Why Do Cultured Black Women Date Out?

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#854 Sep 20, 2012
Ayan wrote:
I guess I would consider myself a cultured Black woman, but I don't date out nor would I marry out of my culture.
My man is Somali like me.
I don't get why some Black women would want to date out and mix themselves out.
You still didn't marry a black man of your own culture and that speaks volumes.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#855 Sep 20, 2012
Capree wrote:
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You still didn't marry a black man of your own culture and that speaks volumes.
She hasn't married anyone yet you dimwit!
IT IS I

Merced, CA

#856 Sep 20, 2012
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>maceo
You should stop taking to your 300 profile names and focusing on "Growing up"! Your almost 60 years old and these behaviors reek of being a LOSER!
Maybe volunteer for Obama Campaign? Help Black males graduate from HS since 68% fail? Why not do something Productive besides whine like a feminized wild banjee, it reeks of being a LOSER!
Do something positive MACEO AND GIVE BACK!
Go volunteer! Teach Bible Study!(apply it in your life)Work on your Character!!!(sneaky, habitual liar, recluse, insecure, instigator)
When you give back to others; you'll feel good about yourself and won't put White men down for their accomplishments as well as Black women!
HOw can you scream and hate on White men when you date/marry and elevate their daughters?
You do nothing for Black women you won't even give a compliment when they deserve it!
You waste far too much time hating on White males; when most of what you've done has been to yourself and your bad choices! It has nothing to do with any White male treating Black women badly!
You made the decision to not getting your life together and to chase White women for decades and you have "nothing to show" for your time!
Change YOU, Get Busy maceo!
Posting on Topix for 7 or more hours every evening is INSANITY! Talking to and creating over 300 profiles is INSANITY! Putting Black women down for their accomplishments is INSANITY!
Racism will always exist but even the Republicans think highly of Obama personal character!
I have to admire a man with character, integrity and knows his place as a man; no matter what the color! Which is why I would never limit myself to these horrible irresponsible Black males that I see today! That comes from Absentee Fathers, No Guidance, No role models or leaders!
GOD IS CALLING YOU maceo STEP UP!
Alright bytch !!!

That's enough !!

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#857 Sep 20, 2012
Moorspeaks wrote:
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lmbao...there is absolutle nothing about you...from anything that you have ever uttered here on Topix that even remotely suggest that you are in any possible way a Christian...lmbao!
Now I know that you have some very serious mental issues!
Who in the hell are you to judge me?????

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#859 Sep 20, 2012
Capree wrote:
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Who in the hell are you to judge me?????
shyt for brains...who are you to judge bm...you do it every single day...right here on Topix...I guess you can't stand the taste of your own Medicine...huh?

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#860 Sep 20, 2012
IT IS I wrote:
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I think that many BM are jealous of BW because it is more socially acceptable for us as women to straighten our hair or get extensions. I believe that they think that this minor alteration puts us in a position to be "closer" to white people, and that's what they are striving to do.
I don't know, just a thought.
But believe me, if many BM could get relaxers, weaves and extensions, they would probably pass us up in purchasing fake hair !!!
Like you though, I don't do fake hair. I have never had a problem growing my hair long. But if some BW want to 'enhance' their physical appearance by using extensions, weaves, etc., I don't know why BM would have a problem with it (unless they're jealous, of course !!).
WW wear fake hair all day long, but do you see WM publicly ricuculing them over it ?? NO, because WM are not hung up on hair the way BM are.
True talk !!
You know I have always wondered why black men seemed to resent black women for wearing weaves or even colored contacts. I mean why would men worry themselves over female enhancements??? It sounds like you absolutely right because black men work night and day trying to be socially accepted by whites and be apart of the mainsteam. While black women , weave or no weave are much easily accepted in society than black men. I also think that black men are jealous toward black women about this. Black men 's mentality is just fked-up!

“Obsidian Princess”

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Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#861 Sep 20, 2012
Style wrote:
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A ‘culture’ exists to give you GUIDELINES for acceptable behaviour.
now i have never heard it put so eloquently and easy to understand as this. i agree with your whole post but wanted to focus on this one sentence.
dame

Memphis, TN

#862 Sep 20, 2012
IT IS I wrote:
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But believe me, if many BM could get relaxers, weaves and extensions, they would probably pass us up in purchasing fake hair !!!
LMAO!

“Obsidian Princess”

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louisiana

#863 Sep 20, 2012
Carol wrote:
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Wrong, the African American culture is one of the most copied, "rich" cultures in the world.
i hear folk say this over and over again. what is copied is our style, for the most part and style/popularity does not equal "culture." its an insult to the institution of culture to call the enviornment we find ourselves in a "culture"!!!
It's American black men who are so desperate to be accepted into American white culture that they don't see the value of their culture, women and or children
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this is unfortunately true. we as blk women have got to be more race conscious when raising our children.
usually when American black women date out, it's because of mutual respect/love with a person from another culture.

“Obsidian Princess”

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louisiana

#864 Sep 20, 2012
"usually when American black women date out, it's because of mutual respect/love with a person from another culture."

from what i have heard, sistahs usually end up in IR because they are extremely fed up with blk men.

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#865 Sep 20, 2012
You pickaninnies(read BM haters) are scandalous...

“Obsidian Princess”

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louisiana

#866 Sep 20, 2012
IT IS I wrote:
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Hey you !!
I've missed you, how have you been ??
I agree that black-american culture is the most "copied" culture in the world but mainly because it is popular in our culture to degrade BW and men get a pass for being mysogynistic ( I don't know if I spelled that right).
please calling this a culture. its an insult. if this is a culture it is the most horrifying one to be encountered!!

“Obsidian Princess”

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louisiana

#867 Sep 20, 2012
dev143 wrote:
You pickaninnies(read BM haters) are scandalous...
really in truly, when someone calls you out (justfully) its an act of love no matter how harsh it seems. i bet if all blk american men seen these post most all would seek to make dramatic, positive change.

don't be so soft and weak.
Colt

Columbia, MD

#868 Sep 20, 2012
IT IS I wrote:
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Once again, and for the last time ding-bat, Black males are known for using their dycks as krutches and it had gotten them nowhere.
Get off, and stay off of the WM's nutsack and use that energy to build and create something. Invest in your communities instead of trying to run to the WM's community and trying to be "all up in his mix". He doesn't want you around.
And if you all (BM) don't snap out of this depression, BW won't want you around either.
Now.........run along Kunta, I have business to tend to, O.K.??
The ONLY people talking about Black Dyck is Black women and White men.

Slave WM worshippers like you never admit the truth. Now hop in the bed and warm it up. Massa is coming up the stairs kizzie.

“Super Progressive AA Chick”

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Really?

#869 Sep 20, 2012
It's all about exposure. It's the same thing that happens when rich black athletes date outside the race. You get to travel the world and you're exposed to different people and cultures. It's a beautiful thing.

I think you rarely see cultured AA women with black men because WE tend to be more open-minded. AA women who have never been anywhere are the ones are are still stuck on black men, even the ones who treat them badly.

I'm EXTREMELY submissive. I'm talking about "strip you at the front door, bathe you, feed you and you never have to lift a finger" submissive, but unfortunately, black men just don't know how to handle that. You say you want submissive women, but when you get us, you take us for granted.

Brothas have driven me away...smh

Source:..story of my life

Gerold

San Jose, CA

#870 Sep 20, 2012
Moved out into Suburbia, mixing with different people, college etc.
dame

Memphis, TN

#871 Sep 20, 2012
dragonpat wrote:
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please calling this a culture. its an insult. if this is a culture it is the most horrifying one to be encountered!!
I agree. lol. Culture is not entertainment- as so many bp truly believe. A well developed culture entertains last and puts family first. Through the development of family comes good morals, community and traditions which can be passed down. This is what the world admires and respects!

In fact, aa's are being mocked if you ask me. If you aren't respected but yet copied..you are mocked.
IT IS I

Merced, CA

#872 Sep 20, 2012
Capree wrote:
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You know I have always wondered why black men seemed to resent black women for wearing weaves or even colored contacts. I mean why would men worry themselves over female enhancements??? It sounds like you absolutely right because black men work night and day trying to be socially accepted by whites and be apart of the mainsteam. While black women , weave or no weave are much easily accepted in society than black men. I also think that black men are jealous toward black women about this. Black men 's mentality is just fked-up!
Yes....

The minds of BM in this country is BEYOND f****d up.
They don't know if they are coming or going, if they are black or white, or if they are male or female.

At this point I just feel sorry for them. I don't know if they will ever be a able to get it together.

All BW can do is protect themselves and their children.
dame

Memphis, TN

#873 Sep 20, 2012
dragonpat wrote:
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please calling this a culture. its an insult. if this is a culture it is the most horrifying one to be encountered!!
Asians have a great culture imo.
IT IS I

Merced, CA

#874 Sep 20, 2012
Colt wrote:
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The ONLY people talking about Black Dyck is Black women and White men.
Slave WM worshippers like you never admit the truth. Now hop in the bed and warm it up. Massa is coming up the stairs kizzie.
O.K., whatever you say, Kunta.

At least Massa has a bed (with silk sheets !) for me to hop into.

SMH.......

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