Men trapping women into pregnancy

Men trapping women into pregnancy

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Anna

Aurora, CO

#1 Dec 25, 2009
So this topic came up in a conversation the other day. I'm 16 weeks pregnant by a guy and all of my friends are telling me to have an abortion because this guy is trying to trap me into having his child. I'm 32 years old, I have a great career and make decent money. I have a son who just turned 10. I was previously married for about 11 years. I am now divorce and met this guy about a year ago. He doesn't have any kids and he does work. When we first met he would joke around that he wanted me to have his baby. I laughed it off. Well a few months ago, he made jokes that he poked holes in the condoms. I didn't think to much about just thought he was kidding until my period didn't come. I went to the doctor and I'm pregnant. When I told him he was happy but he doesn't attend any appointment. He calls me asking for money. My younger girlfriends say this is what men are doing now, trapping other women into pregnancy?? Anybody heard of this? I mean wouldn't they be afraid of child support?
Georgina

North Arlington, NJ

#2 Dec 25, 2009
WOW...this is some crazy and scary sht. I heard of certain women doing this, but never a man. Then he has the nerve to not attend any appointments with you? How sick is he? Can't you sew him for something like this? I hope so. People are so wicked it's ashame. I hope God blesses you in the best way and that that man pays for what he did.

Level 1

Since: Aug 09

United States

#3 Dec 25, 2009
Ahaahhaha troll alert! Only time I have heard a man trapping a woman is wm who threaten their ww against abortion, a man cannot trap a woman into being preggers!

“Das raht!”

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Since: Dec 06

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#4 Dec 25, 2009
Everyone here is going to tell you that you should've been on birth control.

It's completely up to you to have a child for a man who will deceive you that way. 16 weeks might be too late for a regular abortion. Don't give him a dime and learn his social, just in case.
Dredz

Houston, TX

#5 Dec 25, 2009
I ain't heard of that..A man might tell a woman he put a rubber on when he really didn't jus so he can feel the pussie better but most the time he ain't wanna get the chick pregnant LOL

“Das raht!”

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#6 Dec 25, 2009
I've heard of it happening.
Frank

Detroit, MI

#7 Dec 25, 2009
Anna wrote:
So this topic came up in a conversation the other day. I'm 16 weeks pregnant by a guy and all of my friends are telling me to have an abortion because this guy is trying to trap me into having his child. I'm 32 years old, I have a great career and make decent money. I have a son who just turned 10. I was previously married for about 11 years. I am now divorce and met this guy about a year ago. He doesn't have any kids and he does work. When we first met he would joke around that he wanted me to have his baby. I laughed it off. Well a few months ago, he made jokes that he poked holes in the condoms. I didn't think to much about just thought he was kidding until my period didn't come. I went to the doctor and I'm pregnant. When I told him he was happy but he doesn't attend any appointment. He calls me asking for money. My younger girlfriends say this is what men are doing now, trapping other women into pregnancy?? Anybody heard of this? I mean wouldn't they be afraid of child support?
You need to stop messing with lunatics and mental patients.

That guy must be nuts!

“If you live to love you will..”

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Since: Dec 07

love to live ((South London))

#8 Dec 25, 2009
Anna wrote:
So this topic came up in a conversation the other day. I'm 16 weeks pregnant by a guy and all of my friends are telling me to have an abortion because this guy is trying to trap me into having his child. I'm 32 years old, I have a great career and make decent money. I have a son who just turned 10. I was previously married for about 11 years. I am now divorce and met this guy about a year ago. He doesn't have any kids and he does work. When we first met he would joke around that he wanted me to have his baby. I laughed it off. Well a few months ago, he made jokes that he poked holes in the condoms. I didn't think to much about just thought he was kidding until my period didn't come. I went to the doctor and I'm pregnant. When I told him he was happy but he doesn't attend any appointment. He calls me asking for money. My younger girlfriends say this is what men are doing now, trapping other women into pregnancy?? Anybody heard of this? I mean wouldn't they be afraid of child support?
Yes i have, i even dated a guy like that *shudders* we didnt even know each other for that long before he was talking about wanting a child. He already had 2 kids before (diff baby mamas) which he didn't tell me about, some guys just like the idea of spreading their seeds everywhere SMH. Anyways i dumped him straight after, after a while he was with a mutual friend of mines, she got pregnant sad to say. She told me he took the condom off while they were having sex and didn't tell her....There are a lot of weirdo guys out there. This aint rare.

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#9 Dec 25, 2009
east-african beauty wrote:
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Yes i have, i even dated a guy like that *shudders* we didnt even know each other for that long before he was talking about wanting a child. He already had 2 kids before (diff baby mamas) which he didn't tell me about, some guys just like the idea of spreading their seeds everywhere SMH. Anyways i dumped him straight after, after a while he was with a mutual friend of mines, she got pregnant sad to say. She told me he took the condom off while they were having sex and didn't tell her....There are a lot of weirdo guys out there. This aint rare.
Hey beautiful!

Level 1

Since: Aug 09

United States

#10 Dec 25, 2009
It may not be rare but she wasnt /isn't trapped, even if he took the condom off there is birth control and as a really good back up abortion that's why I say troll.

oh___Really

“It's not an optical illusion.”

Since: Dec 09

It just looks like one...

#11 Dec 25, 2009
Noir in Seattle wrote:
It may not be rare but she wasnt /isn't trapped, even if he took the condom off there is birth control and as a really good back up abortion that's why I say troll.
Abortion is a "really good back-up" to birth control?

You'll REALLY defend that statement?

Since: Aug 09

United States

#12 Dec 25, 2009
9 times out of 10 it's the other way around.

Level 1

Since: Aug 09

United States

#13 Dec 25, 2009
Well golly gee o'sh*t for brains is didn no yous be liken us blak folks! Yes ahole I defend that statement, use the first you will not have to use the second. Thus it is a back up plan, you can't make me believe you hitler racist azz care about unborn black people!

“If you live to love you will..”

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Since: Dec 07

love to live ((South London))

#14 Dec 25, 2009
Noir in Seattle wrote:
It may not be rare but she wasnt /isn't trapped, even if he took the condom off there is birth control and as a really good back up abortion that's why I say troll.
Whaaa? lol

If he took the condom off, she might not realize it and the morning after pill is only for 72 hours after sex. After that your left with abortion, but even that isn't an option for many women. Some women can be pregnant for the 24 week limit your allowed to have an abortion and not realize it. How is that not being trapped?

“If you live to love you will..”

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love to live ((South London))

#15 Dec 25, 2009
-FlowerBomb- wrote:
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Hey beautiful!
**Hugs**

How are you sis? Whats been going on wit ya, its been like forever:D

Level 1

Since: Aug 09

United States

#17 Dec 25, 2009
African if she was on birth control the chances of becoming pregnant is 1-3% depending on the method, she cannot be trapped or at least not very easily. I believe 99.99% of women who become pregnant do so on purpose, hence why women trap men and not the other way around.

Level 8

Since: Jan 08

AOL

#18 Dec 25, 2009
If you were fxcking a man who has sperm inside his dxck which was inside your pussi it is not trap cause if u don't want anymore kids u tie your tubes or burn them off

Level 1

Since: Aug 09

United States

#19 Dec 25, 2009
C/S candy

“If you live to love you will..”

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Since: Dec 07

love to live ((South London))

#20 Dec 25, 2009
Noir in Seattle wrote:
African if she was on birth control the chances of becoming pregnant is 1-3% depending on the method, she cannot be trapped or at least not very easily. I believe 99.99% of women who become pregnant do so on purpose, hence why women trap men and not the other way around.
IF your using a condom you wouldn't need to be using any other type of contraception which is what the OP said she was using at the time.

What?!?! 99.99% of women do it on purpose?? lol you must be sexist or naive to think that. You would be surprised at how easy it is for accidents to happen, sometimes you get a weirdo like the OP described who takes the condom off or puts holes in it. How is that in any way a womans fault??

And yes their are women out there that trap men. But with all the difficulty a woman, especially a younger one goes through with an unwanted pregnancy majority of the time its not because of them doing it on purpose. what for?

xXShaquitaXx

“Sex on Fire”

Since: Jul 09

Montgomery, AL

#21 Dec 25, 2009
Anna wrote:
So this topic came up in a conversation the other day. I'm 16 weeks pregnant by a guy and all of my friends are telling me to have an abortion because this guy is trying to trap me into having his child. I'm 32 years old, I have a great career and make decent money. I have a son who just turned 10. I was previously married for about 11 years. I am now divorce and met this guy about a year ago. He doesn't have any kids and he does work. When we first met he would joke around that he wanted me to have his baby. I laughed it off. Well a few months ago, he made jokes that he poked holes in the condoms. I didn't think to much about just thought he was kidding until my period didn't come. I went to the doctor and I'm pregnant. When I told him he was happy but he doesn't attend any appointment. He calls me asking for money. My younger girlfriends say this is what men are doing now, trapping other women into pregnancy?? Anybody heard of this? I mean wouldn't they be afraid of child support?
Have an abortion and never see this guy again.

He'll make your life a living hell. If he really gave a damn he would have proposed by now.

This guy is asking YOU for money.

Get wise.

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