I'm not attracted to my own race?

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#26 Dec 6, 2012
Wubet wrote:
That's not a problem at all!
People just have different preferences based on our own interests, beliefs, values, and life experiences.
I believe it to be a problem. I mean there has to be problem when one is not attracted to their own people.

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#27 Dec 6, 2012
KIP wrote:
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I'm not sure you can make yourself attracted to anything you're "supposed" to be attracted to. You just like non black women. If you were gay and tried to be attracted to women it likely would end in disappointment. Well, here you can't TRY to be attracted to people you're not attracted to. It doesn't mean black women are not desireable. It just means your tastes are different.
Being a gay is not the same I think.
Unless he grew up with only non black women then yes I would find it odd for someone to not like their own people. Very strange, for something in their lifetime must have happened to them to think or feel they are not attracted to their people.
Same goes for an Asian who is solely attracted to white men, white men solely attracted to Latino women, black women solely attracted to Latino men, and black men solely attracted to white women.:p

"One's values underlie their preference."
Umm

Atlanta, GA

#28 Dec 6, 2012
It's a mental problem if you not attracted to your race. Not saying you have to date or be with one but you should at least be able to say, " damn she pretty". I believe if you a man and not gay you would be attracted to females of all races! I am attracted to all types of females. Even some of whom others don't find attractive. I just love women. ;)
Umm

Atlanta, GA

#29 Dec 6, 2012
Not saying I would date them or be with them. Just saying that they are attractive.
rien a foutre

Montpellier, France

#30 Dec 6, 2012
kenyanboy006 wrote:
I'm not attracted to my own race?
I am a black male but i have never been attracted to black women.
I do not know why. I often find myself conflicted with my beliefs when I am speaking all high and mighty about things like racism and things like because I just have no attraction whatsoever to black girls. I've literally tried forcing myself to being attracted to black women but I'm just not.
This will sound awful because I'm black myself, but I just don't like black skin on women. I've found beauty in every other race of women from white, hispanic, middle eastern/arab, south asian/indian/pakistani, native american, etc..
Why am I not attracted to black women or african ancestry?
O_O you are all lost ? http://www.topix.com/forum/life/interracial

there are a forum for that already, IR dating is a sujet important on the forum african-american ? it the principal problem ?
Tina

Hyattsville, MD

#31 Dec 24, 2012
No, I often feel bad because I feel the same way toward black males. I don't find myself attracted to them often, and prefer the features of other males, especially since I'm in my childbearing years. One I have children, this may change though.
Toasta420

Woodstock, GA

#33 Mar 20, 2013
Im white and I feel the same way. I think its because I have 3 sisters.. Makes white girls seem so plain and every other race exotic..
Serious j

United States

#34 Mar 20, 2013
Lol
Dee Dee

United States

#35 Mar 20, 2013
Cause u betrayed your own race u redneck lover lol
Amelia DUBSTEP Xstasy

Castle Rock, CO

#36 Mar 20, 2013
There are many out there like you who aren't attracted to their own. I wouldn't feel weird about it I guess depending on what you find unattractive about your own women. I have African/black in me and I wouldn't date a "man of color" unless he was mulattoe and VIVIDLY mulattoe. That's the closest to black I'll ever get to being attracted to. As long as you are happy, then there's nothing wrong with it. You can't help who you are attracted to and who you are not.
David B

United States

#37 Mar 20, 2013
kenyanboy006 wrote:
I'm not attracted to my own race?
I am a black male but i have never been attracted to black women.
I do not know why. I often find myself conflicted with my beliefs when I am speaking all high and mighty about things like racism and things like because I just have no attraction whatsoever to black girls. I've literally tried forcing myself to being attracted to black women but I'm just not.
This will sound awful because I'm black myself, but I just don't like black skin on women. I've found beauty in every other race of women from white, hispanic, middle eastern/arab, south asian/indian/pakistani, native american, etc..
Why am I not attracted to black women or african ancestry?
COSIGN 100%
David B

United States

#38 Mar 20, 2013
I'm also not attracted to women of my own race either & I'm an african american man. I just dont find AAW attractive at all period. I find white,latina,& asian women attractive & that's my preference when it comes to women. I've had many bad experiences dealing with african american women so I decided not to deal with them anymore & I move on to white,latina,& asian women & that's the choice that I make for myself only.
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#40 Mar 20, 2013
Whoever is not attracted to their own race have some serious self hatred. And please don't give me that "preferences" bullshit. If all you see is fair skinned women in the media as beautiful, of couse you will think it's attractive, dummy. That's why I'd rather stay single
Tina

Hyattsville, MD

#41 Mar 27, 2013
I feel the same, I'm rarely attracted to black men. I don't like black features on men either. To each his/her own.
Jamaicangirl wrote:
Yea i feel you... i dont like black guys

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#42 Mar 27, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
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Find that hard to believe, especially since you are black yourself. Maybe you are brainwashed? I would take attitude but skin color...that's ridiculous
Nice tat. Can we see the ones you have hidden?:)
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#43 Mar 27, 2013
Tina wrote:
<quoted text>I feel the same, I'm rarely attracted to black men. I don't like black features on men either. To each his/her own.
You're entitled to your preference. Don't be ashamed of that.
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy

Castle Rock, CO

#44 Mar 27, 2013
Tina wrote:
I feel the same, I'm rarely attracted to black men. I don't like black features on men either. To each his/her own.
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My thoughts too. I'm not into African features. It fits some, then others it doesn't.
Alza

South Africa

#45 Oct 1, 2013
Its just preperence, there's no problem. No one is crazy just because they don't find their own race attractive.

Level 2

Since: Sep 13

Stockton, CA

#46 Oct 1, 2013
People don't have to date their own race. There is nothing wrong with dating someone outside your race. It wasn't like slavery where you had to date your race.
Albert B

Walsall, UK

#47 Oct 1, 2013
kenyanboy006 wrote:
I'm not attracted to my own race?
I am a black male but i have never been attracted to black women.
I do not know why. I often find myself conflicted with my beliefs when I am speaking all high and mighty about things like racism and things like because I just have no attraction whatsoever to black girls. I've literally tried forcing myself to being attracted to black women but I'm just not.
This will sound awful because I'm black myself, but I just don't like black skin on women. I've found beauty in every other race of women from white, hispanic, middle eastern/arab, south asian/indian/pakistani, native american, etc..
Why am I not attracted to black women or african ancestry?
Stop trolling, you trouble maker.

How would you expect strangers on the Internet who do not know much about you to know why you are not attracted to black women?

Smh troll

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