Why Do Cultured Black Women Date Out?

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#1366 Apr 22, 2013
A Sad-N-Sh*t thread!

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#1367 Apr 22, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Sorry if you got offended but I only called it as I truthfully saw it. I felt you comments came from a close minded, bigoted, unsophisticated, unworldly, limited person. First of all you don't have the right to make those judgements and unfair claims against all other black women just because of your own personal feelings. You prefer black men and that's fine while some other black women prefer dating nonblack men and that's their right also.
This is just another stanky, ganky azz troll rolling bi*ch! its that plain and simple!

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#1368 Apr 22, 2013
ccChocolateGirl wrote:
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Yes,love is colorblind. Love knows no boundaries in regards to religion, race or ethnicity.
i guess that love coming from pure emotion with not rational logic to boot is "colorblind."

by your reasoning, a 30 year old man would be in his right to desire a 9 year old girl because love is "blind."

the rational "love" i seek to form demands a bond that benefits the whole...and this "whole" is usually compartmentalized and categorized according to RACE.

it is totally normal for people who want to keep their race, culture, traditions, etc.. alive by marrying and pro-creating among their own....but if you seek to do other wise, that's you.

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#1369 Apr 22, 2013
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
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This is just another stanky, ganky azz troll rolling bi*ch! its that plain and simple!
What are you viciously attacking me for ? I said that it was fine if she wanted to be with black men even though many of you are nothing but a waste of time. I like white men and they are the better choice for me. Alway have been and always will be and thanks to you ww-chasing brothers many more black women feel free to date/marry white men also. So deal with it!

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#1371 Apr 22, 2013
Capree wrote:
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What are you viciously attacking me for ? I said that it was fine if she wanted to be with black men even though many of you are nothing but a waste of time. I like white men and they are the better choice for me. Alway have been and always will be and thanks to you ww-chasing brothers many more black women feel free to date/marry white men also. So deal with it!
DO YOU EVER STOP????????

And I can recall you once said to me a few months back when I said I love white women, that you hope wm would string me up on the nearest tree. So please save it for somebody who doesn't know any better, because you do not wish any well being for black men. You're a racist bigot who view white women and black men as less than equal. Always competing and comparing the two interracial pairings to one another as if it's some sort of contest. And of course, in this contest the winner is always bw/wm, riding high on the wave of love. Meanwhile bm/ww are green with envy at your infinite world of bliss. Please. You're gonna end up just like Sadbuttrue.
AnObserver

Roswell, GA

#1372 Apr 22, 2013
What these so-called cultured bw who are "naturally" attracted to wm don't tell is how many of them end up being swindled and abused. I can think of 6 of them who fell for the lie: I have a wonderful plan for us to make money.LEND me x thousands of dollars to get started". One borrowed $10,000 from his "cultured" black wife to train as a high-class bartender. After "borrowing" nearly $100,000 total from her he vanished leaving her with 2 young children and a mountain of debt. I have the mother of one of these "cultured" ladies calling me almost weekly from Canada complaining about the foolishness of her daughter. These wm preying on the vulnerabilities of desperate bw are roaming all over the place. Many BW know about the Satanic behavior, some might have experienced it themselves, but refuse to admit that they were or are being had.

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#1373 Apr 22, 2013
Bronze5 wrote:
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It's not like we are missing out on anything. Majority of black women are just leftovers and defiled anyway. A piece of crap will always end up with a piece of crap. I'm astounded how you are so happy with getting mounted by a 2 legged pink dog. Black women want to date/marry white men, to hell with them. The white man is going to burn by hell fire, and so will his idiotic tramp of a wife.
By defiled, you mean by being with black men? Well if some sisters haven't let themselves been passed from one low-life ghetto black man to another and haven't had black oowkids by them then these black women like myself can wash off the dirt and start anew by dating white and other nonblack men. White men are not the ones who are the 2 legged dogs, white men as a whole have been the human providers and saviors to much of the world. Many black men have been far more evil, manipulitive and using than most white men so I think you had better re-check who will be burning in hell.

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#1374 Apr 22, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> DO YOU EVER STOP????????
And I can recall you once said to me a few months back when I said I love white women, that you hope wm would string me up on the nearest tree. So please save it for somebody who doesn't know any better, because you do not wish any well being for black men. You're a racist bigot who view white women and black men as less than equal. Always competing and comparing the two interracial pairings to one another as if it's some sort of contest. And of course, in this contest the winner is always bw/wm, riding high on the wave of love. Meanwhile bm/ww are green with envy at your infinite world of bliss. Please. You're gonna end up just like Sadbuttrue.
No, some bm/ww really are together because they love one another but the major of bm/ww are together out of some disgusting jungle fever thing, revenge for being rejected by their same race opposite gender or for attention. That's why bm/ww have the highest divorce rates. Most wm/bw marriages or relationships are out of mutual love, caring and respect for one another.

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#1375 Apr 22, 2013
AnObserver wrote:
What these so-called cultured bw who are "naturally" attracted to wm don't tell is how many of them end up being swindled and abused. I can think of 6 of them who fell for the lie: I have a wonderful plan for us to make money.LEND me x thousands of dollars to get started". One borrowed $10,000 from his "cultured" black wife to train as a high-class bartender. After "borrowing" nearly $100,000 total from her he vanished leaving her with 2 young children and a mountain of debt. I have the mother of one of these "cultured" ladies calling me almost weekly from Canada complaining about the foolishness of her daughter. These wm preying on the vulnerabilities of desperate bw are roaming all over the place. Many BW know about the Satanic behavior, some might have experienced it themselves, but refuse to admit that they were or are being had.
Sorry but using and swindling women is usually the black male's game. That's why black women are now dropping black males in drove and seeking better men. Face it, most white men have earned their own and are more than willing to bring their fair share and more to the table. Most white men are not like you all.

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#1376 Apr 22, 2013
Capree wrote:
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No, some bm/ww really are together because they love one another but the major of bm/ww are together out of some disgusting jungle fever thing, revenge for being rejected by their same race opposite gender or for attention. That's why bm/ww have the highest divorce rates. Most wm/bw marriages or relationships are out of mutual love, caring and respect for one another.
Bw/wm divorce rate are proportionate with their marriage rate, low. Though you and the irbw brigade make it your business to remind us daily that your divorce rate is low, you consistently forget that so are your marriage rates. You also tend to omit that bw and wm do get divorce, and you also make it your business to to avoid the reasons why bw/wm marriages seem stronger. As we all have mentioned time and time again on this forum, women file for divorce the majority of the time. So a divorce from a wm by a bw seems highly unlikely whenever bw such as yourself make wm seem as if they are gods. But statistics tell me a completely different story about wm and their behavior. The men who lead this country in forcible rape, child molestation, larceny theft, and overall divorce cannot be these great gods that only black women seem to adhere to and adore. I'm a realist, and I pride myself on being able to think outside the box or the confinements of societal misinformation. The very women that white men produce (white women) who are their natural and spiritual partners in life, are having a hard time managing a strong and successful marriage rate with these men. But you're gonna tell me that a man who is not of your culture, doesn't precisely understand your struggle and pain can bond with you better than he can with his own women. All interracial couples suffer high divorce rates because it's naturally a social taboo to begin with. Then when you add in all the other factors that strain any relationship regardless of race, and you compound the interracial factor to it, it's damn near impossible to maintain. But you and other irbw are gonna honestly try to pass this off as 'GENUINE LOVE' as if wm/bw have a monopoly on such that nobody else can attain. Are you seriously gonna try to pass this off as reality???

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#1377 Apr 22, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Sorry but using and swindling women is usually the black male's game. That's why black women are now dropping black males in drove and seeking better men. Face it, most white men have earned their own and are more than willing to bring their fair share and more to the table. Most white men are not like you all.
There is no such thing as better men. The sooner women like you figure this out, the sooner life will be more transparent and easier to understand. And when I say there aren't any better men, I mean by race. If so, please explain to me in great detail what separate each race of men. Oh, and please do not use that 1% group of white men who have done very well for themselves and try to pass it off as the norm for all wm. Bw like you seem to really believe this nonsense that all wm are educated, well employed, hard workers, great fathers. But the truth is their are more bm by 'PERCENTAGE' that are in college than wm, there are hundreds of thousands of lazy deadbeat white fathers out here in this world. So please save the stereotype, it's really starting to get old and lame.

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#1378 Apr 23, 2013
dragonpat wrote:
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i guess that love coming from pure emotion with not rational logic to boot is "colorblind."
by your reasoning, a 30 year old man would be in his right to desire a 9 year old girl because love is "blind."
the rational "love" i seek to form demands a bond that benefits the whole...and this "whole" is usually compartmentalized and categorized according to RACE.
it is totally normal for people who want to keep their race, culture, traditions, etc.. alive by marrying and pro-creating among their own....but if you seek to do other wise, that's you.
Agreed....wholeheartedly...tha nk you!

No loves is not color blind...nor are all human beings…this is a personal individual perspective that one chooses to subscribe to…usually based upon personal preferences!

As you've stated...this fact is the very reason that most people seek to be with their own kind…it is the natural order of things…based upon ideas, priorities,concerns and realities…that are concrete, tangible, intelligent and valuable to individuals!

We make our choices in regards to who we will date, marry and build our lives with…based upon what we value…who we trust with our lives and well being!

It’s the reason that I knew that I wanted to marry a black woman…even when I was ten years old…I’m not now…nor have I ever been attracted to white women in a way that would have even resulted in me dating or marrying one of them…now yes I find some other non-bw to be attractive in their own way…but this is merely an appreciation for what they have to offer as attractive women…but they do not appeal to me in any serious way…I clearly prefer bw and always have…hands down…no competition…why?...because I love and respect the women in my family and who I have known in my time…and most importantly of all…I value and seek to reproduce that which I came from!

This whole notion of love being blind is childish, overstated and idealistic…it’s a personal perspective that does not resonate with every one…individuals do not accidentally “fall in love”…this is again…a silly romantic notion that lacks logic, personal choice and intelligence!

This idea…is in fact merely the mantra of ir daters/couples...who date/marry out for their own personal reasons…and who wish to convince every one else to think as they do...they are the one's who have chosen to color outside of the color lines, cultural box etc...fine…that's their choice to make...no one is stopping them…but no they can't paint a picture of the whole world for the rest of us....

No…love is not colorblind…but some individuals are….by personal choice!

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#1379 Apr 23, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> Bw/wm divorce rate are proportionate with their marriage rate, low. Though you and the irbw brigade make it your business to remind us daily that your divorce rate is low, you consistently forget that so are your marriage rates. You also tend to omit that bw and wm do get divorce, and you also make it your business to to avoid the reasons why bw/wm marriages seem stronger. As we all have mentioned time and time again on this forum, women file for divorce the majority of the time. So a divorce from a wm by a bw seems highly unlikely whenever bw such as yourself make wm seem as if they are gods. But statistics tell me a completely different story about wm and their behavior. The men who lead this country in forcible rape, child molestation, larceny theft, and overall divorce cannot be these great gods that only black women seem to adhere to and adore. I'm a realist, and I pride myself on being able to think outside the box or the confinements of societal misinformation. The very women that white men produce (white women) who are their natural and spiritual partners in life, are having a hard time managing a strong and successful marriage rate with these men. But you're gonna tell me that a man who is not of your culture, doesn't precisely understand your struggle and pain can bond with you better than he can with his own women. All interracial couples suffer high divorce rates because it's naturally a social taboo to begin with. Then when you add in all the other factors that strain any relationship regardless of race, and you compound the interracial factor to it, it's damn near impossible to maintain. But you and other irbw are gonna honestly try to pass this off as 'GENUINE LOVE' as if wm/bw have a monopoly on such that nobody else can attain. Are you seriously gonna try to pass this off as reality???
Exactly...thank you!

And yes I now know bw who have filed for divorce from white males!

My wife and I also both know countless white women...that is professional colleagues,neighbors and other associates in various capacities...who are in fact single,divorced and or never married...both with and without children by white males...who have having thee hardest time finding suitable dates,mates and future husbands and fathers....yet here we have black women on Topix...claiming that a woman can just able close her eyes in a crowd of random white male strangers...spin around and point to any white guy and he will be the most loyal,respectable,loving,carin g and supportive man that any woman has ever met...it's clearly laughable!

And lets not even go into the fact that in reality white women are now opening up their options as well...I can't tell you how many times I've been in awkward situations with white women...who have often even assumed that I was into white women...because I do not fit very many of the stereotypes of black males!

Why...because in reality...all sorts of heterosexual women....white,black,Hispanic, Asian and other...are just looking for a good,decent,respectable and suitable male companion!

I am on vacation this week...in a place where white women and black male couples are common...again...I can't tell you how many white women have tried to make a meaningful connection!

Am I here to brag...no...because in reality I don't value ww in that way...they are just women...no better or worse than any other in general...women who are looking for love and understanding...just like black women!

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#1380 Apr 23, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> There is no such thing as better men. The sooner women like you figure this out, the sooner life will be more transparent and easier to understand. And when I say there aren't any better men, I mean by race. If so, please explain to me in great detail what separate each race of men. Oh, and please do not use that 1% group of white men who have done very well for themselves and try to pass it off as the norm for all wm. Bw like you seem to really believe this nonsense that all wm are educated, well employed, hard workers, great fathers. But the truth is their are more bm by 'PERCENTAGE' that are in college than wm, there are hundreds of thousands of lazy deadbeat white fathers out here in this world. So please save the stereotype, it's really starting to get old and lame.
Ok put aside that black man live and survive in a society that was created by white men's language, laws, education, technology, medical care, science and agriculture (food),statistics show that white men far out number black men in getting college degrees while black men who are only 6% compared 60% of white men in the U.S., that there are 5 times more black men in prison than white men. Statistic also show that white men are employed more and more family oriented ( a higher percentage of white men marry than black men) and commit fewer crimes. So it's ridiculous to say their is no difference between white men and black men.

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#1381 Apr 23, 2013
ccChocolateGirl wrote:
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Yes,love is colorblind. Love knows no boundaries in regards to religion, race or ethnicity.
Actually...you're wrong...in most cases yes love does no boundaries....based upon personal human choices...that is what we value as human beings...again...this is why most people marry their own kind!

Now just maybe you believe otherwise...but that's your perspective...that does not line up with what most people think...thus the reason that they make the choices that they do!

*African-American's..that is males and females...in fact...marry out more than any other group of people...in terms of percentages(not necessarily based upon actual bodies....persons)...this is a fact...now ask yourself why is that?

And no...I'm sorry but most women of any racial group in fact outnumber the number of men of their racial type!...especially white women!

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#1382 Apr 23, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Sorry if you got offended but I only called it as I truthfully saw it. I felt you comments came from a close minded, bigoted, unsophisticated, unworldly, limited person. First of all you don't have the right to make those judgements and unfair claims against all other black women just because of your own personal feelings. You prefer black men and that's fine while some other black women prefer dating nonblack men and that's their right also.
The problem is...you...like some other irbw...don't see things as they truthfully are...you're biased and clearly blind to the realities of male female relationships...as they pertain to bw and non-bm...especially white males!

You seem to view things in a one dimensional reality where...all bw live these "happily ever after lives"...with no problems,dilemmas nor issues to contend with!

Based upon your idiotic comments...one would have to conclude that you honestly believe that all white men are perfect...the end all..be all...and the eye opening solution to all of womankind's dating and marriage woes!

Yet...for the rest of us...who live in the real world...your whole perspective is silly,childish and even laughable...because we too know white males and irbw...we see them in the flesh,we work with them every day,we bump into them in various places and yes we talk to them...and to other bw...who share their stories!

Some of us black men...contrary to what you and many white males love to assert(because no..all irbw do not exclusively date out)have even dated or are dating them...and they share their stories with us...personally!

And their stories don't always match up with your nonsense...not at all...again...you're like a child...with a child's mentality!

It's actually hard for any one with an ounce of intelligence,understanding of the world around us all and a personal dating history...to somehow take you seriously!

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#1383 Apr 23, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Ok put aside that black man live and survive in a society that was created by white men's language, laws, education, technology, medical care, science and agriculture (food),statistics show that white men far out number black men in getting college degrees while black men who are only 6% compared 60% of white men in the U.S., that there are 5 times more black men in prison than white men. Statistic also show that white men are employed more and more family oriented ( a higher percentage of white men marry than black men) and commit fewer crimes. So it's ridiculous to say their is no difference between white men and black men.
First of all...your understanding of this countries history...and how it came about...is both limited and distorted...it's actually hideous and is the very reason that it's hard to take you seriously...you can't be a black woman....how?

If you are...your mind is totally destroyed...you're largely misinformed....that one could ever come across...this much is clear!

Again...you've been around too many white males...and have bought into their propaganda!

Again...you see white males in a way that not all white women even see them...why?...because they know white males better than anyone does...they give them life,nurture and support!

Something that you can never do!

As for your stats...again...if you actually had a real education and any type of understanding you'd realize all of the flaws of you argument!

The fact that you don't...and that you boldly spew these so called hard line facts...only tells other more educated individuals...who are not ignorant nor biased that you lack any real understanding!

*Genius...do you realize that bw also make up the largest female prison population in this country...followed closely by Hispanics...do you have any understanding of the legal,social and political system in place in this country!

You would clearly benefit from watching this documentary!

Independent Lens | The House I Live In | Trailer | PBS
http://youtu.be/uVDv0RmHmBA

http://youtu.be/Xun4YuD0kDY

http://youtu.be/WDuksJoOV7I
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#1385 Apr 23, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text>DO YOU EVER STOP????????

And I can recall you once said to me a few months back when I said I love white women, that you hope wm would string me up on the nearest tree. So please save it for somebody who doesn't know any better, because you do not wish any well being for black men. You're a racist bigot who view white women and black men as less than equal. Always competing and comparing the two interracial pairings to one another as if it's some sort of contest. And of course, in this contest the winner is always bw/wm, riding high on the wave of love. Meanwhile bm/ww are green with envy at your infinite world of bliss. Please. You're gonna end up just like Sadbuttrue.
No need to concern yourself with what others think of you engaging in IR. Live your life.
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#1386 Apr 23, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
<quoted text>Exactly...thank you!

And yes I now know bw who have filed for divorce from white males!

My wife and I also both know countless white women...that is professional colleagues,neighbors and other associates in various capacities...who are in fact single,divorced and or never married...both with and without children by white males...who have having thee hardest time finding suitable dates,mates and future husbands and fathers....yet here we have black women on Topix...claiming that a woman can just able close her eyes in a crowd of random white male strangers...spin around and point to any white guy and he will be the most loyal,respectable,loving,carin g and supportive man that any woman has ever met...it's clearly laughable!

And lets not even go into the fact that in reality white women are now opening up their options as well...I can't tell you how many times I've been in awkward situations with white women...who have often even assumed that I was into white women...because I do not fit very many of the stereotypes of black males!

Why...because in reality...all sorts of heterosexual women....white,black,Hispanic, Asian and other...are just looking for a good,decent,respectable and suitable male companion!

I am on vacation this week...in a place where white women and black male couples are common...again...I can't tell you how many white women have tried to make a meaningful connection!

Am I here to brag...no...because in reality I don't value ww in that way...they are just women...no better or worse than any other in general...women who are looking for love and understanding...just like black women!
IR is increasing for different reasons for many people. It's inevitable. May God continue to bless your marriage as He has continued to do that for mine as well!

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#1387 Apr 23, 2013
Capree wrote:
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What are you viciously attacking me for ? I said that it was fine if she wanted to be with black men even though many of you are nothing but a waste of time. I like white men and they are the better choice for me. Alway have been and always will be and thanks to you ww-chasing brothers many more black women feel free to date/marry white men also. So deal with it!
Bit*h you ain't talking about sh*t. I can guarantee I roll better than the man you have and the next work, color not a factor. Its silly skanky azz jizz drinking sluts like you that take the best air and turn it into bleach aromatics. So what, you want to date out? Nobody gives a damn, you can date a damn gorilla or a horse for all I care. That womb of yours is probably stretched so big through the years you could probably birth a car out of it. I despise your idea to sell your sh*t on these threads to young ladies who need to make a decision that suits them, not you bit*h! Do you, and let other people do them, and stop trying to trash African American men. they don't like you anyway. Stay in your lane, skunky azz horse hoe!

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