What is a good age to settle down?

What is a good age to settle down?

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lol

Atlanta, GA

#1 Apr 16, 2013
What is a good age to settle down and get married? I know for everyone it's different. Just wandering if age makes a difference because a lot of people have a lot of growing up to do.(hopefully married people will answer this.)
jolly roger

Wilmslow, UK

#2 Apr 16, 2013
45 for man

18 for woman

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#3 Apr 16, 2013
I think for women past 28. For men Early 30s.

Women go through phases in life.

14-17 just start dating
18-23 Ho phase
24-27 You are a young woman thinking about your future
28-33 Second ho phase, marriage
24-42 Mom and possibly divorce
42-47 Third ho phase
50+- Up to the woman

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#4 Apr 16, 2013
MumRa wrote:
I think for women past 28. For men Early 30s.
Women go through phases in life.
14-17 just start dating
18-23 Ho phase
24-27 You are a young woman thinking about your future
28-33 Second ho phase, marriage
24-42 Mom and possibly divorce
42-47 Third ho phase
50+- Up to the woman
"Ho phase" lol! I think it's all about maturity level though. About age 27 is when people are getting things together in my opinion.

What are the phases of a man's life then? I'm curious, Mr. MumRa.

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#5 Apr 16, 2013
Obvious Trollette wrote:
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"Ho phase" lol! I think it's all about maturity level though. About age 27 is when people are getting things together in my opinion.
What are the phases of a man's life then? I'm curious, Mr. MumRa.
Lol

14-35 pimping
35-45 marriage kids
55+- pimping
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Atlanta, GA

#6 Apr 16, 2013
lol lol lol ... make sense.
lol

Atlanta, GA

#7 Apr 16, 2013
Think imma wait til like 35 hopefully.

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Laramie, WY

#8 Apr 16, 2013
Female - early 30-ish
Male - never

J/K about dudes. I think the perfect age for a male is 35 - 40. By that age , hopefully I've seen and done everything I want to do and see , my career is on course , and I'm still looking decent physically. Hopefully a little more easy-going and patient for dealing with any/all future kids. The same I hope would apply to females.

Don't want to wait much later than that , as I don't want to deal with future kid(s) when they're 18 and I'm approaching/in my 60's. I don't want some punk kid beating my old , decreit ass for telling him to clean his room.
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Atlanta, GA

#9 Apr 16, 2013
lol that's one reason why guns were created.

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New Zealand

#10 Apr 16, 2013
When u got enough money to feed 12 boys.. No jokes.. Thats how many i want.. Teach them thd trade of building.. God.. Music, and loving the most beautiful mother on earth.. Mary jesus mother..
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Atlanta, GA

#11 Apr 16, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
When u got enough money to feed 12 boys.. No jokes.. Thats how many i want.. Teach them thd trade of building.. God.. Music, and loving the most beautiful mother on earth.. Mary jesus mother..
What about daughters?

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#13 Apr 16, 2013
lol wrote:
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What about daughters?
Nearly every guy I've talked to has wanted a son.

I suppose guys like the idea of a "mini-me" they can mold and watch grow.
lol

Atlanta, GA

#14 Apr 16, 2013
I want a son too. Sons pass on the name and keep the lineage going. He said 12 sons. What about daughters? Im pretty sure he won't have 12 back to back sons.

I always thought I wanted a son but was blessed with a daughter and I'm loving it. I want son's too though.
Jolly roger

Wilmslow, UK

#15 Apr 16, 2013
Right i think the perfect time is when your young.

If the girl is 18 and the boy as well and they known each other for years.

Thats the right situation.

Im over over 30, and i can tell you the last thing on my mind now, is to meet a 30 year old used up old slut and get married to her.

If im gonna do that, i will go with a young gurl of 20.

I have had intrest from older women of 30. But when they are young they only want the hot guys with the nice car.

So lets think about this. Old played out ho's want me when i am at the prime of my life, 30 +.

But they wanted to give their prime to rock stars, drug addicts, ganstas, rich, sports stars etc.

They were just a casual screw then. But they want me to buy that "i am the person i am now " bullshit.

Thanks, but no thanks.

I honestly now am not worried about settling down and having kids.

As men get older they become less and less likly to want kids.

People saying 35 +. Its easier to say then do. When you are 35+ your very set in your ways and cynical.

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los angeles

#19 Apr 16, 2013
MumRa wrote:
I think for women past 28. For men Early 30s.
Women go through phases in life.
14-17 just start dating
18-23 Ho phase
24-27 You are a young woman thinking about your future
28-33 Second ho phase, marriage
24-42 Mom and possibly divorce
42-47 Third ho phase
50+- Up to the woman
I love the ho phase, they don't ask for much. xD

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los angeles

#20 Apr 16, 2013
So what makes you want to settle down?

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#21 Apr 16, 2013
LovinLife1974 wrote:
Men = 38-40yrs
Women = 21yrs
But as a young woman, I don't want an older man. Most of my friends who even date men in their 30s are only doing it for the money. My bf is only 4 years older than me, and personally I think that that is enough.

I want to be on the same page as my husband, not have another father figure.

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New Zealand

#22 Apr 16, 2013
lol wrote:
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What about daughters?
I dont think girlS enjoy.. Building houses or training..

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#23 Apr 16, 2013
I feel middle or late 30's. You need to have fun, party, and travel before you settle down. Also you want to have a great career before you start a family.
lol

Atlanta, GA

#24 Apr 17, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text> I dont think girlS enjoy.. Building houses or training..
Some daughters would love to do that with their father. Just to be around him.

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