I’m more submissive to White Men than...

I’m more submissive to White Men than Black Men

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NVMe

Germany

#1 Jan 18, 2012
I’ve just entered my first interracial relationship with a White Man two years ago. We are now married and I followed him to his native land of Germany where we now live. It was ruff at first because I tried to be the boss of the relationship but then I realized that I did not have to wear the pants in the relationship.

I don't know why but this is the first time I have EVER been submissive to a man. I freaked out the first few weeks I realized that he wore the pants but now I am happy with it. I have never been in this situation before.

All my life I have dated Black Men and I had to be the one responsible for paying the rent, making sure gas was in the car, paying the utilities bills and paying the care note. I guess I just got use to taking care of men, then when I met a man that is responsible and does all these things without me have to nag and follow up I feel free to be myself.

This is the first time in my life that I have a man that comes home after work and I don't have to play detective gadget and track him down. I don't mind being submissive to a man as long as he is responsible.

I have found the man I can truly be a Women with.

Level 4

Since: Jan 12

Brooklyn, NY

#2 Jan 18, 2012
NVMe wrote:
I’ve just entered my first interracial relationship with a White Man two years ago. We are now married and I followed him to his native land of Germany where we now live. It was ruff at first because I tried to be the boss of the relationship but then I realized that I did not have to wear the pants in the relationship.
I don't know why but this is the first time I have EVER been submissive to a man. I freaked out the first few weeks I realized that he wore the pants but now I am happy with it. I have never been in this situation before.
All my life I have dated Black Men and I had to be the one responsible for paying the rent, making sure gas was in the car, paying the utilities bills and paying the care note. I guess I just got use to taking care of men, then when I met a man that is responsible and does all these things without me have to nag and follow up I feel free to be myself.
This is the first time in my life that I have a man that comes home after work and I don't have to play detective gadget and track him down. I don't mind being submissive to a man as long as he is responsible.
I have found the man I can truly be a Women with.
Ummmmm... I think you mean Inspector Gadget. Get your facts straight before posting!
Ambiguous

Plano, TX

#3 Jan 18, 2012
Good 4 u.
Jamaicangirl

United States

#4 Jan 18, 2012
Ohhh cool...
Seen The Light

Chicago, IL

#5 Jan 18, 2012
A good White Man will do that to you. I am so happy you have found your true love. I know you will be happy together forever. I will more Black Women were as enlighten as you.

By the way, has the movie Joyful Noise came out in Germany yet. When it does go see it. It will change your life.

“I Love My Life!”

Level 6

Since: Nov 08

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#6 Jan 18, 2012
What a stupid post. Why not be your own person. Being submissive to anyone is ignorant. I think this is a joke in more ways than one.

“I am an awesome person”

Level 7

Since: Jun 08

Location hidden

#7 Jan 18, 2012
NVMe wrote:
I’ve just entered my first interracial relationship with a White Man two years ago. We are now married and I followed him to his native land of Germany where we now live. It was ruff at first because I tried to be the boss of the relationship but then I realized that I did not have to wear the pants in the relationship.
I don't know why but this is the first time I have EVER been submissive to a man. I freaked out the first few weeks I realized that he wore the pants but now I am happy with it. I have never been in this situation before.
All my life I have dated Black Men and I had to be the one responsible for paying the rent, making sure gas was in the car, paying the utilities bills and paying the care note. I guess I just got use to taking care of men, then when I met a man that is responsible and does all these things without me have to nag and follow up I feel free to be myself.
This is the first time in my life that I have a man that comes home after work and I don't have to play detective gadget and track him down. I don't mind being submissive to a man as long as he is responsible.
I have found the man I can truly be a Women with.
You are a slave to the WM and have always been, you have alot of self hatred big time.
unsub

Dewitt, MI

#8 Jan 18, 2012
Black women are frustrated wannabee white women. Sad.

“I Love My Life!”

Level 6

Since: Nov 08

Location hidden

#9 Jan 18, 2012
unsub wrote:
Black women are frustrated wannabee white women. Sad.
Not! Think again!

“Love is”

Level 6

Since: Dec 11

A Beautiful Thing

#10 Jan 18, 2012
unsub wrote:
Black women are frustrated wannabee white women. Sad.
No we are not, and the OP doesn't sound frustrated, YOU DO.

“Love is”

Level 6

Since: Dec 11

A Beautiful Thing

#11 Jan 18, 2012
NVMe wrote:
I’ve just entered my first interracial relationship with a White Man two years ago. We are now married and I followed him to his native land of Germany where we now live. It was ruff at first because I tried to be the boss of the relationship but then I realized that I did not have to wear the pants in the relationship.
I don't know why but this is the first time I have EVER been submissive to a man. I freaked out the first few weeks I realized that he wore the pants but now I am happy with it. I have never been in this situation before.
All my life I have dated Black Men and I had to be the one responsible for paying the rent, making sure gas was in the car, paying the utilities bills and paying the care note. I guess I just got use to taking care of men, then when I met a man that is responsible and does all these things without me have to nag and follow up I feel free to be myself.
This is the first time in my life that I have a man that comes home after work and I don't have to play detective gadget and track him down. I don't mind being submissive to a man as long as he is responsible.
I have found the man I can truly be a Women with.
Are you submissive in the bedroom? As you are putting your private life "out there", I think it's ok to ask :)
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Dewitt, MI

#12 Jan 18, 2012
Stonedlove wrote:
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No we are not, and the OP doesn't sound frustrated, YOU DO.
Don't you have some skin to bleach? skatdoodle.
Ambiguous

Dallas, TX

#13 Jan 18, 2012
On second thought why make this thread?

“Love is”

Level 6

Since: Dec 11

A Beautiful Thing

#14 Jan 18, 2012
unsub wrote:
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Don't you have some skin to bleach? skatdoodle.
You keep making a comment about BW, and as a BW I'm telling you that your wrong. Why cant you handle that?
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Dewitt, MI

#15 Jan 18, 2012
Stonedlove wrote:
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You keep making a comment about BW, and as a BW I'm telling you that your wrong. Why cant you handle that?
Because then you make some ridiculous self-hating comment bashing black men. Maybe you are mixed.

“Love is”

Level 6

Since: Dec 11

A Beautiful Thing

#16 Jan 18, 2012
unsub wrote:
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Because then you make some ridiculous self-hating comment bashing black men. Maybe you are mixed.
Do you have an account? who are you?
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Dewitt, MI

#17 Jan 18, 2012
Stonedlove wrote:
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Do you have an account? who are you?
1 black man.

“Love is”

Level 6

Since: Dec 11

A Beautiful Thing

#18 Jan 18, 2012
unsub wrote:
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1 black man.
Dont come to me with skin bleachin bullsh!t.
If a bw tells you she's happy with the way God made her, you should accept what shes telling you without throwing insults.
flowerboy

Houston, TX

#19 Jan 18, 2012
thats because they pay you more you black azz slut...
Ambiguous

Plano, TX

#20 Jan 18, 2012
Its not abt money a brother could pay endless money and still get treated bad.

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