Why Do Cultured Black Women Date Out?

[Moorspeaks]

Capree wrote:

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Why do you always overexaggerate? I said that black women were more easily accepted into the mainstream than black men are and that still stands. You making it sound like I believe we are embraced and welcomed in with open arms and that's not the case either.

Why are you such a nutjob?

No bw aren't "more easily" accepted into the mainstream than anyone else...no not even bm...what the hell do you even think that means?

Now yes bw like you do believe that they are....but in reality it's not that simple...and there are plenty of bm in the mainstream!

Simpleton...because one white man has chosen to come home to you and bang you at night...that does not mean that bw are more accepted into the "mainstream"....than bm are...lmbao...again what is the Mainstream even?

Are you talking about the white business world or white social/ society...lol!

Once again...many black owned businesses are in fact owned by black men..not bw...and do you think for one moment that only black people do business with these companies..not at all...so what's your point again?

And if most wm want nothing to do with bw...which they don't...hell many won't even hire you all...most white males even have white or at least...non-black secretaries...contrary to all of the propaganda that you all put out their your damn selves!

And don't even get me started on white women...who by the way run the other half of everything that white folks do run...and nooo they aren't warm,open and inviting to bw on their turf!

Is your wig too tight around your brain?

[Married with children]

Noworries123 wrote:

Black men just can't compete with other races of men. Non-black men tend to be better educated, sophisticated, more intelligent, and MUCH better looking with much better hygiene. Most black men are not attractive at all. Black men really can't compete with other men for beautiful, intelligent, sophisticated women. Look at the kind of non-black women they get? If she even looks have decent he has to buy her. Most women with multiple dating options are not checking for black men. Sorry but its the truth.

You sound completely ignorant! You are DEAD wrong with your lopsided logic. Where do you live? I
am married to a very successful BM. He graduated top of his college prep high school, aced his SAT's, went to and graduated from the Air Force Academy with An engineering degree, went to night law school while holding a top security clearance job, and passed the California state bar the first time. He retired after 20 years in the Air Force as a Lt, Col.. He has worked as a Senior VP for legal counsel, and now runs his own practice. He is very good looking and I know this because all women continue to hit on him even when I am with him. Your truth is false and delusional. Why not wake up and visit the real world.

[Moorspeaks]

Capree wrote:

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More black women have proven to be more dependable than some black men also. I know not just one but several black women from all walks of life with careers and steady jobs and these black women work relentlessly 40 to 60 hour week. Some get promotions and raises for their work and devotion to the company. Many of these same black women I know have husband/live-in boyfriends who changes jobs every few weeks, will only work part-time, don't show up on time, call off all the time or who refuse work at all.

Lmbao...really?...wow...so who have these women proven that they are "more dependable to"....white men...white women...who?

Genius...first of all...do you have any idea how many more bw there are than bm in this country...huh?

Next of all...bw in reality are no more dependable on their jobs than anyone else...bm,ww,Aw,Am...Hispanics or anyone else!

Again...stupid this is a stereotype...and an idea that white males came up with...to feed bw egos and to mentally influence you...

THAT IS MAKE YOU WANT TO SATISFY THEM...TRY TO LIVE UP TO THIS IDEA!

And of course idiots like you actually believe it...do you honestly think that bm who are rich and famous...that is black male entrepreneurs are lacking in taking care of their business...lmbao...noooo not for a moment...these guys are serious about their business and let nothing get in the way of it!

NOOO NOT EVEN P*SSY...CONTRARY TO WHAT YOU LOVE TO THINK!

WHERE THE HELL DO YOU THINK THE ATTITUDE..."I GOT MY MIND ON MY MONEY AND MY MONEY ON MY MIND" COMES FROM!

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YOU LIVE IN A WORLD FILLED WITH WHITE MALE DRIVEN IDEAS...GO AND DO THE RESEARCH...THERE ARE BM ENTREPRENEURS,CEOS,VENTURE CAPITALIST AND PHILANTHROPIST...THAT YOU DON'T SEE RIDING DOWN THE STREET ON TWENTIES...OR WITH SOME CHICK WITH BLUE HAIR AND TIGHT ASS BOOTY JEANS HANGING OUT OF THE WINDOW!

I've met this brotha personally...and there are others!

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[Moorspeaks]

Capree wrote:

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More black women have proven to be more dependable than some black men also. I know not just one but several black women from all walks of life with careers and steady jobs and these black women work relentlessly 40 to 60 hour week. Some get promotions and raises for their work and devotion to the company. Many of these same black women I know have husband/live-in boyfriends who changes jobs every few weeks, will only work part-time, don't show up on time, call off all the time or who refuse work at all.

I guess you think that bw are just tearing the business world apart...huh?

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[KemiSeba]

Capree wrote:

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Ok, whenever you feel inspired,lol.

lol

Tell me, your husband is white?

[Moorspeaks]

Noworries123 wrote:

Black men just can't compete with other races of men. Non-black men tend to be better educated, sophisticated, more intelligent, and MUCH better looking with much better hygiene. Most black men are not attractive at all. Black men really can't compete with other men for beautiful, intelligent, sophisticated women. Look at the kind of non-black women they get? If she even looks have decent he has to buy her. Most women with multiple dating options are not checking for black men. Sorry but its the truth.

Lmbao...again that is a generalization to a large degree...in reality most//that is the Majority of people...white men included are not traditionally educated...not at all!

The actual number of Americans that are educated...is much smaller than you would think...go and do the research and stop spreading misnomers!

And as for men having multiple dating options...again...this is a per individual man issue...not a race based one...contrary to what you either believe,want to believe or want to pretend that you believe!

ANY MAN THAT IS IN FACT TALL,HANDSOME,WELL EDUCATED OR KNOWLEDGEABLE ABOUT THINGS,SUCCESSFUL,FUNNY,CHARMI NG AND OR CONFIDENT...WHO HAS THE BASIC NECESSITIES REQUIRED TO DATE,COMMIT AND BUILD AND SECURE A WOMAN...AS WELL AS MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL!

DOES IN FACT HAVE MULTIPLE DATING OPTIONS...AS MUCH AS YOU'D LIKE TO PRETEND...WOMEN REALLY AREN'T THAT PARTICULAR IN GENERAL!

NOW WHAT DO YOU THINK OVER SUCCESSFUL MEN HAVE TO LOOK FORWARD TO!

AND AGAIN...NONBM ARE NOT ALL OVERLY SUCCESSFUL NOR HANDSOME,NOR OVERLY CONFIDENT AS YOU ARE ASSERTING!

THE IDEA THAT ALL NONBM ARE IS MERELY AN IDEA...AN OVER STATED GENERALIZATION!

[Moorspeaks]

KemiSeba wrote:

White people in general feel less "threatened" by black women than by black men, this is not a scoop. I'm pretty sure that if you have a black man and a black woman who possess the same qualifications, the white employer is more likely to take the black woman.
This is also why more BW are in so-called positions of power. It's not just because they strive harder or are better educated (as some say) than black men. So a big part of this perceived acceptance is based on the fact that BW are believed to be very malleable.

I agree with most of this comment...but I have to interject this one point...because you seem to have over looked it!

NO WHITE MEN FEEL LESS THREATENED BY BW...WHO THEY HAVE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE INVOLVED WITH...AND TO THIS DAY...ALWAYS WANT TO TRY TO CONVINCE BW THAT THEY ARE THEIR HEROES...THEY'RE BEST FRIENDS AND THEIR BIGGEST SUPPORTERS...MORE SO THAN BM....SAME THING THAT THEY HAVE DONE WITH OTHER WOMEN AND THE MEN OF THOSE RACES...BECAUSE WHITE MEN WANT TO BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE THE CENTER OF THE UNIVERSE!

BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE ABOUT IT...WHITE WOMEN ARE IN NO WAY,SHAPE OR FORM BW BFF...GIRL OR SHOULDER TO CRY ON...NOT ONCE SAID BW GETS A PROMOTION OVER THEM!

AND ANY HONEST AND OPEN BW WHO IS NON-INSANE...CAN SEE CLEARLY....BECAUSE HERE HEAD IS NOT STUCK SO FAR UP A WM ASS THAT THEY THINK THAT THEY ARE ACCEPTED BY WHITES IN GENERAL...WILL ADMIT AS MUCH!

MY OVERLY EDUCATED AND PROFESSIONAL...OVERLY ATTRACTIVE,CULTURED AND VERY SWEET BLACK FEMALE WIFE HAS SOME WHITE OR NON-BLACK PERSON MAKE SOME RACIST REMARK OR RACE BASED ASSUMPTION ALMOST EVERY SINGLE DAY!

SO SHE WOULD NEVER AGREE WITH THE IDEA THAT BW ARE MORE ACCEPTED IN WHITE SOCIETY...THEY ARE HOWEVER MORE TOLERATED...AS A MEANS TO AN END AND TO DRIVE A WEDGE BTW BM AND BW!

BW USED TO REALIZE THIS!

[Savant]

KemiSeba wrote:

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I don't know what to say lol, your post leaves me with a strange feeling not easily describable

I wonder how mamy Black women are "cultured" (not just degreed) in the sense you suggest. And of those I wonder how many are dating or marrying "out."

And I wonder how the social patterns of "cultured" Black women compare with the social patterns of "cultured" Black men.

[Savant]

IT IS I wrote:

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Who's nagging ?? This thread is about BW who date out. Hello ??
I am simply providing my input on why this may be occuring.
Please........be nice, thank you.

More accurately, it's about CULTURED Black women who date out. But as usual in Topix, it's nearly impossible to stay focused on the thme of a thread.

[Savant]

KemiSeba wrote:

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You're right, the average white male is not "cultured"

Most people--male, female, black, white, brown or other--are not cultured in the sense you suggest.

Most people--male and female--in this thread are not cultured either. The inability to focus, to have a civil conversation, and to disagree without being obnoxiously disagreeable--clearly indicate the generally low level of culture--among men and women alike.

[Savant]

Moorspeaks wrote:

The whole idea that all cultured bw only date out is not only completely inaccurate but it's hilarious!...why?...because contrary to their own hype...most wm are not themselves that cultured!
And how is this statement true...if most bw...cultured or otherwise...educated or otherwise are in fact with bm!
SORRY...BEEN AROUND WHITE MALES IN CLOSE QUARTERS SINCE I COULD PISS STRAIGHT AND NOOO MOST WHITE GUYS AREN'T CULTURED AT ALL..IN FACT OFTEN THESE SAME BW HAVE TO EXPOSE THEM TO CULTURE!
MOST WM ARE VERY EURO CENTRIC AND NOT EVEN OPEN TO OTHER THINGS!
IN REALITY MOST OF THE WOMEN WHO "PRETEND TO BE SO CULTURED" ONLY MAINTAIN THIS IMAGE TO WARD OFF OTHER BLACKS CRITICISM THAT THEY ARE WHITEWASH OR WANT TO BE WHITE GIRLS!
OFTEN WHEN YOU TALK TO THEM....THEY'RE NO MORE CULTURED THAN ANY OTHER BW!...FACT IN REALITY...NOT FICTION!

It's certainly true that most white men (and women) are not cultured.
But is it true that most cultured Black women are with white men? Do we even know how many are? Or are we just ASSUMING.

[Savant]

KemiSeba wrote:

White people in general feel less "threatened" by black women than by black men, this is not a scoop. I'm pretty sure that if you have a black man and a black woman who possess the same qualifications, the white employer is more likely to take the black woman.
This is also why more BW are in so-called positions of power. It's not just because they strive harder or are better educated (as some say) than black men. So a big part of this perceived acceptance is based on the fact that BW are believed to be very malleable.

Some white men (including employers) have actually admitted this.
I think this has to do with PATRIARCHY. not just racism.

[Savant]

KemiSeba wrote:

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ok lol, sorry, not really inspired right now so it's hard for me to respond.

Capree overlooks the fact that white images of Black women are also extremely negative.

But in a patriarchal society the males of one group are seen as more threatening than the females of that group. Have you ever wondered why it is that in premodern (and some modern) warfare the men of a conquering nation massacre all the males, but leave the women alive and in subjection?

Under patriarchy there's a tendency for males to be more aggressive.

[Moorspeaks]

Savant wrote:

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It's certainly true that most white men (and women) are not cultured.
But is it true that most cultured Black women are with white men? Do we even know how many are? Or are we just ASSUMING.

I know for a fact that this is an assumption...first of all...most bw...highly educated and cultured or not...are in fact with bm...this is a fact...in the real world outside of the twisted realm of Topix!

Now if most bw are in fact with bm...then how could all of the cultured bw be with nonbm...white men!

I know bw that are with white men now...and to be honest..non-biased in fact...these women are not very cultured not at all!

That's the funny thing about all of this...my wife is a highly educated and very cultured black woman...very attractive and well informed on many subjects...but she's never even been into nonbm!

She has girlfriends that are both a lot like her and unlike her...now we socialize with a lot of people...black,white and other...because we've always known all kinds of people...from college,work and our community as well as child based programs-organizations...an yes we know a fair share of white folks and noooo most of them are not overly cultured!

They are just white people...who work,play,take care of their homes,their children and go about their business!

But nooo they aren't overly cultured...nor are most of them with bw...and the bw that I know that are very cultured...here in Michigan or otherwise are mostly with bm!

This is again...an overstated idea...expressed as if it's some rule of thumb...based on a few examples of such a thing being true!

That's all!

*It's like stating that all bm that are dating or married to ww are pro ball players or movie stars!

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[ClassyInHtown]

J-Town Ninja OhH YeE AhH wrote:

more than likely raised by white parents, or black parents immersed in white culture... so, simple numbers, exposed to alot more white men than black, and when contact is made with black men, they dont identify with them
Personalities matching is just as important to relationships as physical attraction...
you can learn to find someone cute or attractive physically, hard to learn to get along with someone that isnt at your level mentally

It's refreshing to know that there actually are some people in this forum who are capable of intelligent conversation.

Thanks

[Moorspeaks]

*HONESTLY OUT OF MOST OF THE PEOPLE IN MY WIFE'S OFFICE...BESIDES THE NON-WHITE PEOPLE(THAT IS ASIAN,EAST INDIAN OR HISPANICS!)SHE'S THE MOST CULTURED PERSON IN HER ENTIRE OFFICE...HANDS DOWN!

[dev143]

ClassyInHtown wrote:

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It's refreshing to know that there actually are some people in this forum who are capable of intelligent conversation.
Thanks

Who said you were the arbiter of what constitutes "intelligent conversation"??

[dev143]

Axe V2 wrote:

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Are you slow?
Who said? Classy did.

Simmer down Clay Aiken's racist alter-ego.

[Moorspeaks]

ClassyInHtown wrote:

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It's refreshing to know that there actually are some people in this forum who are capable of intelligent conversation.
Thanks

What's sad is that you actually think that he's intelligent...instead of the racist creep that he is...making all sorts of generalizations about all sorts of things!