when it comes to marriage.

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#1585 Apr 27, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> Oh, and according to Capree, 28% are with bw and 22% are not. So that's still the majority according to her. 50% who aren't married aren't with anyone if we go by the stats.
Now you wait a freaking deacon minute! What race of men have the nerve to expect 100% of their same race women to be content with having a same race male population of a measely 28% that would marry them??? That would mean over 3 black wive to each marrying black man which illegal and stupid or that only 1/3 black women get married the other 70% of black women stay single, sacrifice tranditional marriage and family life, have oow kids, live and die alone so these black women don't upset black men (50% of whom don't marry black women)by marrying and having full live with white men or other nonblack men. Are you out of you mind!!!!!!!!!! Even if I loved black men and had wanted to marry one which I never have. I still would be fully embracing IR, the way things are today.

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#1586 Apr 27, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Now you wait a freaking deacon minute! What race of men have the nerve to expect 100% of their same race women to be content with having a same race male population of a measely 28% that would marry them??? That would mean over 3 black wive to each marrying black man which illegal and stupid or that only 1/3 black women get married the other 70% of black women stay single, sacrifice tranditional marriage and family life, have oow kids, live and die alone so these black women don't upset black men (50% of whom don't marry black women)by marrying and having full live with white men or other nonblack men. Are you out of you mind!!!!!!!!!! Even if I loved black men and had wanted to marry one which I never have. I still would be fully embracing IR, the way things are today.
The point is there are 5 million available black men for one black woman to choose from. This seems to somehow elude you. It doesn't matter if it's all 10 million adult black males or just 1 million adult black males. If one individual woman cannot find a decent black male out of a million, then something is wrong with her. There's no need to talk about the disproportionate numbers between bm and bw, because that's irrelevant. If you're for interracial, then be for it for all people equally. Stop these childish games and competitions and focus on individual happiness. Like I said, I and everyone on this forum know you're looking for a black male, no matter how often you flat out say you're not or try to suggest to the contrary. Like Msnewnew said in the other thread and I wholeheartedly agree, YOU DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT BLACK WOMEN. Your entire agenda is rooted in revenge towards black men as if we owe you something, and we don't. Work on yourself, correct your way of thinking and improve your attitude. Stop focusing on blogs and magazines that are geared to play off of your emotions for profit, and recognize that you only need one man. If you find that love and happiness with a white, Asian or Arab man, then so be it. But can you truly enjoy that love if you're so full of hate???

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#1587 Apr 27, 2013
KemiSeba wrote:
Over the years i've noticed that the overwhelming majority of "cultured" African American women tend to date interracially. When I say "cultured", I don't simply mean "educated". In fact there's an enormous difference between being cultured and possessing a college degree.
Here's an example of a cultured African American women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dFPg1TdIEKMXX
She speaks several languages, is well traveled, knows a lot about other cultures, currently lives abroad and is very open-minded.
I wonder if these cultured black American women date out because they can't find cultured AA men with similar tastes and interests, dont frequent the same social circles, simply prefer to venture out romantically...? Probably all the above
By the way, i'm not against IR dating lol I just don't understand why you never see girls like that with black men
Poor case study + inductive reasoning jumping the gun = faulty, unsubstantiated conclusion.

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#1588 Apr 28, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> The point is there are 5 million available black men for one black woman to choose from. This seems to somehow elude you. It doesn't matter if it's all 10 million adult black males or just 1 million adult black males. If one individual woman cannot find a decent black male out of a million, then something is wrong with her. There's no need to talk about the disproportionate numbers between bm and bw, because that's irrelevant.
There isn't million black men for one black woman you damn fool! Where in the world did you get those crazy figures. Can't you get it through your head they ratio between black women and black men way off? Having a surplus of black women looking to marry black but a severe shortage of black man who want to marry black or really marry at all. I am don't constantly re-explaining this fact to you.

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#1589 Apr 28, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
FACTS: Only 32-34% of Black men are married. Out of that 32-34% only 12-14% are married to Black women! The rest of Black men are married to White women/other races which is 22-24% that doesn't count the date rates which are 10 times higher!
We differ a little on the % but I agree the ratio between bm and bw is vast.

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#1590 Apr 28, 2013
Capree wrote:
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There isn't million black men for one black woman you damn fool! Where in the world did you get those crazy figures. Can't you get it through your head they ratio between black women and black men way off? Having a surplus of black women looking to marry black but a severe shortage of black man who want to marry black or really marry at all. I am don't constantly re-explaining this fact to you.
Why do you cuss so often???

Any way clown, learn to read and comprehend. I said there are at least 1 million black men that are single in this country. I didn't say 1 million for every 1 black woman your poor reading scorned heffa. And a black woman only needs one man, so if a black woman can't find a man out of all the black men in this country, then it's her own damn fault.

And if you're not attracted to black men (cough), then why are you worried about whether or not black men want to get married or marry black women??? That's just plain stupid.

Like I said, Msnewnew said and anybody with a brain knows, YOU DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE WELL BEING OF BLACK WOMEN. Because if you did, then you would let black women live their lives as they see fit, not as you see fit. I have yet to see you create a thread discussing health for black women, prostitution, welfare, education, poverty etc. You act like bw's only goal in life is to date/marry. 99.999999% of all your posts have something to do with black men. Now how the hell can you expect us to believe that you're not attracted to black men when we're the only thing you log on to talk about??? Whenever I see your name, the first thing comes to mind is let me see what this looney tune is saying about black men now. Because I know you're not gonna be talking about anything else.
London

Powell, OH

#1592 Apr 28, 2013
LovinLife1974 wrote:
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and that 28% really has no desires for BW so that leaves u BW with 0% of BM
lol. well alright then. case closed. so bw are free to do what they want and everyone is happy.
London

Powell, OH

#1593 Apr 28, 2013
Capree wrote:
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There isn't million black men for one black woman you damn fool! Where in the world did you get those crazy figures. Can't you get it through your head they ratio between black women and black men way off? Having a surplus of black women looking to marry black but a severe shortage of black man who want to marry black or really marry at all. I am don't constantly re-explaining this fact to you.
lol! Exactly Capree. You tell em!! As one poster just said, in truth, the remaining bm with bw don't really want those ladies..very few. Men ride the tide. If the majority of their friends etc are off doing other things (being with other men, different groups of women etc), they will want that too. Very few males don't ride the tide of what other males are doing. It just is what it is.

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#1594 Apr 28, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> Why do you cuss so often???
Any way clown, learn to read and comprehend. I said there are at least 1 million black men that are single in this country. I didn't say 1 million for every 1 black woman your poor reading scorned heffa.
Below is what you posted dummy and you can go back to your post and see it!

****The point is there are 5 million available black men for one black woman to choose from***** In case you don't know it, bw outnumber bm you twit!
BossinUp wrote:
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And a black woman only needs one man, so if a black woman can't find a man out of all the black men in this country, then it's her own damn fault.
And if you're not attracted to black men (cough), then why are you worried about whether or not black men want to get married or marry black women???
I have black female relatives and friends who are getting short changed! So I do care besides black men are making black women who foolishly hang on to them even though these black men don't care enough about them to marry them.

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