Why do some mexican(hispanics) guys pretend they don't like black girls

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Since: Jun 11

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#1 Dec 18, 2011
… The first man i fell in love with a was a mexicano from jalisco. He was different because he's been living in the states for a while(all his life lol) and just doesn't pay attention to the racist remarks people make when you date outside of your race. He just didn't give a damn what other people thought about us being together. when we split, I tried dating more mexican guys(and let me tell you something, mexicanos are SEXY as hell) but I noticed they are more self conscious to what people think of them and the women they date :/ okay, so most of the ones I messed with after him weren't living in the states as long as he was, and there was a STRONG sexual tension between us but they acted as though they were ashamed of it and cared too much about what other people though. They would always express themselves to me when other mexican girls weren't around. when it was just them and their friends, they didn't care but if a mexican chick was in the room they didn't do that. Example: This one named Miguel had a serious crush on me(along with with his friends, there were three of them who hung out and they ALL liked me alot after seeing me with my ex and the way I treated my man) and we hit it off for a while. The first time he kissed me, he was so shy, and the next year he found himself a mexican girl to date. I think the girl had a problem with me, because me and Miguel hung out and i flirted with him infront of her(not knowing she liked him) so then to reassure her that I wasn't a treat he lied to her and said "I don't like black girls" but seriously?? you weren't saying that last year and now all of a sudden you don't like black chicks?(found out he was just going to bang her and leave). I see the way he still looks at me when shes not paying attention. I got fed up with him, because he acted like he didn't like me around the mexican chicks, but when they weren't around, all of a sudden things are different. I never liked guys who won't date a girl from another background just because of what people might think. Thats what I'm talking about. why do they pretend not to like black girls in front of other mexican girls? the Second one was another one who had a crush on me. He was BEAUTIFUL-- all the the little mexican girls liked him and I remember saying to myself ""I have GOT to have him" just a couple of days ago before the weekend started I decided to confess that i have a crush on him… guess what? turns out he liked me back. I found out that he would ask people if me and my ex were still together(Noe, he went back to mexico) and would make smart remarks about my boyfriend(as if he could treat me better if i were his women) I found out that him and another mexican guy were talking about chicks and some how my named pops up into the conversation when it came to sex and cute exotic girls(dont ask) I don't think he cares about other people's opinions as much as Miguel does-- But when I told him how i felt, and found out he felt the same way, thats when i changed my mind because he wouldn't kiss me when a black guy saw us together. when i told him how I felt, I took him by the collar, backed against the wall behind us and pulled him against me. He placed his hands on either side of my hips and said to me "tell me what you want" because before hand he asked "do you want to date me?" and i said "no, i just needed to tell you how I felt so it wouldn't be a secret anymore" and he asked "then what do you wan't" so i just decided to show him what i wanted instead of telling him. I lifted his chin and leaned my face in to kiss him and right before our lips met, a black guy came around the corner and he pulled away. I was MAD.

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Since: Oct 09

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#2 Dec 18, 2011
Lol, why would you like a coward ass dude that's scared to kiss you in front of black people? Smh.

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#3 Dec 18, 2011
These guys don't sound like they've been treating you right. You need men who know how they feel and where they stand. If some Latinos are only interested in Latinas, that's fine. People can date who they want. But if these men are kissing you and asking you out one moment and pretending otherwise when Latinas or black guys are around, then they lack the courage of their convictions and the integrity to be responsible for their choices before the world. You need to find men willing to give you more respect or support than that.

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#4 Dec 18, 2011
Logic_c wrote:
Lol, why would you like a coward ass dude that's scared to kiss you in front of black people? Smh.
Great minds, huh?

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#5 Dec 18, 2011
Kimberly1990 wrote:
These guys don't sound like they've been treating you right. You need men who know how they feel and where they stand. If some Latinos are only interested in Latinas, that's fine. People can date who they want. But if these men are kissing you and asking you out one moment and pretending otherwise when Latinas or black guys are around, then they lack the courage of their convictions and the integrity to be responsible for their choices before the world. You need to find men willing to give you more respect or support than that.
lol, Thats what im saying. my first mexicano just didn't care at all what people thought.

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#6 Dec 18, 2011
Well, if they put up a front, how can you be so sure they're worth it?
miguel

Pacoima, CA

#7 Feb 4, 2012
Hey I'm Mexican raised in long beach and love black women is all I date now. If I have my black queen now ill kiss her all over baby.
wendylove

San Pablo, CA

#8 May 4, 2012
i am black and i ve been with my mexican boyfriend for a year now. i must say he is the best boyfriend i could ever ask for. he adore, cherish and treats me with respect more than any black guy i ever dated. his family is also adorable, they dont really trip about the whole interracial issues. so i guess what am trying to is its all about who makes you happy. race should never be a problem whne it comes to love.
Machete

Austin, TX

#9 May 4, 2012
I'm Mexican and I've always been attracted to BW. Always have and I'll always will.
Machete

Austin, TX

#10 May 4, 2012
miguel wrote:
Hey I'm Mexican raised in long beach and love black women is all I date now. If I have my black queen now ill kiss her all over baby.
They are super sexy Miguel. I agree.
Ambiguous

United States

#11 May 4, 2012
Why would she involve bm troll @wendy.

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Since: Apr 12

United States

#12 May 5, 2012
Maybe cuz all you're good for is a quick, easy lay? Such is the case with most black women. Good enough to f--k but not to acknowledge when CLASSY, PRETTY women are around.
roberto

Nairobi, Kenya

#13 Jul 7, 2012
because blacks are f**king ugly, unless they are mixed or something
i'm Mexican and i live in Kenya and have to Suffer
the ugliness every day !!!!!

peace .
Michele

United States

#16 Jul 19, 2012
Wow!? I must say that there some harsh comments. As a black female, my family hates mexican ppl. My sister says she hates the ppl and the food. I have dated all races and mexican men usually come 2 mind only when it benefits me--they r not my preference either.
Michele

United States

#17 Jul 19, 2012
roberto wrote:
because blacks are f**king ugly, unless they are mixed or something
i'm Mexican and i live in Kenya and have to Suffer
the ugliness every day !!!!!
peace .
Then go back to your own country and you won't have to deal with it. How can Hispanics be racist? The white race would rather deal with blacks anyway.
Alfonso De La Vega

Harrisburg, PA

#18 Jul 19, 2012
Michele wrote:
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Then go back to your own country and you won't have to deal with it. How can Hispanics be racist? The white race would rather deal with blacks anyway.
Can Black People Be Racist?
Hey

Sellersburg, IN

#19 Jul 26, 2012
Not all hispanics are racist,actually where i live alot of hispanics like black women. Im afro Latino(im black & mexican,im also known as afro mexican) My dad is mexican & my mom is black(:
Alexis

United States

#20 Jul 29, 2012
roberto wrote:
because blacks are f**king ugly, unless they are mixed or something
i'm Mexican and i live in Kenya and have to Suffer
the ugliness every day !!!!!
peace .
our black is beautiful ! Blacker the berry the sweeter the juice , I love being black and I'm mixed with many things like Cuban and Dominican , and a little Mexican and I happily dark skinned , but how about you go to hell !
Vanessa

Fresno, CA

#21 Jul 30, 2012
I'm black and all of my boyfriends have been Mexican (not on purpose, it has just happened that way so far). Some Black guys and Mexican girls trip but he doesn't care and neither do I. Once when we were out a group of Mexican girls were being really disrespectful, trying to flirt with him right in from of me (He's really hot!!!) he totally ignored them. When we walked pass them he put his arm around me and they just stood there looking stupid.

I could list incident after incident but it's irrelevant. I'm not with him because he's Mexican and he's not with me because I'm black. He's a great person and vice versa. We just happen to be Black and Mexican.~ Peace ~
Juanito Zambrano

United States

#22 Aug 6, 2012
Oye all you none mexicans.we Mexicans are shy to be with black girls or any other none mexicans girls cause most of us raised by our Mexican parents to only date and love our mexican chicas cause its a culture respect and pride thing so when we date out of our culture it may hurt our culture and some of us are scared cause we never dated out side of our culture and it be hard to speak a different language even ingles but I like all none mexicans I just don't like white people or white girls but besides loving my hermosa Mexicana mujeres I love black Chicas even tho I never had friends with them I have one black guy friend so it's cool mexicans and blacks together make good friends and be good for dating.black girls are hot they be my first people I'd date outside my Mexican culture and you gotta think some of us Mexicans its hard to learn ingles or we can't at all so that's another reason we raised to love and date only in our culture just if you become our friends como se dice don't piss us off as Americans say

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