I get the picture. BM chase white women and allow themselves to be her second choice and sex object, to the detriment of black women and black culture, because WM have reached a high position in the world than BM have.<quoted text>
I wanted to elaborate a little more, Shalimarr:
Imagery of Caucasian beauty standards is something that all people of color who born in the USA, are saturated with from Day One. In the worst cases, well-meaning but uninformed parents will install TVs in their children's bedrooms -- for maximum possible exposure to Eurocentric images of normality and beauty. lol
The less socially aware your upbringing is, the less intelligent your parents are, and the less attuned you are to how much of advertising and marketing is really covert cultural/political propaganda, the more likely you are to "fall" with unquestioning desire, for the esthetic standards of the Dominant Culture.
When I hear of famous rappers banning dark-skinned BWs from their videos and insisting on mainly Latina or light-skinned African-American women to be featured as "hot babes," I shake my head in exasperation. At moments like that, I know that The Man is doing his job well. Weak minds are where he does his best work.
This, I believe, is the cultural backdrop for BMs who feel comfortable slamming BWs while giving an explanation for why they are dating or married to WW. Many of these men also probably grew up in a toxic social environment as children, hearing schoolyard taunts between Black kids involving skin that was "too dark" or praise for so-and-so's "good hair," etc. Add it all up and you have many psychologically impaired BMs who reach maturity being uncomfortable with African physical features but unable to state that outright -- or if they can, then they lack the self-analysis to articulate exactly how or WHY that might be.
If he comes from a non-dysfunctional family, maybe he knows that he loves his Mom and Aunt, but can't seem to comprehend why younger women who look like them don't arouse his desire.
Then it becomes so much easier to simply criticize or bash BW and their behavior when giving an "explanation" for why he's pursuing WW.
WM are so high above BM in the world's hierarchy, that the acceptance and validation of white men and their seed, is more important to BM than their own race and own group. Being absorbed by white people is a price BM are prepared to pay for acceptance and validation by a male who has proven himself to be unquestionably superior to the black man.
People like me either have an exceptionally strong love for my group/race,or I amj ust a typical Aquarian who doesn't bow down to anybody and is perfectly happy no assimilating and doesn't feel pressured to fit in with the majority.