Women force men into marriage

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“Always bet on Black”

Since: Apr 09

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#1 Jun 6, 2009
We all know that most men would rather stay single, why do women basically force men into marriage when they know most men dont want to get married. Marriage is like a life long dream to women and a life long nightmare to most men. A ring does not mean a man loves you more than he did before he married you. Why do women feel like being married is the only way to feel complete. The divorce rate is so high what is the purpose of getting married and we all know the man gets the shaft from the judge in divorces so why would he want to get married.

Since: May 07

Oxon Hill, MD

#2 Jun 6, 2009
isthere hope4 wrote:
We all know that most men would rather stay single, why do women basically force men into marriage when they know most men dont want to get married. Marriage is like a life long dream to women and a life long nightmare to most men. A ring does not mean a man loves you more than he did before he married you. Why do women feel like being married is the only way to feel complete. The divorce rate is so high what is the purpose of getting married and we all know the man gets the shaft from the judge in divorces so why would he want to get married.
LOL Good point.I know that not all women do this, but one that has OOW kids with a man is more likely to pressure a man into marriage. Most men in this society with the way things are don't think that it's worth it to be married to a woman that will likely cause them eternal drama, so they'd rather settle for FWB relationships than a long term committed relationship with a woman leading up to marriage. Me personally, I know that I'm worthy enough for marriage(I'm not knocking on men that don't want to marry) and to ensure that I have healthy long lasting one, I have to find my soulmate that is my equal and up to my standards I have for her.

Since: Nov 08

United States

#3 Jun 6, 2009
Jeez...Why are men such VICTIMS?

LOL

Since: Nov 08

United States

#4 Jun 6, 2009
Do women hold guns to your heads and order you to marry them?

Why do men fold so easy under pressure to get married?

If it's NOT what most men want then WHY DO IT?

I'm confused.

Don't start with that Feminism crap...everyone has free will.
Reader

Yorktown, VA

#5 Jun 6, 2009
No one should be forced into marriage. That is cruel, wicked, and backwards. Forced marriage is virtually always accompanied with rape.

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Since: Apr 08

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#6 Jun 6, 2009
Mikah wrote:
Jeez...Why are men such VICTIMS?
LOL
lol

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Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#7 Jun 6, 2009
not all men are forced into marriage. some men actually want to get married. Those who are forced into it, usually make their spouses lives a living hell

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Since: Mar 09

North Babylon, NY

#8 Jun 6, 2009
So I'm thinking Michelle held a knife to Barack's throat or had a compact version of Chuck Norris's foot just incase he said no.

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Since: Oct 08

NYC

#9 Jun 16, 2009
its not, but alot of you want to reap the benefits of having a woman, someone cooking, cleaning, SEX on the regular, why shouldnt we want some security, a family? i mean if u rgoing to lay up with a man, there is a chance you can produce a child, don't we deserve the assurance of knowing our children wont be born out of marriage, there is nothing wrong with wanting to get married, we don't always do it because of society, or peer pressure, its just something we want, woman doesnt want security, protection and the benefits of marriage and dammnit, thats my right.

“The Ah-Nizzle”

Level 2

Since: Nov 07

Los Angeles

#10 Jun 16, 2009
This why i got divorced. I was only 21 when i tied the knot. It`s like being liberated when i finalized the divorce

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