Who is more aware of their duties? Men or Women?

Created by Pure Observation on Nov 29, 2012

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Pure Ideas

Washington, DC

#1 Nov 29, 2012
Black men and black women, what do each of you think we owe or are responsible for in a long-term relationship.

What I'm asking is for men to list only the things we men universally should bring or do in a relationship.

Then I'm asking the women what they universally think women should do or bring.

Let's have a meeting of the minds if you will.

As people list their beliefs let's vote on who seems to be more in touch with the others needs, wants or desires.
Pure Ideas

Washington, DC

#2 Nov 29, 2012
I'll go first. As a man I believe a man should provide a home to live in.
THE RELIC

El Monte, CA

#3 Nov 29, 2012
Pure Ideas wrote:
Black men and black women, what do each of you think we owe or are responsible for in a long-term relationship.
What I'm asking is for men to list only the things we men universally should bring or do in a relationship.
Then I'm asking the women what they universally think women should do or bring.
Let's have a meeting of the minds if you will.
As people list their beliefs let's vote on who seems to be more in touch with the others needs, wants or desires.
Oh ohh, you must have madw Jethro mad. He's hiding your post.

“Incoming Humor. :)”

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#4 Nov 29, 2012
Pure Ideas wrote:
Black men and black women, what do each of you think we owe or are responsible for in a long-term relationship.
What I'm asking is for men to list only the things we men universally should bring or do in a relationship.
Then I'm asking the women what they universally think women should do or bring.
Let's have a meeting of the minds if you will.
As people list their beliefs let's vote on who seems to be more in touch with the others needs, wants or desires.
Well I believe we as black women should try to understand black men instead of labeling them as "no good" when they do something we dislike.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#5 Nov 29, 2012
PANMA19 wrote:
<quoted text>Well I believe we as black women should try to understand black men instead of labeling them as "no good" when they do something we dislike.
You are the best.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#6 Nov 29, 2012
bm should provide safety
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#7 Nov 29, 2012
THE RELIC wrote:
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Oh ohh, you must have madw Jethro mad. He's hiding your post.
Ahh no problem sir. I'll repost if I must.

=0)
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#8 Nov 30, 2012
Black men are to protect their race.

and since no bw other than PANMA19 will participate...

I'll add that the compliment to this would be:

Black women are to preserve their race.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#9 Nov 30, 2012
BM provide wisdom.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#10 Nov 30, 2012
Black men provide discipline.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#11 Nov 30, 2012
Black men provide leadership.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#12 Nov 30, 2012
Black men build.
happy

Brooklyn, NY

#13 Nov 30, 2012
Pure Ideas wrote:
Black men and black women, what do each of you think we owe or are responsible for in a long-term relationship.
What I'm asking is for men to list only the things we men universally should bring or do in a relationship.
Then I'm asking the women what they universally think women should do or bring.
Let's have a meeting of the minds if you will.
As people list their beliefs let's vote on who seems to be more in touch with the others needs, wants or desires.
The make up of both ( genders ) are so different nonetheless can compliment when both can comprend this fact. Because of emotional and phyiscal differences with balance and civil communication and team work can jump start a sane relationship vs an insane one.

*women are ( NATURAL ) nuturer of caring for our children and men- the 'blue. Print' is no doubt there. Men are (NATURAL) providers and protectors. KNOWING OUR PLACE is a help; NOT KNOWING, is a hender. RESPECT and losing that OVER RIDING thee other attitude is a KEY entering through a door of PEACE.
happy

Brooklyn, NY

#14 Nov 30, 2012
Pure Ideas wrote:
Black men and black women, what do each of you think we owe or are responsible for in a long-term relationship.
What I'm asking is for men to list only the things we men universally should bring or do in a relationship.
Then I'm asking the women what they universally think women should do or bring.
Let's have a meeting of the minds if you will.
As people list their beliefs let's vote on who seems to be more in touch with the others needs, wants or desires.
*Just my opinion. don't have to be right however, I ( feel ) women are focus on our duties as wife, mother, girlfriend, partner .....in our relationships perhapes more so then men. Why?...'Blue print' of care giver, nuturer, and willingly receive satisfaction from this ( feminine ) gender make up.

*though (some) men may know how to cook and clean, in (most) cases the woman does it more; which rightfully is understood since we are the nuturers.
happy

Brooklyn, NY

#15 Nov 30, 2012
Pure Observation wrote:
Black men are to protect their race.
and since no bw other than PANMA19 will participate...
I'll add that the compliment to this would be:
Black women are to preserve their race.
Blk men being the protector (PRESERVE) the race.
Blk women being the (HELPER).
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#16 Nov 30, 2012
happy wrote:
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The make up of both ( genders ) are so different nonetheless can compliment when both can comprend this fact. Because of emotional and phyiscal differences with balance and civil communication and team work can jump start a sane relationship vs an insane one.
*women are ( NATURAL ) nuturer of caring for our children and men- the 'blue. Print' is no doubt there. Men are (NATURAL) providers and protectors. KNOWING OUR PLACE is a help; NOT KNOWING, is a hender. RESPECT and losing that OVER RIDING thee other attitude is a KEY entering through a door of PEACE.
Excellent.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#17 Nov 30, 2012
happy wrote:
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Blk men being the protector (PRESERVE) the race.
Blk women being the (HELPER).
Let me give my opinion.

An perhaps I am searching for the correct word and it escapes me for the moment.

But I see a bm as the protector but not the preserver.

A race of people may be preserved through protect but preserving the black race encompasses the duty of procreation.

In comparison procreation is also a form of protecting the existence of the race. In addition choosing to mate with the smartest, strongest, wisest and most attractive, all fall under the duties of the woman. This decision making also protects but I choose to define it more as preserve because it is this duty that helps to strengthen a particular people.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#18 Nov 30, 2012
A race of people may be preserved through protection* but preserving the black race encompasses the duty of procreation.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#19 Dec 1, 2012
BM remind show appreciation
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#20 Dec 1, 2012
remember*

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