We are losing real men and it's sad :(

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#121 Jun 24, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Admittingly, the operational speed of my brain sometimes adversely impacts my comprehension, but that is not difficult to understand at all. In fact, I couldn't imagine a devote follower of Islam being with any woman of dissimilar beliefs. So, no problems from me on that one.
On a slightly different note, were you ever a poster on the old BlackVoices back in the day? You remind me of another brother who embraced your faith who posted there.
I do not remember. Maybe. I have been kicked off all of the black this black that forums at one time or another. If they call it "black", I get kicked off it, as if that will somehow hurt me. LOL! You will notice that Topix is not "black" owned. So nobody has been able to kick me off so far. They do have a thang with facebook however. You I ignore facebook as much as possible. Nobody needs that crap. I can use my time better in other networks. My only objective is to get the word out in this community so that we can Unite. We cannot Unite by attacking a brother or sister based on who they marry or the skin color of their spouses. That is insane.
Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#123 Jun 24, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
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I do not remember. Maybe. I have been kicked off all of the black this black that forums at one time or another. If they call it "black", I get kicked off it, as if that will somehow hurt me. LOL! You will notice that Topix is not "black" owned. So nobody has been able to kick me off so far. They do have a thang with facebook however. You I ignore facebook as much as possible. Nobody needs that crap. I can use my time better in other networks. My only objective is to get the word out in this community so that we can Unite. We cannot Unite by attacking a brother or sister based on who they marry or the skin color of their spouses. That is insane.
LOL! So, you've been kicked off every site that prefixes with "Black" huh? That is too funny! I asked because your prose is very similar to this brother, but anyways, I think that dissenting views and perspectives are necessary for growth; otherwise we are only recycling what we already know or have agreed upon.
CyberNomad

New York, NY

#124 Jun 24, 2013
starpack wrote:
Lol!! No, its a all over thing. I dated bw who was raised on my side which is the east side of town where a lot of whites stay at.
I dated ones on the north side too, and they can't be any better on the west and the south side, because those are the baddest parts of town and gangbangers and prostitutes are everywhere.
Im ain't trying to mess with people who have h.i.v so Im not messing with them. Plus you know bw are the most likely women to not tell you about having h.i.v, so you gotta really be careful too.
It seem so much like lighter is better. I was at the store one day and i asked this really light skin girl where was the clippers and she started smiling harder than anything, and that's what i like. A dark skin girl would just ask you "you want my number" and not smile.
Feminine women would smile and ask for your number, and i don't like that, many other bm don't like it neither. I like dark skin women who smiles a lot, don't try and act disrespectful to you, don't boss people around, its all kinda problems wrong.
Real life advice for you kid. LEAVE THE DEEP SOUTH!

You need to go to another part of the country, the west or east coast ideally. But if you MUST stay in the south, Dallas, Houston, Austin are the places, but i would really reccomend you leave that region entirely. You will find that people are much more diverse & sophisticated outside of hickville Alabama.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#128 Jun 24, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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LOL! So, you've been kicked off every site that prefixes with "Black" huh? That is too funny! I asked because your prose is very similar to this brother, but anyways, I think that dissenting views and perspectives are necessary for growth; otherwise we are only recycling what we already know or have agreed upon.
People are just clueless about Islamic values. Islam is color blind and people just does not get that. I am black. By Islamic Law I MUST treat other Muslims right regardless to skin color. That means I would NEVER harm a white girlfriend of white wife to please a black. If I did divorce a wife, I would NEVER remarry someone some is not a Muslimah. Some Muslims do that. I do not. I would die before I would marry the average "black woman" if she did not become a Muslim. So this whole thing is academic to me until a Muslimah gets involved. So if you see me with a Muslim girl regardless to her skin color do not mess with it. You cannot possibly benefit unless to accept Islam first.

LOL! It is so funny. I was on this one "black forum" and came into contact with an old girlfriend. So I began to explain Islamic Law to everybody so that she could get the hint. She started clowning as black girls always start clowning when they do not get things their way. So they kicked me off the forum. Then she kept having them contact me begging me to come back to the forum. I told them I will come back AFTER she converts to Islam which I know she is too dumb to do. Goodbye, nitwit. LOL! Do not waste my time. Either become Muslimah or get lost. LOL! I would have married her 25 years ago if she had had enough sense to accept sexual chastity which is required in Islam and also in Nkrumahism as political activists. Americans have the hardest time understanding that some things cannot be done without sexual chastity. It is a rule in the Convention People's Party. If you are an h-word, do not waste our time. Go join the AAPRP. LOL!
Satan

Lewisville, TX

#129 Jun 24, 2013
Who were you mad at Moses-1?
The Billy Goat or The Carrot?
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#130 Jun 24, 2013
Black Deal wrote:
MACEO the Loser! LMAO

Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Black men Hating Black women

I recently came across a book written by a self-described “touring stand-up comedian, day trader, filmmaker and lecturer” named Rajen Persaud. The book is entitled “Why Black Men Love White Women.” I found the book’s title startling, primarily because it explicitly acknowledged a fact of which many in the black community are acutely aware, but that is rarely openly discussed: that black men love white women

While many black men actively express love, admiration, and desire for white women, that loving white women is an inherent part of black manhood in the West is not something that black men like to openly admit. Their adoration of white women is an uncomfortable fact for many black men to face, since this love seems to play neatly into stereotypes about uncontrollable “animal” lust for white flesh that black people, especially black women, have actively campaigned against Additionally, and perhaps more significantly, black men are deeply uncomfortable with the conundrum presented by loving the daughter, the sister, the very womb that produces their declared enemy. Even Persaud seems incapable of facing the centrality of this latter issue, since, despite his refreshing candor in his book, its gravamen has as much to do with hatred for black women as it does love for white women.; “Black Women are Gold Diggers”; “Sisters Have an Attitude”), facing the significance and practical implications of their love of whiteness is difficult for many black men. Instead, these emotions are channeled into loathing of black women, which is justified by cataloging black women’s myriad “shortcomings.” This allows black men to claim to be proud and self-loving, while simultaneously adoring and esteeming all things white.

Mr. Persaud begins his book with the contention that any exploration of black male love for white women must begin “with the white man.” This is a common-place tactic; it is difficult for black men in the West to begin any discussion or critical analysis of any issue without circling back to white men, especially if the resulting discourse will be less than flattering to black men.

Whether denominated as racio-misogyny or not, the root of black male hatred of black women is the conceptualization of women as objects. Objects have relative value, and in the hierarchy

When black men look at black women and children, they see the shame of emasculation, of inadequacy, of the inability to protect and provide. And rather than being enraged and inspired by this experience of being unmanned to fight for their dependents, black men seek to escape them, and the pain of feeling like less than men. rather than confronting white men they hate; black males take their abuses and rage out on their women and children allowing them to go without.

White women, on the other hand, have the highest value as objects. They feel like they accomplish so much marrying a white woman while they put black women down. To men who feel like nothing, a white or white-skinned woman is a tangible accomplishment. It immediately frees them from the burden of blackness. In the words; “By loving me white woman proves that I am worthy of white love. I am loved like a white man. I am a white man. I marry the culture, white beauty, white whiteness. When my restless hands caress those white breasts, they grasp white civilization and dignity and make them mine.” White women are the prize, and black men are eagerly claiming that prize after the exhausting struggles for manumission and Civil Rights. They may not have gained real access to equal work, equal pay, equal wealth or equal opportunity; but black men have gained access to the bodies of white women. In the face of so many losses, possessing a white or non-black woman feels like a sufficient win for many black men
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#131 Jun 24, 2013
Satan wrote:
Who were you mad at Moses-1?
The Billy Goat or The Carrot?
It describes you MACEO
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#133 Jun 24, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
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The use of the word "real" is subjective. What may be real for Ann may not be real for Henry and vice versa.
Henry have all the physical traits of a man, he's real and Ann's perception will not change Henry's physical traits.
If Henry is a thug, DL, husky, rough, soft, intelligent or a gentleman, he's still a real man.
Let's take Ann for a minute. Ann is a high school graduate that have dated bm that were high school graduates. These brothers may be rough around the edges, only wear a suit once a week, never understood economics and buys every sister a round if drinks, the only social activity is hitting the local club or bar. Ann may see these brothers as real men.
Now Ann meets a bm that is a college graduate, wear a suit 24/7, understands economics, socially active throughout the community, refined, disciplined and can carve a chicken clean with a fork and knife. This brother runs a tight ship but, Ann thinks he's on the DL because, he does not act like the bm she's accustom too.
Allow me to cut to the bone.
How would you like to be defined by a man? What does a man know about being a woman, a "real" woman? If Henry began his laundry list of a real woman, he's called a sexist but, women do not have a problem with their laundry list and are never sexist whon trying to prove something and Delilah got her money, went on about her business and didn't give Sampson another thought.
MACEO

Not many Real Black men in the RACE THAT'S RARE! lmAO
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#134 Jun 24, 2013
Ive never met a "Real Man" in the Black race its RARE!LMAO
Kyle4

Buffalo, NY

#135 Jun 24, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
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They MUST BECOME Muslimahs. Let me dumb it down some.
To became a Muslim, all one has to do is say with conviction and in public the following:
"I testify that there no Deity worthy of worship but Allah and Only Alah.
"I testify that Muhammad is an Apostle and Messenger of Allah."
When a person does that, all of his/her previous sins are forgiven. She/he becomes as clean and as pure as white snow. I do not care if she is like Lil Kim who performed so much oral sex one night she had to go to the hospital and have her stomach pumped out, she becomes chaste and clean. And a Muslim man would marry her. There would be no single black women anywhere in America. They would all be snatched up in a matter of a couple of weeks.
Instead of repenting their their sexual immorality, they come to this forum and complain. I do not give a hoot about anyone who is that dumb and that stupid.
I have some REALLY bad news for you dude, and i hate to be the one to break it to you...
GOD DOES NOT EXIST. Just a figment of your imagination and childhood brainwashing. Nothing you say about Islam means a dam thing because it is all fairy tale.
good day
Truthfulwun

Norristown, PA

#136 Jun 24, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
desegregation was our down fall!!!!

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#137 Jun 24, 2013
Kyle4 wrote:
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I have some REALLY bad news for you dude, and i hate to be the one to break it to you...
GOD DOES NOT EXIST. Just a figment of your imagination and childhood brainwashing. Nothing you say about Islam means a dam thing because it is all fairy tale.
good day
This is not about the existence of non-existence of GOD. All I am saying that the key to solving the man-woman problem in this community is sexual morality on both men and women. And I am saying do not mess with me because I am not saying this because I want any of them. I do not "date". And I do not consort with non-Muslimahs. If she is not a Muslimah, I want NOTHING to do with on the intimate level. I am offering my opinions and insights as a community service. Nothing more. And Islam is based on sexual morality. That is why our women cover themselves in public and do not run around half-naked. All this is important because people think I am mean when I say I am against "gay rights" and all that. I am not mean. I am following my religion as best as I can understand it. I am a most serious Muslim although I show my sense of humor some times and joke around. But, nothing will ever take me from Islam.

“Perfection is impossible”

Level 5

Since: May 13

But excellence is close enough

#138 Jun 24, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
No, it's not to much to ask; to concise, you're a woman who wants a man.

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

New Zealand

#139 Jun 24, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
its god who makes.. Real men.. And woman.. Who lowerz the mans standards to an animal

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

New Zealand

#140 Jun 24, 2013
Kyle4 wrote:
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I have some REALLY bad news for you dude, and i hate to be the one to break it to you...
GOD DOES NOT EXIST. Just a figment of your imagination and childhood brainwashing. Nothing you say about Islam means a dam thing because it is all fairy tale.
good day
if this true.. Then i should kill any1 i dont like.. Right..

Its Hellywood

“I'm better than you”

Level 5

Since: Apr 13

Location hidden

#141 Jun 24, 2013
I personally would love to date Black women but they just don't approach me or talk to me. They cry about not being able to meet an attractive, educated, professional man but do nothing to get those kind of guys. Then they moan and have heart attacks when those elite kind of guys date White or Asian women. White and Asian women approach me everyday. They are confident and they go and get "theirs", I suggest Black women do the same. Most women don't settle for thugs or white trash, Black women shouldn't either.
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#143 Jun 24, 2013
brownskin_beauty wrote:
Well it's already hard enough to know there aren't enough black men to go around seeing that we outnumber them by 2 million excluding the ones incarcerated, gay, or the ones that are against monogamy. I am not at all trying to start nothing negative, but it saddens me to see the type of society we have become. I mean we have become desensitized the violence against women. We are more open to allowing men to be submissive, and we are just a society favoring equality, but almost in a communistic way. I know maybe people thinks its old fashion, but I want a man who wants to wear the pants, who sees a man even speak vile to a women and will be ready to put him in the gutter, a gentlemen, and a great example to young black men, since there seem to be a lacking of that in the community. I want him to involve himself in bettering others, maybe know how to fix things around the house, be reasonable, but stern. I want him to be the epitome of a real man, not on the DL or abusive, or submissive is that too much to ask for
The only thing you're losing are lazy, unemployed jailbirds. See, it's not that bad.
Satan

Lewisville, TX

#146 Jun 25, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
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What I want to make clear is this one thing, you do not want people to degrade your beliefs but, you degrade Christians when in fact, we used to worship together, live together work together, defend each other 1400 years ago in Ethiopia.
Our religions are not that far apart. You allow people from all four corners of the world to become Muslims by following a certain ritual, same thing for Christians. It does not matter about their past as long as they abide by your creed, same thing as Christians. You will not permit your women to seduce men by covering their bodies and any dignified woman should understand that
There is one difference. In Islam, a woman messes up, she's an outcast or stoned to death. In Christianity, we hope she will repent and rise up. Maybe that is why Americans do not take our religion seriously, it's not a life or death proposition. Honestly speaking, I hear about Muslim women being stoned but, seldom do I hear Muslim men are stoned. The law of equality should say both, the offending woman and offending man should be stoned.
If Malcolm X would have said XYZ, AA's would have done XYZ and you need to know that was due to color, not due to religion and if you're oppressed, I don't care if you wordhipped E.T. we are all oppressed. As long as you're taking crazy men and women off the streets, giving them a vision and giving them dignity, I'm all with ya.
I AM FORCED TO ASK YOU ONE QUESTION.
If I pray three times a day, live an Islamic life style, treat "everybody" right would God/Allah condemn me for failing to recite a creed in the presence of people. What's more important words or actions.?
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Bravo!
That was simply brilliant Moses-1.

The Irony of this....slavery of blacks is still
permitted in almost All Muslim Countries in 2013.
youmoron

Howell, MI

#148 Jun 25, 2013
go feed the poor and shut up..

man..

there's we live in a wealthy country and people starve and die..

and you complain about your single mothers. atleast you don't have to abandon your kids alltogether..

like them white people in Ukraine..
Proudtobeasister

London, UK

#149 Jun 25, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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BW have half the interracial rates of BM, even though black women have suffered far less at the hands of white people, over the last 100 years than black men have.
An AA man said that if 20 black men moved from Atlanta in the South, to Denver,15 of those black men would be with white women within a year.
He and many other BM believe that given the opportunity 75% of black men would ignore BW and choose white partners.
After everything you guys and your fathers and grandfathers have been put through... that guy can confidently say publicly that the vast majority of black men would chose white if white was available freely to him.
I think his analysis is correct and think there are a whole lot of BW, sleeping with black men who are merely settling for them.
If all men started out equally, what was it that made those African chiefs decide to sell our ancestors into slavery for centuries and only stop,when the white and Arab men decided to stop BUYING?
Something is deeply wrong with African men and their male diaspora.
You make a valid point.

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