Black Women = Unapproachable

Posted in the African-American Forum

Comments

Showing posts 1 - 20 of944
< prev page
|
Go to last page| Jump to page:
TheEndofBlacknes s

United States

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#1
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

4

3

3

Hello Topix,
I have lived in Nashville, New York City, St. Louis, and San Francisco and in every Town black
women are not approachable, especially at an all
black function. Other women are viewed as more attractive because you can actually flirt with them. Somehow over the years blackmen and blacwomen have forgotten how to communicate.
Low income blacks still seem to have love for each other. As a blackman with a MBA it seems professional blacks do not know how to deal with each other. I just won't everyone to know the problem is not in one community but everywhere.
Masud Hoghughi

London, UK

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#2
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

4

3

3

how do female gorillas at the zoo respond to advances from male silverback gorillas at the zoo?.....black women should take note....
Getoverit

Studio City, CA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#3
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

3

2

1

TheEndofBlackness wrote:
Hello Topix,
I have lived in Nashville, New York City, St. Louis, and San Francisco and in every Town black
women are not approachable, especially at an all
black function. Other women are viewed as more attractive because you can actually flirt with them. Somehow over the years blackmen and blacwomen have forgotten how to communicate.
Low income blacks still seem to have love for each other. As a blackman with a MBA it seems professional blacks do not know how to deal with each other. I just won't everyone to know the problem is not in one community but everywhere.
Try not throwing your MBA in a woman's face. Just be casual. Black people (men and women) always want to have a pissing contest when it comes to a career and an education. If a woman sees that you are not a freeloader, then you should be okay.

As a Black man, I went to the school of hard knocks. Just stay away from women who ask you for money 24/7. If a woman is not helping you out financially, but she always has her hand out, then run.

Since: Mar 10

Harlem NYC

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#5
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

3

3

2

TheEndofBlackness wrote:
Hello Topix,
I have lived in Nashville, New York City, St. Louis, and San Francisco and in every Town black
women are not approachable, especially at an all
black function. Other women are viewed as more attractive because you can actually flirt with them. Somehow over the years blackmen and blacwomen have forgotten how to communicate.
Low income blacks still seem to have love for each other. As a blackman with a MBA it seems professional blacks do not know how to deal with each other. I just won't everyone to know the problem is not in one community but everywhere.
Black women are the most sexist women in the world but are very unapproachable or receptive – they have an inclination toward defense of men (especially black men) this is because of a number of reasons
Eg..
what there mothers taught them
What there girl friends teach them
What they see and hear on tv
Their own experiences
(all of which are inconclusive)

For many of them (not all but most) once they obtain these beliefs it is hard to reshape them… and then they become stuck in limbo b/c they will repeat the same functions based on their prior teachings and experiences… and then they will think there savior is in another race or that there is something wrong with all men.

“Most black females R like this”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#6
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

2

1

1

They are if you are simply a black man under 5'5...

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#7
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

9

9

7

The reason black men say that black women are all of a sudden unapproachable, is because white and nonblack women throw themselves at you black men, now more than ever.Because these women are so"easy", it is now easy to say that black women are unapproachable.When in reality, that is not true.What happened to chasing the woman? Once a form of chivalry, but white and nonblack women destroyed that approach, so when you come across a black women that has standards,and not as easy as others you black men now label it as "unapproachable."

Another thing, with this "black woman is unapproachable" bs, you are now being played as puppets. Because you now let others races of women dictate how you approach black women. They are now setting the standards because of their actions(being easy, throwing themselves at you), and because of their actions,black men let those actions dictate how they now feel about their own women.Pathetic, now "others" are in control and dictating how black men feel about black women.

Back in the day,you had to put in a little work,the dog chasing the cat, that kind of thing,but because of the easiness of white and nonblack women,courting has become obsolete to black men. It is "others" actions, that are influencing how you feel about approaching black women.

So sad, to me, to see black men, who say black women are unapproachable are now being played like puppets.Keep your strong black male image, and don't let the easiness of white and nonblack women, change how you feel about approaching black women. Man up and be influenced by your own thought patterns,and not by the actions of "others." It can make you look weak....SMH

“HOREM AKHET”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#8
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

3

2

1

they're unapproachable partly because they've been approached by 50 cornballs saying the same thing to them everywhere they turn.but it is tru black women are very unapproachable.not all,but "too many".if you're a real man,like myself,you'll know know how to put these kind of black women in their place.other guys get eaten alive.

Since: Mar 10

Harlem NYC

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#9
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

3

3

2

Nzingha wrote:
The reason black men say that black women are all of a sudden unapproachable, is because white and nonblack women throw themselves at you black men, now more than ever.Because these women are so"easy", it is now easy to say that black women are unapproachable.When in reality, that is not true.What happened to chasing the woman? Once a form of chivalry, but white and nonblack women destroyed that approach, so when you come across a black women that has standards,and not as easy as others you black men now label it as "unapproachable."
Another thing, with this "black woman is unapproachable" bs, you are now being played as puppets. Because you now let others races of women dictate how you approach black women. They are now setting the standards because of their actions(being easy, throwing themselves at you), and because of their actions,black men let those actions dictate how they now feel about their own women.Pathetic, now "others" are in control and dictating how black men feel about black women.
Back in the day,you had to put in a little work,the dog chasing the cat, that kind of thing,but because of the easiness of white and nonblack women,courting has become obsolete to black men. It is "others" actions, that are influencing how you feel about approaching black women.
So sad, to me, to see black men, who say black women are unapproachable are now being played like puppets.Keep your strong black male image, and don't let the easiness of white and nonblack women, change how you feel about approaching black women. Man up and be influenced by your own thought patterns,and not by the actions of "others." It can make you look weak....SMH
More excuses to remove blame from yourselves.. so now you say other races throw themselves at us… FyI other races do not necessarily throw themselves at us…

Black women have preconceived notions about men and are tied down by their defenses… other races are more receptive (this does not mean that they throw themselves at us) this just mean that they are more open to just talk… I mean if I see a black woman on the bus and I just say hi she seems to have a problem or think I’m crazy… if I see a white woman on the bus and I say hi she will be more receptive and say hi back and maybe even start a convo… that’s being open minded

“Most black females R like this”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#10
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

1

1

1

KingKnowledge wrote:
<quoted text>
More excuses to remove blame from yourselves.. so now you say other races throw themselves at us… FyI other races do not necessarily throw themselves at us…
Black women have preconceived notions about men and are tied down by their defenses… other races are more receptive (this does not mean that they throw themselves at us) this just mean that they are more open to just talk… I mean if I see a black woman on the bus and I just say hi she seems to have a problem or think I’m crazy… if I see a white woman on the bus and I say hi she will be more receptive and say hi back and maybe even start a convo… that’s being open minded
You have knocked it out the ball park with this. So true.

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#11
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

2

1

KingKnowledge wrote:
<quoted text>
More excuses to remove blame from yourselves.. so now you say other races throw themselves at us… FyI other races do not necessarily throw themselves at us…
Black women have preconceived notions about men and are tied down by their defenses… other races are more receptive (this does not mean that they throw themselves at us) this just mean that they are more open to just talk… I mean if I see a black woman on the bus and I just say hi she seems to have a problem or think I’m crazy… if I see a white woman on the bus and I say hi she will be more receptive and say hi back and maybe even start a convo… that’s being open minded
All the more reason, why they can have you!

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#12
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

1

KingKnowledge wrote:
<quoted text>
More excuses to remove blame from yourselves.. so now you say other races throw themselves at us… FyI other races do not necessarily throw themselves at us…
Black women have preconceived notions about men and are tied down by their defenses… other races are more receptive (this does not mean that they throw themselves at us) this just mean that they are more open to just talk… I mean if I see a black woman on the bus and I just say hi she seems to have a problem or think I’m crazy… if I see a white woman on the bus and I say hi she will be more receptive and say hi back and maybe even start a convo… that’s being open minded
And once she deals with black men like you, she'll then see!

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#13
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

1

rameses326 wrote:
they're unapproachable partly because they've been approached by 50 cornballs saying the same thing to them everywhere they turn.but it is tru black women are very unapproachable.not all,but "too many".if you're a real man,like myself,you'll know know how to put these kind of black women in their place.other guys get eaten alive.
It's ok, they can have you!

“trying to take over the world!”

Since: Mar 10

but really i'm harmless...

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#14
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

3

2

1

i really don't know why you men complain because you are going to approach anyway.whether i look unapproachable or not men still approach, even when i put effort and put that mean "don't you even dare look this f*cking way!!" face they still approach.

damn...
you men are brave

SMH

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#15
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

3

2

Nzingha wrote:
The reason black men say that black women are all of a sudden unapproachable, is because white and nonblack women throw themselves at you black men, now more than ever.Because these women are so"easy", it is now easy to say that black women are unapproachable.When in reality, that is not true.What happened to chasing the woman? Once a form of chivalry, but white and nonblack women destroyed that approach, so when you come across a black women that has standards,and not as easy as others you black men now label it as "unapproachable."
Another thing, with this "black woman is unapproachable" bs, you are now being played as puppets. Because you now let others races of women dictate how you approach black women. They are now setting the standards because of their actions(being easy, throwing themselves at you), and because of their actions,black men let those actions dictate how they now feel about their own women.Pathetic, now "others" are in control and dictating how black men feel about black women.
Back in the day,you had to put in a little work,the dog chasing the cat, that kind of thing,but because of the easiness of white and nonblack women,courting has become obsolete to black men. It is "others" actions, that are influencing how you feel about approaching black women.
So sad, to me, to see black men, who say black women are unapproachable are now being played like puppets.Keep your strong black male image, and don't let the easiness of white and nonblack women, change how you feel about approaching black women. Man up and be influenced by your own thought patterns,and not by the actions of "others." It can make you look weak....SMH
I must admit, I knocked this one out of the ball park. Black men that fit into what I said will be the ones who are offended.

“HOREM AKHET”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#16
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

1

1

1

KingKnowledge wrote:
<quoted text> I mean if I see a black woman on the bus and I just say hi she seems to have a problem or think I’m crazy…
LMAO so true.in some cases i don't even say hi or anything.i'll simply be walking and some of them just have a look on their face like they're defensive or ready for a fight because they think i'm about to try to talk to them.

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#17
May 11, 2010
 
tankoflove wrote:
i really don't know why you men complain because you are going to approach anyway.whether i look unapproachable or not men still approach, even when i put effort and put that mean "don't you even dare look this f*cking way!!" face they still approach.
damn...
you men are brave
SMH
Good Point!

“HOREM AKHET”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#18
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

1

1

1

Nzingha wrote:
<quoted text>
I must admit, I knocked this one out of the ball park. Black men that fit into what I said will be the ones who are offended.
i'm not one of those.like i said before,real men(like myself)know how to put these kind of black women in their place,and enjoy doing it.i do agree with you to some degree.i do like a little challenge sometimes.
Orlando Ervin

Los Angeles, CA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#19
May 11, 2010
 
To: End of Blackness

I agree with you 100%

Level 4

Since: Sep 09

Oured,Osea

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#20
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

2

2

1

It's only the ghetto ones and rarely to a lesser extent, the non-stereotypical ones. What makes those kinds of black women unapproachable to me is that I just don't find anything captivating or interesting about them since they're just like all the other black women riding the bandwagon to be hoodrats, hoochies, rollers, crew bitches, row hoes, and Barbies. I'll take a nerdy, conscious, pro-black sista any day over those kinds of black women.:):)

Since: May 10

Location hidden

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#21
May 11, 2010
 

Judged:

4

3

3

I don't think that Black women are any less approachable than other groups of women. I think that with a lot of guys, a simple "hello" turns into "Where's your man?" and "Can you have friends?" When you are not receptive to their advances, they may turn aggressive or insulting. Personally, I've been cursed out in public by a few random guys for...I don't know why really? LOL! But it's very scary and has made me less likely to respond. So, I think it depends on the person and their experiences not color.

Tell me when this thread is updated: (Registration is not required)

Add to my Tracker Send me an email

Showing posts 1 - 20 of944
< prev page
|
Go to last page| Jump to page:
Type in your comments below
Name
(appears on your post)
Comments
Characters left: 4000
Type the numbers you see in the image on the right:

Please note by clicking on "Post Comment" you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

•••
•••
Enter and win $5000
•••
Ashburn Dating

more search filters

less search filters

•••