Ok... how can we Stop the "ghetto" Bl...

Ok... how can we Stop the "ghetto" Black women???

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“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#1 Dec 4, 2013
The ghetto Black females have made all of us look bad, and as much as I get annoyed at the people who stereotype all of us as being that way, can someone explain to me WHY those kinds of Black females actually are this way? I think it's a minority, at least where I live, because the Black females are nice and cool, but in certain areas, the women seem pretty hostile, and it makes me wonder why.

I don't mean to be rude, but for instance, I was in this neighborhood that has a high Black population and I came across a Black female, she was somewhat overweight with a weave, sitting on the busstop talking on her phone. She was talking to a friend about how much she hated this customer service person she had talked to and she was upset and just complaining complaining complaining - LOUDLY. She was so negative. She's only one example, but that is the stereotype of Black women, & she is not the only one like that, sadly. So it makes me wonder why some of these women are this way?

I don't think they're bad people at all, I just feel like some Black women have a very negative aura about them. Why do you think this is? I wish they could change because you can tell when someone is happy and these women don't seem happy to me. I want the best for them, so I wish we could stop those kinds of women. How?

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#2 Dec 4, 2013
I think people should encourage inner city women to be more vulnerable and open about their feelings. Many Black women try too hard to hang onto the perception that they're "strong" and can deal with so much, but it's okay to admit to having some faults and letting others sympathize with you. People are horrible in general, the world is full of cruel and disgusting bigots and vermin, imo. They love to see others suffer, but they are also easy to guilt and make feel like sh)_t when they hurt you. Most people are not sociopaths and they don't get joy out of other's pain. That is what Black women are missing, the "strong" image just makes people want to tear you down, just so they can show off about it. Some Black women need to open up more often, let their feelings out and soften their hearts to others. The world is not so negative.:)

Besides, we have each other, and I have love for my fellow Black girls., which is why I want the best for us.:D

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#3 Dec 4, 2013
Oh and Black guys love nice Black girls! Our community will be much stronger and together if Black men find more reasons to respect us as their women!

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#6 Dec 4, 2013
bunnywen wrote:
Stopping to make black couples work. Sheeeesh.
Did this sentence actually make sense to you?

Since: Dec 13

Ilford, UK

#7 Dec 4, 2013
I think it's possible! only if racist people notice NOT all black woman are like that
Cigar Face

United States

#8 Dec 4, 2013
Those kind of sistahs need to be ignored badly! Do not give them any kind of attention. They enjoy acting like a dam fool . They will reward you with a public assault for being nice and sympathetic to them. How come you don't know this?? You are a sista correct??What ever happened to the sweet loving family oriented submissive sistah the bible mentioned in probverbs??
Darnell

Chambersburg, PA

#9 Dec 4, 2013
Are Ghetto black women and Sheboons the same thing or not?
Spanish77

Philadelphia, PA

#10 Dec 4, 2013
Unfortunately that comes from the same mentality being passed down from Mother to daughter. The "I can't ever get out of here so I'm stuck & things will never get better" thought process. In other words, hopelessness, which leads to depression. B/c they were never taught self-respect/ self-worth, they don't know that they deserve better, & are worth more. To them selves & others. So they chose to have people in their lives that feed the negativity, which leads to a cycle of hopelessness & helplessness. Which is why I keep trying to stop posters that BM/BW bash. Life is already rough, but then you add people who say things to try & sap your self-esteem. Posters like Capree, SBT, Time for Honesty & others like them. White trolls everyone knows, their words come from fear, fear that we
know that they are the inferior ones.
Drilling for the nerve

Batavia, NY

#12 Dec 4, 2013
What these women are saying is, "Hey y'all, look at us! We ghetto trash and we proud!"

My hometown of Zimbabwe By The Lake, NY, just elected a black female mayor. By way of making excuses to those who raise the issue, she said loud-mouthed, confrontational, ghetto trash behavior is just part of your culture.

So, there you go - right from the mouth of elected officials.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#13 Dec 4, 2013
bunnywen wrote:
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Yes. I meant stop trying to make.....This means stop trying to see black guys and tar girls hook up. Black guys don't want ugly tar girl. Black guys desire is for us. They PREFER Ivory over tar. Enough of these post.
Aww, does that scare you widdle white gurll?? lol. Pretty Black girls with nice personalities will always win the hearts of Black men. We can take any Black guy from some flat butt White chick with thin lips. You women are afraid of that, but you know it deep down inside, and so do most Black men.:)
Iloveit

Charlotte, NC

#14 Dec 4, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
Those kind of sistahs need to be ignored badly! Do not give them any kind of attention. They enjoy acting like a dam fool . They will reward you with a public assault for being nice and sympathetic to them. How come you don't know this?? You are a sista correct??What ever happened to the sweet loving family oriented submissive sistah the bible mentioned in probverbs??
I wish more men would do this, especially black men. You would be surprised. We always hear about black woman wanting thugs, but ghetto women aren't the lonely ones. They act this way because they get a lot of male attention being loud and slutty. That's why I smh when black men complain about oow babies and ghetto women. Because for every hood chick there's at least 6 black men fucking her, giving her money, getting played by her...ect. How do you think she got all those baby daddies?

MAX--

“LEGALIZE MEXICANS”

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#15 Dec 4, 2013
There is a sizable percentage of the black population that remains in “the ghetto.” Ghetto blacks are those who are a burden to society and decent, responsible people of all races. Ghetto blacks are those who have dropped out of school, have numerous illegitimate children with several “baby-daddies,” pack our courts and fill our prisons because of rampant crime, etc. Ghetto blacks are those who will not work and are content to live on welfare and other social programs. These people will stand in line 8 hours with thousands of other ghetto blacks in 100 degree heat for a spot on the waiting list for Section 8 housing but won’t fill out a job application as we witnessed in Atlanta last year. Ghetto blacks are violent, sullen, ignorant, disrespectful, immoral, profane and full of hatred. They possess a true hatred of all white people. Ghetto blacks ridicule black students who make good grades as “being white” and blame their own failures on whitey, the man, Jim Crow or slavery. Ghetto blacks idolize gangstas, pimps and rappers covered in tattoos and bullet wounds. They ridicule other blacks who choose to be responsible, educated and contribute to society as “selling out.” Ghetto blacks are led by race pimps like Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson and Louis Farrakhan whose message of hatred further poisons the empty souls of ghetto blacks. Ghetto blacks are the 6% of the American population (black males) who create over half of America’s violent crimes. Ghetto women are not much better. They are vicious, violent, ignorant and poised to attack anyone at any time who crosses their path. All of these describe what I refer to as ghetto blacks. If you are black and reading this, you will know if you are a ghetto black or not.
Iloveit

Charlotte, NC

#18 Dec 4, 2013
bunnywen wrote:
<quoted text>
You are incorrect hun. My man, his brothers and all their friends wouldn't be caught dead with a tar girl. Tar girls are played out. Black guys wants the best life has to offer. Tar girls are a sign of poverty.
I never meet white women like you in real life. Every white woman I've ever met with a black man nearly breaks her neck to try and be friends with me. They usually know more about ghetto culture than I do in an attempt to "fit" in. If you're so secure, why are you being so nasty to people? You're a little too extra.
Observer

Los Angeles, CA

#20 Dec 4, 2013
MAX-- wrote:
There is a sizable percentage of the black population that remains in “the ghetto.” Ghetto blacks are those who are a burden to society and decent, responsible people of all races. Ghetto blacks are those who have dropped out of school, have numerous illegitimate children with several “baby-daddies,” pack our courts and fill our prisons because of rampant crime, etc. Ghetto blacks are those who will not work and are content to live on welfare and other social programs. These people will stand in line 8 hours with thousands of other ghetto blacks in 100 degree heat for a spot on the waiting list for Section 8 housing but won’t fill out a job application as we witnessed in Atlanta last year. Ghetto blacks are violent, sullen, ignorant, disrespectful, immoral, profane and full of hatred. They possess a true hatred of all white people. Ghetto blacks ridicule black students who make good grades as “being white” and blame their own failures on whitey, the man, Jim Crow or slavery. Ghetto blacks idolize gangstas, pimps and rappers covered in tattoos and bullet wounds. They ridicule other blacks who choose to be responsible, educated and contribute to society as “selling out.” Ghetto blacks are led by race pimps like Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson and Louis Farrakhan whose message of hatred further poisons the empty souls of ghetto blacks. Ghetto blacks are the 6% of the American population (black males) who create over half of America’s violent crimes. Ghetto women are not much better. They are vicious, violent, ignorant and poised to attack anyone at any time who crosses their path. All of these describe what I refer to as ghetto blacks. If you are black and reading this, you will know if you are a ghetto black or not.
One could change the wording a bit, and this would apply to any race of people. You do not have to live in the ghetto to be ghetto. I live in a working class Cali sub and there's a ghetto family living a few blocks down. They are Hispanic. But for the most part, I totally agree with your post. Good post, btw.
Iloveit

Charlotte, NC

#21 Dec 4, 2013
bunnywen wrote:
My man loves me to much, to have me living in poverty with tar girls. He tells me I helped his social status.
.
He upgraded to the double wide?

Since: Nov 13

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#22 Dec 4, 2013

MAX--

“LEGALIZE MEXICANS”

Level 5

Since: Oct 09

TO TAKE THE BLACKS JOBS

#28 Dec 4, 2013
Observer wrote:
<quoted text>
One could change the wording a bit, and this would apply to any race of people. You do not have to live in the ghetto to be ghetto. I live in a working class Cali sub and there's a ghetto family living a few blocks down. They are Hispanic. But for the most part, I totally agree with your post. Good post, btw.
I know what you are saying..........

My sister fits the post I made.....lol.......seriously she does

“No Substitute For The Truth”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#29 Dec 4, 2013
There wouldn't be so called 'Ghetto' PPL if poverty wasn't so prevalent. This is the consequence of Corruption. We are all a product of our environments & this should always be taken into consideration so you'll know what you will be dealing with when ur Nation is corrupted. In many 3rd world Nations, you have crime & diseases which run rampant yet we expect PPL living under such conditions to NOT exhibit poor behavior. This is ILLOGICAL! They should behave this way to show Humanity these conditions are unacceptable.

“No Substitute For The Truth”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#30 Dec 4, 2013
MAX-- wrote:
There is a sizable percentage of the black population that remains in “the ghetto.” Ghetto blacks are those who are a burden to society and decent, responsible people of all races. Ghetto blacks are those who have dropped out of school, have numerous illegitimate children with several “baby-daddies,” pack our courts and fill our prisons because of rampant crime, etc. Ghetto blacks are those who will not work and are content to live on welfare and other social programs. These people will stand in line 8 hours with thousands of other ghetto blacks in 100 degree heat for a spot on the waiting list for Section 8 housing but won’t fill out a job application as we witnessed in Atlanta last year. Ghetto blacks are violent, sullen, ignorant, disrespectful, immoral, profane and full of hatred. They possess a true hatred of all white people. Ghetto blacks ridicule black students who make good grades as “being white” and blame their own failures on whitey, the man, Jim Crow or slavery. Ghetto blacks idolize gangstas, pimps and rappers covered in tattoos and bullet wounds. They ridicule other blacks who choose to be responsible, educated and contribute to society as “selling out.” Ghetto blacks are led by race pimps like Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson and Louis Farrakhan whose message of hatred further poisons the empty souls of ghetto blacks. Ghetto blacks are the 6% of the American population (black males) who create over half of America’s violent crimes. Ghetto women are not much better. They are vicious, violent, ignorant and poised to attack anyone at any time who crosses their path. All of these describe what I refer to as ghetto blacks. If you are black and reading this, you will know if you are a ghetto black or not.
Everywhere ur ancestors have traveled, there has been chaos. You are in no position to tell someone how they should be behave. Only those who do NOT live around chaos or those who do NOT have chaos follow them wherever they go should be lecturing on proper behavior. Our society is a reflection of our leadership. There has been so much HATE & racism within' our society. This does NOT reflect good leadership behavior.
BM Moving On

Toronto, Canada

#31 Dec 4, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
The ghetto Black females have made all of us look bad, and as much as I get annoyed at the people who stereotype all of us as being that way, can someone explain to me WHY those kinds of Black females actually are this way? I think it's a minority, at least where I live, because the Black females are nice and cool, but in certain areas, the women seem pretty hostile, and it makes me wonder why.
I don't mean to be rude, but for instance, I was in this neighborhood that has a high Black population and I came across a Black female, she was somewhat overweight with a weave, sitting on the busstop talking on her phone. She was talking to a friend about how much she hated this customer service person she had talked to and she was upset and just complaining complaining complaining - LOUDLY. She was so negative. She's only one example, but that is the stereotype of Black women, & she is not the only one like that, sadly. So it makes me wonder why some of these women are this way?
I don't think they're bad people at all, I just feel like some Black women have a very negative aura about them. Why do you think this is? I wish they could change because you can tell when someone is happy and these women don't seem happy to me. I want the best for them, so I wish we could stop those kinds of women. How?
7 out of 10 BW are ghetto and that is just the reality. So a majority of BW act like you described. Have you ever went into a fast food restaurant or entered a grocery store line where a BW acts in a customer service role?? The worse ghetto acting, teeth sucking, weave flashing attitude you'll ever see is displayed by BW.

BW teach their oow daughters to act that way from a young age. Even young black girls act like that these days.

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