Mr Afrocentric

Sicklerville, NJ

#23 Jun 14, 2013
Uncle Miltie wrote:
Damn there are some insecure mofos on here!! All you ever talk about is interracial relationships. Well guess what? You are a long way from Africa, and you only represent 13% of the population in this country!
If you really expect to preserve your race here, all I can say, is good luck with that!
NO you guess what a white male made this thread. Yes we can preserve our race here just fine. We are still here after 400 years are we not?

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#24 Jun 14, 2013
Mr Afrocentric wrote:
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Yall keep putting "love" in my mouth. I never once said love. I said attraction.
Do not call me self hating I do not date ww. I am merely speaking facts. Of course ww are looking for money duh. All women are looking for a man with money that is my whole point. Rich IR bm account for maybe 1% of bm ir dating so I do not see why you even brought that up.
Ill say it again since yall can not read what I said.
WW most of the time date bm for attraction.
Sure there are some ww would date bm to get back at bw for sure. But most of the time they are attracted to the superior male which is the black male.
Huh, why would WW have to get back at BW? WW haven't been through anything.
Mr Afrocentric

Sicklerville, NJ

#25 Jun 14, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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Huh, why would WW have to get back at BW? WW haven't been through anything.
Nah some ww have admitted to me, in their own way, they date bm to piss bw off. Some of them who gotten picked on by bw when they were younger and stuff like that. It happens a lot more than you think. Trust me I was shocked when white women first started telling me this.

They didn't come out and say "I date bm to piss off bw". But if you listen to how they tell their stories that has to be the reason.

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#26 Jun 14, 2013
Mr Afrocentric wrote:
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NO you guess what a white male made this thread. Yes we can preserve our race here just fine. We are still here after 400 years are we not?
Mostly cuz of racism and prejudice in the past, but many of ya'll still mixxed. But now that we are becoming more tolerant etc, fugget about it!
Thinking About It

Washington, DC

#27 Jun 14, 2013
If a white person told you hopeless fuckers that the light at the end of the tunnel was an oncoming train, you would insult the person and continue along your merry way.

By the way, art does imitate reality. Look at media trends like the movie, "The Purge". Do I think that the plot of this film will literally unfold? No. But, it certainly noteworthy.

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#28 Jun 14, 2013
Lol this site never changes.
KingsloveQueens

San Francisco, CA

#29 Jun 14, 2013
Why don't anyone ever talk about Asian women with White man ?? Don't anyone care about Asian men??/=

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#30 Jun 14, 2013
Mr Afrocentric wrote:
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Nah some ww have admitted to me, in their own way, they date bm to piss bw off. Some of them who gotten picked on by bw when they were younger and stuff like that. It happens a lot more than you think. Trust me I was shocked when white women first started telling me this.
They didn't come out and say "I date bm to piss off bw". But if you listen to how they tell their stories that has to be the reason.
Wow, it's hysterical seeing as how black women are dogged on, degraded and made fun of everyday from generation to generation, yet we interacially date less.

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#31 Jun 14, 2013
Interracially *

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#32 Jun 14, 2013
Mr Afrocentric wrote:
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Not sure I see the connection. 99% of all relationships somebody is using somebody for something. So I do not see how that ties in with IR relationships. Care to elaborate?
When it comes to interracial dating people use stereotypes to seek a partner. Ex: Im going to be with a white women because I know they are submissive and easy. Or, I'm getting with a white man because he has money. As you can see, with people's stigmas on stereotypes, those stereotypes are the reasons why they Interracially date. Like you stated that most of the time BW and wm relationships are money derived. Well, in tregards to BM and WW, it's sexually derived.

People have conducted a stereotype that black guys are initially bigger than the average male. Many women want to fulfill their sexual needs so as a result, they go to black men (not even the majority) women are even venturing through Africa, Jamaica, and etc to pay them to have sex with them.
http://talesfromthelou.wordpress.com/2011/05/...

Additionally, a stereotype (most of the tome positive) about white women. Supposedly, white women are easy to get in bed with. Black men take advantage of that opportunity to have sex with them.

Basically, Because the black man can supposedly (not all) can fulfill a woman's sexual drive and white women are easy that's how the BM/WW relationships are viewed. BM/WW relationships are viewed are sexually derived. Unfortunately, sexual pleasure can only prolong for so long, which is why the divorce rate is high.

Although the BM/WW relationship aren't conducted identically to the reason for WM/BW relationships doesn't make it better. BW/WM as you say are coupled based on money purposes, whereas the BM/WW are coupled for sexual purposes.

http://m.youtube.com/watch...
Go to 0.45

Another thing that was on my mind, if it's based on attraction, why do the majority of black men get with big, average or unattractive white women?

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#33 Jun 14, 2013
Mr Afrocentric wrote:
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Not sure I see the connection. 99% of all relationships somebody is using somebody for something. So I do not see how that ties in with IR relationships. Care to elaborate?
When it comes to interracial dating people use stereotypes to seek a partner. Ex: Im going to be with a white women because I know they are submissive and easy. Or, I'm getting with a white man because he has money. As you can see, with people's stigmas on stereotypes, those stereotypes are the reasons why they Interracially date. Like you stated that most of the time BW and wm relationships are money derived. Well, in tregards to BM and WW, it's sexually derived.

People have conducted a stereotype that black guys are initially bigger than the average male. Many women want to fulfill their sexual needs so as a result, they go to black men (not even the majority) women are even venturing through Africa, Jamaica, and etc to pay them to have sex with them.
http://talesfromthelou.wordpress.com/2011/05/...

Additionally, a stereotype (most of the tome positive) about white women. Supposedly, white women are easy to get in bed with. Black men take advantage of that opportunity to have sex with them.

Basically, Because the black man can supposedly (not all) can fulfill a woman's sexual drive and white women are easy that's how the BM/WW relationships are viewed. BM/WW relationships are viewed are sexually derived. Unfortunately, sexual pleasure can only prolong for so long, which is why the divorce rate is high.

Although the BM/WW relationship aren't conducted identically to the reason for WM/BW relationships doesn't make it better. BW/WM as you say are coupled based on money purposes, whereas the BM/WW are coupled for sexual purposes.

http://m.youtube.com/watch...
Go to 0.45

Another thing that was on my mind, if it's based on attraction, why do the majority of black men get with big, average or unattractive white women? Not saying all, but the majority that Interracially date white women do.(just out of curiosity)

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#34 Jun 14, 2013
Sorry, didn't mean to post it twice.
a wicked smile

Philadelphia, PA

#35 Jun 14, 2013
bm/ww couples exist out of pure spite and desperation. They do it for attention, and to get back at someone, and most of the time they are bottom of the barrel bm/ww, that bw/wm dont want. I'd say .000000001 percent of bm/ww couples are truly in love. Meanwhile, the bw/wm couples are usually the creme of the crop from their respective races. And they aint thinking about bm/ww like bm/ww are thinking about them :)
Black Pastor

Sicklerville, NJ

#37 Jun 14, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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Another thing that was on my mind, if it's based on attraction, why do the majority of black men get with big, average or unattractive white women?
I aint gonna lie most of the time bm just want a ww whether fat or average or whatever. Because ,like you said, they view ww as easy to get in bed.

But I think It just comes down to numbers. I do not think bm ,for the most part, go out seeking only ww. In this country there are more ww than bw. There are just more ww to go around is all and they do tend to be easier than bw. Men like a easy lay most of the time whether wm or bm.

For the most part blacks date blacks.
Mr Afrocentric

Sicklerville, NJ

#38 Jun 14, 2013
a wicked smile wrote:
bm/ww couples exist out of pure spite and desperation. They do it for attention, and to get back at someone, and most of the time they are bottom of the barrel bm/ww, that bw/wm dont want. I'd say .000000001 percent of bm/ww couples are truly in love. Meanwhile, the bw/wm couples are usually the creme of the crop from their respective races. And they aint thinking about bm/ww like bm/ww are thinking about them :)
That is an interesting story. Bm do not date ww to get back at bw. Some of us even get nervous even being around ww when bw are around. LOL

They do not do it out of spite although some ww do it to spite bw.

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#39 Jun 14, 2013
Black Pastor wrote:
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I aint gonna lie most of the time bm just want a ww whether fat or average or whatever. Because ,like you said, they view ww as easy to get in bed.
But I think It just comes down to numbers. I do not think bm ,for the most part, go out seeking only ww. In this country there are more ww than bw. There are just more ww to go around is all and they do tend to be easier than bw. Men like a easy lay most of the time whether wm or bm.
For the most part blacks date blacks.
Well, thank you for giving me your point of view on this particular subjects.

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#40 Jun 14, 2013
Mr Afrocentric wrote:
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That is an interesting story. Bm do not date ww to get back at bw. Some of us even get nervous even being around ww when bw are around. LOL
They do not do it out of spite although some ww do it to spite bw.
I guess O.J's wife sure showed us, huh? Lol. Not only did she get a black man, she got a black eye, lol.
Stag_R_Lee

Scottsdale, AZ

#41 Jun 16, 2013
Black Pastor wrote:
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I aint gonna lie most of the time bm just want a ww whether fat or average or whatever. Because ,like you said, they view ww as easy to get in bed.
But I think It just comes down to numbers. I do not think bm ,for the most part, go out seeking only ww. In this country there are more ww than bw. There are just more ww to go around is all and they do tend to be easier than bw. Men like a easy lay most of the time whether wm or bm.
For the most part blacks date blacks.
Not numbers, per se, but proximity. As people from different backgrounds begin to see each other as individuals and on a daily basis, the racial and cultural differences begin to fade, Racist know this, thus--even here at TOPIX --you have every possible effort by trolls to make the site appear unacceptable. The function is to paralyze any serious human to human discussion that might lead to perceptions of the individual as opposed to a race.
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Trolls, in the final analysis, are filled with fear.

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#42 Jun 16, 2013
Mr Afrocentric wrote:
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Nope bm/ww coupling is a lot different than wm/bw coupling. For one it was jealous wm that made bm/ww coupling illegal while it was ok for them to date and marry bw. For two, ww do not date bm for status and money unlike most nonww/wm couplings.
The only reason a female would date a bm would be for sexual attraction.
The stats do not lie. Bm are not associated with status and money. Yet bm/non bw couplings are very high on the ir scale. If so many non bw are dating bm is has to be for attraction. The numbers do not lie.
Regarding your statement, "The only reason a female would date a bm would be for sexual attraction"... I cant speak for all, but in my case, that simply is not true. When I first met my bf, we were nothing but friends for the first year. Then as we got to know each other better, it gradually turned into something much deeper. We are still strong, in love, and head over heels crazy about each other after 8 yrs now. Are we an exception? I honestly dont know. All I know is that I love this man with all my heart, and we BOTH work hard and contribute to our household. Neither of us "uses" each other in any way. The sexual attraction came much later, when we realized our friendship had reached another level. Have a blessed evening sweetie.:)
Stag_R_Lee

Scottsdale, AZ

#43 Jun 16, 2013
lilmamakim wrote:
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Regarding your statement, "The only reason a female would date a bm would be for sexual attraction"... I cant speak for all, but in my case, that simply is not true. When I first met my bf, we were nothing but friends for the first year. Then as we got to know each other better, it gradually turned into something much deeper. We are still strong, in love, and head over heels crazy about each other after 8 yrs now. Are we an exception? I honestly dont know. All I know is that I love this man with all my heart, and we BOTH work hard and contribute to our household. Neither of us "uses" each other in any way. The sexual attraction came much later, when we realized our friendship had reached another level. Have a blessed evening sweetie.:)
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Yes. That's my point. Once people have a chance to peer through the stereotype, they see each other as individuals. Race and culture doesn't entirely disappear but the individual-given a chance--transcends.

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