i hate when blacks mix out of their race

i hate when blacks mix out of their race

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KristieLon

United States

#1 Nov 5, 2009
I had a best for for the past 14 years. We both have children now. We both have a daughter. We are both african american and I had kids with a black guy she had kids with a Italian guy. She thinks her daughter is better than mine because her baby has green eyes and light brown hair. She says comments like my baby is getting dark fast and suggest I should perm my 15 month old daughter hair cause it is nappy. I dont smile when she says direspectful things like this but I am reaching my breaking point where I will tell her off. Her man dont even want her anymore because the pregnancy was accident.
KristieLon

United States

#2 Nov 5, 2009
sorry i meant BEST FRIEND in da 1st sentence.
Lady Don Dada

Pine Bluff, AR

#3 Nov 5, 2009
So what is your issue with people mixing? Sounds like the real issue should be with your so called "friend."

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Since: May 08

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#4 Nov 5, 2009
KristieLon wrote:
.....She says comments like my baby is getting dark fast and suggest I should perm my 15 month old daughter hair cause it is nappy. I dont smile when she says direspectful things like this but I am reaching my breaking point where I will tell her off.....
No need to tell her off.

Just smile and say "No thank you! Black is Beautiful" or "I'm not about the Self-Hating Lifestyle" and move on to another subject.

Either, she will get the hint and drop it, or you'll have to explain to her in more detail what you mean. Either way is fine.

She may not actually understand why Self-Hate is a negative emotion, so this will be a chance for you to practice your communication skills.
KristieLon

United States

#5 Nov 5, 2009
Lady Don Dada wrote:
So what is your issue with people mixing? Sounds like the real issue should be with your so called "friend."
My issue is with black people mixing becuse they do it for the wrong reason. 95% of the time its always a dark skin black person that interracially dates and they only want light skin children AND THEN THEY LOOK DOWN ON FULL BLACK CHILDREN. Lady Don Dada r u a self hating coon or are u dating a self hating coon. Either way I already sumed up ur garbage.
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#6 Nov 5, 2009
KristieLon wrote:
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My issue is with black people mixing becuse they do it for the wrong reason. 95% of the time its always a dark skin black person that interracially dates and they only want light skin children AND THEN THEY LOOK DOWN ON FULL BLACK CHILDREN. Lady Don Dada r u a self hating coon or are u dating a self hating coon. Either way I already sumed up ur garbage.
You sound like an idiot.
UNIONBLACK

Hayes, UK

#7 Nov 5, 2009
kristielon,

just admit it, its YOU really jealous because your mates baby looks exotic and it is eating you up to the point that you are looking for secret menaings behind everything she says.i bet if you had a choice if your blck baby could have green eyes you would have jumped at the chance to show off your black green eyed baby over your other friends black babies. if it really bothers you, why not 'bin' her as a friend then?
UNIONBLACK

Hayes, UK

#8 Nov 5, 2009
see because your friend has an exotic baby and you hate it, you want to stop all mix race relationships??

what kind of 'sense' is that?

what you want is to stop other people having dark skinned exotic babies so your insecurity about your ordinary baby never gets to surface.

never mind stopping mixed relationships how about stopping by a psychaitrist to solve your black self hating insecurity?
out there somewhere

Paris, France

#9 Nov 5, 2009
wassup with people idolizing color eyes?? it's nothing special really

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#10 Nov 5, 2009
KIP wrote:
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You sound like an idiot.
times 50
UNIONBLACK

Hayes, UK

#11 Nov 5, 2009
no black men i have ever known who have gone with white women because they want kids with 'good hair'.

what a lot of crap. only women are obsessed with the hair and eyes. they love to style and play with that sh1t so other women can comment on their kids 'good hair'.

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Since: Jan 08

AOL

#12 Nov 5, 2009
KIP wrote:
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You sound like an idiot.
lol you got offended by her post cause it applies to you.YOu bragged about how much everybody loves your son but it's not true and you know it.YOu are just happy that your son resembles more of a white man then he does you and that makes you proud that you are raising a white boy instead of a black one.
out there somewhere

Paris, France

#13 Nov 5, 2009
UNIONBLACK wrote:
no black men i have ever known who have gone with white women because they want kids with 'good hair'.
what a lot of crap. only women are obsessed with the hair and eyes. they love to style and play with that sh1t so other women can comment on their kids 'good hair'.
TRUE
men dont think about kids when they start dating
and they don't focus on detail when they start thinking about kids
Lady Don Dada

Pine Bluff, AR

#16 Nov 5, 2009
KristieLon wrote:
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My issue is with black people mixing becuse they do it for the wrong reason. 95% of the time its always a dark skin black person that interracially dates and they only want light skin children AND THEN THEY LOOK DOWN ON FULL BLACK CHILDREN. Lady Don Dada r u a self hating coon or are u dating a self hating coon. Either way I already sumed up ur garbage.
You shouldn't talk about your mother that way.
Lady Don Dada

Pine Bluff, AR

#17 Nov 5, 2009
CANDAYMAMA wrote:
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lol you got offended by her post cause it applies to you.YOu bragged about how much everybody loves your son but it's not true and you know it.YOu are just happy that your son resembles more of a white man then he does you and that makes you proud that you are raising a white boy instead of a black one.
I'm pretty sure people love their kids no matter what.
UNIONBLACK

Hayes, UK

#18 Nov 5, 2009
39ehonor wrote:
<quoted text>--"Exotic"? Is that your term for "Ugly Mulatto"? because that's what all b/w mixed races baby are: Freaks
ha ha ha ha

who is running your country again?
UNIONBLACK

Hayes, UK

#19 Nov 5, 2009
seems like the american voters just LOVE 'freaks' and want one to represent them worldwide.

ha ha

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Since: Jan 08

AOL

#20 Nov 5, 2009
Lady Don Dada wrote:
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I'm pretty sure people love their kids no matter what.
of course but you should see the exaggeration in some of the IR parents voices NOBODY brags about their kids more than IR parents.omg it's not even laugable

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still busy trolling??

#21 Nov 5, 2009
KristieLon wrote:
I had a best for for the past 14 years. We both have children now. We both have a daughter. We are both african american and I had kids with a black guy she had kids with a Italian guy. She thinks her daughter is better than mine because her baby has green eyes and light brown hair. She says comments like my baby is getting dark fast and suggest I should perm my 15 month old daughter hair cause it is nappy. I dont smile when she says direspectful things like this but I am reaching my breaking point where I will tell her off. Her man dont even want her anymore because the pregnancy was accident.
How old are you? You sound kinda young. Anyways, your issue is with your friend, so 86 her. You can't control why people choose who they choose to have kids with, so why let others affect you like that. All you can do is focus on yourself and being the best mom for your kids. Everything else is just 'extra'.
UNIONBLACK

Hayes, UK

#22 Nov 5, 2009
CANDAYMAMA wrote:
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of course but you should see the exaggeration in some of the IR parents voices NOBODY brags about their kids more than IR parents.omg it's not even laugable
okay i'll bite, what do these ir parents brag about in their children? i'd like to hear. sounds like more jealous black woman nonsense.

just admit you are jealous.

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