Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#150 Jun 25, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarceof that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
Maceo

Real men? Where in the Black race there RARE!

Most Black men look to live off women or want women to supplement them or take care of them while they act irresponsible!
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#151 Jun 25, 2013
youmoron wrote:
go feed the poor and shut up..
man..
there's we live in a wealthy country and people starve and die..
and you complain about your single mothers. atleast you don't have to abandon your kids alltogether..
like them white people in Ukraine..
MACEO

Well many Black man are living off Poor White women that no White man wants! lMAO

Like you and Jeff! LMAO

That's the bulk of Black males that I see they live off White women now! They also leave them with Biracial babies and they don't marry them either!

I think White women are the new Black women! lMAO

Black men seek them out so they can "Live off them, ruin their credit, live in their homes, cheat on them and make excuses for not working and say their Sick or Da white man won't hire them but they sure run to adultery! lmao

Black women won't accept Black men these days!

That's a GOOD THING!
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#152 Jun 25, 2013
Proudtobeasister-Sharilmar---M ACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
BW have half the interracial rates of BM, even though black women have suffered far less at the hands of white people, over the last 100 years than black men have.
An AA man said that if 20 black men moved from Atlanta in the South, to Denver,15 of those black men would be with white women within a year.

He and many other BM believe that given the opportunity 75% of black men would ignore BW and choose white partners.
Maceo

Funny, Black women suffer just as much racism their just stronger and keep moving like the other races while Black men whine (act effeminate) and blame racist society when many don't even try similar to yourself and your friends!

I'm not sayiing Racist doesn't exist but you also make excuse for not accomplishing anything!

RACISM SURELY DIDN'T STOP YOU FROM CHASING TRASHY WW FOR 40 YEARS WHILE PUTTING Black women down.

Another words ,MACEO Black women are "Ignoring your complaints" and looking at your actions! They're moving on without Black males!

Besides you take some Lowly Trashy White women that no white man wants! That's the bulk but not all Black men! On average you do settle for lowly Uneducated White women even Educated Black men do the same which is sorry!

You don't do anything for the race and you'r paying for it! lmao
Proudtobeasister-Sharilmar---M ACEO wrote:
After everything you guys and your fathers and grandfathers have been put through... that guy can confidently say publicly that the vast majority of black men would chose white if white was available freely to him.

I think his analysis is correct and think there are a whole lot of BW, sleeping with black men who are merely settling for them.

If all men started out equally, what was it that made those African chiefs decide to sell our ancestors into slavery for centuries and only stop,when the white and Arab men decided to stop BUYING?

Something is deeply wrong with African men and their male diaspora.
MACE

True which is why were are telling Black women to date/marry out and apparently its working! Black women are not lowering their standards for Black men these days and refusing to date them.

Black women are focusing on dating/marry out and up!
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#153 Jun 25, 2013
Satan wrote:
<quoted text>
Bravo!
That was simply brilliant Moses-1.
The Irony of this....slavery of blacks is still
permitted in almost All Muslim Countries in 2013.
MACEO

SADLY SO MANY "REAL MEN" ARE LACKING IN THE BLACK RACE!

There's too many thuggish, Marginal, Hustlers, Ex Cons, DL losers and not even men that have withall to bring the race up; so you can't marry them!

If you do they destroy you!

ITS SO SAD!
Sadbutrue

Ashburn, VA

#154 Jun 25, 2013
Proudtobeasister wrote:
<quoted text>
You make a valid point.
MACEO

You love talking to your own profiles at 60 years old! LMAO

This is you and you promote alot of HATRED of Black women!

Black People Who Don't Find Their Own Race Attractive Are Self Haters
http://youtu.be/wAhRjJ45H90

Only FAT Unattractive White Women Date BLACK MEN
http://youtu.be/daEBFhd68lY

BLACK MEN Can't Get Pretty Classy WHITE WOMEN!
http://youtu.be/ry81oL3DsVg

Sorry but this is YOU MACEO
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#156 Jun 25, 2013
Thank for all the sensible answers, surprise this wasn't fully trolled out. I do realize that we all have different beliefs and standards, but I asked the question after seeing videos of abuse and how people responded so calmly and after analyzing the relationships of the people around me. I am confident that I will find a real man and success in my life because I work hard and I don't settle, but I'm sad that everyone won't be rewarded the same or at least the ones that deserve it. My heart goes out to these women because nobody wants to sympathize, everyone want to point the finger at us all (black women) for what the few minority do. Then when we date out we are just the scums of the earth or too ugly for a black man. It's always a struggle to be black and women and on top of it no one is going to make it easier not White not Asians and sadly enough not blacks
David B

Baltimore, MD

#157 Jun 25, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Thank for all the sensible answers, surprise this wasn't fully trolled out. I do realize that we all have different beliefs and standards, but I asked the question after seeing videos of abuse and how people responded so calmly and after analyzing the relationships of the people around me. I am confident that I will find a real man and success in my life because I work hard and I don't settle, but I'm sad that everyone won't be rewarded the same or at least the ones that deserve it. My heart goes out to these women because nobody wants to sympathize, everyone want to point the finger at us all (black women) for what the few minority do. Then when we date out we are just the scums of the earth or too ugly for a black man. It's always a struggle to be black and women and on top of it no one is going to make it easier not White not Asians and sadly enough not blacks
There are equally the same amount of bad black women are there are bad black men. But black women turn a blind eye or make excuses for black women. That's why nothing will change.
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#158 Jun 25, 2013
I know everyone gets tired of hearing this, but I do think fatherless homes are one of the causes because men too need nurture, warmth, and care from a man, and if they are not getting it at home or from a mentor they go out looking for it is someone else. I think it is a big reason their are so many down low men and there are a lot. I have a few gay guy friends that tell me all the men they've been with or got passes from and I am shocked, athletes, fraternity, studs, lady's men, even professors (Yikes!!!!) The number is alarming and it doesn't just affect black men being that a third of the population is raised by single mothers. I mean how can someone who's never been raised by a man, no how to be one. I applaud coaches, mentors, church leaders that step in to help raise these boys. My heart goes out to them because no one should have to be raised by one parent unless the other parent is severely sick or dead. Men don't know how much of an affect their absent can have on a child
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#160 Jun 25, 2013
David B wrote:
<quoted text>
There are equally the same amount of bad black women are there are bad black men. But black women turn a blind eye or make excuses for black women. That's why nothing will change.
I agree there are bad men and women in any race. I don't think black women make excuses for no one if anything we tear each other down more than we take up for each other, but when we do it's like being in a international court case black women vs. the world. If we don't exemplify a stereotype we're Oreos, if we do we ghetto, If we wear weave we fake, if we get perms we sell outs, if we wear it natural hear we nappy headed. And the insults goes on and on, when we defend ourselves we are making excuses and just need to suck it up even though we are the only race that is attacked by every race including our own on our beauty and self-esteem. People expect us to get over it, but anyone whether white, Asian, black who feels attacked, gets defensive. I guess people forget we are people too with feelings, but to the world we're black first, b's second, and humans last

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#162 Jun 25, 2013
Its Hellywood wrote:
I personally would love to date Black women but they just don't approach me or talk to me.
Punk, they are not suppose to "approach you and ask you". You suppose to "approach the=m and ask them".

But, I know things are different among white people. Yesterday, this white girl made a public announcement that she wasn't to sex me. And she's married woman too. LOL. But women who put their business on the 6 o'clock news scare the daylights out of me.

Its Hellywood wrote:
They cry about not being able to meet an attractive, educated, professional man but do nothing to get those kind of guys. Then they moan and have heart attacks when those elite kind of guys date White or Asian women. White and Asian women approach me everyday. They are confident and they go and get "theirs", I suggest Black women do the same. Most women don't settle for thugs or white trash, Black women shouldn't either.
No. That is a white man's way of doing business. In Africa and in the East, women are expected to be modest or even bashful. Of course we know they are not really all that bashful. But they must make sense enough to act bashful Comprende?

Now, it may be so that a Chinese of Japanese girl will approach a man. But they will do it in such a subtle manner that 99% of the time you will miss the signal. Check out this video:
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That is the opposite of a female being subtle. Is that =the way you white guys like it. I recommend you take that to the baboon kingdom.

But when it comes to the Muslims sisters of Asia, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Indonesia, Malaysia, Philippines, etc or even Hindu India. you cannot "approach a woman. And she will definitely not "approach" you. That is our standard. There is no "dating" allowed. If you want a Muslimah woman, he have to talk to her male protector, her father or uncle of brother. If he says yes, which is not likely considering that you have blue eyes, you MUST pay a dowry. THEN, she might "approach" you.

“I'm better than you”

Level 5

Since: Apr 13

Location hidden

#163 Jun 25, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
Punk, they are not suppose to "approach you and ask you". You suppose to "approach the=m and ask them".
But, I know things are different among white people. Yesterday, this white girl made a public announcement that she wasn't to sex me. And she's married woman too. LOL. But women who put their business on the 6 o'clock news scare the daylights out of me.
<quoted text>
No. That is a white man's way of doing business. In Africa and in the East, women are expected to be modest or even bashful. Of course we know they are not really all that bashful. But they must make sense enough to act bashful Comprende?
Now, it may be so that a Chinese of Japanese girl will approach a man. But they will do it in such a subtle manner that 99% of the time you will miss the signal. Check out this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =ewMMoOKoim0XX&feature=pla yer_detailpage
That is the opposite of a female being subtle. Is that =the way you white guys like it. I recommend you take that to the baboon kingdom.
But when it comes to the Muslims sisters of Asia, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Indonesia, Malaysia, Philippines, etc or even Hindu India. you cannot "approach a woman. And she will definitely not "approach" you. That is our standard. There is no "dating" allowed. If you want a Muslimah woman, he have to talk to her male protector, her father or uncle of brother. If he says yes, which is not likely considering that you have blue eyes, you MUST pay a dowry. THEN, she might "approach" you.
Dude, you've just thrown out a bunch of ethnicities and are trying to make up some kind of class on dating tips. I do not need or want your advice. I had more women approach me last week than you've had in a life time. Stay on topic. Its about Black women wanting more for themselves. My reality is not your reality. I do not need to approach anyone because, well, quite frankly, I'm me. If Black women want guys like me, they should approach guys like me. Real simple. Instead of being intimidated by education and success, they should be looking to get men who have those qualities. Instead they whine about how guys like that only go for White or Asian women. Don't cry, compete. And I'm not generalizing Black women. I'm sure there are many confident Black women in North America. I just haven't seen many in my circles. I suspect you are Benson.

“I'm better than you”

Level 5

Since: Apr 13

Location hidden

#164 Jun 25, 2013
Oh, and I've been with every ethnicity of woman on the planet. *grin*

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#165 Jun 25, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>
What I want to make clear is this one thing, you do not want people to degrade your beliefs but, you degrade Christians when in fact, we used to worship together, live together work together, defend each other 1400 years ago in Ethiopia.
http://caapus.org/
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>Our religions are not that far apart.
We are Monotheists. You are trinitheists.

MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>You allow people from all four corners of the world to become Muslims by following a certain ritual, same thing for Christians. It does not matter about their past as long as they abide by your creed, same thing as Christians.
No. In Islam you have to REPENT. Read the Shahada again. It says, "I testify that there is no Deity worthy of Worship except All. And, Muhammad is a Messenger of Allah". How do you know? In order to know that Muhammad is GOD's Messenger, you MUST know something about The Quran and the events surrounding its Revelation. The First Word sent down was the Word READ. That means you must be committed to a lifetime of study and learning.
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>You will not permit your women to seduce men by covering their bodies and any dignified woman should understand that
There is one difference. In Islam, a woman messes up, she's an outcast or stoned to death.
No, again. In Islam if a woman get caught "messing up" you cannot say one word about it. There is no back-biting in Islam. Before you can tell anyone that you saw her "messing up" you have to have FOUR EYEWITNESSES. For all we know it was just your imagination, you were dreaming and hallucinating. That is why four witnesses are required. If you do not have four witnesses, you will be whipped will 100 lashes.

MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>In Christianity, we hope she will repent and rise up.
That's understandable. You are all liars and hypocrites anyhow.

MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>Maybe that is why Americans do not take our religion seriously, it's not a life or death proposition. Honestly speaking, I hear about Muslim women being stoned but, seldom do I hear Muslim men are stoned. The law of equality should say both, the offending woman and offending man should be stoned.
I do not know for sure. But I would think that it depends on the circumstances. Each individual is responsible for his own individual actions and sins. You do not stone a man because a woman messed up. That makes no sense to me.
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>I AM FORCED TO ASK YOU ONE QUESTION.
If I pray three times a day, live an Islamic life style, treat "everybody" right would God/Allah condemn me for failing to recite a creed in the presence of people. What's more important words or actions.?
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Look, the important thing is Monotheism in your heart. Thus, many honest and clean Christians and Jews are in fact Muslims. many do not even know they are Muslims. But they are.

“Yes WE Can! Yes we Will!”

Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#166 Jun 25, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
Take your own advice.
I could teach you some history if you weren't almost as dumb as Shalimaar.
The difference is that you do read, though very narrowly and with extremely limited comprehense.
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#167 Jun 25, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>
Once again, it's bm, bm and bm with you.
What is it about independent bw that you refuse to acknowledge or understand.
Let me make it elementary. Independent is the opposite of marriage.
Would you please explain how is it possible for a bm to cohabitate, have a relationship or form a union with an independent bw?
Psycholinquistics is a beast.
Did I say directly that I blame black men I mention that it's more than just a black man issue. I don't think that an independent woman has to be single. I believe anyone can have it all, if you know how to handle it. I know there are different factors in determining why a child only has one parent, but for the most part it's just men who don't want to step up to the plate, they think they're above responsibility because for men fortunately it is a choice. And how dare you speak down on independent women, if we didn't have any, welfare would be an even larger epidemic because by the looks of it what men would step up to care for dependent women.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#169 Jun 25, 2013
Savant wrote:
<quoted text> I could teach you some history if you weren't almost as dumb as Shalimaar.
The difference is that you do read, though very narrowly and with extremely limited comprehense.
Why thank you !

At my age I do not have time to be reading a bunch of non-sense or comic books. So I focus on what's important to me. What that means is specialization. Thus, if I read Arab history, I learn Arabic. Right now, I am studying Indian history. So it I might learn either Hindi or Dravidian.

When I am not doing serious study or research, I read multiple news reports every day. I mean, I read the same news by several different reporters so that I can see who is lying. I do not waste time reading what Jews say about Arabs, etc. That is a waste of time

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#170 Jun 25, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
<quoted text>
Did I say directly that I blame black men I mention that it's more than just a black man issue. I don't think that an independent woman has to be single. I believe anyone can have it all, if you know how to handle it. I know there are different factors in determining why a child only has one parent, but for the most part it's just men who don't want to step up to the plate, they think they're above responsibility because for men fortunately it is a choice. And how dare you speak down on independent women, if we didn't have any, welfare would be an even larger epidemic because by the looks of it what men would step up to care for dependent women.
"Independent woman"=h-word in a business suit.
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#173 Jun 25, 2013
smh, ya'll really think independent women are the problem, there are some with snotty attitudes, but if more women stayed dependent, the world would really have negative things to say about black women.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#176 Jun 25, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
<quoted text>
I will respond to each one of your responses but, think about this.
Muslims have no problem with Adam and Eve, Seth, Enos, Jared, Enoch, Methuselah, Lamech, Noah, Japheth, Ham and no problem with Shem.
Muslims have no problem with with Pegleg, Reu, Serug, Nabor, Terah and no problem with Abram.
All of these people Muslims never had a problem with and the same God or Elohim. Not one problem.
Here we have Abram. The same God of Genesis established a covenant with Abram. Gen 12:2. Muslims don't have a problem with that. God reaffirmed His Covenant with Abram in Gen 13:16 and Muslims don't have a problem with that.
God said Abram and Sarai will have a child and God will be with that child. The name of that child was Isaac.
IN GENESIS 17:21, the same God that Muslims had no problem with clearly stated, "but my covenant will I establish with Isaac, which Sarah shall bear...."
All of a sudden Muslims have a problem and the God of Genesis 1:1 to Genesis 17:21, Elohim and the Creator is a problem for Muslims.
No where in the passages of scripture from Genesis 1 to Genesis 17 will anybody find God promising a child through Hagar. Hagar the mother of Ishmael. Ishmael the progenitor of Islam.
God is God and change not but, Muslims go from Genesis 1 to Genesis 17 and then call God a liar
Your problem seems to be that you do not realize that Islam is GOD's Religion. That was the religion of Adam and Eve. All of the prophets in Bible and The Quran (Peace and Blessings be upon them all) were Muslims. Jesus was a Muslim.

GOD named Islam as The Religion in The Quran. Muhammad was a Muslim before The Quran was Revealed. He was Praying to GOD when Gabriel first spoke to him. So he was already a Muslim. Islam is about Prayer.

I said Adam and Eve were Muslims. The problem first arose when the serpent spoke to them. Then all of a sudden other so-called religions and cults arose. That is your problem.

I said earlier that Christianity is about trinitheism. Where did y'all get that trinity from? You get one guess" the devil, the serpent.

In Genesis GOD said thou shall have no other deity besides GOD/Allah. GOD is ONE, not three. That is why the Shahada affirms Only One GOD Who is Worthy of Worship. All others are false deities.

Right now, I am studying Mahatma Gandhi. Gandhi was a Hindu. The problem with Hinduism is very similar to the problem of Christianity. The Indians think India was the first civilization. Thus, Hinduism is the first religion in their minds. But Hindu civilization goes only back about 5,000 years or so. Clearly humanity is older than that.

5,000 years ago Egypt reached the end of its civilization. That was the end, not the beginning. The beginning was Adam and Eve. We are certain that Egyptian civilization is as old as 50,000 years. But human culture in that part of Africa goes back 200,000. I submit that these were not all savages and barbarians.

When GOD First Spoke to Adam and Eve, that was the beginning of civilization. If that was 200,000 years ago that is how old civilization is. And it is that old ONLY in Africa. And civilization is Islam. Islam is the ONLY religion ever mentioned by GOD. You can search the Scriptures high and low and you will NEVER find anything about Hinduism or Christianity or Judaism or any other religion. It is ONLY Islam.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#177 Jun 25, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
@ Abdurratln
I have no idea what this have to do with Muslims and Christians worshipping together 1400 years ago?
http://caapus.org/
I am a member of CAAPUS. I joined them because I agree with their stand against Obama on "gay rights". When we agree on things, I have no problem with Christians. But like last Sunday I went to this church where the pastor was preaching that Hagar (Peace and Blessings be upon her) was a prostitute, a concubine. I am not down with that. If Hagar was a prostitute why would GOD speak directly to her? And GOD most certainly speak to her and told her where to find water for her child. That made her a prophetess(Peace and Blessings be upon ALL of the prophetesses, not just some of them). Besides, she was Pharaoh's daughter, that made her a princess. So why do Christians always have to lie against Islam? Hagar is the Mother of the Arabs and of Muslims. Lay off her. Do not talk about my mama. That is playing the dozens.

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