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BeAuTiFuL SoUl

Clarksville, TN

#216 Dec 19, 2013
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BeAuTiFuL SoUl

Clarksville, TN

#217 Dec 19, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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I am not sure if that statement is even true. So many BP do care what others say, particularly if a WP says it. Be White and say the N-word to the wrong person and see what happens. That is an invitation to a fist fight or a stabbing.
That is the problem with a lot of white people you don't know black people or understand our ways you only understand YOUR WAYS.(Black people do understand white people....we are made to because everything in America is ruled by white authority which means white ideas and etc.) And you are proving my point right now. You know what would hurt another white person and you assume that those same things would effect black people the same exact way but IT DOES NOT. When a black person gets upset because you call them the N word it is not because you have hurt their feelings it is because you are being disrespectful. There is a difference in demanding respect and your feelings being hurt.

This is really very simple people! Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out. Black people have a saying.........say whatever you want but just don't put your hands on me. White people on the other hand fight dirty with words and other under-handed deeds. This is a very true fact of life......point blank period!

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#219 Dec 19, 2013
BeAuTiFuL SoUl wrote:
<quoted text> That is the problem with a lot of white people you don't know black people or understand our ways you only understand YOUR WAYS.(Black people do understand white people....we are made to because everything in America is ruled by white authority which means white ideas and etc.) And you are proving my point right now. You know what would hurt another white person and you assume that those same things would effect black people the same exact way but IT DOES NOT. When a black person gets upset because you call them the N word it is not because you have hurt their feelings it is because you are being disrespectful. There is a difference in demanding respect and your feelings being hurt.
This is really very simple people! Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out. Black people have a saying.........say whatever you want but just don't put your hands on me. White people on the other hand fight dirty with words and other under-handed deeds. This is a very true fact of life......point blank period!
I don't want to start a range war, and I've always respected you as a poster. If BP all knew about us, they would be able to act like us when around us. I hate having to explain White customs and culture, White figures of speech, etc. WP tend to be more passive, self-absorbed, and only caring about their own family and friends. They tend not to speak to BP they don't know first nor get into their culture. When WP do what BP do, BP all of a sudden start asking questions they would not ask their own. Like if you are White and wear a drawstring ponytail which is very popular among BW, you will be asked who did your hair. When you say nobody did it, they cannot seem to understand that it is just a piece. In fact, they will act like they are too stupid to know what a hair piece is and that there is nothing to do - just clip it on.

Just get every BP in the US to act like WP, and all the stuff will go away. But no, so many want to hang onto victim thinking.

I was assuming nothing. I saw BP physically attack WP over the word. This was very common in the 1980's. Perhaps you are blind to this because you WANT BP to harm us WP. When you are convinced your people are the only victims, it is easy to overlook the bad acts your own people do. What you are saying is truer for now, but like I said, say it to the wrong person and you will still get a violent reaction.

Anyway, peace, and please enjoy your holiday season.

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#220 Dec 19, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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I don't want to start a range war, and I've always respected you as a poster. If BP all knew about us, they would be able to act like us when around us. I hate having to explain White customs and culture, White figures of speech, etc. WP tend to be more passive, self-absorbed, and only caring about their own family and friends. They tend not to speak to BP they don't know first nor get into their culture. When WP do what BP do, BP all of a sudden start asking questions they would not ask their own. Like if you are White and wear a drawstring ponytail which is very popular among BW, you will be asked who did your hair. When you say nobody did it, they cannot seem to understand that it is just a piece. In fact, they will act like they are too stupid to know what a hair piece is and that there is nothing to do - just clip it on.
Just get every BP in the US to act like WP, and all the stuff will go away. But no, so many want to hang onto victim thinking.
I was assuming nothing. I saw BP physically attack WP over the word. This was very common in the 1980's. Perhaps you are blind to this because you WANT BP to harm us WP. When you are convinced your people are the only victims, it is easy to overlook the bad acts your own people do. What you are saying is truer for now, but like I said, say it to the wrong person and you will still get a violent reaction.
Anyway, peace, and please enjoy your holiday season.
You are still misunderstanding my point. Black people do not have to act like white people to understand you. The only people who would ever want to act like you would be a self hating black person. Most black people don't like the way white people act just like a lot of white people don't like the way black people act. But this isn't even relevant to my point. Black people are "born into" WHITE America so although we have our subculture we have no choice but to learn and understand the overall white culture. On the flip side..... a white person is also born into WHITE America so the only way that you could ever really understand black people is by spending time understanding our SUBCULTURE. Without doing this you will never understand how black people think or feel because we think and feel a lot differently about a lot of things than you do. That is all I am basically saying!

And I am not angry with you. I still love reading your post and you still haven't given me a reason not to respect you. And I wish you happy holidays as well!

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#221 Jan 3, 2014
Kwaii wrote:
<quoted text> You are still misunderstanding my point. Black people do not have to act like white people to understand you. The only people who would ever want to act like you would be a self hating black person. Most black people don't like the way white people act just like a lot of white people don't like the way black people act. But this isn't even relevant to my point. Black people are "born into" WHITE America so although we have our subculture we have no choice but to learn and understand the overall white culture. On the flip side..... a white person is also born into WHITE America so the only way that you could ever really understand black people is by spending time understanding our SUBCULTURE. Without doing this you will never understand how black people think or feel because we think and feel a lot differently about a lot of things than you do. That is all I am basically saying!
And I am not angry with you. I still love reading your post and you still haven't given me a reason not to respect you. And I wish you happy holidays as well!
You missed my point. I never missed yours. I simply moved on in the discussion. Again, you are trying to use peer pressure to try to force you ways onto me.

The reason BP don't act like WP is because they are either unable to do so, or they think their poor, backwards, violent culture is better than ours. If they truly understood our culture, they would be able to either act like us when around us, or leave us the heck alone if they are unable or unwilling to do so. I have the right to be around White culture nonstop. You folks only want to force yourselves onto me & into White groups to immorally try to force us to change, rather than staying out of our business & mind only the business of your own race. WP are only supposed to care about WP things, and BP are only supposed to care about BP matters.

I'm sick of having to explain every little thing I do. For instance, I was minding my own business, in my own world, like how EVERY WP is supposed to act when alone, & this Black woman who was on the porch of a halfway house & asked me why I didn't have a coat on. That was only MY business. My mom used to abuse me by treating me like I was too stupid to know when to wear a coat, & she'd force me to wear one when I was too hot. Thankfully God finally loved me enough to kill her & give me my freedom from such abuse. I now get to live alone & manage EVERY little detail of my life. That BW acted that way the day before & I dropped a slightly racist hint as a way of telling her NEVER to act like a mother to me again, but to trust me to take care of myself, like you're supposed to do with EVERY adult stranger. I'm an adult, not a child, & nobody owns me. It's immoral & wrong to treat any adult like a child. Anyway, that BW disrespected me this way again. In White culture, it's important to rely on as little support as possible & show you're strong enough to not wear a coat. Coats are for sissies, homos, etc., not strong, independent adults. I was smart enough to wear 4 layers of clothing to not need a coat - White thinking of thinking ahead. Anyway, I cussed that b*tch out, & out of nowhere, 2 BM started throwing rocks at me, thous proving their inferiority. A WP would have never spoke to a stranger (like inferior people do), never would have tried to mother a stranger (like position-grabbing, bossy, inferior would do), and would have never resorted to violence (like an inferior)- but would have let me vent.

As for the rock-throwing, I pray daily that God will harm them, maybe cause them to get killed or lose their arms or eyes. I was in my own world, riding down the street, dressed as I wanted to, & no Black stranger had no right to speak to me nor try to tell me what to do in regards to something private like choosing to wear a coat or not. Why were those BP too stupid to stay out of my business, leave me alone, & not speak to me?

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#222 Jan 3, 2014
Kwaii wrote:
<quoted text> You are still misunderstanding my point. Black people do not have to act like white people to understand you. The only people who would ever want to act like you would be a self hating black person. Most black people don't like the way white people act just like a lot of white people don't like the way black people act. But this isn't even relevant to my point. Black people are "born into" WHITE America so although we have our subculture we have no choice but to learn and understand the overall white culture. On the flip side..... a white person is also born into WHITE America so the only way that you could ever really understand black people is by spending time understanding our SUBCULTURE. Without doing this you will never understand how black people think or feel because we think and feel a lot differently about a lot of things than you do. That is all I am basically saying!
And I am not angry with you. I still love reading your post and you still haven't given me a reason not to respect you. And I wish you happy holidays as well!
Oh, I'm not angry at you, and I hope never to give you a reason to feel I am disrespecting you. I just have lots to say. I hope your holidays were great!

Actually you cannot really understand our culture as long as you have a subculture at all. You might all think you understand us, but then you all often act in unexpected ways towards us. You all might see we are more independent but yet try to force unwanted help on us, boss us around, or act like you all own us as a way to "socialize." Power has no place in socializing in our culture. There is no need for mastery, no jockeying, no social order, etc., and this is the easiest way to socialize, yet many BP won't do it this way. It is too simple, or boring, or not macho enough or whatever.

As a point of curiosity, why have a subculture at all? Why not join the human race? If BP are the same as WP, then why would they have to form their own culture to get needs met that WP don't even have? I am just tired of the constant peer pressure from people OUTSIDE my peer group trying to force me to change from how I always do things and always will no matter what. There are things BP try to force me to do that I believe with all my soul are wrong, like one who tried to make me drink more than I wanted when I believe drunkenness is immoral and sinful. I might appear "uptight," but that is how I want to remain forever, without it ever being challenged even once. My body is my body, not theirs. When a person bosses another around or attempts peer pressure, they are saying they own them like a parent or slave, and to me, and that is asking for a fistfight.

Why should be forced to understand a subculture that has no business even existing? The burden is on the minorities and individuals to conform, never the majority to compromise. If you choose to be different or spit off from others, you deserve whatever consequences accompany that.
BeAuTiFuL SoUl

Clarksville, TN

#223 Jan 8, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
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Oh, I'm not angry at you, and I hope never to give you a reason to feel I am disrespecting you. I just have lots to say. I hope your holidays were great!
Actually you cannot really understand our culture as long as you have a subculture at all. You might all think you understand us, but then you all often act in unexpected ways towards us. You all might see we are more independent but yet try to force unwanted help on us, boss us around, or act like you all own us as a way to "socialize." Power has no place in socializing in our culture. There is no need for mastery, no jockeying, no social order, etc., and this is the easiest way to socialize, yet many BP won't do it this way. It is too simple, or boring, or not macho enough or whatever.
As a point of curiosity, why have a subculture at all? Why not join the human race? If BP are the same as WP, then why would they have to form their own culture to get needs met that WP don't even have? I am just tired of the constant peer pressure from people OUTSIDE my peer group trying to force me to change from how I always do things and always will no matter what. There are things BP try to force me to do that I believe with all my soul are wrong, like one who tried to make me drink more than I wanted when I believe drunkenness is immoral and sinful. I might appear "uptight," but that is how I want to remain forever, without it ever being challenged even once. My body is my body, not theirs. When a person bosses another around or attempts peer pressure, they are saying they own them like a parent or slave, and to me, and that is asking for a fistfight.
Why should be forced to understand a subculture that has no business even existing? The burden is on the minorities and individuals to conform, never the majority to compromise. If you choose to be different or spit off from others, you deserve whatever consequences accompany that.
When God created the birds he created more than just ONE KIND of bird. When God created the trees he created more than ONE KIND of tree. God created more than ONE KIND of flower. There are many different kind of flowers that are very beautiful. God created different kind of animals and the list goes on. The world would be boring if every body was exactly the same. I love what our Creator has done and I can appreciate it. People like you want the world to be without people who are different from you. Asians, white people, black people, Indians and the list goes on, are all very different but equally important to God. People don't need to act like white people unless they are white. People don't need to act like black people unless they are black. People don't need to act like Asian people unless they are Asian. We are all UNIQUE individuals and I personally love who I am and I do not want to act like you or anybody else. I am happy being ME and everybody has the right to simply be themselves. If you cannot except the fact that people are different than you then THAT IS YOUR PROBLEM and no one else's.

And it is insane and ignorant for you to claim not to understand the reason that African American people have a subculture. Black people are descendants from African slaves. These slaves had their own beliefs and rituals and values. When they were FORCED to America by white Americans they didn't know anything about white people. White people's ways were FORCED on them. Now you just said in your post that you do not like it when people try to bother you or force anything on you......right? Well neither do African American people. We are not like white people. We have distinct characteristics about us that we like just like you do.....therefore we have a subculture.

Different does not mean better....it just simply means different.

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