Why Do Cultured Black Women Date Out?

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#1290 Oct 11, 2012
Cultured BW date out because they like being taken care of.
Sadbuttrue

Dumfries, VA

#1291 Oct 11, 2012
Largent000 wrote:
Cultured BW date out because they like being taken care of.
maceo

I think its good since many Black men don't compliment their women!

I told someone yesterday the average Black man that I meet always throws me "insults" and never ask me directly to go out like a White man will or another race of man do!

Later in some round about way they attempt to ask you out after they insulted a woman several times. So of course, I'm going to say no as well as I stay away from those men! lmao

FOOLS

The woman said "Really"???? then she thought about and said "Your right" I guess I'm so use to black man disrespecting us that I almost didn't notice how they approach women in most cases and your right Black men look to bring a woman down because he's insecure!

I told her Yes, which is a form of abuse and not healthy!

She said OMG..........That is so true about MOST not all Black men!

I said that's why I don't date nor would marry a Black man! lmao They keep abusing you mentally, verbally until you get angry and move on and then they said it was YOU didn't treat them like a man! lmao

When actually Black men upfront don't know how to treat women!

Cultured Black women normally can take care of themselves but want the love and respect from a man which you can't find in MOST not all Black men!

Which is why so many are Dating/marrying white males!

“Cardinals-World Series :}”

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Since: Oct 11

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#1292 Oct 11, 2012
Because they have common sense. If you have things going for you don't limit yourself especially to men where most are lost causes.
David B

Baltimore, MD

#1293 Oct 11, 2012
HelloWorld3 wrote:
Because they have common sense. If you have things going for you don't limit yourself especially to men where most are lost causes.
Get a life already. C0m dumpster. You stay hating on Black men.

“Lovely soul”

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Since: Aug 12

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#1294 Oct 11, 2012
Savant wrote:
<quoted text>
Carol has serious mental problems. Some women would findit hard to appeal to a DECENT black man, or a decent man of any color.
And there are some men whom a decent woman wouldn't have anything to do with either.
One thing I notice about certain Black women and men is that when they have had difficult relations with another Black person of the opposite sex, they quickly begin making hasty generalizations of a negative nature about Black men and womdn. And they begin singing the praises of white men or women.
It never occurs to them that THEY THEMSELVES are at least partly responsible for their previous troubles in their relationships.
The disgruntled Black woman simply insists that Black men are the problem. And disgruntled Black men show the same attitude toward Black women.
But in such cases, I always wonder: "Do we know the WHOLE story? Maybe this person who's ranting and raving against Black men or women was at least as responsible for their negative experiences as the person they're accusing. And they person they're accusing isn't here to tell his or her side of the story. Is it really all that other person's fault?"
I could tell a sad tale of negative experiences I've had with some Black women, women who betrayed my trust. Yet it NEVER occurs to me to engage in some lunatic rant against Black women in general. Why? First, because that sort of thing is cheap and BENEATH me. Secondly, those negative esperiences with SOME Black women were not repressentative of my experiences with ALL Black women.
I simply understand that you get all kinds of human being--good and bad--in every race, gender, creed and color.
When all is said and done, it is the content of one's character that counts in all ralations
*Claps* Bravo!:')
Sadbuttrue

Dumfries, VA

#1295 Oct 11, 2012
Tishauna wrote:
<quoted text>
*Claps* Bravo!:')
okay, maceo

He told the truth you do have serious MENTAL ISSUES!

RESTON MENTAL HEALTH
RESTON, VIRGINIA!

“Lovely soul”

Level 2

Since: Aug 12

Location hidden

#1296 Oct 11, 2012
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>okay, maceo
He told the truth you do have serious MENTAL ISSUES!
RESTON MENTAL HEALTH
RESTON, VIRGINIA!
Bye Maceo. Nobody wants to be your sorry retarded self.

“Yes WE Can! Yes we Will!”

Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#1297 Oct 11, 2012
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>maceo
Small Penis = Small Brain!
I hear your small which is why your angry at Black women! lmmao
Black women don't want you!
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
So this Maceo character really screwed you over. I thought there must be some reason why you're obsessed with him. And you must know him personally to know about the size of his johnson.
However, I don't think Biological sciences will support your "small penis= small brain" equation.
Isn't it time you got over this Maceo? It's like you're living under his shadow, as though your mind and emotions are controlled by him even though you two are no longer together.
Let it go, lady. Or you will destroy your life with all this bitterness.
Masud_S_Hoghughi __

Dubai, UAE

#1298 Oct 11, 2012
...aint no such thang as a cultures niccca.......
IT IS I

Merced, CA

#1299 Oct 11, 2012
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>
maceo
Small Penis = Small Brain!
I hear your small which is why your angry at Black women! lmmao
Black women don't want you!
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
maceo
Black women know your a LOSER! LMAO
Stop responding to my post if you are going to keep calling me MACEO, Thank You.

“May Allah Guide Mankind”

Level 6

Since: Mar 09

Jihad An-Nafs

#1300 Oct 11, 2012
Savant wrote:
<quoted text>
So this Maceo character really screwed you over. I thought there must be some reason why you're obsessed with him. And you must know him personally to know about the size of his johnson.
However, I don't think Biological sciences will support your "small penis= small brain" equation.
Isn't it time you got over this Maceo? It's like you're living under his shadow, as though your mind and emotions are controlled by him even though you two are no longer together.
Let it go, lady. Or you will destroy your life with all this bitterness.
lol

“Lovely soul”

Level 2

Since: Aug 12

Location hidden

#1301 Oct 11, 2012
Masud_S_Hoghughi__ wrote:
...aint no such thang as a cultures niccca.......
Lol, you're clearly retarded.

Odinist

“Viking.”

Level 2

Since: Aug 12

Location hidden

#1302 Oct 11, 2012
Largent000 wrote:
Cultured BW date out because they like being taken care of.
'

Always the same thing???
Can you take care of women?

You soil our rep.!
Sadbuttrue

Dumfries, VA

#1303 Oct 11, 2012
Savant wrote:
<quoted text>
So this Maceo character really screwed you over. I thought there must bes.
maceo

I think its good since many Black men don't compliment their women!

I told someone yesterday the average Black man that I meet always throws me "insults" and never ask me directly to go out like a White man will or another race of man do!

Later in some round about way they attempt to ask you out after they insulted a woman several times. So of course, I'm going to say no as well as I stay away from those men! lmao

FOOLS

The woman said "Really"???? then she thought about and said "Your right" I guess I'm so use to black man disrespecting us that I almost didn't notice how they approach women in most cases and your right Black men look to bring a woman down because he's insecure!

I told her Yes, which is a form of abuse and not healthy!

She said OMG..........That is so true about MOST not all Black men!

I said that's why I don't date nor would marry a Black man! lmao They keep abusing you mentally, verbally until you get angry and move on and then they said it was YOU didn't treat them like a man! lmao

When actually Black men upfront don't know how to treat women!

Cultured Black women normally can take care of themselves but want the love and respect from a man which you can't find in MOST not all Black men!

Which is why so many are Dating/marrying white males!
Sadbuttrue

Dumfries, VA

#1304 Oct 11, 2012
Odinist wrote:
<quoted text>'
Always the same thing???
Can you take care of women?
You soil our rep.!
maceo

I think its good since many Black men don't compliment their women!

I told someone yesterday the average Black man that I meet always throws me "insults" and never ask me directly to go out like a White man will or another race of man do!

Later in some round about way they attempt to ask you out after they insulted a woman several times. So of course, I'm going to say no as well as I stay away from those men! lmao

FOOLS

The woman said "Really"???? then she thought about and said "Your right" I guess I'm so use to black man disrespecting us that I almost didn't notice how they approach women in most cases and your right Black men look to bring a woman down because he's insecure!

I told her Yes, which is a form of abuse and not healthy!

She said OMG..........That is so true about MOST not all Black men!

I said that's why I don't date nor would marry a Black man! lmao They keep abusing you mentally, verbally until you get angry and move on and then they said it was YOU didn't treat them like a man! lmao

When actually Black men upfront don't know how to treat women!

Cultured Black women normally can take care of themselves but want the love and respect from a man which you can't find in MOST not all Black men!

Which is why so many are Dating/marrying white males!
QueenD

United States

#1305 Oct 24, 2012
KemiSeba wrote:
lol
Salut mon De kemi :)

“May Allah Guide Mankind”

Level 6

Since: Mar 09

Jihad An-Nafs

#1306 Oct 24, 2012
QueenD wrote:
<quoted text> Salut mon De kemi :)
C'est vraiment toi? Wow ça fait un sacré bail deh!!

Comment ça va? Franchement, je ne te cache pas ma joie d'avoir enfin de tes nouvelles après tout ce temps.

Quoi de neuf?

Les études,ça va? "mon de Kemi" ça me manquait

“May Allah Guide Mankind”

Level 6

Since: Mar 09

Jihad An-Nafs

#1307 Oct 24, 2012
QueenD wrote:
<quoted text> Salut mon De kemi :)
Comment faire pour te contacter?
Sadbuttrue

Alexandria, VA

#1310 Oct 25, 2012
Savant wrote:
<quoted text>
So thiness.
Black males are the leading cause of death among young blacks.
“There is nothing more painful to me at this stage in my life than to walk down the street and hear footsteps and start thinking about robbery. Then look around and see somebody white and feel relieved…. After all we have been through. Just to think we can’t walk down our own streets, how humiliating.”– Jesse Jackson, at a conference for the Rainbow/PUSH coalition Chicago 1993.

Based on a 96 page report on the causes of premature death by the CDC, the leading cause of death among young blacks of both sexes are black males. See report.

AIDS.

According to the CDC, black men are ten times more likely to be diagnosed with HIV or AIDS than white men. Among black men who allege that they have never engaged in a homosexual act, the figure rises to about 15 times the rate that heterosexual white men are diagnosed. Studies by the CDC also conclude that black men are more likely to have HIV or AIDS and go undiagnosed than white men.

All of this translates to black women being diagnosed with HIV or AIDS at a rate of over 20 times that of white women. The general trend is for black men to catch HIV/AIDS from each other in prison and then give it to black women when they are released. The CDC believes that 74% of black women who have HIV/AIDS contracted it through heterosexual contact with a man.

A 2004 report by the CDC says that AIDS is the:

* the leading cause of death for black women aged 25–34 years.
* the 3rd leading cause of death for black women aged 35–44 years.
* the 4th leading cause of death for black women aged 45–54 years.

By way of comparison, AIDS was only the 11th leading cause of death for white women aged 25-34!

Homicide

The same CDC reports say that homicide is the:

* the leading cause of death among black men aged 15-34 years.(Three age categories!)
* the second leading cause of death for black women aged 15-24 years.
* the fifth leading cause of death for black women aged 25-34 years.

Among women aged 15-24, homicide accounts for 5% of premature deaths in white females, but 20% of all premature deaths by black females.

Among both black and white men, homicide deaths peak at aged 25-34. The death rate by homicide among white men in this age group is 12.5 per 100k, and accounts for 10% of all premature deaths. The death rate by homicide among blacks in this age group is 101.8 per 100k, and accounts for 48% of all premature deaths.

The majority of black female homicide victims are killed by a current or former boyfriend, which many refer to as “femicide.” About 96% of all black homicide victims are killed by a black perpetrator overall. 85% of white homicide victims are killed by a white perpetrator.

“The National Black Women’s Health Project” has identified the battering of women as the number one health issue for African American women (Joseph, 1997).

Femicide is a leading cause of premature deaths in African American women aged 15-44.(Journal of Issues in Nursing Vol 7, No. 1)

In 1998, Salber and Taliaferro reported that the spousal homicide rate among African Americans is 8.4 times more than for whites. The incidence of spousal homicide is 7.7 times higher in interracial marriages compared to intraracial marriages.(Source WebMD.com )

Relationships with black men dramatically increase a woman’s chances of dying young.

Black females aged 15-19 are 3.9 times more likely to die of homicide or AIDS than white females in the same age group. This increases to 4.4 times for females aged 20-24 and 7.3 times for 25-34.

White women who engage in relationships with black men dramatically increase their chances of premature death or long term health problems from murder, beatings, and STDs.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1312 Oct 26, 2012
*Again...my wife is beautiful,highly educated,well traveled,well read and about as cultured as any bw on the planet and she's never dated out...never even considered dating out...her personal preference is bm...per her own words and dating history!

And keep in mind that most bw are in fact with or looking for the right bm!

*Just went to a parent Teacher Conference for our two oldest sons....and there were educated and cultured/and well informed bw with bm or black children all over the place!

Again...this idea that wm all get nothing but the best bw is merely wm own ego stroking in action!

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