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“May Allah Guide Mankind”

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Jihad An-Nafs

#1 Sep 13, 2012
Over the years i've noticed that the overwhelming majority of "cultured" African American women tend to date interracially. When I say "cultured", I don't simply mean "educated". In fact there's an enormous difference between being cultured and possessing a college degree.

Here's an example of a cultured African American women



She speaks several languages, is well traveled, knows a lot about other cultures, currently lives abroad and is very open-minded.

I wonder if these cultured black American women date out because they can't find cultured AA men with similar tastes and interests, dont frequent the same social circles, simply prefer to venture out romantically...? Probably all the above

By the way, i'm not against IR dating lol I just don't understand why you never see girls like that with black men

“Stop being moronic. ”

Since: Oct 09

Chesapeake, VA

#2 Sep 13, 2012
She's unattractive.

“May Allah Guide Mankind”

Level 6

Since: Mar 09

Jihad An-Nafs

#5 Sep 13, 2012
Logic_c wrote:
She's unattractive.
I think she's cute
Cayla

Savannah, GA

#6 Sep 13, 2012
ugly monkeys wrote:
I was just thinking to myself today that bw who date wm are not only the most attractive bw but also the most intelligent.
Were you not just talking sh*t about bw in your other thread? http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/T7M2EH1130QSI...

“Stop being moronic. ”

Since: Oct 09

Chesapeake, VA

#7 Sep 13, 2012
KemiSeba wrote:
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I think she's cute
Your setting your bar for cute pretty low.

“Stop being moronic. ”

Since: Oct 09

Chesapeake, VA

#8 Sep 13, 2012
Klaus666

Toronto, Canada

#9 Sep 13, 2012
"cultured sheboons" lmWSAOX100000000000000000000

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#10 Sep 14, 2012
Klaus666 wrote:
"cultured sheboons" lmWSAOX100000000000000000000
Go back to your cave.
Bayou City

Houston, TX

#12 Sep 14, 2012
sand_cracker wrote:
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Go back to your cave.
Go back to your mud huts and cow piss showers, you poison dart blowing porch ape.

“Version 2.0”

Level 5

Since: Jul 12

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#13 Sep 14, 2012
more than likely raised by white parents, or black parents immersed in white culture... so, simple numbers, exposed to alot more white men than black, and when contact is made with black men, they dont identify with them

Personalities matching is just as important to relationships as physical attraction...

you can learn to find someone cute or attractive physically, hard to learn to get along with someone that isnt at your level mentally

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#14 Sep 14, 2012
Most cultured black people, have lived, and worked around other races, so they are exposed to more, and they have more in common with cultured blacks, whites, asians, ects. Their goals, and values are similar, thats probably why. Most black men I have known, were cultured black men, and they were with cultured white women. Its not always about race, but about who has your best interest at heart, or who is going where you are going. In atlanta, most cultured blacks date other blacks, because you have upper class areas, where its prodominantly black. Nice malls, nice grocery stores, schools, ect, and its still segregated down here, so most folks feel better around their own, but in the city, its more like fare game, because you dont know who your neighbor may be, or you will be going to college with different races.

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#15 Sep 14, 2012
KemiSeba wrote:
Over the years i've noticed that the overwhelming majority of "cultured" African American women tend to date interracially. When I say "cultured", I don't simply mean "educated". In fact there's an enormous difference between being cultured and possessing a college degree.
Here's an example of a cultured African American women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dFPg1TdIEKMXX
She speaks several languages, is well traveled, knows a lot about other cultures, currently lives abroad and is very open-minded.
I wonder if these cultured black American women date out because they can't find cultured AA men with similar tastes and interests, dont frequent the same social circles, simply prefer to venture out romantically...? Probably all the above
By the way, i'm not against IR dating lol I just don't understand why you never see girls like that with black men
In atlanta you do, unless she is completly white washed! A lot of middle class blacks, and rich ones live here.

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#16 Sep 14, 2012
In atlanta, cultured AA's are proud of their heritage, some come from old money, and from a long line of achievements in their family. These blacks do not associate with hood folks, and have great connections to get what they want, they are not typical by no means, and come from wealth. They live around other middle class, and upper class blacks. They speak very proper.
Style

London, UK

#17 Sep 14, 2012
I remember her. That’s the chick that went to Korea, under the guise of ‘teaching English’, to find an Asian boyfriend. Her YouTube blogs are required viewing for you desperate IR types. Watch them in chronological order and she how she slowly become demoralised as she realises no one was interested in her foreign black azz.

So now she’s in Mexico with presumably a similar agenda. I guess she has a thing for short men...

Self-hating Ho.

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#18 Sep 14, 2012
Style wrote:
I remember her. That’s the chick that went to Korea, under the guise of ‘teaching English’, to find an Asian boyfriend. Her YouTube blogs are required viewing for you desperate IR types. Watch them in chronological order and she how she slowly become demoralised as she realises no one was interested in her foreign black azz.
So now she’s in Mexico with presumably a similar agenda. I guess she has a thing for short men...
Self-hating Ho.
Yes, I have saw her videos. Their is one other one as well.

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#19 Sep 14, 2012
Cultured AA's love the jazz festivals, blues festivals, the black arts festivals, and anything related to AA history, or culture, a lot are married that I have met, to other AA's. They are the ones who make sure our legacy is kept in atlanta, or use to, but Im sure they are behind the scenes. Our mayor, Maynard Jackson came from a black american elite family, and Andrew Young did as well. They have tried to help lower income blacks, but they dont understand why they dont help themselves, or why they are not trying harder, but not all lower income fit this stereotype.
Noworries123

AOL

#20 Sep 14, 2012
KemiSeba wrote:
Over the years i've noticed that the overwhelming majority of "cultured" African American women tend to date interracially. When I say "cultured", I don't simply mean "educated". In fact there's an enormous difference between being cultured and possessing a college degree.
Here's an example of a cultured African American women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dFPg1TdIEKMXX
She speaks several languages, is well traveled, knows a lot about other cultures, currently lives abroad and is very open-minded.
I wonder if these cultured black American women date out because they can't find cultured AA men with similar tastes and interests, dont frequent the same social circles, simply prefer to venture out romantically...? Probably all the above
By the way, i'm not against IR dating lol I just don't understand why you never see girls like that with black men
We have to. Sadly African-Americans do not teach their sons the value of etiquette, education, and sophistication therefore when cultured black women are looking for someone to date based on similar interests, they have a very hard time finding a black man who can relate to who they are as a woman. Also when a sophisticated black woman decides to give a regular brother a try, he usually develops a resentment towards this type of black woman he begins to feel inferior to her; he can't show her anything of value. He will also experience discomfort around her family, friends, colleagues, and associates because he cannot impress them and he will begin to compare himself to them and develop feelings of inadequacy. As a result, he will probably begin to "act out" in very disturbing ways. Now I have to say that this is not just a problem with black men. All men who lack a certain amount of sophistication will likely have jealously and resentment towards this type of black woman. It is as if they cannot accept that a black person, a black woman no less, managed to become a real, live, sophisticated, elegant, intelligent lady. I have dated a lot of men of all races and trust me on this; unless that man is of a certain age (older) with a great deal of exposure, education, financial flexibility, and innate intelligence, you are going to have some problems. I honestly think that men of Asian, African, and Middle Eastern heritage are best suited for worldly African-American women. These cultures typically value sophistication and education in a man and they raise their sons to develop these characteristics. Typically these men also have not been socialized to see black women as caretakers, fools, and whores so there is less anger towards a black woman who has shunned these stereotypes and managed to become a fully developed, multidimensional woman.

“I love being a Black Man”

Level 8

Since: Nov 09

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#22 Sep 14, 2012
Style wrote:
I remember her. That’s the chick that went to Korea, under the guise of ‘teaching English’, to find an Asian boyfriend. Her YouTube blogs are required viewing for you desperate IR types. Watch them in chronological order and she how she slowly become demoralised as she realises no one was interested in her foreign black azz.
So now she’s in Mexico with presumably a similar agenda. I guess she has a thing for short men...
Self-hating Ho.
I know this girl. I think she is attractive. But I agree. She went to Korea to find an Asian BF. Then she found out they were pretty much jerks. Now she is in Mexico.

She has stated that she doesn't hate black men and finds Black men attractive. I just think she is on this "see the world" kick. That a lot of Black women are on now. That includes dating other races of men.

“I love being a Black Man”

Level 8

Since: Nov 09

Location hidden

#23 Sep 14, 2012
Noworries123 wrote:
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We have to. Sadly African-Americans do not teach their sons the value of etiquette, education, and sophistication therefore when cultured black women are looking for someone to date based on similar interests, they have a very hard time finding a black man who can relate to who they are as a woman. Also when a sophisticated black woman decides to give a regular brother a try, he usually develops a resentment towards this type of black woman he begins to feel inferior to her; he can't show her anything of value. He will also experience discomfort around her family, friends, colleagues, and associates because he cannot impress them and he will begin to compare himself to them and develop feelings of inadequacy. As a result, he will probably begin to "act out" in very disturbing ways. Now I have to say that this is not just a problem with black men. All men who lack a certain amount of sophistication will likely have jealously and resentment towards this type of black woman. It is as if they cannot accept that a black person, a black woman no less, managed to become a real, live, sophisticated, elegant, intelligent lady. I have dated a lot of men of all races and trust me on this; unless that man is of a certain age (older) with a great deal of exposure, education, financial flexibility, and innate intelligence, you are going to have some problems. I honestly think that men of Asian, African, and Middle Eastern heritage are best suited for worldly African-American women. These cultures typically value sophistication and education in a man and they raise their sons to develop these characteristics. Typically these men also have not been socialized to see black women as caretakers, fools, and whores so there is less anger towards a black woman who has shunned these stereotypes and managed to become a fully developed, multidimensional woman.
Please. These guys will use you the same as other men. They just do it with a wine glass in their hand.

We have to get off of these divisive labels. "I'm worldly, I'm part of the intelligentsia" No You have a passport and you travel. Congrats.

These guys see women like you coming from a mile away. If you want to date out. Just do it and get over yourself.

Level 7

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#24 Sep 14, 2012
Noworries123 wrote:
<quoted text>
We have to. Sadly African-Americans do not teach their sons the value of etiquette, education, and sophistication therefore when cultured black women are looking for someone to date based on similar interests, they have a very hard time finding a black man who can relate to who they are as a woman. Also when a sophisticated black woman decides to give a regular brother a try, he usually develops a resentment towards this type of black woman he begins to feel inferior to her; he can't show her anything of value. He will also experience discomfort around her family, friends, colleagues, and associates because he cannot impress them and he will begin to compare himself to them and develop feelings of inadequacy. As a result, he will probably begin to "act out" in very disturbing ways. Now I have to say that this is not just a problem with black men. All men who lack a certain amount of sophistication will likely have jealously and resentment towards this type of black woman. It is as if they cannot accept that a black person, a black woman no less, managed to become a real, live, sophisticated, elegant, intelligent lady. I have dated a lot of men of all races and trust me on this; unless that man is of a certain age (older) with a great deal of exposure, education, financial flexibility, and innate intelligence, you are going to have some problems. I honestly think that men of Asian, African, and Middle Eastern heritage are best suited for worldly African-American women. These cultures typically value sophistication and education in a man and they raise their sons to develop these characteristics. Typically these men also have not been socialized to see black women as caretakers, fools, and whores so there is less anger towards a black woman who has shunned these stereotypes and managed to become a fully developed, multidimensional woman.
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