What is a good age to settle down?
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“Sexy & Independent”

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#49 Apr 18, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
I don't see the point in growing old with some hag next to me, and you can't really love a woman from such a feminist country, well you CAN love them but you don't want to keep them. Once I got tired of a relationship I move on with another, it keeps things fresh atleast.
LOL Funny. It is cool when you are young like me. I am enjoying my freedom. When you are older you may have a change of heart. You may want to settle down when you are older.
lol

Atlanta, GA

#50 Apr 19, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
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I like to live alone but it could get boring so I started dating. I like messing with a bunch of women but I have never cheated on anyone. I see relationships as temporary, have fun as much as I can.
I remember those days. Been a long time for me. I don't even know if I'm having fun or not anymore. lol
lol

Atlanta, GA

#51 Apr 19, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
I don't see the point in growing old with some hag next to me, and you can't really love a woman from such a feminist country, well you CAN love them but you don't want to keep them. Once I got tired of a relationship I move on with another, it keeps things fresh atleast.
I wouldn't want to move on. Even when things bad, I don't get tired of her. Guess that's the difference.

“>3 =O”

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Since: Mar 12

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#52 Apr 19, 2013
lol wrote:
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I remember those days. Been a long time for me. I don't even know if I'm having fun or not anymore. lol
Even if it is not fun anymore, it is a lot easier with less responsibility. I guess I just prefer the easy safe route. I lived alone when I was 20, then it felt good to have a woman there every now and again, but I would not let her move in. Have you ever listened to the Tom Leykis show? I think every man should take his advice

“>3 =O”

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#53 Apr 19, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
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LOL Funny. It is cool when you are young like me. I am enjoying my freedom. When you are older you may have a change of heart. You may want to settle down when you are older.
If it comes to that ill adopt, I can change the "mother" as much as I please.
lol

Atlanta, GA

#54 Apr 19, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
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Even if it is not fun anymore, it is a lot easier with less responsibility. I guess I just prefer the easy safe route. I lived alone when I was 20, then it felt good to have a woman there every now and again, but I would not let her move in. Have you ever listened to the Tom Leykis show? I think every man should take his advice
Naww I never heard of that show.

“Sexy & Independent”

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#55 Apr 19, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
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If it comes to that ill adopt, I can change the "mother" as much as I please.
LOL. There is nothing wrong with adopting because there are children who need parents and a home. You will probably settle down in the future when you are much older. Enjoy your freedom for now because you are young.

“>3 =O”

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#56 Apr 20, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
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LOL. There is nothing wrong with adopting because there are children who need parents and a home. You will probably settle down in the future when you are much older. Enjoy your freedom for now because you are young.
Naw im good. Settling down only makes things more difficult for men and it is unwanted responsibility for me personally. I prefer the easy bachelor life. My eldest cousin is doing it, and then I compare it and it just wins every time. Some men are just not stupid enough to put a ring on it. Even if I was stupid enough, the wife would most likely be German or Brazilian and I won't be living in this country.

“>3 =O”

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#57 Apr 20, 2013
Maybe from Mexico too, they cook good. Just as long as they are not American, then it is a maybe.

“Sexy & Independent”

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#58 Apr 21, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
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Naw im good. Settling down only makes things more difficult for men and it is unwanted responsibility for me personally. I prefer the easy bachelor life. My eldest cousin is doing it, and then I compare it and it just wins every time. Some men are just not stupid enough to put a ring on it. Even if I was stupid enough, the wife would most likely be German or Brazilian and I won't be living in this country.
Well live your life as you please. Marriage is not for everybody. The single life is cool for now because you are young. Just don't end up 50 years old and lonely in the future. Good luck.

“Sexy & Independent”

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#59 Apr 21, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
Maybe from Mexico too, they cook good. Just as long as they are not American, then it is a maybe.
LOL. Well marry whomever you desire (if you decide to do it). Just do it for the right reasons. Don't be scared of American Women. LOL....

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#61 Apr 21, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
When u got enough money to feed 12 boys.. No jokes.. Thats how many i want.. Teach them thd trade of building.. God.. Music, and loving the most beautiful mother on earth.. Mary jesus mother..
LOL...good luck for that..u have irish roots and seems that u r a practicing catholic as well..lol

“Sexy & Independent”

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#63 Apr 21, 2013
dab399 wrote:
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I totally agree with you Halle Berry Sister. Marriage isn't for everyone & you're right. I'm 42 & never married but I have girlfriends who I see for sex & I'm single & the single life is cool for now & I dont have any children plus I'm no where near 50 so thank heavens for now. I'm going to enjoy life while I can & also having children is not for everyone either. I know for myself that getting married & having children isn't for me at all plus I'm too old to start a family. At least I'm being honest about it.
I understand that marriage is not for you. People do get married in their 40's and 50's. You said that you are too old to start a family. Have you ever considered adopting a child while being single?????

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#66 Apr 21, 2013
I would say 30s!!

“Sexy & Independent”

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#68 Apr 21, 2013
dab399 wrote:
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No.
Okay then good luck. I would like to settle down maybe when I hit my middle to late 30's.

“>3 =O”

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#70 Apr 21, 2013
dab399 wrote:
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I feel the same way Jstylez. I also like messing around with a bunch of women as well & I also live alone. When I had my apartment I had a woman stay with me for two years wrong mistake on my part. I told her she had to leave & she didn't want to leave because she was taking advantage of me for example bring men in my apartment while I was out plus she stole from me as well. I also had another problem as well when I was in living in a furnish room I had a chick move in with me another wrong mistake on my part because she didn't have anywhere to stay & she was homeless. I call myself helping her out until she gets on her feet you know what she did she took advantage of me by asking me for money every other day & I cannot support her money habit to buy her drugs & she also stole from me for example my two dvd players & my $5. Plus she was bringing people to my house while I was out & I told her I was breaking off the relationship with her & told her she have to leave & she didn't want to hear that part so it really doesn't pay to have any woman stay with me because once they move in it's hard to get rid of them. It's best to live alone & spear all the headache that I'm going through right now.
I would have had that arrested, I hope you steer clear from that one.

“>3 =O”

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#71 Apr 21, 2013
dab399 wrote:
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I totally agree with you Halle Berry Sister. Marriage isn't for everyone & you're right. I'm 42 & never married but I have girlfriends who I see for sex & I'm single & the single life is cool for now & I dont have any children plus I'm no where near 50 so thank heavens for now. I'm going to enjoy life while I can & also having children is not for everyone either. I know for myself that getting married & having children isn't for me at all plus I'm too old to start a family. At least I'm being honest about it.
You are living the american dream (black male version)
Don't change a thing, if only more bm would do this

“No Substitute For The Truth”

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Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#72 Apr 21, 2013
I would say about 30 something because I honestly don't believe we fully mature until we're in our mid to late 20s. Early 20s is still too close to teenage years & the mindstate isn't that much different. But maturity may never come for some unfortunately.

“I'm not here”

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Since: Mar 13

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#74 Apr 21, 2013
For women when they're younger, nobody wants an old beat up wrinkled loose wife, by the time she is 25 her worth starts to decay rapidly.

“Sexy & Independent”

Since: Dec 12

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#77 Apr 21, 2013
dab399 wrote:
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Okay. I wish you the best of luck.
Thank you. I am currently enjoying my freedom for now. I still love going to the night clubs.

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